Do We Have All The Facts.
Why do we tend to conclude on matters we have no absolute idea on? Why do we tend to judge people so easily? Why do we believe so quickly on what we see? I am fully aware of the saying "seeing is believing" but Is all cases we see actually what they appear to be or there are motives and ideas behind them all?
I keep on saying that we all are guilty of one thing in life, and this I one of the thing we all are guilty of somehow, have you ever seen something and just conclude on the matter without having all the facts? Have you ever seen someone do something and you start having your own conclusions? Or maybe someone told you something about someone and you just conclude or judge that person?
A friend once said " to hate someone these days one needs connection" and I think he is very correct for saying that, because most people you see and just hate or judge are people others talked about. Probably something bad they did or saw them doing or not even seeing them but hearing from someone, anytime we see such person we tend to judge that person or see that person they way he was painted by others. Have you ever not liked someone you've never being officially introduced to or even have an idea what their name is but because of what others said about them you tend not to like them.
Why hate or judge someone you have no idea who they really are? What can we do for is to avoid such?
Get to know them first.
Don't conclude easily have your facts first.
GET TO KNOW THEM FIRST.
People are beautiful when you get to know and we sometimes forget that, get to know people you were told that are bad people and see if they are really bad people or is just people exaggerating on matters. I was friends with this two guys that disliked each other, and when I say dislike I mean really hate the guts of each other. Just the present of the other irritate the other and vise versa. They once told me that nothing in this world would ever make them friends, we don't know how it happened but they got to know each other and boom they are now best of friends.
So getting to know someone really goes a long way into just judging them base on what others tell you about them. And if you get to know them and know what they really are and you have your facts on ground then with all sincerity you are allow to hate, judge and conclude on matters, hahahahha😂😂🤣 just kidding.
DON'TÂ CONCLUDE EASILY HAVE YOUR FACTS.
Don't conclude on a matter you have no idea on and on people you don't know too. Concluding in a matter is like a judge who doesn't wait for an investigation to be carried out or evidence given or presented to him but he just carries out the judgement. We should not be like that but rather we should have all the facts on ground before we conclude on a matter.
Don't be a judge on a matter you have no idea on, and still on seeing is believing, see and believe in the facts you have and not on what others tell you.
Thanks for reading.
Date:Thursday 24th March 2022.
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This is a sort of reminder for not judging people who we don't know them yet. Don't be opinionated for believing what other people say against those persons. It's not the way we should treat them.