Egulized

Very often we urge our children not to be stubborn, not to sulk, not to bear a grudge, to know when to reach a compromise. But what would happen if we all refused to be as reasonable and as rational as we are asking children to be?

Speak First and Lose shows us what could happen if adults failed to resolve their differences in an intelligent, thoughtful way. But surely grown men and women would never allow themselves to get snarled up by such trivial matters?