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I once had it is not a property Many people still dwell in the past of this popular saying "I was once" or "I once had". These sayings are things of the past and what matters most, in reality, is what you are or what you have in the present. Yes, history matter and reputation also go a long way but for you to make those things matter in the present, then you don't let what was there before depreciate. You continue to nurture and grow them. Image https://steemit.com/motivation/@samstickkz/how-to-become-valuable

How do you know he is in love with you? There are a few things that happen in a relationship that can assure you that he loves you. Below are some key features in a relationship that he loves you; 1. He considers your needs above his 2. He tells you sorry even he knows that he is right 3. He makes times for you out of his busy schedules 4. He makes mistakes and tries to make amends 5. Your opinions always count 6. He asks you for what you want to achieve 7. He always keeps in touch at all cost when far away 8. He never compares you with any lady 9. He accepts your shortcomings and forgives your mistakes 10. He looks out for you. Above are the key points to note in order to know if a guy loves you. Thanks for reading Image https://thriveglobal.com/stories/3-meaningful-love-quotes-that-will-deeply-touch-your-heart/

Lady cries out for help on social media As beautiful as she is, 28 years old lady cried out recently on twitter for help concerning her want for a boyfriend and possibly a husband. When interviewed this lady (name anonymous), is a very beautiful young lady self-sustaining ability as an entrepreneur in desperate need of a boyfriend and possibly a husband. She told an emotional story of how men come her way and leave without looking back and how she has never had any relationship that lasted up to a year. To everyone, what could be the cause of this lady's dilemma and what advice can you give her? Image https://www.stocksy.com/220010/beautiful-woman-crying

An issue with Donald Trump **A quick one guys.** With the ongoing crisis with Donald Trump maybe he will win the next election or not, Donald Trump then mistakenly sent his campaign money which is millions of dollars worth of BTC to your BTC wallet, what will you do? Remember, you get to know that he is the one after an announcement is passed across on TV. Image https://edition.cnn.com/videos/tv/2015/12/17/faces-of-donald-trump-sequel-moos-dnt-erin.cnn

Music and life Life without music is like an empty void that can't be filled with anything. Music has conquered many things including worlds (physical and spiritual). Music defines a lot of things around us, music is an extension of our existence, and music is life. Image https://www.musical-u.com/learn/series/music-and-life/

Fear not bullies but people that respect you A lot of people think that bullies can be your worse nightmare but I want you to stand corrected that you are wrong. Yes, bullies can be a mess and more times, ass but if there is anyone we should be wary of is someone that gives us due respect and regard us well. The reason for this is that one that gives you respect can easily ruin you if he or she decides to. He or she has been the one promoting your status out there in the world, showing the people the positive side of you but if he or she decides to go otherwise, it will be chaotic. People will tend to listen to the person and when they do, your status becomes sabotaged. **So, be careful and always watch your back.** Image https://thedoctorweighsin.com/helping-your-child-deal-with-bullies-what-you-can-do/

Do not say "I love you too" anymore "I love you" is an everyday statement between lovers, admirers, people crushing on each other and family members, and "I love you too" is the most common reply by people. *I love you too" is considered a wrong reply to "I love you" cos "too" in that statement is literally used for negativity. For instance; The weather is too harsh or that boy is too dirty. Saying "I love you too" is wrong to use, instead "I love you also", and "I love you as well" are perfect to use. **Thanks for reading** Image https://www.christianity.com/bible/bible-verses-about-god%27s-love-33

Health benefit of wearing onion on your feet to bed This sounds weird I know but it surprisingly has a lot of health benefits for someone to wear onions on his or her feet to the bed. The reason it is advisable that it should be worn on feet is that the feet connect all the nerves of the body together. **The benefit of wearing onions on the feet are;** Help fight infections in the body It helps in the elimination of toxins Helps in making one regain loss strength It helps to remove the bad smell of the feet It helps to hydrate your skin Cleansing of the blood And it helps in the improvement in blood circulation. **That's all folks, enjoy the rest of your day** Image https://www.pinterest.com/pin/545639311081835839/

Men listen, do not joke with these kinds of ladies Men believe that they can date anyone and do anything in the relationship, but my dear, you are wrong. There are many personalities a lady will have and that makes it a military zone for guys. For instance, I have studied two sets of women that you shouldn't joke with when you are in a relationship with them. 1. **The serious-looking ladies:** These sets of ladies can give you all you want if they love you and they can take all from you when you get on their wrong side. They don't really know how to pretend when hurt, they don't care about the vicinity they are whenever they want to express their feelings. They can curse you even in worship places. 2. **The quiet ladies:** These set of ladies are considered the most dangerous of all ladies. You can't predict their next move especially when they are hurt. They can only physically show it to you that they are hurt but what their reaction will be can't be predicted. They can be desperate and homicidal. **So guys, know your lady before jumping into a relationship with her.** Image https://www.opinionstage.com/contente/what-type-of-tumblr-girl-are-you

Do not listen to them Well, men are definitely superior to women but women can be more deadly than men. God has created both to complement each other's effort and it is a world order that men will always be men and women will be women. Forget about those equalist bidding for men and women to be equals. My dear that is just fantasy cos they can't be equal and we should accept reality as it is. If we are to go by natural instincts of both gender, you will discover that men exhibit some traits like natural self-defense, leadership, and territorial. Women do exhibit these traits, instead women come with a default mode of taking cover from a man, emotions, and complex. So my fellow women out there, we are meant to be loved, respected, cared for, protected, and regarded as a partner, and all of these comes when you marry the right man. Do not let any equalist or whatsoever their name is called bring down your home all in the name of proving a point that is natural unprovable. Check most of them out, they don't have a home (husband or divorced). Image https://jcfamilies.com/my-child-doesnt-listen/

Hosting a guest with one's wife Evolution and revolution changing the world to maybe a better place has seen many cultures and traditions kind of tweaked. Thou it is one of the basis that when you have a guest, you offer them what to eat and drink as part of the hospitality you want to offer to them. This is nothing in Northern Namibia as the Ovahimba and Ovazimba tribes offer their wives to guests to sleep with while they spend their visiting time at their house. The husband to the woman offered to a guest either sleeps in another room or outside as the guest and his wife sleep together in his room. This way of life has been questioned many times and yet the Ovahimba and Ovazimba tribes kept on defending their culture, stating that the offering of their wives to guests shows the sign of friendship and respect. **Is this way of hospitality ideal or not?** Your opinion will be appreciated in the comment box below Image https://hadithi.africa/2019/02/01/the-tribe-in-namibia-who-swap-their-wives-and-offer-sex-to-guests/

Why say "NO"? I have come across a lot of happenings in relationships and some ended well while the others hmm... the other way in disaster. We believe that a good relationship can lead to marriage and a good marriage can lead to a good home. My concern about some ladies out there is the fact that you spent years with a guy and everything looks perfect until he finally decides to ask the question "will you marry me?" I still don't get it, you spent an average of 5 years dating someone you regard to as you one and all but the day he decides to propose marriage to you, you turn down the offer. Can anyone explain the reason behind this aside that she is a gold digger? Image http://www.cmetvng.tv/2020/02/17/valentines-day-goes-wrong-as-lady-rejects-marriage-proposal-from-a-south-african-rapper-in-public/

You need me Life is like a chain, we cannot do without one and the other. Sure, we may think we have no connection with someone we haven't yet met but the truth is that there is a connection either directly or indirectly. We gain or loss due to one's positivity or negativity. For example; Terrorists that destroy things and crumble people's economy is not directly connected to you but his negative influence will indirectly affect you and that will cause hardship in the survival of people. So people, one way or the other, we are all connected to each other. Image https://oursocialtimes.com/rethinking-the-connected-marketing-future-part-three/

How to converse well with a lady. Three good things to do Ladies with their men always love to talk and express their thoughts whenever a good and engaging conversation is initiated. For guys that are yet to get the girl of their dreams but stand a chance to achieve that, the below points are to be considered when having conversations with her. 1. **Ask relevant questions:** Some guys fall out of the conversation with a girl when irrelevant questions are being tabled for the girl to answer. She feels reluctant to answer such question and some girls will just skip the question or change the topic. So, ask important questions 2. **Make her feel in charge:** Yes, this is what most ladies enjoy when they feel open-minded to you. They want to talk and talk and your job to create a scenario for that. Engage her in talks but allow her to have a larger portion of the talk time. 3. **The** **topic of interest:** This is one vital point all guys should know. All girls are vulnerable to talking no matter what their nature may be. All you just have to do is to get what catches her interest most and then open engage her in it. ***Even the quietest girl has something she will always want to talk about.*** So, that's all the key points on engaging a lady in good conversations Image https://www.themodernman.com/dating/5-conversation-mistakes-that-instantly-turn-women-off.html

Can I get an AMEN? It's weekend again and another week just ran down in the book of life. Guess what guys, we are still alive and no one is reported dead as a reader. So, I want to use this medium to tell all of us to show our deepest gratitude to God for keeping us safe and alive. We should give God all due appreciations. So, as we are about to go into another week, may good news, God's mercies and graces be ours. Can I get a big "AMEN"? Image http://www.kvibes.org/2018/12/13/daily-reflection-amen-and-amen-thursday-13th-december-2018/

What do you know about ladies biting their lower lip? In movies, we tend to understand that when a lady bites her lower lips while looking at you as a man, she just wants to get in bed with you. But it is more than that. A lot of guys kept on wondering why they see a lady giving all sort of green-light signs and yet, they find it difficult to lay with them. The reason behind this is because some ladies actually want you but not in bed. For a lady to bite her lower lip, it means she likes you and she is curious about you. She wants to know more about what makes you, you. She wants you to be something more than just a friend, she has feelings for you but she may not approve you to have sex with her. She appreciates your looks, not necessarily your handsomeness, she feels more into you than just being with a guy, and primarily, she wants you beside her. Image https://bullshit.ist/study-94-probability-biting-lip-once-will-result-in-second-bite-in-same-f-king-spot-ebc4d5049c4

You there... Calm down Anger, a part of human that can't be pushed away but control. A flare that has its source always burning and ready to burn more. Anger as said by some people can be controlled, which is true but removed from what makes is we, is nothing but lies. Let's face it, anger is in every one of us, but it depends on our breaking point before it takes over us. Sure we can control it, but it is to an extent and when that limit is exceeded, we tend to go all out to express our deepest emotions which may take any form of emotions we have. To clear things up, we just have to learn to control our anger all the time and try to push for our breaking point once in a while in order to be able to extend your breaking point. Image https://motivationaldiaries.com/9-proven-secrets-to-win-over-your-anger/

Just say it It is no mystery to us anymore why many relationships out there ends in chaos and breakups. It isn't anymore, a surprise to us that best lovers sometimes end up to be arch enemies. The blame game has caused many what may have been the solution to their problems and this scenario keeps on happening. You blame me and I become arrogant and stubborn to let things slide off my back, I blame you and you flare up to the next hulk. Saying these short but important sentence "I am sorry" can save more than what we know, it can even propel a new route to a brighter future. Just say it, it won't kill you nor destroy you. It will make things right. image https://www.amazon.com/Am-Sorry-Teddy-Bear-Romantic/dp/B07HDGBFPT

Be thankful To be thankful is something I just learn a few minutes ago from a 92-year old woman. She is very old and weak to the extent that she can't sit on her own anymore except with support from her grandson. She was thirsty when I was with them and then her grandson helped her to drink water. After she was done drinking the water, her grandson stepped out of the room to get something. In her bed that she was laid, she voiced out to tell God that she is thankful for giving someone to give her water and she is forever grateful for everything. Where I was seated, tears almost run down my eyes as I have known we the ones of this generation to always forget this important aspect of life. We don't show appreciation until we get something magnificent enough to be thankful for. This is a wrong approach to life itself and we must start to be appreciative to God for anything no matter what it is, either small or big. Let's be thankful Image https://www.salemacademy.com/news/2014/2014-11-on-being-thankful-a-message-from-the-head-of-school

Saving or more indirect killings? Some people will think that they are saving something from happening in order to avoid a recasting outcome. But unknowing to them, they are causing more damage than whatever damage that will be caused at first. Earlier this week, a man and his wife were arrested for locking up their son in a confined area for 7 years with days of no food or water. When asked after lawmakers rescued the victim, the boy's parents admitted that they locked him up cos he started engaging in smoking of hemp with other guys. This boy in question is nothing more but a skeleton when he was rescued cos he has been sieving in his urine as water and faeces as food. Now, his parents thought that they are trying to save him from doing drugs but unfortunately, they did more harm to him by rendering him mentally derailed and psychologically down. **What should be done to these parents of his?** image https://camdenkelly.com/common-job-interview-questions-and-answers/

Operation "Be yourself" I have got to see a lot of people out there getting influenced by what they feel they are inferior to and that always hike a change in them and turn them into something that they are not. Most of this change comes in the form of being too weak to be strong and take a stand in front of challenges. Be strong and be decisive. Life is not about you alone but alone attached to you. Do not become what you are not cos you want to get to a target, be yourself, and train yourself to be an achiever of whatever you want. Image https://www.facebook.com/BeYourselfPopUpStore/

A push to the limit or beyond People are meant to be push to either reach their limit or beyond and this is a typical meaning of progress. You may get to be pushed normally or otherwise which may come with a lot of disregards but nevertheless, you still get pushed towards your limit or beyond. Whichever the case may be, I urge you as a person to always pick the right turn in every push and always stay stronger and nothing less. Image http://www.pushandpullman.com/

Give yourself assurance "I think I can do it" is never enough for someone with ambitions, someone with aims and goals in life and someone who is found in the midst of hope. Assure yourself that you are the best person that can do you and the best person that can give result in any scenario. Be optimistic and determined that you can always do it and you will do it. Image https://kpmh.com.ng/2018/05/02/let-talk-with-the-current-state-of-your-bank-account-which-assurance-can-you-provide-for-bae/

We know, but not all of it Little we know about life cos of its vast nature and attributes. We know what we seek but not all questions we have answers to. We contribute what we can in order to make the world better for us in a way we deem fit that it should be. It may show a perfect side to one and a tough side to another. No matter how much we feel we know it all, we don't know it all about life. image https://www.sciencemag.org/news/2016/05/humans-are-still-evolving-and-we-can-watch-it-happen

The secret behind Bobrisky Social media and switched gender celebrity Bobrisky revealed the reason behind his feminine looks. He, I mean she stated in a video posted on twitter that everything started when his/her dad and mom went their separate ways when he was 8 and he/she spent his life since that moment with his mom being the last born of the house. He continued by saying that he learnt most of what he knows now through his mom and she always tell him to be strong and confident. As time passed by, he told his mom that he would love to be more of a female than being a male cos he enjoyed most of his life learning ladies ways of life. Before his mom died in 2009, his mom told him to follow his heart desires and give no regards to whatever haters will say or do. His mom motivational speech to him before she died became the reason why Idris decided to cross his gender and become a female. Image source https://weetracker.com/2020/01/15/bobrisky-death-fake-news/

Protest against covid test It was announce a couple of weeks ago by Ogun state government that students will return to school very soon but will have to undergo covid19 test in order to be assured of safety. This test was also made compulsory for resuming students but with charges for private schools students. This bizarre announcement and requirement forced parents to protest against the government of Ogun state on this cos covid19 test is meant to be free and not extort #25,000 from the citizens. The unrelenting effort of the parents to go against this became fruitful yesterday as the Ogun state government decided to listen to the cry of its people and cancel the billing for the test.