Learn to be independent

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1 year ago

August 20, 2022

Happy weekend readtizen! Hows everyone? Are you having a great day? What are your plans today until tomorrow? Whatever it is, I hope you are enjoying the day and taking most of your time relaxing because I know you deserve that for your hard work during weekdays.

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As days passed by and we face many different troubles in life, some of us learned from them but some of us just leave it and continue again without analyzing the lesson that those troubles teaching us.

I personally, learned many lessons from my past experiences and I am applying it for my daily life because I know time will come that I need to stand on my own feet because its the reality of life and I can tell myself that I am a strong independent woman now.

But there are some people who choose to be dependent with others because they knew that there are some people who will never leave them alone during the times when they badly needed them.

Let me cite an example.

A woman on her 36th weeks of pregnancy gave birth today, but the problem is she never save a penny with her so she chatted her husband relatives and mothers and send them money at the hospital, so everyone is in chaos coz of what she asked. Where in fact they are both working and having thier monthly salary of ₱15k. So if she is really a responsible and not relying with others she will save a penny for her baby that will come out anytime but she never think of that situation because she knew someone/somebody will help them in times like these.

This is just an example of how it is to be a dependent woman, and this type of people a thorough experience to be independent.

People will not always at your side to help you, soon they will get tired and see that you are too much dependent to them and never try to stand alone and are you prepared when that time came?

Better start to independent now, while they are still there to back you up, its not easy at first but if you have the perseverance and courage to do it, soon you will find yourself standing on your own, and being independent is the best feeling because finally you can stand on your own feet without the shadows of others behind you and its a great achievement to be an independent one.

This will be for today, thanks for dropping by and leave some comments, and see you around.

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It's true sis! Di lahat ng tao maaasahan mo sa panahon ng kagipitan. Learned to saved for yourself ika nga.

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1 year ago

Yes, at ndi din sa lahat ng oras may tutulong sayo mapapagod din yan tumulong lalo at very dependent ka na din saknya

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1 year ago

It is a great advantage talaga ate if we can be an independent, di po Kase sa lahat Ng oras may tulong satin, may mga times na sarili lang po talaga natin Yung meron tayo

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1 year ago

Yes bhe, malaking advantage ng independent tayo

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1 year ago

Oh, that's sad though. In real life, this is something that makes your heat beat really fast. Di mo alam san hihiram at kukuha ng pera.

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1 year ago

Yes pero diba kasalanan mo din naman kasi may work ka pero ndi na nagsave

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1 year ago

Even if people will be by our side all the time, we should not be totally dependent on them. We should learn to keep part of what we have for the future. Thanks for this counsel.

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1 year ago

Yes very true

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1 year ago

There are things we can't control and plan so there are times we need to ask for help but pregnancy takes 9 months so we know after or before that period we are going to give birth. Doctors in our public hospital you will hear often scolding mothers regarding that . "You should save everymonth until you reach your birthmonth , buy cotton ,diapers and other things ahead of time. One by one until you completed the supplies needed at birth " they even let mothers to pay installment 20 or 50php every check up visit for newborn screening fee so it wont be heavy on their part.

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1 year ago

Yes, but there are some people who depends with others and they re-assuring that there are some who will help them, so sad for them

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1 year ago

People will not always at your side to help you

a sad reality ate, ganito rin article ko today. kalan ko lang rin narealize to eh. bigla ko naisip kasi kung ako nga napapagod sa sarili ko pano pa kaya sila?

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1 year ago

Ay tlga ba? Yes kaya dapat talaga matuto tayong tumayo sasarili nating paa

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1 year ago

Ouch nakaka-awa nga yung ganyan, me too the reason why I do like some side earning is that somehow I won't experience difficulties like others. huhu

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1 year ago

Pero kasalanan naman nila diba dahil may work sila pero ndi sila nagtabi comsidering kabuwanan nya na.

Ako din tlga tyga sa mga ganito dahil alam kung ndi ko dapat pinapapsan sa family ko ang sarili kong pamilya.

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1 year ago

Totoo ito Adrielle, as much as possible kahit ang panganganak gawan ng paraan habang maaga. Magandang idea din Ito para sa article.

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1 year ago

Thank you

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1 year ago

Yes my friend. We should learn to be independent. When I was in college, I was dependent from my parents but when I started working I realized that it's really important to be independent and I learned it already that time.

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1 year ago

Yes, since you are workinng and earning for a living its time tobe independent

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1 year ago

Yes my friend that's true. Based on my experiences also.

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1 year ago

😀

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