Date; Thursday March 3rd 2022.

How is everyone doing today? Hope you guys are doing well. So Yesterday I was talking to a friend of mine and we started recalling what we all did when we were in secondary and it turns of I did all of stupid things back then😄😄. As we talk I remembered him making a statement that our principal makes to us everyday and is " the way you make your bed so shall you lie on it" OK enough with the perp talk🤣😂.

The Kinds Of Friends we keep.

They kinds of friends you keep is actually who you really are, if you keep friends that are loyal, then you will be loyal but when you keep toxic friends you end up being toxic yourself. Your friends define you are and what sort of person you are, we all need to be careful of the types of people we accept as friends. And as for me I don't like friends that pretend of who they really are. Your association really matters if you want to make a comfortable and well prepared bed for yourself. It not always easy but you can do it if you know the kinds of friends you have.

The kinds of thoughts you have.

Positive things actually happens to people who think positively, and when you start thinking negative things you start experiencing negative things. And we all know that the world around us is full of negative vibes and mostly people with negative vibes and ideas too, but when you make up your mind of accommodating only people and things that are positive then only that will be coming your way.

I will be frank with you guys even after years that our principal was saying that to us I still have alot of negative thought, just thinking to myself that am not good for anything at all. But where we all are now is time to just have positive vibes and keep only positive people surrounding you.

The Way you make your bed so shall you lie on it.

At times a lot of people will think you are just isolating yourself from people and don't like associating with them, but when you tell yourself that you are just being positive and trying as much as you can to keep and surround yourself with positive vibes and people too. They said is very easy to make 20 friends but only the true ones stay with you to the end of your journey with you and them just helping each other all the way to the end.

Find Yourself.

If you can make a list of your friends will you be able to put your name on the list, so find yourself first and know who you are and what you want. And we all agree that most of the deepest things we want in life,are mostly things we keep secretly to ourselves and don't like sharing it with others because what is a secret and we don't want them saying nothing about it.

So when you know who you are and what you want and the kinds of friends you keep and the kinds of thought you have then I can say you are ready to lie down in the well prepared and neatly arranged bed you made for yourself.

Who are you? That's the question we ask people when we see them for the first time but we see ourselves everyday have we actually ever asked ourselves this same question.

A Poem for my Conclusion

"Who are you? Who are you?, do we all really know who we are or is just a charade and a facade and a lie that we tell ourselves everyday about who we are, because if we did I don't think we need to look in a mirror to see ourselves everyday on weather we are beautiful or not".

Written by; Me.

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