If I Ran The World 🌏 .
Funny Right? Yeah, I thought as much, I will build an empire, with no slaves but all are having equal rights, every single human will be paid every month because I mean what money is printed every day and yet people go to bed hungry every day, I won't want to be given any title but what am the Ruler of the world.
*If there will be presidents then they will act as Chancellors and Chairmen. There won't be any production of Nuclear heads, I can't put an end to crime but I will surely want to do all I can to reduce the rate of crime, diseases that have no cure yet will be treated for free and the doctors will be paid by the government ( My Government), I can't say that I will remove dead because am but human too and one day I will surely die someday.*
MY AUTHORITY.
My authority will be over everyone but not over everyone, I mean I will have power over everyone but they will not be slaves to me or anyone under me ( haha everyone is under me). I will exercise authority but not like that of a dictator. Not all will like me but no one will be oppressed, you will be allowed to do whatever you want but anything that will harm any human will be unacceptable.
I won't have any personal army, but I will be very much protected, I won't be paid a salary but I will be rich, I will love everyone to call me by my name not giving me any title whatsoever because am no god.
MY LIFE.
Someone with that kind of authority or should I say power will want to be arrogant and proud and very authoritative, I can't say that that kind of power won't enter my head I mean am human it will sure do but when you know yourself and what you can do and not do then no matter the power or whatever that comes your way you will be able to work if off you and you won't be clouded by your pride and arrogance.
As I said earlier I will love to be loved to be called by my name and anyone that calls me otherwise will be punished I won't tell y'all the punishment but you still get the gist there.
I won't go and start acquiring exotic cars or designer clothes and all that rich people acquire this day.
I would have nurses and doctors train trained specifically for the treatment of cancerous patients and other diseases that have no cure and sure as hell that it won't be easy doing all of this but PSYCH. I can not be the ruler of the world and I don't think any human will ever be but only our Creator who can and will be.
***My Conclusion.***
***Whatever kind of authority you have or you may be exercising don't use it for personal gain or to oppress those under your care, but tried and be loved by all and even though not all would but do your best and the best will come your way.***
**Thanks for reading and again Psych.**
Date: Thursday 31st March 2022.🤩🤩.
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An Interview With My Late Dad: Part Two
If I had powers I will use all of them to bring all our dead loved ones back to life again. Because am very sure we miss them all so very much and wish they never died. But that is the life we find ourselves in death is inevitable.
I want to have a very long and deep chat with my dad, I have like a million things to ask him and tell him to, I miss him.
*This is the second part of An interview with my late dad, and let's see what he might respond to this time. So let's dive in and get started.*
WHAT DO YOU REMEMBER ABOUT THE HOUSE YOU GREW UP IN AND WHAT DO YOU LIKE ABOUT IT?
Is their family house, so my dad grew up in a family house and they had every kind of fruit in the house, just name them mangoes about four different varieties, cashews, guava, oranges, and avocado tree and they had this fruit that was kind of sour but sweet at the same time I don't know the name of fruit but it was my favourite then whenever we went to my village with my Dad.
And there are a lot of graves in the house of about Six different generations, from my great great great grandparents, so the house is fun but scary because it feels like a graveyard to me at night 🌚 . And if you remember https://read.cash/@Adobe01/an-interview-with-my-late-dad-part-one-39d8a35e
my previous grandfather is a traditional doctor so after his death, no one was allowed to stay or use his room (which is a traditional thing they do at home there). So his room is more like an archive presently, with pictures of almost every single family member who was born in that family. Why does he like it probably because of the fruits hahaha just one of the things but am sure it will be his father's room that is his favourite.
HOW ARE YOU MOST DIFFERENT FROM YOUR PARENT AND GRANDPARENTS? HOW ARE YOU THE SAME?
My Dad loves watching movies, surprised right? I remembered there were days When his off from work and morning to around midnight we will be watching movies together and don't get tired of it. I don't know whether his parents or grandparents liked it too or hated the idea but that should be one thing that makes them different. I don't know whether this is all dads in the whole world but I think mine knows every single word in the dictionary.
The pictures of all my grandparents that I have seen are all very tall maybe that is where I got my tallness too, my grandfather was so tall that he was called 'dogo' which means someone tall, that is something including myself that we all have in common.
*My Dad likes late-night fishing, am very sure he learned that from his Dad that is something they have in common too. And there is this traditional meal that he likes, where am from there is a traditional way of cooking water leave that is different and only my dad and mom can get it right nobody in our house can ever get it the way he likes it and am sure his mom ( my grandmother) most have been cooking that for him that's why he loves it so much.*
WOULD YOU ALLOW ME TO DATE, IF I TOLD YOU THE GIRL I MAY BE IN LOVE WITH?
"***NO***"
"***That*** **is your final answer**": I asked him again.
His reply; "***No, you can't date, until when you are well established"***
His idea was that a man needs to be able to take care of himself first and is well settled first before he will be able to have a girlfriend. And I think he is right, you need to take care of that woman you love you know, will you be asking your parents for money before you take good care of your woman, I don't think so. He will want to guess the ladylove in had in mind ages ago hahaha.
**Thanks for Reading.**
Date: Wednesday 30th March 2022.
All pictures are from my gallery.
What I Do When I Fail.
I think we know what we are supposed to do, deep down we know and a lot of people just don't go after what they want, but deep down we all what exactly we want. We just seem to tell ourselves that we can't reach or achieve what we desire most.
*I have a backup plan for a backup plan, I sit and look for ways I got it all wrong, ask those that are more experienced than I am, and set the same goals but look at them with a different perspective.*
What is that thing you do when you fail or maybe have a setback in something you had hopes in?
*We are supposed to know what we want, deep down we know what we want but most times we just go after something else and that one thing we go after is more like a backup plan knowing sometimes that we won't make it or scale through. What do I do when I have a setback or fail?*
HAVE A BACKUP PLAN FOR A BACKUP PLAN.
Is more like having an extra gallon of fuel to fuel yourself and when you are getting low or extra oil for your lamp when is getting low. Have a plan to back up your plan because you sure need to know that you will be meeting challenges and setbacks along the way so you need something to keep you going that is why you need a backup plan to back up your plan.
No matter how good things are looking always have something in mind that something might go wrong because that's is life, so always have a plan for when plans fail. You have a backup plan does mean you are a failure or you are planning to fail but see it as a stepping stone or a plan to help you not to give up or quit.
LOOK FOR WAYS YOU GOT IT WRONG.
Find the leak, find that place or thing that made you fail. Was it, someone that made you fail or something that made you fail? Look for that leak and see ways you can adjust and keep going.
ASK QUESTIONS FROM THOSE THAT ARE EXPERIENCED.
They say experience is the best teacher and I say experience is THE teacher. Those that are experienced know it better, they have seen it first hand or should I say 'they have tested and have a glimpse of that. So ask them questions on how they were able to scale through theirs and tips on how they did it.
SET GOALS BUT WITH A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE.
You need to set goals not just say this are my goals but write them down and try reviewing those set goals every day and look for angles or areas you can approach those set goals and how to accomplish them.
You've asked questions from those that are experienced and you are ready to move on to archive those set goals and now you are even better because you know different kinds of angles you can see the goal and how to archive them.
A Poem for My Conclusion.
"***Don't let yourself think that failure or your lagging is always the end road but ask questions, always have a backup plan, look for where you got it wrong and block that loophole and make the next move to achieve that goal you set"***
Written by: *Me*
**Thanks for reading.**
Date: Tuesday 29th March 2022.
All Pictures were taken by me and are from Gallery.
A Turning Point.
There are times in our lives when we simply want to turn away from everything. A period we get tired and fed up with everything. Times we just want to turn away.
When was your turning point? Or what was your turning point?
*Turning points are moments in life when something you always expected or never expected happens in your life. A point in which a significant change occurs, or a point when a situation changes positively or negatively. It can be something of a great deal, like marriage something that everyone expects or the death of a loved one or an accident or is meeting someone or the day you gave birth or you seeing your wife bring a baby into this world.*
Some turning points in life are depressing while some are of the joyous and happiest moment of our lives.
JOYFUL TURNING POINT.
Your visa getting approved and you travelling out to the country you've always wanted is a joyful turning point.
You entering the university you always wanted to get in.
You giving birth and for the first time seeing that baby cry and you will tell yourself "now this is my life I can do anything for this little angel of mine right here".
And as the father that turning point, that moment you know your wife is pregnant you start doing everything in your power for that being that is coming.
When you get that dream job of yours, the turning point is when you start paying bills, taking care of the family and yourself and still having time to have fun.
SAD OR NEGATIVE TURNING POINT.
An accident that changed your life entirely, turned everything upside down for you.
A divorce and ( do I need to go further )divorce is a big turning point for all. And at times sad and at times a joyous turning point.
The death of a loved one can be a very big blow and a turning point.
When you start handling responsibilities that you thought you can or were not prepared for it that can be a sad turning point.
When you thought you almost die maybe during a robbery or a disaster hit and you thought to yourself you are going to die and you didn't that can be a sad turning point and a joyous one too.
MY TURNING POINT.
Mine is a sad one, my turning point in life was when my dad passed away. His death was a blow to my very existence, it knocked me off hard and off everything. His death was a real surprise to all of us because we never expected it.
*I don't know whether it has happened to you but when you thought that everyone in your family was immortal and that probably they will never die, you never think of it you don't even imagine it ever happening.*
My Pop's death was the period my life changed and everything turned upside down. It was a tragedy never expected (that's what a turning point is all about, it doesn't knock on your door and tell you it's here) a sadness that haunts me every day.
*A space in my life that feels like a deserted void, an emptiness that can't be filled, the loneliness that can't be met, a friend that can never be replaced and a mentor that teaches every day but yet is not present.*
I can't find words to write explaining how much I missed my dad, but knowing the level that his death has turned my life is something that explains it all. I get to do things I never thought I will do and things I won't have done When he was alive.
Thanks for reading.
Date: Monday 28th March 2022.
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If Space Travel Were A Thing...
What if!!! The big what if, what if Space Travel was a thing? Would life be more enjoyable or difficult? How expensive do you think it will be? If it were a thing then think it should be cheap. What will happen to the rate of Crime? How high will the rate of sicknesses and diseases be? How advanced will the technology be?
The big question is this still, Why do people want to go out there, what, for science, for technology, the fame and publicity that "we did it first" or they are looking for extraterrestrial life out there?
*Man was never created to live outside this planet because we won't be able to survive it. What needs to sustain life is all in this planet and outside it man will die, but that is where we have the big what if, what if Space Travel were a thing?*
WOULD LIFE BE MORE ENJOYABLE OR DIFFICULT...
To me a touch of both, life will be enjoyable because finally man has advanced to level where you can travel everyday to anywhere you want to, that achievements alone will make life to be enjoyable.
It will be difficult because this earth will be like an abandoned workstation, where people will just come In to get something and then just leave. Because by then I imagine everyone one will want to work out there. I don't know what they will do out there but everyone will want to be just out there you know.
HOW EXPENSIVE DO YOU THINK IT WILL BE?
I will say that at first, it will be very expensive only the Billionaires will be able to afford it, but then as time goes by Millionaires will get in line, then when is so modern and advanced and safe everyone ( let me just say almost everyone ) will be able to travel out of Space. What do you think?
WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO THE RATE OF CRIME?
Will the word "skyrocket" cut it or you need more, crime will sure increase because people will want to live the planet and they need money or Bitcoin ( who knows maybe that's what will be legalised for the payment fee, the way Bitcoin is going now😜). People left on earth will be hard-core intruders because most of the rich people will have being gone already and that will be the perfect opportunity for them to intrude and take whatever they want. Murder and thief will be made easy because, if you murder someone you can just Travel out and the judge will have no jurisdictions out of this planet 😂😂🤣😅.
HOW HIGH WILL THE RATE OF SICKNESSES AND DISEASES BE?
It will be very high, because man was not ment to leave this planet, so going out will they will have to bring alot of extraterrestrial lives that will be of serious problem to us and the generation of that era, Diseases that are way pass Covid 19.
HOW ADVANCED WILL THE TECHNOLOGY BE?
Very much advanced than what we are all seeing now, I just imagine not using big tanks of oxygen strap to our Backs but something more advanced,maybe just a face mask that when put on can make you breathe out there without you carrying something big and heavy in your back.
Phones will be so advanced that will not be in our hands anymore but will be something like a chip in our brain that we will be able to do whatever a phone can do with either advanced voice recognition or just you touching the air around you to operate your phone.
*OK guys am not to talk about some apocalypse or apocalyptic end of life but a friend of mine is obsessed with time travel and space travel and when we were chatting yesterday he talked a bit about it and then I thought to myself why not make it your post today, so there you have it. And everything is " What If". What If....*
Thanks for reading.
Date: Sunday 27th March 2022.
All Pictures were taken by me and are from my gallery
An Interview With My Late Dad: Part One.
*"You need to read, whenever you have the time,read!! don't let anyone tell you when to read, read!! Read will help alot and whatever book you find to read, read!!!"*
This is what my Dad tells us all In the house everyday and it turns out to be very true.
*How is everyone in the house doing today and how is life treating y'all? Keep safe and healthy.*
I have being thinking alot of my late Dad lately and I really missed him and I just started thinking of questions I would have asked him if he was still alive and see what his response will be to those question. So in today's post am asking my father a series of questions and let me see his answers ( by the am the one answering too).
*WHAT YOU HAD AS A KID THAT WE KIDS THESE DAYS DON'T HAVE?*
Face to face discussions, games that were real and upbuilding,knowledge. They had face to face talk with people, and discuss for hours seeing each other and knowing the value of what it means to be present. When you want to see or talk to someone you go out and look for that person and not that he is not a fan of how life is easy now with technology but man he missed the good old days. Fun and real games that they played then not on screen but touching and seeing each other and having fun with everyone involved in the game.
Knowledge, in this aspect I need not to go far, but is life not easy not and that has made us lazy so to say, because nowadays you don't need to do too reading everything you need is on the Internet, you don't need to read and do research anyone but my just typing you get everything you want. He will always say our generation is missing out alot of things, and he bought two dictionary for me while in my secondary school, in this age of Google we are in now.
*FAMILY MEMBERS THAT HAVE PASSED AWAY, IF THEY WERE HERE WHAT WILL YOU GUYS BE DOING TOGETHER?*
His twin sisters, am definitely certain that they will be the ones he will want to see and talk to, because they were his best friends when they were still very young and the twin die when all of them were young and he will always talk about them and how he missed them. Am sure if they were alive that they will be best of friends and he won't want to go far away from them either because I know how clingy my dad was with my Mom. So is definitely his twin sisters and they will be best of friends.
*WHICH MEMBER OF THE FAMILY WAS YOUR MENTOR IN LIFE, WHAT WERE YOU MENTORED ON AND WHY WAS THE MENTOR GOOD?*
His Dad he will say, his Dad was a traditional doctor ( my grandfather) and a role model to everyone in the village and the community at large. My Dad really look up to him for advice and all and even went on to be a medical doctor because of the influence his father had on him. I have only seen my grandfather in pictures but the resemblance between him and my dad is just uncanny and maybe is because of the resemblance that he wanted being a doctor. Hahaha.
*WHAT WAS THE HARDEST THING YOU WENT THROUGH AS A CHILD AND HOW DID YOU OVERCOME IT?*
My Dad once said, that he was the next person in line to take over his Dad in being the next traditional doctor of the village but he never wanted that life. That was a challenge for the whole family but he then went and became a Medical doctor and that was how he overcame that. Funny right?
What do you think about this? Is fun right? Let's see what your dad's will say dead or alive? You can interview them and let's get you'd responses too. And there will be more of these questions and interviews coming.
Thanks for reading.
Date: Saturday 26th March 2022.
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What If Is All In Your Head.
The worries, the anxieties, the I can't do it, the I am not up to, the feeling of am not competent enough, the taught of what if I invest and fail. What if all this thoughts are in your head.
*Most of what we think about ourselves are things that don't build us up. We almost all the time think of negative aspects of things in our lives before the positive thoughts rush in.*
*These thoughts in your head is you telling yourself you can't do it. What if is all in your head?*
THE WORRIES AND ANXITIES.
What if all the worries and anxious thoughts you have are all in your head, because in reality they are. You worry and have anxious thoughts about Tomorrow when you haven't even seen Tomorrow yet. You worry about feeding yourself and your family, when you don't know what the future holds ( not that you are not allow to worry about those things, but what if the worries are just things your brain cooks up).
*For me I will say, " worry and be anxious about the future when you are certain of the future".*
So, don't worry about the job interview when you haven't even send out your CV yet. Why worry about getting in that university when you haven't even applied into it yet.
THE I CAN'T DO IT.
Most of the things we say we can't do are just things we think of in our head. Is flying or running fast like the flash, we know this are things we can't do because we are not comic superheroes and no human can do those stuffs too. Why worry yourself about things that others have done and are doing and you keep on telling yourself in your head that you can't do it.
*When you do that, Is like you building a quicksand and sinking yourself in it, you building worries in your head is just as making a quicksand and drowning yourself into it.*
That investment that you think you can't do, don't cook up worries in your head that you can't do them but be prepare and *remove all the negativity in them and see the reality the way it is because you cooking up all this is just your head building its own fantasy and telling your really that everything needs to be worried about and you take that time you waste in thinking you can't do and find what you can do because everything worry is in your head.*
Thanks for reading. And I want to say am really sorry this few days for not getting to comment on people's article really very sorry about that.
Date: Friday 25th March 2022.
All Pictures are from unsplash.com.
Do We Have All The Facts.
Why do we tend to conclude on matters we have no absolute idea on? Why do we tend to judge people so easily? Why do we believe so quickly on what we see? I am fully aware of the saying "seeing is believing" but Is all cases we see actually what they appear to be or there are motives and ideas behind them all?
*I keep on saying that we all are guilty of one thing in life, and this I one of the thing we all are guilty of somehow, have you ever seen something and just conclude on the matter without having all the facts? Have you ever seen someone do something and you start having your own conclusions? Or maybe someone told you something about someone and you just conclude or judge that person?*
A friend once said " to hate someone these days one needs connection" and I think he is very correct for saying that, because most people you see and just hate or judge are people others talked about. Probably something bad they did or saw them doing or not even seeing them but hearing from someone, anytime we see such person we tend to judge that person or see that person they way he was painted by others. Have you ever not liked someone you've never being officially introduced to or even have an idea what their name is but because of what others said about them you tend not to like them.
Why hate or judge someone you have no idea who they really are? What can we do for is to avoid such?
Get to know them first.
Don't conclude easily have your facts first.
GET TO KNOW THEM FIRST.
People are beautiful when you get to know and we sometimes forget that, get to know people you were told that are bad people and see if they are really bad people or is just people exaggerating on matters. I was friends with this two guys that disliked each other, and when I say dislike I mean really hate the guts of each other. Just the present of the other irritate the other and vise versa. They once told me that nothing in this world would ever make them friends, we don't know how it happened but they got to know each other and boom they are now best of friends.
So getting to know someone really goes a long way into just judging them base on what others tell you about them. And if you get to know them and know what they really are and you have your facts on ground then with all sincerity you are allow to hate, judge and conclude on matters, hahahahha😂😂🤣 just kidding.
DON'T CONCLUDE EASILY HAVE YOUR FACTS.
Don't conclude on a matter you have no idea on and on people you don't know too. Concluding in a matter is like a judge who doesn't wait for an investigation to be carried out or evidence given or presented to him but he just carries out the judgement. We should not be like that but rather we should have all the facts on ground before we conclude on a matter.
Don't be a judge on a matter you have no idea on, and still on seeing is believing, see and believe in the facts you have and not on what others tell you.
Thanks for reading.
Date:Thursday 24th March 2022.
All Pictures are from My Gallery
Things I Still Can Comprehend In Life
There are things in life that can be changed, there are things in life that we can not change and there are other things that can never be changed. There are things that are just constant in our lives. And there are things about people that we never change no matter how we try, those things are part of them it is the way they are build up.
How are you build up? Are you among those that can never be changed? Or can you be changed?
Not completely change who you are, but a habit or a character that you developed over time from around you, those attributes in you can be change. For me I think you should be you in a relationship, don't try being someone else just to please your partner no matter. Because as humans no matter how good you are if you do something bad everyone will then say "that is the real you, that is your true colour" why do they say that I have no idea.
So we want to see things today that people Do that I can't still comprehend why they do it.
1. Be with someone they know from the start is not the "right" person.
2. Accept a Job that they don't like.
3. Beat a Woman, ( yes I have to include this one in too)
BE WITH SOMEONE THEY KNOW FROM THE START IS NOT THE "RIGHT" PERSON.
Why do people do this, I mean you saw red light🛑 from the beginning already and you start thinking in your mind I can change such a person, yeah sure there are somethings about them you can change but not all you can change. One of the reasons why there are alot of broken hearts out is because so many of them thought at first they could change there partner to what they want him or her to be.
To me I think if you guys are out on a date or anything and you notice not one not two but many things you will never like in a partner I think you are allow to just end the relationship or whatever you guys are on politely and if you can explain yourself then you if not just end it nicely instead of getting Heartbreak at the long run. And you should know that no relationship is perfect, so the decision to end it, is yours to make, if you think you can change the person fine do it!!!!.
ACCEPT A JOB THAT THEY DON'T LIKE
I did that once and I regretted ever doing that actually and don't think I will ever do that ever again. So my was a hotel work and I work as a Porter, and I hated not just the work but everyone single person I worked with, hahah😀🤣😂 not everyone single one of them. But I woke up everyday just hating the idea that I will be going to work. There is this saying in Nigeria that " Na Condition make crayfish bend" , so that kind of attitude towards work I did I never enjoy, I decided to bend to it, that even though I don't like the work but try finding something In the work to make me like it.
Then the people, having in mind those I work with everyday help me kinda like the work.
So why accept a Job that you won't be happy waking up everyday doing? Go for something your heart wants and at times it may not come that is when crayfish has to bend.
BEAT A WOMAN.
The area am in right now has the highest rate of should I say female brutality, its a daily struggle for all the ladies around here, men beating their wives everyday just for silly and stupid excuses. Excuses that when you here you feel like beating the crap out of that man, but then what is the difference between you and him if you did.
Any man out there that rises his hand up and slaps or beats a woman is no man, that one of the most stupid thing a man can do. And sometimes you here other women saying she deserves it that is why he is beating her to bring her back to her senses, we men too get out of our senses then please who will bring us back to ours too by beating us please. I mean why should a man want to ever do that I can't comprehend that.
Things are but few things I can't comprehend in life what about you? You can mention some of yours in the comment section below
Thanks for reading.
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Life Is Sweet; How Are You Living It.
Life is not always fair but the amount of fairness you get how do you use it? To you make use of it or you let it slip away? When an opportunity comes your way or comes back again to you how to you view it?
*If I had a time machine I would like to go back in time and correct my wrongs and mistakes, I would grap every opportunity that comes my way and never let it slip ever again. If you had a time machine what will you do with it?*
This life is like a quicksand, it will swallow you whole, what provisions have you made for your survival? And how well to do you take care of those provisions you've made for yourself?
They said life is a "jungle and only the fittest survive" and i say even they ones that show weakness and are slow can survive, take for example the tortoise is a slow animal but a wise and distinctive survival of the jungle. Why, because it has the tool for survival, what kind of tool do we have to help us survive this world jungle and its problems ?
1. The Gift Of Free Will.
This Gift was given to us by our creator, the gift of Free will, we have choices to make in life we are not created like robots that just obey commands and do what they are told to do. But we humans have the gift of free will, to do whatever we want to do in life, that choice is ours to make.
*As we said life is a jungle so the choices you make determine your survival in this jungle, if you choose to do wrong the consequences for that choice you made awaits you, and when you choose to do good, the outcome too awaits you .*
Our free will is one of the greatest and the most powerful tool given to us by God for our survival. How are you then using your gift of fre will? Do you even know you have such a gift or do you allow others to make your decisions or choose for you? Do you feel pressure sometimes to make decisions or make a choice on something you know is not right? How then do you exercise your gift of free will?
2. Freedom.
This might look the same with the first one but this is a bit different, Freedom!! You can whatever you want to be, whoever you want to be, you are not a slave to anyone but to God alone, cause God Owns you.
*Freedom makes you free, Freedom is care free.*
*So many people are slaves to people, they try explain to everyone why they live their lives they way the live it, if you are in a situation where you always explain yourself to people about your choices then you are a slave. But one that is free doesn't explain himself or herself but people see and decide for themselves what your life is without an explanation.*
Life is sweet,are you living to please others or are you making your choices and being as free as the breeze that blows the ocean water to shore. So be as free as the wind and never underestimate your strength or weaknesses because the tortoise is one of the slowest animals in the jungle but yet he doesn't consider himself weak because he is a survival and it will continue surviving because it has provisions available and he makes use of those provisions.
Thanks for reading
Date: Monday 21st March 2022.
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Guilty Or Not Guilty...
There are things we all are born to do and there are things we are guilty of doing, when one has guilt It shows that one has a conscious and is sorry or want to adjust his ways from all that he has done.
*What are you guilty of? Have you killed someone or something?🤪😜. Did you try making someone do something that you are aware was dangerous? Are you guilty of excessively thinking about someone and can't do anything about it? Are you guilty of stealing something?*
Am guilty of some of the things above, but with the exception of killing someone.
ARE YOU GUILTY OF KILLING SOMETHING...OR SOMEONE
I have never killed a human, I will never kill a human and in my own opinion I think that's one of the worst atrocity anyone can conmit. Just the idea and thought of it makes me sick, talk more of committing such. But I am guilty of killing animals, someone of God's creation for food, I have slaughtered chickens, and I just thought of something now that chicken is the only animal I have ever killed for food, I have never killed a turkey, goat, cow, or even a duck for food only chicken. Does that make me not guilty no, am still guilty of killing an animal.
ARE YOU GUILTY OF MAKING SOMEONE DO SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE AWARE IT WAS DANGEROUS...
Am guilty of telling someone to tell a lady how he felt about her, is that something dangerous? At that moment it was dangerous for him because he nearly fainted and that was dangerous for him 😛😜🤪, just kidding, I actually follow the golden rule that says "whatever you want men to do to you, you should also do the same to them".
I feel if people around you can't make you do things that will endanger your life then you should do likewise to them, no matter how petty it might be as long as it will endanger their lives you are ought not to do or make them do it.
ARE YOU GUILTY EXCESSIVELY THINKING ABOUT SONEONE OR SOMETHING AND CAN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT.
I am very much guilty in that area too, I can't tell you guys who or what or even how we met but the main thing here is I am guilty of thinking excessively about someone and I still can't do anything about it, by the way am thinking of that person in a good way not the other or in a bad way no. But let me give you guys a leak maybe you will get the idea, so I met something or someone growing up and since I met that thing or saw that thing I have being thinking excessively about that something or someone and I can't do anything about it. Yes I am guilty of that.
ARE YOU GUILTY OF STEALING SOMETHING.
Am so so and very much guilty in that area too, ok the story is this, I went to a school that is surrounded by an orange 🍊 orchard and we were warned every single day not to even look at the orange, I mean what the heck, is like putting a goat in a room with corn and you tell the goat not to eat and left😂🤣😜, we all know what is going to happen.
Actually at first we were very obedient and did all they said but as time went it became our breakfast, lunch and dinner🤣😂, no we took dinner at home sometimes, we started stealing the oranges to an extent that I felt pity for the owners of the orchard, actually just a little bit of pity not that much😂🤣. But we were very careful because if you were caught you will be beaten in front of the whole school and suspended for 2 weeks.
So there you have it I am very guilty of that stealing, killed chickens, think of something or someone and can't do nothing about it.
Thanks for reading.
Date: Sunday 20th March 2022.
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This Or That? All laid bare; My Part.
Date:Saturday 19th March 2022
We all want something in life and when we work hard to get what we want we end up with those things we desire, and at times there would be bumps and alot of stops on the road don't let that stop ya.
*How are we all doing here today family of readers,subscribers, sponsors, commenters and great minds of article writing. Hope we are safe an healthy.*
OK guys, I saw this in one of my boss' article @Olasquare and it was really fun reading it so I wanted trying it out to.
Let's get down to my world of craziness.
**Tall or Short.**
First of I have never being a relationship and am very tall so I consider every lady I see as short, so guess the type of lady I want.... short!!!😂😂🤣😅,because all are short so I don't have a choice in that area.
I have this friend of my that only comes close to me when am sitting down, because she is so short that she feels like a baby around me and intimidated as well🤣😅.
Talkative or quiet.
Talkative please, to me if you talk to much you can't hide your feelings so what ever you are feeling weather is anger, joy or sadness you just open up and don't hide anything and they don't hold grudges, they talk and just leave everything there.
Opposite Or Same Sex
Opposite, can be in the company of an Opposite sex for hours without running out of things to ask or talk about. There is just always something for me to ask about from the Opposite sex.
Short Or Long Hair.
To me I think is her choice not my but if am allow to choose then is short hair for me. I kinda feel like a lady with short hair is just bad ( good bad not bad bad) and dangerous, I dig bad girls, I just feel you should be you and pretense whatsoever.
Bad Or Cute.
Bad but still cute, it can be possible bacuse that's what I want, and again not bad bad, but just the normal bad.
Music Or Sport.
Music all day, there was a time we talk about music with a lady over an hour just talk and talk and just talked.
Hot Or Nerd.
Can I get like a sexy hot nerd, ok let me explain. When she is with glasses she is a total nerd but without glasses and with her make up on she becomes totally hot.
Older Or Younger.
My age, don't like older even though the are mature and all, I just feel they are my auntie 😂, younger for me is child abuse, just someone at my age that we can insult each other and laugh with each other all day everyday.
Get out or Stay in.
Is for her to decide, but me am an indoor person,can stay indoor for months without feel bore or whatever. Actually during the lock down I was excited and happy just staying indoor doing nothing much.
Movies Or Karaoke.
We don't have Karaoke here In My place or is movies for me but we can do a bit of Karaoke when we are alone.
Looks or Personality.
The looks will there be pride in it or just looks, just kidding, I just want a lady who is herself and nothing more.
Wear glasses or Not.
Hot sexy nerd, remember, just the combination of both.
Shy or Outgoing.
Am the Shy type too, so we both can be all shy, one needs to be Outgoing and I now choose that she should be the Outgoing one 😜.
Early bird Or Night Owl.
Am a night Owl or she will learn to be a night Owl too, I operate more In the night than at daytime.
Text or Call.
None, don't like any, but can change for her if I possible but preferably texting only
Flirt or Be Flirted
Be flirted, am just seeing good results at the end of it all.
Hug or kiss.
Truth be told I have never hug anyone man or woman, never so I am going with kiss.
Polite or Funny.
We are Africans, is polite that we would choose.
Drink or Nope.
Nope nope, for me but if she drinks is fine by me actually.
Cold or Romantic.
Give me Romantic please, I think am not a romantic so let's just get someone romantic to spice everything up. But I can't say am cold too so 🤫😜
Ex Or Someone new.
There is a reason why she is called your ex and what you guys went through you probably don't want to go through that again.
Someone you love or Loves you.
Someone that loves you truly loves you but the one that you made to fall for you she can leave anything and it won't be hurtful for her like the one that loves you truly.
That all for me and hope you guys have a wonderful weekend guys.
Thanks for reading
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My Thoughts and Fantasies Today.
Date:Friday 18th March 2022
I woke up with the thought about my life, just thoughts of how my life has being and will be in the future. Thoughts that are deeply engraved in me, thoughts that can not be shared, thoughts that are sweet and bitter, thoughts that have pulled me down and will still pull me down, thoughts that have lifted me up and will continue lifting me up.
*For a moment I was in a dilemma between me leaving my bed and my thoughts. My fantasies at some point over clouded my reality and just the realization of that made me laugh.*
**MY THOUGHTS**
Having friends like this here on read.cash, friends you've never met but are friends, friends you know that only know when you read there articles, friends that you know their lives (part of it ) by reading their articles, friends that you know how they feel when they comment, friends that you know how their day went by reading their articles. You don't get to sit and have a long chat with them on a topic but you read their comments and articles and you will know there experiences on that topic. Friends that understand your world of BCH, friends that tip you when you write something good and make an honest comment on their post😂😂🤣.
Friendship that's turning to be family or already a family. One of the thoughts that got me thinking😂😂🤣, was friends that makes you feel special by just written comments. It's truly a privilege to be amongst great minds of family of different culture, backgrounds, languages and ethnicities, and just that alone makes me feel so special in the family we all in in.
**MY FANTASIES.**
I can't tell you all of them, there is this fantasy I have being having as a kid, of a lady telling me she loves me crazy right.😀😀😂. I believe in feminism, equal rights for women, my thoughts were or are that if a man can approach a random lady and talks to her or even tell her he loves her or likes her, then I think a woman can do better, since a saying goes " what a man can do a woman can do better"😂😂🤣. I know is a crazy fantasy probably something that will never happen but that's why is a fantasy right?
There are so many other fantasies but this one I wanted sharing with you guys today. I fantasize of being the president of the United States of America and am Nigerian no relations whatsoever in the states but I still fantasise about it, stupid right, it's all fantasy and nothing else but maybe I can happen, boy gat to dream big you know.
*Thanks for reading my thoughts today and my crazy fantasies family.*
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Do You Appreciate The Little Things.
Date: Thursday 17th March 2022.
How are we all doing today? Let's all try to be safe and healthy too. My day was actually really stressful,woke up by 5am to escort a friend of my who will be travelling, and I was supposed to sleep in early so I can wake up early but I stayed up till till 3am and only had a sleep for an hour. And from that 5am I have being going up and down from the park to the work I had to do today all contributed to the stress am in today. Let me not bore you with my boring day. How was your day?
*Do you appreciate the little things you have, and most of the things we consider as little are not actually little in themselves. Appreciation prompt people to do things to us more without asking for anything in return and they will be happy doing it.*
The feelings you get when you are appreciated for something you did, that feeling of you wanting to do more for the person who appreciated you for doing what you did. We get the most important stuffs in life for free are we appreciative for all that we have,most of us don't get work for the food we eat are we appreciative of that.
Thing we can be grateful for.
1. The meal we eat
2. The very little things others do for us.
3. The breath of life that we have.
**THE MEAL WE EAT.**
It might be minor to some of us, having to eat everyday, without going out to beg for it, it's really something we all need to be very appreciative of. Do you take your time in appreciating who prepared the meal or the one who served it? We tend to forget sometimes appreciating the person who serve the food or may have cook it. Growing up it was an African culture that you must appreciate every single older person in the family after eating starting from the father to your elder brothers and sisters.
**THE LITTLE THINGS OTHERS DO TO US.**
What little things can you think of that people do for you or might have done for that you failed to see how important it was for you to appreciate them? And some of them are doing there jobs that's what comes to mind but can we still show appreciation for that. Like a doorman opening the door for you, you enter into a mall and your welcome into, you were serve in a restaurant. What other things can you be appreciative of?
Our parents provide us it food, clothing and shelter but we still appreciate them even though is their jobs as parent to provide for us, hahaha just kidding 😂.
*So why can we also appreciate the little and big things others do for us and they will be more prompt to do more the next time we see.*
THE BREATH OF LIFE THAT WE HAVE.
You waking up every morning alive and still kicking is all something to be very appreciative of. The provider of all, the maker and producer of everything made it possible for us all to see today, do you make time to appreciate Him for all that he does for us. God provides and gives us live we should be very appreciative for all that he has done and will still do to us.
*Have time to be appreciative for all both the minor and the major as well even though we know there are no minor things nowadays*. Have time to appreciate God for the food that he makes to grow and for all the people around us who do things for us too.
Thanks for reading.
My Second Tag Question; 2022.
Date:Wednesday 16th March 2022
How are we all doing today? How we are staying safe and healthy? Today isn't actually my day, I woke up just feeling like I was beaten throughout the whole night and I didn't feel anything as they beat me.
*As the questions keeps coming it keeps getting harder and harder and maybe even difficult to tell the truth but I will try to tell the truth in this as much as possible. So here we go again this is all me, all me being truthful to you guys.*
Tell Me about your First time experience where you ever get into difficulty in School?
Maths, definitely that, I don't know weather is because of the teacher that taught me or what but I was having a lot of difficulties with mathematics while in secondary school. It reach to a point where I don't even like looking at my result sheet because I knew the mark already. I tried reading it harder than all the other subjects but still, then I just started hating maths completely.
Tell me about your first time going shopping alone?
Am not proud of it but it was in 2012, then things were very cheap and I wanted proving that I was a big boy to my parents so they gave the money to go buy my things and it was a disaster it was a huge amount of money but I came back with just few things, it was like two trousers and one shirt.
Tell Us about your first fear?
Cockroach 🪳, terrified to dead when I see one.
Tell us about your job experience?
I worked in a hotel, it was actually a five star hotel, and I worked as a porter, that's the fancy way of saying errand boy.
Tell Us about you first language that you learn?
Hausa, because that was the language everyone around us spoke. Funny thing but my parents never spoke their languages to us.
Tell Is About Your First Toy?
It was a remote control car, when I was you I was so in love with those things and am still in love with them till date.
Tell Us about your first Iteam when You get A home?
Is definitely a swing, silly right but I will really love to have a swing that will be the first item in my home.
Who had the first biggest impart on you while growing up?
My dad, it was like he knew everything, anything I ask he has the answers,is like all dads just know everything you know.
What is your first hoppy that you adopt?
Football, I loved football ⚽️ growing up and now am like ehn.
Tell us about the first thing that makes you laugh?
Am a Joker and a very jovial introvert that laughs to anything that's funny.
What is your first favourite song that you listen to all the time?
Celine Dion ,the power of love, listen to it everyday and still gets goosebumps evrytime.
Thanks for reading.
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Either You Are With The Winning Team Or Not.
Date: Tuesday 15 March 2022
How is everyone doing today here? Hope you guys are save and just kicking to good and healthy. Let's all try to stay safe and be happy amidst all the things going on around us and in the world too.
Either you are with the Winning team or not,we were brought with the idea of always winning and we are never taught on how to deal with failure or be with the losing team.
*As a young boy my parent always taught me to do all I can to win and always be with the winning team, and never have I ever being taught on how to deal with failure. I think they just wanted us to Learn how to deal with failure on our own.*
It takes real courage for a parent to say to his kid, weather you win or lose it doesn't matter.
I really wish I will be told, weather you win or lose as long as you gave your best in what you did and you are happy then it's fine, but young ones now are just so determined to win. I just wish they are told that life is not all about winning but there failures and downs too in life.
FAILURE IS A STEPPING STONE.
We tend to be so focus on winning that we become so relaxed that when we lose we start thinking there is something or someone behind our failure. We completely forget about failure when life is very ok for us and when it comes we sometimes just go down with it (failure) forgetting that failure is a stepping stone.
*Failure is a like a staircase that builds us up to a more better self. A staircase that can seem endless for some time but when you keep climbing those stairs up you will definitely see a better self of you. Life is full of ups and downs and this downs are the failure, so why don't you use those downs to build a stairs for your way up.*
FAILURE IS A LESSON.
Failure is a lesson, when you learn something in life it serves as a lesson for you to better yourself, same goes with failure, when we fail it teaches us how to win the next time we do that Same thing again.
And most life lessons are learn when people failure, but when one is successful you never get to hear that I have learn a lesson, but when one fails we get to alway hear things like "I have learned my lesson...."
Failure Builds Character.
Have you seen someone who became so better at what he does just because he failure so many times and those failures made him build character of wanting to win.
*You were betrayed and it made you build character of trusting less or not even trusting at all. You were hurt and you learned a lesson to never allow yourself to be hurt again or learn to be immune to being hurt.*
A Poem For My Conclusion.
*"Failure, failure, oh failure, please come my way not to make me miserable, but to build me up, to make staircase for me, to teach me life's lessons and build a character in me that will make me swirl higher like an Eagle"*
Thanks for reading.
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Poetry that turned into Question and Answer.
Date: Monday 14th March 2022.
How is everyone doing in the family today?
I Wish I Had Wings.
*I wish I had wings so I could fly so high.*
*I wish I had wings so I could fly from all my problems*
*I wish I had wings so I could fly from my promises.*
*I wish I had wings maybe my life will be better than this.*
*I wish I had wings and maybe I will be called a super hero*
*I wish i had wings and maube i will save lives..*
*Ooh how i wish i had wings.*
*I wish I had wings maybe I will be faster than an ambulance.*
*I wish I had wings I would have being the ultimate.*
*I wish I had wings I won't have allowed crimes.*
I Wish I Had Powers
*I wish I had powers not like super man but just enough to neutralize bad guys.*
*I wish I had powers I wouldn't go about looking for bad guys but will help those close to me first.*
*I wish I had powers then politicians won't mistreat the masses again*
*I wish I had powers then I will love all kinds of people more.*
"*I wish to use my power for good but as humans we all make mistakes and bad decisions all the time, I just so wish I had the power to work time and control time, then everyone will live life to the fullest because wait their is someone that controls time"*
"*I wish I had the power to grow things, then no one will ever have to complain of hunger, and food won't be bought but only grown and eaten for free"*
If you had.
*If you wish you had powers what will it be?*
*Will you use your power to help others?*
*Will you crave for more power?*
*Will your power ever be enough?*
*How will you use it?*
I was actually writing a poem, then this idea came that i should ask my friends these questions to see what their answers will be and here are few of them.
**If you wish you powers what will it be?**
One person said all the powers, i think he wish to be a god.
Others said; power to help others as their strength cam.
**Will you use your power to help others?**
All said yes with full confidence like they had the power already.
Will you crave for more power?
Answers from all was that yes, is already In us humans when we have we just want more.
**Will you power ever be enough?**
Three persons said to some extent.
The rest were not sure but still on nothing will ever be enough for humans.
**How will you use it?**
I don't know weather is because of the super hero movies they have watched that maybe them gave that answer but almost all said yes they will use their powers but will have to hide their identity.
The one that said he wanted all the powers said he won't hide his identity because sure at the end of it all someone must know about you and your powers.
Thanks for reading.
"My Very First"; TAG QUESTIONS. 2022
Date; Sunday 13th March 2022
How are we doing here today? Hope our Sundays are going just fine and beautiful as mine? OK This article was supposed to be written and published since but I wanted it to be on this special day today. OK what's the special day, there is nothing special is just yet another blessed days that God has given us that are alive today so yeah😜😜😜🤪.
This questions were first written by @Athaliah and after reading that article I wanted writing some about it because we had something in common in the answers she gave in her own, so I have being waiting throughout the whole week to answer the questions and publish it and so here we go.
First to check while you awaken up in the morning.
Most at times I just pick up my phone in the morning and start listing to music, so is my music app and if am not on the mood for music then is the Jw library app.
Tell me about your first celebrity Crush.
There is no way I can lie about this but had something for Celine Dion, ok I know right, and the reason was that we watched her music videos and listened to her songs in our house like every single day, everyone loved listening to her and so yeah I had a crush on her.
Tell me about your first cooking experience.
I can't actually remember the details and all but I was OK because I was guided not by my mother but my elder brother so it was actually delicious( the food i prepared).
Tell me about your first college friend.
He was already a friend at home and when I joined them in the college, he just introduced me to his other friends and that was it, still friends till today.
Tell me about your first Pet.
Jack, that was the name it was a dog that my dad bought when I was still a child I think around 5-6 or there about, and he became my best friend loved me more than everyone in the house, and it was when I was 15 that the dog was kid my a dog eater who came to our house at night and just hit the dog dead, I cried for days and didn't even eat the man was put in jail for killing the dog, my dad knew how close we were with the dog he had to do that(put him in jail). After that I said never to love dogs again😂😂🤣😂,just kidding still love dogs like crazy, but will never forget you Jack.
Tell me about your first Facebook profile picture.
Am camera shy so I never had any profile picture or even a picture of myself taken.so yeah never had a profile picture anywhere at all.
What is your favourite music artist.
Guess, Celine Dion of course, she's way older than me now actually she has being older than be like forever actually, Celine Dion her songs just touches my soul is like she wrote the lyrics special for her crush 😍( me )
What is your favourite Cartoon.
Dora the explorer all the way.
What is your favourite cellphone.
Nokia, can't remember the name but that was what I started out with or that was what we all started out with😂😂🤣.
What is your first favourite fruit and vegetable.
Mangoes 🥭 and Cabbage.
What is your favourite colour.
Love all colours.
What is your favourite Dish.
Fried rice and Chicken. Can eat that like every single day and never get tire of it.
What is your first biggest goal in life.
Crazy story, but growing up I always wanted to be a taxi driver or as we call it here Okada, but I saw that they were having having a lot of money all the time so I always wanted being a taxi driver. Not anymore that thought and goal is no longer there again.
There will be more of this questions and more answers coming so why don't you join in the game too and let's see what your answers will be to this questions.
Thanks for reading
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Three Tricks Under My Sleeves.
Date; Saturday 12th March 2022
How is everyone doing here today? How were your nights? Yesterday was TGIF and no one invited me out so I just read and watched movies and read alot of article here on read.cash. And I woke up this morning with a very serious headache like my brain 🧠 played football Yesterday while I was sleeping😂😂😅. But that's by the way took some medication am getting better now thank God. So enough with the chitchat let's dive into today's discussion and see.
*Am no magician but I got few tricks under my sleeve, this aren't just any How trick but super hard cool tricks.*
We all grew up and were taught by our parents or guardians to be Responsible and someone everyone can rely on and look up too. Me, I was brought up by a very disciplinary Dad and a very cool Mum, who was also loving and super kind when Dad wanted handling us in a Military way😂, you gerrit if you don't gerrit forget about it 😂😅. Am not yet a parent but I can proudly say that most parent if not all train their Children to be responsible, respectful, and motivated by something. So that's the few tricks I wanted talking about with you guys here today.
Being Responsible
Being Respectful
Be Motivated.
So I just came up with is cool name for this three qualities, RRM, that the combination of everything.
Being Responsible.
So being responsible not only makes people want to come close to you but you will become someone they want their children to be like. And you will be a confidant, someone they can share there secret with, knowing and having confident in you never to repeat it to anyone no matter. Parents giving their children chores at home is not to stress them or anything but to help their children to be responsible persons when the leave home some day. And the joy that comes to all parent when they see that their children turns out the way they wanted them turning out with their kids happiness in mind, is just priceless. And when your parent see that you are very responsible more responsibilities will be given to you because of the confidence they have in you to accomplish sure task.
Am the last born of the family, so growing up I always wanted being like my older brother, because my parents always talked about him and not that they don't love us too or they are not proud of us or whatever but him being the first they (my parent) wanted us to be like him, responsible, caring and someone that is very respectful. And sometimes when I look into I see *The truthfulness in what they are saying and sometimes I want to be like him too, but wait am me so there is no way I can be like any.*
**Tips**
Being responsible makes people like you-
People will be attracted to you-
You can be everyone's confidant
You will be given more responsibilities to handle.
Being Respectful.
We all remember growing up how our parents will be telling us to greet people we met on the,
"Hey say Good morning Aunty, say Good morning Uncle, say Good morning Daddy Good morning Mummy. Go and greet your elder brothers and elder sisters".
We remember all of that and today too we see how parent are doing all they can in teaching their children to be respectful. When they are in the mall and their children are misbehaving or making noice or in an airport, you see a father or mother going down on one kneel to tell the child that there are others here so he or she should be respectful, staying quiet or bringing his voice down in respect of others around.
If you are an African you can testify that being respectful is one of the most important quality parent teach their kids. And when a child is responsible and respects his elderly ones he becomes a hot cake in the community everyone will just like him for no reason but for the reasons mention 😉😂.
***Tips***
Being Respectful puts you up there.
Be Motivated.
Find something that makes you happy and let that be your motivation. For almost all African parents I Know, love them that should be your motivation in taking care of them, ok am joking there. What is your biggest motivation in life, is it *Love*, *family* , *religion*, *sports, idols- your idols, whatever it is that your are Motivated by just try as much as you can to find happiness in it and make your parents happy too. So far for me am still trying to shy away from what my motivation is and I just hope is something stupid something really pathetic and foolish 😒😜😜🤪*
Not all parents are training you or bringing you up so you can find a comfortable and happy life so you can center your life in taking care of them , but we all know that is our responsibility as there children when they (our parent ) grow old and become just like children for us to take good care of them. Should that be your motivation, *your parent , you seeing all that they have sacrificed in raising you and teaching all values when they got the chance to do that, that should be your greatest motivation.*
**Tips**
What is your motivation?
Are your parents a greater part of your adult life
Thanks for reading.
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Take Pride In Respecting Who You Are
When you hear of the saying "self-respect", What comes to your mind? What are your ideas in that? How often do you hear it? In what kind of situation do you hear it?.
Self respect is not just respect for one self but you taking pride in respecting who you really are.
How often do I criticise myself?
How often do I give give compliments to myself?
I what areas in my life do I show that I respect myself?
What kinds of actions and words would make me feel more respected?
How Often Do I Criticise Myself.
So yeah, how often do you criticise yourself? Once in a day, five times a day, or are you a big time critic who criticises himself or herself every single minute of the day. When you criticise yourself you are indirectly showing disrespect to yourself. And when you criticise yourself you are saying you are unworthy and are not giving priority to yourself.
It might be that you are telling yourself. Am not beautiful enough, am not strong enough, am not tall enough. *When you wake up telling yourself you are not enough, then everyone around you like that too, but when you tell yourself you can do it, that you are just the right amount of enough and everything about you is just as enough as it can be then everyone will see that same you out there.*
How Often Do I Give Compliments To Myself.
Is a bit awkward right, just you giving compliment to yourself, but it doesn't necessarily has to be big words or long and well thought out compliment. But simple appreciation of who you are and what you have accomplished is also a compliment. Well done, You did just fine!, You are getting better and better every single day. Just look for ways to give compliments to yourself.
In What Areas In My Life Do I Show that I respect Myself.
What areas in your life do you criticise the most? Is it about your beauty, your height or do you even try comparing yourself with others. Then these are areas in your life that you need to show respect too. *And when you start respecting yourself not only will you have this sense of inner satisfaction but you will know never to compare yourself with anyone because you sure know who you are and that you are very enough*.
What Kinds Of Actions And Words would Make Me Feel More Respected.
You know yourself better that anyone other person, so just think of those things and actions that you can do to show that you respect yourself. Me, actions like never comparing myself with others or just just the idea of you thinking you are better than others are things I always keep away from.
A Poem For My Conclusion.
"*Know your worth, never think you are better than others, but just take Pride in respecting who you are".*
Written By: Me
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Communication: A Barrier Between Parents And their Teenage Children.
Date; Thursday 10th March 2022
How are you guys doing here today? Hope you guys are safe and kicking? So this morning I woke up with no idea on what to write in my article today. Is like since when I started here at read.cash my ideas on blogging and content writing just went poof! 🙃😛😂. Then I remembered the article of @GarrethGrey07 that I read yesterday about her being a mother and how her young boy knows her weakness and knows how to get things from her. And boom an idea came, on ways parents can have real communication with their teenage children.
Being A Teenager.
We all remember what it was like being a teenager, the changes, the attraction, the feelings, the "I want to distance myself because am a big boy/girl now". You remember when you just want to be alone or with just your peers who you think understands you. The lack of communication you have with your parents even when you are dying to talk to them, just you saying in your head that they won't understand forgetting that they were once teenagers too.
So this article is for teenagers and their parents on how to have a productive conversation with themselves without having to argue all the time.
Communication
If you are a parent then you can relate that all you want is to have a genuine Communication with your children. And genuine communication takes place when you and your children share a two way exchange of deep thoughts and feelings. And this communication becomes especially more challenging when the child becomes a teenager.
*Is like when they were younger you had a backstage ticket to their lives, you know what they like, and who they do Things, but immediately they become teenagers now the best hope you have as a parent is to seat out there with the audience and sometimes is not even the a very good seat you will be having in the audience. And when this happens is not that your teenage kids are pushing you away that is when they need communication the most.*
Parents.
So now what can parents do to have a productive conversation with their children.
**Adopt to Your Teenage Child's Timetable**.
It won't be easy but parents need to try as much as you can to adopt to your child's timetable. My Dad was a night Owl and mostly the best conversation we had was when everyone was sleeping and very late at night just the two of us talking.
**Parents Need to fight Distractions.**
Yes you have bills to pay, a family to take care of and so many other things around. One of the things that pushes a child away is a parent who thinks he or she can multitask while their child is trying to have a conversation with them. No matter how trivial the matter maybe to you try as much as you can to give them your full attention
A Poem for My Conclusion.
"*If I had a time machine, I will definitely go back in time to days when I shun or didn't want to talk to my parents, and just put the machine on repeat so I can talk with them over and over again because, sure damn I have a lot of things I want to tell them and just talk with them"*
Written By; Me
Thanks for reading. And I want to say a big thank you to @Talecharm for the sponsorship I really appreciate Ma'am.
All Pictures Were Taken by Me
Happy!!! Happy Women All Over
Date; Wednesday 9th March 2022
How are you guys doing today? Hope all are well and safe? This article is not about anything but an apology to all the women out there. Yesterday was your day and we were supposed to shower you guys with something but I completely forgot about it, it was immediately after publishing my article yesterday that my phone reminded me that yesterday was Women International day. So please with deepest regret I want to apologise to all the women out there. Please accept my well thought out and heartfelt apology please.
" *You are not just my mother, you are my first love and my best friend and my first instructor and teacher"*
So this article is me celebrating all the women out there, so happy International Women's day. I think and know that women should be celebrated everyday. So let's dive in and begin celebrating them.
Mothers
Wives
Sisters
Daughters
Girlfriends
Grandmother's
Women= Mothers
Every Mother is not just a mother but a goddess in human form. From the moment she finds out that she is pregnant with a child, everything in the world changes, the love, the attention and care that will be given to that unborn baby is just something that can't be explain. Their love is purely undiluted but strongly concentrated🥰😇🤣.
A Poem for Mothers
" *Mothers are goddesses, they are absolute, they are Unrefrained, they are not biased, and Don't think twice when it comes to their children"*
Women= Wives
Wives are committed, loyal, respectful, values and forgives their Husbands. The Industriousness of a wife is just like she was brought up or born to do what she does everyday.
A Poem for Wives.
"*You are you, you are incharge, you are incredible, you are in control, you are the woman, you are the woman of the house"*
Women= Sisters
Have you heard of second Mothers, ok this set of women are the second set of goddesses in the list today, and even though they are not yet Mothers they still show almost the same amount of love as mothers would.
A Poem For My Sisters.
"*Your care, your love, your respect and your instructions have not only taught me to respect you but respect all women out there*"
Women= Daughters
They are born with this chip in them, that makes them love, work and care just like a mother would. They are born Mothers.
A Poem for my future Daughter.
"*I will love you the moment am told you will come to this world, and love you even more when you do come, and as a fan of poetry I get to write a poem for you everyday"*
Women = Girlfriends
Never being in a relationship before so I don't know about that care and love shown by a girlfriend but I have seen alot of it, when they love you, they love you with all.
A Poem for My Future girlfriend.
"*You are that captain I will will sail with no matter where you want to go, am nothing but a sailor, just point and I will go even if is to my death"*
Women= Grandmother's
This set of extraordinary set of old goddesses and at times Mothers do complain that Grandmother's love is too much 🤣🤣🤣😀.
A Poem for my Grandmother's
*"I wish you were here so I can tell you how much I live you guys and even steal from your poses and you won't say anything"*
A Poem for my Conclusion.
"*Happy International Women's day, you guys are amazing, great, loving, strong and caring without you guys the world will be just full of John's and Stephens ".*
Thanks for reading.
All Pictures are from unsplash.com
Qualities That Matter; Trustworthiness And Industriousness
Date; Tuesday 8th March 2022
How aer we all doing today? Hoping we are keeping safe and staying safe in all. This week is just is going very smooth for me and am just excited and happy for almost everything I do. I was able to get something off my chest, something I have being holding for a very long time, I finally said it and made it really clear and straight just the way I wanted it and finally feel like a huge burden has been lifted off my shoulders. OK enough with the chitchat let's dive into the topic of the day
*Industrious people are persons who are not lazy neither are they workaholic but they find balance and enjoyment both in hard work and during their period of rest.*
Industriousness.
So Yesterday we talked about Trustworthiness and today we will be finishing with Industriousness or as some will say hard work. Industrious people don't shy away from work and are never lazy when it comes to work, rather they have a balance view of work and enjoy working hard to see they provide their families needs and their personal needs and to help others too. Even though the work is not in all glorious, and they are very responsible.
OK weather you like it or not, life is full of responsibilities just look into it, even you just want to stay in your house and do no hard work, you still have to take care of so much responsibilities, like paying bills, the rent. And in today's world not everyone one like hard work, but when one is Industrious you are put at an advantage. And there is always this sense of pride and inner satisfaction when you work hard, and this feeling of inner satisfaction will actually cause you to like and love the work even if it's not glorious. And having a strong work ethic will not only help you have inner peace and satisfaction but also a very good reputation too.
*But my work doesn't pay well? My job is not all glorious? How can I still have a positive view of work and also have that inner satisfaction. This following key steps will help us have a positive view towards work.*
**Take Pride In Learning To do Things well.**
Weather you are student finishing your assignments, or a child finishing his chores at home, or you are working secularly under someone, try as much you can to immerse yourself in what you are doing. And the big secret Is this once you can perform your task well you tend to enjoy the work or chores. *Take for example when you can cook well, it doesn't matter how many times you enter the kitchen or to how many people you are cooking for, but because you enjoy cooking and love doing it so it will be easy for you because you found that inner satisfaction.*
**See The Bigger Picture.**
When you handle your responsibilities well, weather is a chores at home or at your work place you will lighten the load on your family members and your workmates respectively.
**Go The Extra Mile.**
Not because you want to show off or want to show that you are workaholic or whatever but knowing that you are in control of your life in your life and doing more not because you are force to but because you choose to.
A Poem for My Conclusion.
" ***Work so hard today like you won't come to work tomorrow, accomplish your chores so well like you won't do any of it tomorrow, so be industrious"***
Written By; Me
Thanks for reading.
All Pictures are from Unsplash.com.
Qualities That Matter; Trustworthiness And Industriouness: Part One.
Date; Monday 7th March 2022
How is everyone doing today on read.cash? How were your weekends? It's a new new week and I hope this will will be productive and blessed like every other week we've being through. Am not going to bore you guys with How my Sunday, yesterday went, but we are grateful to God that it went fine and great and above all we are alive to see the beautiful Monday today.
*Trustworthy people earn the confidence of people and are known to abide to rules and those that are industrious don't in anyway ever shy away from work.*
Trustworthiness.
Trust is not earn by a single act but is something that is earn gradually and over time. Trustworthy people earn the trust of their friends, workmates, schoolmates, parents and even employers because they are know to abide to rules and regulations and they are known to keep their promises. And they do all they can to tell the truth, and not that they try telling telling truth but they are known to be telling the truth all the time.
At your work place in schools and at home,the amount of freedom you will enjoy depends solemnly on the level of trust you've earned from your employers, teachers or lecturers and parents respectively. And the best way to earn that trust from people is to demonstrate in all aspect of your life that you are mature and very much responsible not only when they are around you or very far away from you.
*So weather you are trying as much as you can to earn more trust or trying to regainlost trust this steps can help a long way.*
**Telling the Truth/Be Honest.**
Nothing shatters people's trust in you quicker than lies and you not being honest, but when you are open and honest about your mistakes and where you went wrong you can be very sure that can earn the absolute trust of others. And I can tell you guys from experience that is very easy to be honest when things are going smoothly and well; But being honest about things that can cast you you in very bad light light goes a long way in building trust.
**Be Responsible/Be Dependable.**
Being responsible and someone people can be dependent on is one who doesn't wait to be told on what to do but knows what, when how and why he is supposed to do what he does and the more you show that initiative the more you will be rewarded with their trust.
**Be Patient.**
I know right, what is patience doing here, *but there is now way you can earn people's trust by just a single act but is something that is built over a consistent period of responsiveness and a gradual time is required to show your growth emotionally and mentally.*
A Poem for my Conclusion.
" *I trust easily, knowing that I can be betrayed anytime and let go of people that I trust easily knowing and keeping in mind that more are coming who can and will be trustworthy"*
Written By ; Me.
Lead Image is From Unsplash and the rest were taken by me and from my gallery.
Thanks for reading.
Commitment And Teamwork In All We Do In Life.
Date; Saturday 5th March 2022
How are you guys doing today in the family? Hope everyone is enjoying his or her weekend? My started off just fine and am really enjoying it already 😜😋☺. OK I sometimes feel like I talk too much even when am writing 😄😄. Enough ok, is all well and let's all try and stay safe too.
*If you are committed to something or someone, you allow yourself to be wronged, you will be very quick to forgive and to apologise. You being committed will help you see problems as as obstacles not as a deal breaker.*
So this article is not all about how to be committed and be a team in marriage or any relationship but for us that are single this can help us too in our daily lives too, but just know there will be tips for married couples and people in relationship. So let's dive into the topic of today. Commitment and teamwork in all we do in life.
Commitment In Marriage.
Growing up in where I did, I have seen alot of failure marriages and relationships that we all thought will last a life time just looking how they show love to each other. So in the aspect of Marriage what is Commitment and what does it me for one to be committed to someone?. Commitment is a permanent bond that creates a perfect sense of security between two or more persons and in this case between a husband and his wife.
Husbands and wives who are committed to their marriages view this union as a permanent bond and that this commitment create a sense of security between them, and is solemnly based on the love and respect they have for each other.
***Alot of people going in to marriage always have a fallback plan which is divorce if they are tire of the marriage or maybe just feel like they are not made for each other. But couples who are committed will not even think or regret when they got married to their spouse.***
Commitment (For all).
Are you working? How committed are you to your work?, even though there maybe set backs or disappointment at work, when you are very much committed you will see those disappointment and set backs as obstacles and not a deal breaker.
Tips.
Things you can do to your spouses.
1. *Write love note to your spouse ( Text or written*
2. *Call your spouse each day you are out and just say you miss them and love them*😚☺🤗*.*
Teamwork In Marriage.
I read a publication once that says "Teamwork is the Essence of Marriage". Is more like a pilot and his copilot flying they both know they have the same flight plans and that is how marriage between a husband and wife is met to be like, they all have a destination to reach with the same flight plans in mind.
*Marriage is not a solo act or a me thing, but a we and we thing all the time.*
**Whenever problems or trouble arises husband and wife who are a team tend to attack the problems and not themselves. Just try forgetting who is right or wrong, that isn't important as having peace and unity in your marriage**.
Tips.
1. *Instead always thinking how I can win, start thinking how "we both" can win.*
*2. Follow after peace not after who is wrong or right.*
A Poem For My Conclusion.
*"Let's see pass our imperfections, let's see pass you're right or you're wrong,and let's focus on what is ahead and let Teamwork and Commitment take its place in Our Marriage"*
*Written by ; Me*
There will be more coming and I hope you enjoy this thanks for reading.
All Pictures are mine and are from my gallery
Children Are A Precious Gift From God.
Date;Friday March 4th 2022
How is everyone doing today? Hope you guys are having a productive day, today being Friday and a beginning of a wonderful and beautiful weekend for all. For me TGIF, for most at times will have plans to accomplish alot but ends up doing nothing much and nothing very productive thoughtout the whole weekend 😀😉😃,ok enough with the gist.
*Children are a precious gift and an inheritance from God. And God wants Children to be very happy that's why parents have this wonderful and beautiful assignment of raising their children.*
A Precious Gift.
Children are a gift of the womb and a very precious gift from God. From the moment they are born to when they start crying is just amazing, and becomes beautiful when they start crawling and becomes even more beautiful when they say their first word. And when they start walking and talking and smiling and just doing stupid and silly things all the time is just so beautiful. The craving for attention and care the want and the parents always there to give them that care and attention is just the definition that they are a perfect gift from God. And at times they parents can't even explain why they are moved to do what they do,
*but they love they have for their children shows what someone will do when he is given a very expensive gift, is to do whatever needs to be done to take a good care of that expensive gift he was given.*
Children are like that expensive gift 🎁, and no matter what it takes they parent must do what needs to be done to take a good care of their precious gift from God. What about the happiness of the parent, I know and I have seen parents making sacrifices for their children at the detriment of their happiness and am not saying is all wrong but what about their happiness can they be happy too while their children are happy too.
Parent's happiness.
Our parents deserve to be happy, You parents ( I you are a parent ) you deserve to be happy even though you make sacrifices everyday for your children happiness, you guys can and deserve to be happy doing what y'all do.
Am From Africa, so I know what I means for parents to sacrifice their happiness happiness for their children because of the way of life here, and how they struggle everyday to see that their children are taken care of. The struggle of putting them from Nursery to Tertiary education is a daily struggle and and after all that struggle is now high time for the children to now take a good care of their parents and their happiness too. Physical needs, Emotional needs and material needs should all be provided by the children after they are done with Tertiary education, they should all concentrate in making their parents happy and they parents still make sacrifices too but is now time for them to see their happiness and be happy too.
A Poem for my Conclusion.
" *That smiles that kills, that happiness and joy that never ends, that laughter that is there to stay, is the joy that all parents get having fulfilled their God given assignment of takin*g *care of the precious gift, their beloved children"*
Written By; Me.
Thanks for reading.
All Photos were screenshot from my phone and were all taken from the movie A Madea Homecoming. And they were edited by me.
The Way You Make Your Bed, So Shall You Lie On It.
Date; Thursday March 3rd 2022.
How is everyone doing today? Hope you guys are doing well. So Yesterday I was talking to a friend of mine and we started recalling what we all did when we were in secondary and it turns of I did all of stupid things back then😄😄. As we talk I remembered him making a statement that our principal makes to us everyday and is " the way you make your bed so shall you lie on it" OK enough with the perp talk🤣😂.
The Kinds Of Friends we keep.
They kinds of friends you keep is actually who you really are, if you keep friends that are loyal, then you will be loyal but when you keep toxic friends you end up being toxic yourself. Your friends define you are and what sort of person you are, we all need to be careful of the types of people we accept as friends. And as for me I don't like friends that pretend of who they really are. Your association really matters if you want to make a comfortable and well prepared bed for yourself. It not always easy but you can do it if you know the kinds of friends you have.
The kinds of thoughts you have.
Positive things actually happens to people who think positively, and when you start thinking negative things you start experiencing negative things. And we all know that the world around us is full of negative vibes and mostly people with negative vibes and ideas too, but when you make up your mind of accommodating only people and things that are positive then only that will be coming your way.
I will be frank with you guys even after years that our principal was saying that to us I still have alot of negative thought, just thinking to myself that am not good for anything at all. But where we all are now is time to just have positive vibes and keep only positive people surrounding you.
The Way you make your bed so shall you lie on it.
At times a lot of people will think you are just isolating yourself from people and don't like associating with them, but when you tell yourself that you are just being positive and trying as much as you can to keep and surround yourself with positive vibes and people too. They said is very easy to make 20 friends but only the true ones stay with you to the end of your journey with you and them just helping each other all the way to the end.
Find Yourself.
If you can make a list of your friends will you be able to put your name on the list, so find yourself first and know who you are and what you want. And we all agree that most of the deepest things we want in life,are mostly things we keep secretly to ourselves and don't like sharing it with others because what is a secret and we don't want them saying nothing about it.
So when you know who you are and what you want and the kinds of friends you keep and the kinds of thought you have then I can say you are ready to lie down in the well prepared and neatly arranged bed you made for yourself.
Who are you? That's the question we ask people when we see them for the first time but we see ourselves everyday have we actually ever asked ourselves this same question.
A Poem for my Conclusion
"*Who are you? Who are you?, do we all really know who we are or is just a charade and a facade and a lie that we tell ourselves everyday about who we are, because if we did I don't think we need to look in a mirror to see ourselves everyday on weather we are beautiful or not".*
Written by; Me.
Thanks for Reading.
All photos were taken by me and are all from my Gallery.
..."And The Best Will Come Back To You. Part 1
Date; Wednesday March 2nd 2022
How are you guys doing today? Hope we all are kicking and doing just fine 🙂. And I pray 🙏for more graceful day ahead. So on my post today I want to talk about what Madeline Bridges said and how I understand and many more to.
So she said;
"*There are loyal hearts, there are spirit brave, there are souls that are pure and true, then give the world the best you have and the best will come back to you".*
Madeline Bridges
..."There are loyal hearts"....
We all have different kinds of friends and for me this are my set of friends and I consider then loyal and I am loyal to them too.
The Shy Ones.
These ones don't like talking too much when we are out, they are all the time known as the introvert but secretly we know that when we are just together they can talk like crazy 😜.
The Talkative.
Ooh ooh no, these ones can talk for everyone in the group, they are the second life of the party of the group, they always have information about something and know basically everyone and in my group they are always the emotional ones.
The Emotional Ones
Not that they cry all the time, but they just get emotional when provoked or annoyed and whenever something bad happens to anyone. They don't normally talk alot too.
The Joker
These are the first life of the party of the group, they are funny and make jokes out of everything and are always never serious, very jovial set of people persons. And at times them making jokes is to help them deal with something so the use joke and laughter to hide that.
The Quiet Ones.
OK this ones are very different from the Shy Ones, they are there always but don't talk except when talked to, and not because they are Shy but because they don't like talking and you will never see them get into trouble and they are the kindest and most giving in the group.
The Wannabe Bad Ones.
Not that they are bad, but they want to be,just to prove to us God knows what and will never get into trouble which is the complete opposite of what a bad person is.
..."***There are loyal Friends.."***
I miss every single one of my friends just writing this article, we chat, have video conferencing too but I really miss that face to face arguments we have all the time and talk for hours over not important.
And as friends we have had ups and downs but having a loyal heart and friends that cherish and care so deeply about you I just they most amazing feeling ever.
...."*There are spirit brave..."*
We all have friends that stand their grounds when they are right about something and can stand for you come what may and am very grateful for having this set of spirit brave as friends in my life.
Am concluding with this Poem I wrote for my friends.
"*You are a friend, a brother that knots 🪢cores together, enchanted Is in all our Desires to be friends forever"*
Written by; Me
Thanks for reading.
All Pictures Were Taken and edited by me.
"Tell Yourself Everyday That You Can do it"
Date; Tuesday March 1st 2022
*So you guys I have written this article like three time now, I was not saving the article and on going back to insect my lead image and edit the image before inserting it into the article it gets deleted three times. I was so frustrated with myself today, I was supposed to learn my lesson for the first two times I wrote the article, but I did not and that was how the article just kept disappearing and I could not even restore it. So that was how my day was and frustrated because of it I could not reading any article today because I was just angry with myself.*
So my article today is inspired by alot of things and by some very important people in my life
One Thing That Scares Us.
So we all have that one thing we are all scared of, some are scared of spiders, snakes and some are scared of failure, and I will say we all are scared of failure. Failure makes you feel worthless and useless, it makes you think yourself as a disappointment and a disgrace. And we all know that life is full of ups and downs and we should see this downs as a stepping stone to a better and brighter ups. And @**Telecharm** just said it about right in one of her article and I quote her.
"*failures bridge the gap between the most amazing imaginary lines of my life which are the starting point and end point. The starting point is probably my realizations while the end point are the glorious shadows of a triumphant self"*
My Story.
So it all started out immediately after I finished Secondary school, when our result came out, what we all expected was not what we saw. Even after the reading, the all night studying and prayer what we expected was not what we got. After browsing my result in the middle of the night and after seeing something else, I thought throughout the night of committing suicide and just thought of myself as very useless and a big shame and disgrace to the whole family. The Next morning when my mother came knocking and calling me for morning worship I didn't response, then immediately after the morning worship and breakfast my dad came and knocked too. But I was not yet ready to talk to anyone ever again but he just kept knocking, then I wrote something on a piece of paper and slide it under my door, which he saw and picked.
Then he said it, after a bit of laugh and a big sigh he made the statement.
" ***You are not a Failure, you are my son, you can never be a Failure, don't even think of yourself as a failure because you are not a failure"***
My Dad.
Beat your chest and tell yourself everyday that you can do.
Am concluding with this, tell yourself and beat your chest everyday as a reminder that you can do it and with God everything you put your mind into you can do it, no matter what life throws at you. So as a fan of Poetry I wrote this to cap everything down in this few words I wrote down.
" *Life gives you rivers of Failure, it flows with a very high current, you try to keep yourself afloat and try swimming with the current"*
A Poem by Me....
Thanks for reading.
And all pictures were taken by me and from my gallery.
Am Sad And Happy At The Time.
Monday February 28th 2022
Why Am Sad.
Am a student and presently the whole universities under ASUU, are presently on strike, the government has not meant their demands. So the reasons are just alot, the ASUU are demanding for money, allowances and other stuff they Federal Government is not even looking at their way 😃😃 talk more of meeting their demands 😅. Is actually funny very funny because The ASUU officials and all under them are really serious about this, and the government is just looking at them as a joke. And that is why am sad, is like a Child demanding something from his father knowing and having confidence that the father will provide and look to his needs but then the father just looks as if the child is not serious and maybe that the child is joking 😀. So that's how I see The Federal Government With the ASUU officials. I can't even see the reason why the Federal Government doesn't want to paid, some are saying the money or allowances they are demanding for is just too much and that is why the government is not responsive to their demands and all that.
So the reasons why am really sad is that I Don't get to finish this semester as early as the university calendar said we will be finishing and I really wanted it to finish then I will have spent 3 years in university instead of 4 years. You guys it would have being really amazing if that had happen but the Government and ASUU said no to that secret prayer of ours 🤣😊. But we are actually still having hope and croosing fingers that since is a warning strike they will be coming off after the one month is up 🤞🤞.
Another reason why am sad too or just a little sad actually is because they no longer give light again in the school to the remaining student in the hostel, because almost everyone ran back home from the first day they made the announcement that school will no longer be in session. They way student started travelling that was when I said to myself that student in this side don't like the school and never even liked it 😛. I really missed the noice they usually make in our room, just arguing over nothing and they will just make you laugh for no reason actually and it's really nice having those kind of persons around. Now the hostel is just quiet like a grave yard 🤣🤣.
Why Am Happy.
So there is no way you guys will say we have a month's break of doing absolutely nothing and you folks will telling me you won't be happy. So yes am sadhappy, that's am sad but happy too. To be sincere with you guys there is actually a part of me that's exploding with joy and jubilation for this break and lately it has not being fun so far because of this no light issue. But still very excited about it you don't get to see much people as you use to and I love that, I can't say am an introvert but I don't actually like where there are alot of people it makes really scared and can't even explain why am scared too.
Am also excited because I don't get to attend lectures again for a month you guys, ok ok that's not me being lazy or what ever but the level am in now we do attend combined lectures with other departments, to be specific 7 departments actually, so just imagine a lecture hall of 700 -900 student, the noice, the chatting, the whisperings, and the heat, is just too much. And being someone who doesn't like crowd physically, am really excited for the break some how actually.
In conclusion, am really sad-happy, I can't explain the kind of joy I feel but I feel it and hope you guys had a good time reading this and was full of crap but that's what u have being thinking all day long to write not a good job actually.
Thanks for reading.
@Adobe01
