@Aalia
☂☂`°•.¸¸✽ Life doesn't consist merely of extremes ... There are places where dreams and reality meet in perfect harmony The human heart is meant to be such a space ...
@Aalia
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Consistency is the key of success
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@Aalia
@Aalia
Ten lessons I learned in 2022. 1. Silence is the best answer for people who aren't good for one's mental health. It would be best if you stayed away from toxic people. If it costs your peace of mind to be affected, ignore them and never keep in touch with them ever. 2. Stay patient in what you want to achieve. You can be struggling now, and in a couple of months, you can have your best shot at life. 3. No one can save you but yourself. You are your best savior. There is nothing that you can’t win, even your inner demons and anxieties. 4. Staying grateful for what you have makes you a lot happier. Some dreams are not feasible this year but being optimistic about your progress attracts more positive energy. 5. Having alone time for yourself is pure bliss. It would help if you had time to reconnect with yourself and forget the noises bothering you around. 6. When you get older, your dreams and perspectives change. It is okay to settle with simple goals, but you are happier. 7. Never comparing your journey to anyone is self-care. Everyone has a different timeline to take. You are not competing with anyone but yourself. 8. Having a more positive outlook makes a difference in your life. Every struggle that you go through always comes to an end. Suffering is temporary. 9. Some things are not for you no matter how hard you push yourself, but there is always a path that is for you that will indeed allow you to blossom into the person that you always wanted to be. 10. Prayers can move mountains. When you feel no hope, God always makes way for you.
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Do you sometimes feel to go to a place where nobody could find you...not to feel alone - but to feel your own presence, to make yourself strong and to make sure that you can make it even through the hardest? 🍁🥀 Because, every second that we spend with ourselves tells us aloud - you are you and you are yourself once again🌹⚘ Time spent with our own selves is worth spending. Isn't it?🍂⚘ You just got to learn to live in your own company, in your own little world - that's beautiful and peaceful💖
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How can we remain patient when things take longer to happen? Everything in life has a definite time to happen. As we don't know when that time will come, we often get anxious and frustrated when things take too long. Our disappointment often increases when we see our peers way ahead of us in their lives. It makes us doubt our abilities and sometimes even makes us feel that we have lost. We must remember that we can make the best use of time by putting in our best effort, but the result will be seen in its own time. Don't give up if it is taking too long. If you put in the effort, you will definitely see some results. Find ways to utilise the waiting period, learn and update your skills, and prepare yourself to reap the fruits. #patience #grow #fruits #itwillhappen
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Sometimes it just happens, that we're the ones who mixes everything up that put ourselves to a disaster when we feel bad or confused— it's the guilt, the pointing fingers, the expectations, or the fear of failure and rejections. And I hope we could stop doing such things, that we'll be more gentle with ourselves because we deserve it.
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I know how it feels to wait. And I know how it feels when you don’t get what you have been waiting for. And I know how it feels when you wait for so long that it seems nothing is ever going to change. I know disappointment and I know heartache. But I also know that some of Allah’s 99 names are ٱلْمُؤَخِّرُ AL-MU’AKHKHIR & ٱلْمَانِعُ AL-MANI’. I know that our fates are written. That every person we stumble through upon our way is met for a reason. That everything we lose was meant to teach us not break us. That every small and big thing will finally add up. And until it does, may we let our hearts surrender to his will and believe in his bigger plan. Allah, the Almighty, promised to give us until we will be satisfied "ولسوف يُعْطِيكَ رَبُّكَ فَتَرْضَىٰ" So this is a gentle reminder that what you missed was never yours and that what’s yours will find you, no matter how long the wait feels. May this soothe your hearts and mine ❤️
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Follow your own passion – not your friends' or parents’- YOURS! "People with great passion can make the impossible happen." – Jeremiah Say Do you know what you are passionate about? If not... Think of an activity that makes you feel strong, calm, and content. Our inner sense always draws us to things that make us feel calm and content in life. We loose track of time doing it. It comes naturally and effortlessly to us. It is something that most people don’t find easy or fun, but for us, it is the easiest thing ever! You might be the lucky one and enjoy doing many things. That's brilliant! Do celebrate your multi-passionate nature! Often we know what our passions are. We just refuse to accept them. We might say: “I can't be doing that. My Mom and Dad want me to be a doctor.” or "You can't make a decent living doing that..." Our World is changing with more new opportunities becoming available to us every day. What seemed impossible a while ago, might be a fresh new possibility now. It's never too late to allow that happy side of you to come out and play. Follow your bliss and discover your soul purpose, doing what lights you up. This World needs more people who shine brightly! "Don't follow people, follow your passion. Find your passion, and you will find your people." - JM Storm "Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world." – Harriet Tubman Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Keep smiling and keep shining! If you want to have a little bit of fun today, write down 5 things you are passionate about. Sprinkle a bit of passion into your weekend and of course, do some of them today (if you can... or plan to do them later, or both!). Have a super powerful day! ❤
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“When God is about to reposition your life, know that the devil will begin to attack!" True story. I asked God to protect me from my enemies and I started losing family and friends. In prayer I always ask that God forgives me the wrong I’ve done to others, and I ask in prayer that God bless those I have wronged. I am awake, and able to see what I could not see in the past, today I understand that sometimes-real life will take us places we don’t want to go, I thank God that for me it has been in those places where I finally found myself.
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Is being balanced the key to success? Being balanced means that a person is able to align their mind, body and soul. Once this alignment occurs, you feel so strong that nothing seems unachievable. Our mind is the key house of our thoughts. Once our thoughts become positive, our intentions are pure, and we don't allow our minds to wander, the mind becomes calm. When we take care of our physical body and fulfil our survival needs, we bring our bodies into a state of ease. When we live with consciousness, we bring comfort to the soul. With a calm mind, inner comfort and physical ease we are able to make wise decisions, go beyond our capabilities and achieve the success that lasts. If you want to achieve in life, bring your mind, body and soul together, and you will experience life to its full potential. #mind #body #soul #balance #align #unity #together #team
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I find people lonely & beautiful, they are nothing like a piece of garbage as they think they are. They may spend their nights alone, away from the world, or they may cry for the whole night. Still, whenever they meet someone, they meet with a warm smile. Sometimes they pretend, and sometimes they feel that warmth inside their hearts as well. They don't want to hurt someone; they want to help someone who is crying or carrying a dead heart. It doesn't matter what we are in our closed room; outside of it, we're a happy human whose smile doesn't fade. People never see us as dull. They always notice our eyes smiling when we talk about something or someone other than ourselves. Because we're not quite good at expressing our emotions, but we know how to make someone else express and make them say the things thats heaving their heart. We're a good friend and a good relative whenever someone needs us. But when it comes to ourselves, we like to be alone, because we don't want the world to know about our sorrow. We know how to spread joy, but when it comes to pain, we believe that why should someone else suffer while listening to you? Or sometimes we think that maybe our pain & grief are not worth listening to. We think that we don't deserve the love we always give to people. That's why we're lonely but beautiful. That's how I treat someone I meet. Lonely, beautiful
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The night doesn't last forever, even storm runs out of rain, seasons come and go and the sun will always shine again. Only God is unchangeable, everything else changes with time. This should bring you some level of relief, strength to go through whatever you are going through, and hope for better days to come. No matter how terrible your life is right now, be grateful that it won't last, things will get better. No matter how bad you feel right now, it's just for right now, soon it will change. You have to live through the bad days to get to the good ones, you have to endure the tough times to enjoy the pleasant ones. If you give up now, all your labor and efforts would be in vain. You may not feel it or see it today, but in the end, everything is going to be okay. Stay strong, stay tough, stay true, hang in there, this is not how your story will end.
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I am a true believer that IT IS OUR BIRTHRIGHT to have as much money as we wish. If we feel deep inside ourselves the need to have a large amount of wealth, then it is what this world needs us to have and be. Saying that money is evil and then struggling and watching our family struggle financially is a painful experience. No one should go through that. It's much more fun to have plenty so we can give and share our wealth with others. The more we have the more we can give. “Outrageous generosity is the most fun you will ever have with money.” - Dave Ramsey Be that wealthy, generous person with a huge mansion and a loving, giving heart! Pay for your family's education and watch them grow and help others just like you did. Become the first billionaire in your family! Why a billionaire? Because a million dollars is not enough anymore. Global inflation is happening, and mansions are expensive :)) There is always a good time to start looking after ourselves financially. It starts with the way we think and talk about money, with the attitude of abundance. Don't make money your God, that's how you fail in life! Start with learning how to budget and always allocate 10% for a charity of your choice. Nourish and grow your generosity from the very beginning. Even if your income is tiny. It's easier to give $1 out of $10, than $1 million out of $10 million. Your greatness is not in what you have, it’s in what you give. Generosity is the way of being, it's not always about money, it’s your love, your time, and all other small things you do with great love for others. “Remember that the happiest people are not those getting more, but those giving more.” — H. Jackson Brown Jr. “Money is but one venue for generosity. Kindness is an even more valuable currency.” — Alan Cohen “Sometimes when we are generous in small, barely detectable ways, it can change someone’s life forever.” - Margaret Cho Tune in to your soul and decide what matters most to you but remember to share your love in all sorts of ways with others. Because that's where the most happiness comes from and it begins with you, your self-love and self-compassion that overflows out to the world around you. Keep smiling and keep shining! Have a kind and powerful day!❤ #generosity #kindness #love #powerful #youdeservethebest #TheBestVersionofYou #dreambig #keepgrowing
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Want to start a new life? You’re invited!! There is nothing to prevent you from doing that except your own ingrained false beliefs in yourself. You have a belief right now that is preventing you from starting life over right now, because you have a nature, you have a code of conduct, you have preferred methods of thinking that you want to cling to. And the very same time that you value them, you don't want them. Most don’t see this division within themselves. Most are afraid to see it because they have live it so long. Most don't want to consider what life would be like without them as they presently and erroneously conceive themselves. There is only one thing there going on, which is a series of hurts, worries, concerns over what's going to happen next to them. This is all they have. They don't have any happiness. They don't have any escape from themselves. But they can change at any time. At any moment. They don’t have to be stuck in that misery. They can move and let go of the limiting beliefs of how life should be. When we stop forcing limiting beliefs and just be, we start to realize we can be and do what we desire. We have those choices. We just get stuck because we have formed deep roots in those limiting beliefs holding us in place. They hold us captive until we realize we really have no roots. Just two feet to move where we desire. Don’t fall victim. Challenge your beliefs. Go where you wish. Change what you want to. You have the power. Discover it through acknowledgement. #choices #belief #challenge #move #change
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THE POWER OF FOCUS What you focus on grows. And the more it grows the more it controls your life. If all you do is focus on the negative side of life, negativity is all you’ll see everywhere. Focus on what can help you grow, heal and improve your life, everything else doesn’t need your attention.
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Our past teaches us and give us tools for our future. It’s also a lesson and with every lesson there are take a ways. If we learn the lesson the first time we won’t have to repeat the course!! Stop being stagnant in your past and live life to the fullest!!! 💜💜💜
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Can we find healing through our purpose? Deep pain often draws us closer to our purpose because we want to know the actual reality of life. In search for the truth of life, we find the reason for our existence. At that moment, the experience of pain changes into healing. Some situations leave us deeply wounded. We are unable to understand why it happened to us. We then connect with ourselves and are led to our higher self; this is when we experience the bliss of life and all experiences become one experience of life. Embrace every experience as part of life, clear your heart of resentment and connect with your higher self, you will be led to your purpose and, fulfilling your purpose heal yourself. #healing #purpose #higherself
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"Assurance hits different when it's not asked for." Assurance is something we crave for at midnight when the moon tells us bedtime stories about doubt. It is another way of hugging you in the middle of mental breakdown. It is the friend you welcome with wide arms no matter how long you haven't been in touch. And it's overwhelming when you do not need to ask anymore for something you want to have— the affection in a cold breeze, even without sex, just cuddling, knowing that the stars are your witnesses. It is realizing that you do not need to worry if someone flirtatiously talk to him/her, because you know he/she will never entertain them. It is sleeping peacefully knowing that when you wake up, you're still loved. Assurance is taming the demons in your head. And if ever you feel assured right now, thank your partner, for it is rare to find someone who never let the clouds in your head turn into raindrops.
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“Strong women aren’t simple born. They are made by the storms they walk through.” We each have to learn that you can't calm the storm in others, its up to you to become the author of your own story of survival, without fear of other people who judge you only from their own limit and understanding of life. Yes, “I admire people who choose to shine even after all the storms they have been through.”
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Dont you just love how the world works? it leads you somewhere, to something, to someone, at the right place at the right time, it doesnt matter if its place a you want to go, or a job that you really want, it doesnt matter if its somebody you just have to say everything to, the universe will take you there, and when you're there, and the whole world and all of its machinations has finally done its part, when the gears has settled, and the winds of fate has finally locked and loaded to put you exactly where youre supposed to be, it hands you that metaphorical revolver and it says; "Go on, bro, pull the trigger". What are you waiting for?
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A Reminder; You don’t have to be someone else but yourself, to be liked. Wear the colors that you call your own. Be plain, be stripe or paint yourself with a rainbow. Be loud or somewhat mysterious. Be emotional and fragile. Be crazy. Be gentle or be the person who doesn’t care. Be boring. Be fine with things that makes you weird, rather than over explaining yourself from things that makes your own branding. You are who you are including your curves and sharp edges, your birth marks and traumas. You are your own perception. You are amazing, because you are exceptional in your own way. You are loved. You nailed every inch of yourself, your body and your discomforts. You are your own photograph, a vintage—with a beautiful story to tell.
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You tell yourself horrible things, but it's only because the people who were supposed to love and protect you didn't, so now you walk around feeling unworthy, unloved and unwanted. You don't know how to take a compliment and it feels like people are just saying things to be nice. But the reality is you are worthy, you are loved and you are wanted - you just had a rough start with humans who didn't know how to love themselves.
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Do you compete with others to feel successful? To feel successful we need to explore our true potential. This can only be achieved when we aim at improving and upskilling ourselves. When you compete with others your goal is to outperform them. You only try to improve to reach their level of capability. Your capabilities could be more than them. You never get to know your true abilities because you stop once you are ahead of others, thinking that you have achieved success. Competing never leads anywhere. It either gives you a false sense of winning or create self-doubts on losing. Focus on improving yourself. It doesn't matter if you are ahead or behind others, as long as you are happy where you are, you are a winner. #success #compete #focus #selfimprovement #achieve
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sending so much love to everyone who feels like they’re never chosen as the best friend, as the partner, as the favorite. sending love to all of you who have been treated and felt like second best. sending love to all of you who have felt rejected and unwanted. to all of you who have had to try really hard to fit in because you felt like you never will. you are so loved. you will be seen and heard by the right people. you can trust that you are valuable and not defined by other people’s perceptions of you. if someone doesn’t see your worth, it doesn’t mean it isn’t there. 🌸
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In the wink of an eye everything can change. Don't hold on to grudges. Love those who have been given to you with all your heart. Don't wait to make peace. Even those who have walked through your life and are no longer a part of it - remember them Recognize their place in it and give thanks
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"If anyone desires a wish to come true they must first capture a butterfly and whisper that wish to it. Since a butterfly can make no sound, the butterfly can not reveal the wish to anyone but the Great Spirit who hears and sees all. In gratitude for giving the beautiful butterfly its freedom, the Great Spirit always grants the wish. So, according to legend, by making a wish and giving the butterfly its freedom, the wish will be taken to the heavens and be granted."
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No one is perfect. And if you ever think you can tailor-make a person to suit your expectations, You’re in for the disappointment of your life. Your partner will have annoying habits, Your best friend will have irritating flaws, Your family will not always do everything right, And if you love them all enough, None of this will ever matter. You’re just as flawed as they are, And that’s alright. It’s the beauty of being human, To love and embrace all that is flawed.
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Healing is messy. Some nights you get flashbacks and sharp pains, and sometimes you feel nothing. There are days you feel really empty and unmotivated. There will be random breakdowns and countless times of overthinking. It's normal, may it be weeks, months, or years. Don't rush it, be gentle to yourself. Go along with it and learn from it. It's fine not to get yourself together, as long as you tried. You'll just have to keep on going and go through series of realizations and acceptance. Just trust the process and the delays. And one day, trust it, you'll wake up feeling alive again.
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How does believing help us to achieve our dreams? Believing in your dreams means that you see the possibility of success. When we feel something is possible, we don't hesitate to try harder, or else we may easily give up. Sometimes, we want to achieve our dream, but our mind is full of doubts. When the mind is doubtful, it limits our ability. We are unable to explore our true potential and reach even those dreams that have a high chance of success. Believe in your dream; believe in yourself and the process of life. Believing can always get you closer to your dreams, no matter how hard it may seem or how far it may be. #believe #dreams #explore #makeithappen
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“Happiness doesn't lie in conspicuous consumption and the relentless amassing of useless crap. Happiness lies in the person sitting beside you and your ability to talk to them. Happiness is clear-headed human interaction and empathy. Happiness is home. And home is not a house-home is a mythological concept. It is a state of mind. A place of communion and unconditional love. It is where, when you cross its threshold, you finally feel at peace.”
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Your only limit is you. An attitude of "whatever it takes" is impossible to stop! You are what you do, not what you say you'll do. Never dream of success. Believe you deserve it and work for it. "No one can give you heart. No one can give you discipline. No one can make you unstoppable. Those are things you must decide for yourself. But make no mistake, it’s a decision. It’s not a genetic gift. It’s a mindset." - Tom Bilyeu No matter where you are from your dreams are valid. You deserve the best in life and when you believe in it you can create it. Channel to your "whatever it takes" attitude and keep showing up for yourself until what you want is your reality. Rock this world with your unlimited magnitude. You are the Universe incapsulated in one human being! Keep shining bright! Have a super powerful day! ❤ #powerfulyou #powerfulmind #powerful #successmindset #Unlimited
