Date; Saturday 12th March 2022

How is everyone doing here today? How were your nights? Yesterday was TGIF and no one invited me out so I just read and watched movies and read alot of article here on read.cash. And I woke up this morning with a very serious headache like my brain 🧠 played football Yesterday while I was sleeping😂😂😅. But that's by the way took some medication am getting better now thank God. So enough with the chitchat let's dive into today's discussion and see.

Am no magician but I got few tricks under my sleeve, this aren't just any How trick but super hard cool tricks.

We all grew up and were taught by our parents or guardians to be Responsible and someone everyone can rely on and look up too. Me, I was brought up by a very disciplinary Dad and a very cool Mum, who was also loving and super kind when Dad wanted handling us in a Military way😂, you gerrit if you don't gerrit forget about it 😂😅. Am not yet a parent but I can proudly say that most parent if not all train their Children to be responsible, respectful, and motivated by something. So that's the few tricks I wanted talking about with you guys here today.

• Being Responsible

• Being Respectful

• Be Motivated.

So I just came up with is cool name for this three qualities, RRM, that the combination of everything.

Being Responsible.

So being responsible not only makes people want to come close to you but you will become someone they want their children to be like. And you will be a confidant, someone they can share there secret with, knowing and having confident in you never to repeat it to anyone no matter. Parents giving their children chores at home is not to stress them or anything but to help their children to be responsible persons when the leave home some day. And the joy that comes to all parent when they see that their children turns out the way they wanted them turning out with their kids happiness in mind, is just priceless. And when your parent see that you are very responsible more responsibilities will be given to you because of the confidence they have in you to accomplish sure task.

Am the last born of the family, so growing up I always wanted being like my older brother, because my parents always talked about him and not that they don't love us too or they are not proud of us or whatever but him being the first they (my parent) wanted us to be like him, responsible, caring and someone that is very respectful. And sometimes when I look into I see The truthfulness in what they are saying and sometimes I want to be like him too, but wait am me so there is no way I can be like any.

Tips

• Being responsible makes people like you-

• People will be attracted to you-

• You can be everyone's confidant

• You will be given more responsibilities to handle.

Being Respectful.

We all remember growing up how our parents will be telling us to greet people we met on the,

"Hey say Good morning Aunty, say Good morning Uncle, say Good morning Daddy Good morning Mummy. Go and greet your elder brothers and elder sisters".

We remember all of that and today too we see how parent are doing all they can in teaching their children to be respectful. When they are in the mall and their children are misbehaving or making noice or in an airport, you see a father or mother going down on one kneel to tell the child that there are others here so he or she should be respectful, staying quiet or bringing his voice down in respect of others around.

If you are an African you can testify that being respectful is one of the most important quality parent teach their kids. And when a child is responsible and respects his elderly ones he becomes a hot cake in the community everyone will just like him for no reason but for the reasons mention 😉😂.

Tips

• Being Respectful puts you up there.

Be Motivated.

Find something that makes you happy and let that be your motivation. For almost all African parents I Know, love them that should be your motivation in taking care of them, ok am joking there. What is your biggest motivation in life, is it Love, family , religion, sports, idols- your idols, whatever it is that your are Motivated by just try as much as you can to find happiness in it and make your parents happy too. So far for me am still trying to shy away from what my motivation is and I just hope is something stupid something really pathetic and foolish 😒😜😜🤪

Not all parents are training you or bringing you up so you can find a comfortable and happy life so you can center your life in taking care of them , but we all know that is our responsibility as there children when they (our parent ) grow old and become just like children for us to take good care of them. Should that be your motivation, your parent , you seeing all that they have sacrificed in raising you and teaching all values when they got the chance to do that, that should be your greatest motivation.

Tips

• What is your motivation?

• Are your parents a greater part of your adult life

Thanks for reading.

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