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We can judge malice, jealousy and hater easily. Have you ever thought? we also go though such a State of mind. No matter how extent we have such feeling but we all of us experience it once or twice in our lives. When we pass through it then we realize,that was was jealous or hate.

Two types of people one are those who can judge it easily and they know it well it is jealous. They can handle the satution or ignore it and move on. But another type of people they failed to realize that, it is jealous and hate. They think that this is thier right to show such agression and feeling. This become the part of their personality and consider it right. But infact they are wrong. For example

Identification of jealous, malice and hate is like that,

They don't sake hand

Blamed other

Harm other

Kill anyone just because of hate

All thes expression of jealous but they don't realize it and keep doing wrong thing to squinch their hate fire.

Holy Quran teaching about jealous

In holy Quran, Almighty addressed us to keep yourself away from jealous and hate.

Translation:"O Allah! I seek Refuge with Your Perfect Words from every devil and from poisonous pests and from every evil, harmful, envious eye"

This is prayer to seek Refuge from jealous,hate and malice.

It is enemy of serenity and mental Peace

So as i said,some people are though this soreness,gulity, depression, agression,tempor and hate but they don't realize that what they are doing against their serenity and soul. So you observed jealousy people always under depression. You would never see the light and vibes of positivity from the face of jealousy people.

Infact jealous is soul disease. Where you see jealous there you would see malice and vice versa. They relationship of hate and jealous is sophisticated. Where you would see hate you would see jealous there too. It kill the internal Peace of human. He/she always in anger and depression. He/she hate to see people succeeding.

How we can spot it?

Here are few point and wanna help you how you can spot jealous. What are expression when you have them, then 100% you have jealousy,hate and malice expression.

Cant digest success of others

A jealous man/women cannot digest other pals happiness and success. If you have such type of expression and feeling then,you should understand it this is jealous. Because aggrandize of colleagues you can't digest it.

A popular movies three ediots dialogue" i feel much sad when my friend fail in exams. But friend got 1st position this sadness doubled "

Take over

When you have feeling to take over other good looking thing then this is also jealous. You cant see the better things in other people use or hands.

For example if someone bought new laptop then, you have desire to break it or put water into his/her back. This kind of expression and feeling mainly found in women. That why she has better clothes, lipstick, shoes and watch then me.

In nutshell if you have both these feeling and expression then you have jealous nothing else.

Extreme level

The desire of hate lead to human extreme level. You observed that jealousy people have no balance between verbal and nonverbal expression. Because he is at extreme to get revenge. So he/she has no balance in expressing his/her words properly.

Jealousy lead to extreme leave. Wait anger is manageable but jealous with extreme level is not easily manageable.

Express jealous feeling become fassion

Some people think that this is their right to show ego, pride and hate. Because they said that they are straight forward.

They also consider that this is part of their personality to show agression and anger on some people. In nutshell most of people consider it is like fassion. This is wrong thing

Later it become part of personality. For example a man cross a patato crop again and again a small path become between in crop, same with human if you follow the negative pathway later it become a part of personality and you wouldn't able to differentiate between wrong and right.

How to over come on it?

Not a big deal to over come on it. I am going to write few point and you have to follow them. Soon you would realize this is jealous and easy to overcome on it.

1. Realize

Most important thing is that you have to spot and understand it this is wrong or right. Keep in mind and differentiate it between wrong and right. You should understand it this is jealous,hate and Malice and can kill your soul and serenity.

Untill we would not understand jealous and hate then we wouldn't able to tackle it. To tackle jealousy understanding is necessary. So first step to spot and understand the problem and tackle it in positive way.

2. Hate the thing belong to jealous

Second step to hate those expressions and feeling belong to jealous . Those thing which aggrandize your negative feeling like hate, anger,agression and malice.

Do not allow negetive feeling to be part of your personality. Mentally consider these feeling wrong and killer of your serenity and soul. So keep yourself away from such a feeling and say them wrong mentally and emotionally.

Make gratitude as part of personality

When you say thanks for your blessings. The blessings you got from Almighty. Thanks for everything you have now a days. Something you don't have but you have that thing which other people don't have.

When you follow the strategy of doing thanks for everything you feel serenity and happiness by saying thanks to almighty.

Help others

Also follow the strategy of helping other without sake of greed. When you would help people with heart you would see and feel nothing is belong to you.

If you hold a hand of orphan. Provide him/her basics facilities of life. You automatically feel happy and jealous, hate and malice no longer part of your personality. By diving your food and money you feel better.

Seek help from Almighty

Always ask and seek help from Almighty. He created you and sent you in this world with a mession.

He is best planner and divider of blessings. So always thanks to almighty and pray for your better. Pray to almighty to get rid of these negative feeling.

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First of all you need to understand what is wrong and right. You have trained mind which can differentiate between hate and love.

Secondly you potential to deal with anger,hate, jealous and malice. Never let these negative expression and feel to be part of your body.

You have to avoid all those activities which lead to think you negative and igorne them move on with positive mind. Big drawback of jealous on your body in the form of depression and tension.

So if you want to live happily and peacefully you need to overcome on these negative expression and feeling . With unhealthy mind you can't get success and you get worse and worse . Later maybe extremist. So for god sake keep yourself away from such a negetive feeling.

Keep helping other without sake of favor and greed. Live happily and peacefully.

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