@yoieuqudniram 2 April 2022 more from that month

Married vs. single( money matters)

Let me ask you something, which part of life do you like most, single or married? I never had a job that I can call decent during my single years, I was only a trainee in a pig fatm and I have a salary, no, an allowance of below the minimum wage and I can't even buy the food that I eat though the month but at least I have a compensation for the rice that is consumed in my family. At that time,my life had no direction, I was too prideful to apply on the biscuit company that was near us. I have thought about why apply in there when I finished a four year course? But I did apply after I had my first child. A year after I graduated, I got pregnant and it's the hardest part of my life. But I'll tell you, I love the married part of life that on single. Though everyone of us might have different comments/thoughts on this one, I do respect yours but let me share mine. After due process, char, but I'll call it a miracle when my family agreed for me to marry my husband, I see life better than before. **I now have a purpose in life** Since I have a child, she became my priority and I don't care what people might think but I did everything for her. I took care of her for six months but due to poverty, I was forced to apply in the biscuit factory which has a 12 hour duty. They only have a 6 months contract so I was laid off when my child turned 1. I saw how my child had grown without me so my husband decided that I should stay home and take care of the child. At that time, he had a good paying job and we slowly erected out house one step at a time. We had lots of help, and we proved to our parents that we we are determined to stand by our own feet and what we did, we know that it's not a joke and we cannot come out from it. At the age of 21, I got married, my husband is 23 at that time. We may be young but we know that we have responsibility on our family. Conclusion When I was single, even though I have a little salary, I buy things that are not important. I always buy something and some I don't even use. And thw worst is that I bought cigarettes with it. During my married life, mine and my husband's salary are well spent. It was used to buy food not only for us but for rh ewhole family mine and his side, mils for our babe, and mostly her needs. Money in life is not just about who earns bigger and who spends faster but it's about on what you spend it for and have you spent it to sustain our needs? What about you? On what do you mostly spend money for? Needs? Wants? What part of life do you like most? Married or single? Have you seen your purpose in living yet? What about you singles, what do you thi k you'll like best? Before this ends, thank you to my generous sponsors Hello pretty ladies. This would be all for today, thanks for the read. Keep safe and good night. Lead image is mine.