We all know that desperation is a feeling of really wanting something or of trying really hard to make something happen. It is an emotion about not being able to reach a goal.
Been single, lonely and searching is a good thing, although making up your desperation doesn't make you look attractive to many women, yes being single, lonely and desperate is a good thing. Take it as a sign or a call to action. It makes us desperate enough to look outside ourselves for someone to rescue and save our lives in every sense of the word.
Desperation isn't bad. But if it goes to a place where it disrupts your life to a level where you can't get it out of your head especially when it involves people other than just you then it's bad. That is when you are making what you want to affect other people around you then it is absolutely bad, but when it's just you trying to achieve your goals then its not bad.
Desperation is the key to grow in anything. When you are desperate about whatever you are doing then you are on the right track...when you are so desperate about a surprise, when you are desperate about visiting new places then it's not bad.
Listen, desperation can also have the opposite effect. It can make you feel tired, hopeless, and disoriented. It can metaphorically, squeeze the creative juice right out of you. Therefore always checkmate yourself all time, don't be too eager about anything in life and love life of quite desperation.
What do I mean by living a life of quite desperation??
Living a life of quite desperation, we resign ourselves to dissatisfaction. It is the acceptance of and surrendering to circumstances.
Don't allow your desperation turns to frustration, passive, and apathetic. They're unfulfilled and unrealized. Pay attention to every steps you take. Make your desperation your inspiration to determination.
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Despiration is somewhat I think as a propelling force to achieve greatness, it a motivation and way to proceed blessings.