Learn to be independent

August 20, 2022

Happy weekend readtizen! Hows everyone? Are you having a great day? What are your plans today until tomorrow? Whatever it is, I hope you are enjoying the day and taking most of your time relaxing because I know you deserve that for your hard work during weekdays.

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As days passed by and we face many different troubles in life, some of us learned from them but some of us just leave it and continue again without analyzing the lesson that those troubles teaching us.

I personally, learned many lessons from my past experiences and I am applying it for my daily life because I know time will come that I need to stand on my own feet because its the reality of life and I can tell myself that I am a strong independent woman now.

But there are some people who choose to be dependent with others because they knew that there are some people who will never leave them alone during the times when they badly needed them.

Let me cite an example.

A woman on her 36th weeks of pregnancy gave birth today, but the problem is she never save a penny with her so she chatted her husband relatives and mothers and send them money at the hospital, so everyone is in chaos coz of what she asked. Where in fact they are both working and having thier monthly salary of ₱15k. So if she is really a responsible and not relying with others she will save a penny for her baby that will come out anytime but she never think of that situation because she knew someone/somebody will help them in times like these.

This is just an example of how it is to be a dependent woman, and this type of people a thorough experience to be independent.

People will not always at your side to help you, soon they will get tired and see that you are too much dependent to them and never try to stand alone and are you prepared when that time came?

Better start to independent now, while they are still there to back you up, its not easy at first but if you have the perseverance and courage to do it, soon you will find yourself standing on your own, and being independent is the best feeling because finally you can stand on your own feet without the shadows of others behind you and its a great achievement to be an independent one.

This will be for today, thanks for dropping by and leave some comments, and see you around.