Bad Consequences if You aren't Firm with Yourself

Have you ever felt confused when making a decision? Even though the decision was simple, why did it feel like there was no way out? Have you ever experienced this?

To be honest, guys, I've personally experienced it, but I don't want to linger in that situation. You know why? Because this has a negative impact on my survival. For example..

1. So it's hard to make a decision

2. It is easy to be underestimated by others

3. Be a spoiled person and not independent

4. There are always problems that arise

5. And in the end, life becomes monotonous

And a situation like this is not very good, so I immediately look for a solution. So, if you are also like me, it's a good idea to follow these tips.

1. Often Read the Situation and Conditions

   This method is very good for training your level of intelligence and sharpness of intuition. And what you can do is to observe the pattern or situation that is taking place.

   Also understand the expressions, body language, intonation of voice, and how to dress the people you interact with.

   Usually repeated events are always similar to the previous ones. So to anticipate things in the future, you can do an in-depth analysis and then record it in your memory.

   Don't forget, learn the point. What are the benefits and disadvantages that you can absorb from the current situation and conditions?

2. Dare to Decide Something Jmportant in Your Life

   So before you leave the question to others, you should ask yourself first. and try to answer according to your instincts.

   This practice may be difficult at first, but all great things start with simple exercises like this. Until one day you can really decide important things independently in his life.

3. You Can't be Selfish

   Making your own decisions does not mean you can ignore the interests or harm others. In this case we must have an objective view. So good and bad must be considered carefully.

   Sometimes as a human we can be selfish but positive egotistical yes. Ciayoo!

4. Dare to Say No

   Being strict with yourself also starts with daring to reject things that are not relevant to our lives.

   So if someone else's request is disturbing or detrimental, it's better to just refuse. Dare to say no to negative things without feeling guilty, of course it's good for your mental development going forward.

5. Learn to Accept Negative Responses

   When we talk about life, of course we will recognize the concept of duality. As good as you are, there will still be people who don't like you and vice versa.

Okay, that's all for my tips, I hope these tips are useful for you, good luck!

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