My Ex-boyfriend is My Boss? (Part 1)
I went outside in our gate to look at the big truck and check it. I thought I had a package to receive. Because, it was stopped in front of my gate. ( All of us will be confused or excited if there is a package that we will receive). But, suddenly, when I stepped outside in the gate. I remembered that we had no relatives in another country. And I haven't received any messages that I have a big order to receive this day. Hmm, maybe my mom?. So, I just waited for the driver to approach me. And that's it, he approached me. He said that, **"Miss, miss, Come here"**. (So, in my mind, the packages are all really mine). Bwahahaha, I'm very lucky today... So, my suspicion is correct. That, maybe, my mom sent that for me. I was shocked, because my mother was too kind to me this day. Aww, she's so sweet, she even surprised me.
Ahhh, By the way. I haven't introduced myself to all of you. Well, my name is **Beatriz Porteza**. I work as a secretary in a big company for 2 years and I lived by myself alone. My family is far away from me. So, I don't have a chance but to work to survive. My parents are sending me away. Because, after I graduated from college 4 years ago. My Mom said to me that, I need to live on my own life. After all, I've been staying at home for 2 years after college. So, I decided to stay away and look for a job. I think, that's all about my life. Let's cut it and discuss it later. hehe
As I approached the driver. I even smiled at our neighbors who were **"chismosas"** who almost raised their necks when they looked at me. Maybe I’m beautiful, so they look at me. Charrr!! Antaas ng fighting Spirit ko. Bwahaha. Because, in the place where I stay, when there is a package arrives at your house, they think highly of your family. You know, those people who like to judge the life of others or wait to be given an **"ayuda"** from you. Tsk.... Anyway, the truck of the driver was in front of me. And asked me, if I was **Beatriz Porteza**. Because, I have a package to receive. Well, in my whole life. This is my first time to received a package. So, in short this is the best day of my life for 2 years of being alone here. I had a good day today, because, the blessings are immediately came to me this morning.
After I signed the paper. I've been asking if where the package came from. But, the male driver said, **"From Shawn Company po ma'am".**
Lol, I thought it was came from my mother. So, I've been sad. My excitement turned into disappointment. Expectation Vs. Reality again. Haysttt. So, I said to the driver, **"Ahhhh, si-g-e po. Thank you, please put it in front of our door".** I said it while frowning.
Then they put it in front of my door. I just waited for them to leave. After a few minutes ago, they left. I still frowned even though I was wearing a face mask. I put an alcohol in my hand first, and poured it into the boxes. After that, I entered it one by one inside the house with a resentment. After, I entered the two large boxes. I went to the kitchen and drank very cold water. Because, I just feel bad this morning, my head immediately warmed up. **So sis, don't expect too much. It can stress you. lol.**
I returned to the living room with a scissors in my hand. Of course, I shouldn't use my teeth in opening the boxes. Char(feeling pilosopo). I wonder what the boxes contains. But, the first thing that came to my mind were papers that I would do. Life of the secretary is very hassle and super hard. It's like I'm about to quit of being secretary. But, finding job is more than harder than my job.
But, when I open the first box ... My eyes widen. As in really widen ....
To be continued...
I will published the **Part 2 of it tomorrow.**
**Can you guess, kung ano ang laman ng mga boxes?** (Comment down below po)
Thank you for reading. Mwapss.
My fictionary sense are working. Hahaha, So, I will work on it..
@whitney123
Hi po. While scrolling sa noise.cash. One of the users there created her read.cash account. I think, we should welcome her. This is her profile link as she posted it in noise.cash... https://read.cash/@Lunah
Thank You and God Bless Us All.
Character Sketch(Epitome of Junzi)
Hello fellas!! It’s Tuesday, July 27,2021. Another brain storming to create an article today. hehehe. I don’t know what should I write. But, suddenly, it pop out to my mind this kind of activity. **CHARACTER SKETCH.**This kind of Activity is very simple. We will describe a person whom you consider as an **epitome of Junzi**. But, before that.. I will explain to you what is the meaning of **EPITOME of JUNZI.**
To Confucius, the junzi sustained the functions of government and social stratification through his ethical values. Despite its literal meaning, any righteous man willing to improve himself can become a junzi.
According to the summit.com. These are the **Seven (7) qualities of junzi**. Leadership have been highlighted including:
a high degree of moral accomplishment
an awareness of moral obligation
a consciousness of being human
a passion for social harmony
an integration of self and others
an illustration of transformation,and
a state of balance
--Remember that this **can be a man or a woman.** We should need to **provide a brief description** of him or her and discuss how he or she has exemplified the ideal qualities of a Junzi. --
**This is the guide in writing Character Sketch.**
**In Paragraph One**: Name, age, physical appearance, style of dress
**Paragraph Two:** family, family background, home, friends
**Paragraph Three:** character traits-personality with evidence
**Paragraph Four:** likes and dislikes of the character
**Paragraph Five:** feelings, voice, fears, values, and behaviour that exemplified the ideal qualities of a Junzi.
So, this is the **character I sketch**....P.S. I'm not god in sketching. Hahaha. Lol
Her name is **Min Sua Yuna**. She was 19 years old. She was a beautiful young lady and a lot of men that surrounds her attract on her pure beauty. She is tall, skinny with a blue shined eyes and a long brown hair. Her skin was white as a snow. (sanaol) Usually wears a purple simple dress and a pair of boots with a mini bag on her side.She came from a rich family, and the only daughter of Mr. and Mrs, Yuna. She’s so lovely and close to her parents. Her mom owns a big business and her dad was the CEO of the company. When she was 15 until 17 years old, she don’t have friends and always lonely. But, when she turns into 18 she met a true friends, named **Curly and Ana**. Currently, she was a college student and she has two close friends that always there to help her and treat each other as sisters since she was the only child.Her personality was a very shy girl, but she loves to help other people especially children. She try to boost her self-confident to become a good influencer to others. When she was young even though she don’t have friends but she always gave her old toys and dress to the orphanage and street children. Her parents mold her to be kind and helpful child and to be a good moral leader to all.
Evidence # 1:
Min Sua was a very quite girl. You don’t even know that she’s already in your side.
(Parang siya, Yung ka chat mo kagabi. Tapos, pagka bukas. Di na nagreply. HAHAHA. chourrrr)
Evidence # 2:
She always gave her old toys and help children in orphanage. She’s very loving and kind person.
Min Sua dislike people who don’t appreciates her presence, those persons who bullies other people and a person who always shouts. If she saw a child or children who was bullied, she always talk and try to solve the problem. She likes to eat sweet foods and macaroni. She loved to hang out with her friends and go to the orphanage to visit children and bring foods to them. **As the years has passed by, she love to serve people and create actions for the betterment of her society.**She has a feeling to become a nun or a **political leader to help other people and to change the society into the better place.** Her voice changed after a months, it become bold and **she used her voice to voice out the rights of the victims,** her biggest fear is to waste her hardworks and efforts for her community and society. Min Sua is the perfect epitome of a Junzi, because she values every people in her society, she speaks for the rights of the victims and tried to change the world into the better one. She have the qualities of Junzi because, she was aware of her moral obligation, has consciousness of being human, a passion for social harmony, an integration of self and others, an illustration of transformation, and a state of balance.
**She is really knowledgeable and always thinks the goodness of others and tried her best to stand, to act and to become a good moral influencer to the community.**
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That's my Character Sketch (Epitome of Junzi).. I hope I write it well. Sorry for the errors. Hehe.
Thank You for Reading. **Now, its your turn to take this activity. :) Goodluck!**
@whitney123
A Summer’s Tale (The Summer Solstice)
Have you ever feels the pain when your love one’s is happy to someone else? Do you still accept the fact that he or she is not yours anymore?
Well, this is my critique about the Filipino movie that our teacher tasked us to watch it. **“A Summer’s Tale”** is a very nice movie that gives us realization in life. It’s all about the couple who wants to have a baby. But the wife has difficulty in giving birth.
This is the vid. It was acted by the student of our school before...
https://youtu.be/5L0PRpuDb1k
Characters:
-**Lupeng(wife)** is a Filipino woman who feels closed to her womanhood, married to
-**Paeng(husband)** , who is doubt loyal to her.
-**Guido(Paeng’s cousin)** came from Europe
This movie produced significant results showing that the **Tatarin Festival** is for women who have a difficulty in giving birth. The one who wrote this is **Nicomedes Marquez Joaquin** who born on May 4,1917 and died on April 29, 2004. He was a **Filipino writer, a historian and journalist also.** He is best known for his short stories and novels in the English language. He is considered one of the most important Filipino writers In English, and the third most important overall, after Jose Rizal and Claro M. Reto.
**This is the flow of the story** (I make it shorter based on the movie I watched):
The couple went to the mansion and greet their father a happy birthday. Paeng’s cousin named Guido came from Europe is also there. That time Lupeng meet Guido for the first time. Paeng’s father told Lupeng and Paeng that he wants to give him a grandson because, he is old enough and whoever will be the first to have a children in the family will inherit his property. But, Paeng told his father that Lupeng(wife) has a difficulty in giving birth.
So, his father suggested to join Lupeng in incoming fiesta named Tatarin Festival.
Tatarin Festival is a Summer Solstice, a short story written by a Filipino National Artist for Literature Nick Joaquin. The story narrates a ritual performed by women to invoke the gods to grant the blessing of fertility by dancing around a Balete tree that was already a century old. It is held during summer in the Philippines. The narrative of the Summers Solistice begins with St. John’s Day, as it occurred in the 1850’s.
They decided to follow the said event of his father to join the Tatarin Festival, so that Lupeng could give a birth. On the day of 24th of June is the celebration of Tatarin Festival. Lupeng and Guido came and after a while, the ritual is started, so Lupeng joined in the dance together with the girls. Paeng watching his wife Lupeng enjoying dancing while suddenly Guido(cousin) had come.
**Paeng had an emergency meeting so he told Guido(cousin) that he is the one who will take Lupengs home**. In 11th day of October Lupeng is finally pregnant and Paeng is so happy that he will become a father. When the weeks has passed by, Guido’s friends and neighbors had an issue or topic about Lupeng and Guido. So, **a friend of Paeng told him that he is not the real father of their child but it’s Guido.**
Paeng very mad at them and he doesn’t believe what they’re saying all about was true. Because he knows that Lupeng (wife) will never do that stupid thing to him.
In other side, **Lupeng told Guido(cousin of Paeng) that he is the real father of the baby because on that day after the ritual they made something miraculous.** So, they decided to leave before Paeng catch them.
But, Paeng suddenly bump down in front of their car and they all went outside, trying to explain about the situation. But, Paeng can’t control his emotion, he hold a knife and trying to kill Guido(his cousin) but in the last part the knife threw away. They rumble each other and Paeng took a rock and throw it to Guido but before he will made it, **Lupeng(his wife) took the knife and push it to Paeng’s body.** Suddenly, Paeng laid down and Lupeng cried loudly and loudly. Saying sorry, she didn’t mean any of this and it’s all an accident, and that night Paeng died….
**But, that’s not the end of the movie…….**
**On the 24th day of April, the day of Tatarin Festival,** Lupeng woke up with the gaze in her face and take a deep breath. Paeng ask Lupeng what happened to her, and Paeng told her that **it just only a nightmare.** Be ready for the Tatarin Festival and **Guido appeared in the room so Lupeng feel nervous**. Paeng brought a gift for Lupeng **which is the red dress that she wore in Tatarin Festival (during her dream).**
So, Lupeng screamed because she knew that her nightmare will might be true…
----------------The End----------------
So, the story is all about the Tatarin Festival. It is a very romantic as well as creepy. I can say that love can kill someone else. It can cause argument and misunderstanding. The literary criticism is Feminism that’s all about the role of Lupeng, it emphasizes her dream about the Tatarin Festival.
The main theme is St. John’s and Tatarin Festivals, which is The St. John’s Festival is about men and their fertility, which seems quite vulgar to Lupeng and makes her start to realize how she wishes women could be seen in the same way. The Tatarin Festival is the exact opposite, showing women as leaders of fertility since they carry children. This festival is the last trigger to make Lupeng feel as though she is stronger than a man and deserves adoration.
Based on the movie my insight is love can kill someone even though it’s your family or siblings. It’s important to care our virginity and give it only to our love ones. As a girl or women, we need to be aware and be mindful of the people around us especially boys or a circle of friends of ours. Because, we cannot predict the mindset of them even though it’s our family, relatives and close one, as long as BOYS.
As we can see in the movie they wanted to have a child but Lupeng has a difficulty in giving birth. Many women who can’t give birth but, because they trust in Tatarin, so they do joined the ritual and participate because they wanted to have a baby.
It is represented a “stereotypical notions of masculinity and feminity”,a two difference between genders and the hierarchy that bound the two sexes. It is a tale of a triumphant woman because of Paeng’s submission to Lupeng and the portrayal of women’s reproductive role that made them the rulers of men.
**We need to be careful of our fertility and virginity as a woman in the society.** Be mindful of that, because this story tells us that we need to be alert and never trust ourselves to someone else that we didn’t yet met or knew. Man will do all the things for his love ones because love is like a lightning, beautiful but painful. There is no fear when we choose love. The more we choose love, the more love is in our life. It gets easier and easier.
**“Let’s wake up to the truth. Things in this world are temporary. Be loyal to your love one’s, be truth to him/her”**
Thank you for reading. Hoping that you can also watch it in youtube. **“ A Summer’s Tale”. I** paste the link above .
Write your overall critique about it in the comment section… God Bless Us All.
@whitney123
The Little Whitney: When I was a Kid
This is my entry to the challenge of ma'am @bmjc98 named **“Getting To Know You More Challenge: When I was a Kid”.** This challenge is one of her thanksgiving I think? To her, 1st Year Anniversary on her First BCH Platform. So, if you want to participate on her challenge. Gora na mga lods.
I was hesitate before to join, because, I don’t know where to find my childhood pictures. But, I was trying to find my old pictures in the internet (on my cousin’s albums). But, I can’t find any old pictures of mine when I was a kid.
Hahaha. Then, suddenly I remember that we don’t have cellphones or social media before. So, I ask my mom where she puts the old albums. Just in case to find it there. Actually, I had my old pictures before. But, it was lost or misplaced.
Anyway, let start this one. But, first of all. **Can you guess where am I in that picture?**
Hehehe **(I hope you can guess)**..lol
---Yes, I am the one who standing and wearing a pants and a shirt. Lol. I don’t know why my mom let me wear that one. It’s just like a **“jejemon” or “boyish style”.** HAHAHA. In that picture, it was the birthday celebration of my cousin. So, we gathered together there.
**So, when I was a kid. I really:**
**-Love to Play With My Neighbors**
We used to play with our neighbors. Usually, what we played was house-to-house or (bahay-bahayan), cooking using cans with water and leaves inside. Then, we also played traditional old games. As far as I remember, we also used the wrapper of the candies as our money. HAHAHA.
-I Love to Take a Bath in the Rain
Mostly, all the children before. Wanted to take a bath in the rain. It is a part of the childhood memories. Because, we don’t have any gadgets before. So, we really enjoy this kind of scenario. When it starts to rain, I will make a paper boat immediately, wait for the rain to fall. Then, get out of our house and run outside. **(Ginawa pang shower ang yero).** HAHAHA.
-I Want to be a Lawyer
When I was a child. I want to be a Notary Lawyer, because, I do really love to take a signatures. Yung parang office office noon. Hanggang, I pursue it as my job career. I know it is hard. But, all I need to do is study hard and believe in my capabilities and skills.
**-I Love Candies and Chocolates**
I really love eating candies and chocolates. Hahaha. That’s why, my teeth now are not that kind of a perfect teeth. Just because, of the sweets before.
**-I Usually Save Money**
I created a mini bank with the use of any plastic bottle or a bamboo. Every small amount I put in my mini bank. I always said that, I will buy a cellphone, new dress, a shoes and so on. But, after another day. I will get it and buy candies. HAHAHA.. Hay naku.. Bata nga naman.
-I Always Play Paper dolls, Jackstone and Chinese garter
When, I enter in Grade 1. I brought a paper dolls outside in our school. I also played jackstone and Chinese garter. HAHA. Chinese garter is very famous before. Every recess time or free time, we play it.
**-I’m so Iyakin and Matampuhin**
We are 7 siblings and I am the fifth one. The first 4 siblings are boys. And I am the first girl, followed by our youngest boy and a youngest sister. As a little girl, I’m so moody and always crying. In just a small thing, I will really cry if someone will get it. And when someone tease me or hurt me. I always cry. HAHAHA. But, I’m a sweet little girl. And I am a Father’s girl. Hehehe
-I Hate it When Someone Stares at Me (I’m so Mahiyain)
When I ask my mom, she said that when I was a kid. I will cry when someone stares at me. Lol. I laughed so hard and it’s so weird that I have this kind of personalities before. Basta, takot ako sa mga tao daw noon. And I guess, hanggang ngayon. HAHAHA.
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You know, I have many more childhood memories. And, I’m so thankful to ma’am @bmjc98 for this challenge. Because, I was able to find my old pictures when I was a kid. It’s just like, I go back in time by recalling memories before. Especially, with my old pictures. Every old pictures from the album. It gives a lot of enjoyment and happiness. Childhood memories is the best!!
It's nice to be a kid. That feeling that gadgets weren't fashionable back before. Just the old game like, habol-habulan, and many more. Hopefully soon, I will really teach or tolerate my children what does the real life of children before without gadgets. Until they will not enter in Highschool. Or I will just limit the usage of gadgets to them. So that, they can really enjoy the life of being a child or a kid.
Now, its your turn to take the challenge of ma'am @bmjc98 named **"Getting To Know You More Challenge: When I was a Kid"**
Thank You All. And God Bless. Mwapss ..
@whitney123
The Beauty of the Philippines
I'm not active here for a days. Just because of my diabetic condition and my skin asthma. I have hard time to focus in writing an articles. But, I just try'n my best.
I want to share how beautiful the country I grew up. And that is the **Philippines**. In this article I called it as **“LAKBAY-SANAYSAY”** or also called **“travel essay or travelogue”**. Which refers to the essay in which our idea comes from the places we visited or explaining some of the culture, experiences, beautiful places, foods or other things that we can see in the places we wanted to write an essay about it.
**As a Filipino, I am really proud of our country.** The beauty of it, (mga kayaman), foods and other various beautiful sights of the country where I was born.
The **Philippines** is known as a country with the various ethnic groups and cultures that we can find in every corner of the country. The Philippines is an original member of the United Nations. The official Republic of the Philippines is an independent state and archipelago country in Southeast Asia located in the western part of the Pacific Ocean. We all known that it **consists of 7,641 islands** divided into three clusters of islands namely: **Luzon, Visayas and Mindanao**. Which we can see as the symbol of the three stars in our Philippine flag. The capital city of our country is Manila and the most populous city is Quezon City; pawing part of Metro Manila.
Now, let's travel and tour the beauty of the Philippines!!
Did you know that when you come or visit here in the Philippines, all the people or Filipinos here are really **maka-tao, maka-Diyos, makakalikasan at makabansa**… (You will never get lost here, because wherever you go in the Philippines, the Filipinos are always ready to guide you and greet you with a warm greeting). **Agree mga kababayan?**
Because, it is one of the characteristics of the Filipino to be **helpful**. What we usually call this one is **bayanihan**.
**Bayanihan** is usually an event when there is a big task to be done in a short time. Everyone works together to make the difficult task easier. This is usually done during the planting and harvesting season and when moving a house to another location.
**Some of the beautiful sights** that you should definitely visit here in the Philippines, when you want to relax and enjoy the clean beaches are:
**PALAWAN and BORACAY.** This are the two of the most beautiful beaches in the world.
----**Palawan** is located in **Puerto Princesa City.** Clear turquoise waters, epic limestone cliffs, and fine sand can be found here. Puerto Princesa really boasts their Underground River which is a UNESCO World Heritage Site; Big and Small Lagoons of El Nido; and Kayangan Lake of Coron. Due to the beauty of this province, it has been nominated several times as the Best Island in the World by several International travel magazines.
-----**Boracay** is famous as one of the most beautiful islands in the world. The sand on Boracay’s White Beach is pearly white and powdery! The water is shiny cerulean in color! Boracay is also famous for its fun nightlife.
Many tourists want to go here. So, All I can tell to you is that you really need to visit here if you are going to the Philippines, so that you can really discover its beauty. There are so many more beautiful places you can visit here in the Philippines. In parts of Batanes, in Cebu, Ifugao, Bicol, Siargao, Zambales, Bohol, Vigan and so many other beautiful places.
Now, we will go to the **beautiful scenery of the Philippines.** Some examples of these sights are the:
----**Mayon Volcano** which is conical in shape because it is very sharp.
----**Taal Volcano**, a volcano that is in the sea and the former member of the “7 Wonders of the World”. The very small volcano but dangerous.
----**The Hagdan-hagdang Palayan** or the Banaue Rice Terraces.
The **Philippines is full of islands that possess many beautiful scenery because the Philippines is an archipelago**. The Philippines is so beautiful, that no matter where you go, you will stop to take a pictures. **There is no need to ask how to encourage tourists to come to the Philippines, because of the beautiful places here**. Hehe. Also, the **traditional foods here are so delicious. Mabubusog ka talaga sa murang halaga.**
In Miss Angeline Quinto's song which is, **"Piliin mo ang Pilipinas",** she expresses the beautiful scenery that is visited as well as the culture of every Filipino.
Not only will you discover beautiful scenery, you will also be amazed at the culture, customs and delicious foods of the Filipinos.
**So what are you waiting for! Come on, let’s travel and tour the beauty of the Philippines! PROUD PINOY!! IT’S MORE FUN IN THE PHILIPPINES !!**
Thank you for reading.. Comment your thoughts about your country.. Mwapss..
@whitney123
Hello. Good Morning to all. I just want to say thank you for my new sponsor @Codename_Chikakiku. Thank you so much lods. God Bless Us All. Mwapss. Padayon lang.
Emotional Intelligence and Power of Minds (Exploring Emotions Challenge)
I just want to share this one. Since, controlling our emotions nowadays are really important to us. **Our emotions and mind are connected.** And our emotions are organized responses, this are feelings that both have cognitive and behavioral components. This was my reflection on our lesson before. So, I tried to create and article about it.
Our emotions are highly affects our mind and it tells us who we are.
We are exhibit emotions **voluntarily** which means **we can control** our emotions. **Involuntarily** means that **we can’t control** our emotions and it is beyond in our expectations.
We are experience emotions at different level of intensity. This **intensity** is about how strongly one feels emotions.
**Positive emotions** are pleasant and it helps every individual in performing social relationships or support systems.
**Negative emotions** are very unpleasant and feeling discomfort but it helps people to avoid dangerous activities or events.
It is important to know our emotions in order us to function our mind well and we can make right decisions that can lead us to a right path. Self-awareness brings with it the skill for self-reflection. When one recognizes an emotion, there is also a desire to get rid of it. ***We need to manage our emotions, we are often have a very little or no control when our emotion occurs and what this emotion will be.*** **Hope** is the **major indicator of emotional intelligence and optimism** is a great motivator.
There are **eight families of emotions**:
love
anger
sadness
fear
shame
enjoyment
surprise and
disgust
To sum it all **emotional intelligence** is also the evident in the way we manage our relationship with others and it affects our physical and mental health, our work performances and relationships. **So, we need to control it and always look in positive side.**
I tried this game or challenge named **“Exploring Emotions”.**
***(If you want to take this challenge. You can do it also. :)***
**INSTRUCTIONS**: You need to Compile a picture of you through a selfie of **Goleman’s eight main family of emotions.** In each picture, discuss ways on how you managed that emotion. Pero, pag walang pictures. Pwede din sa google. Put the source lang.
Here's my entry... Please, excuse my facial expressions.hehe.. Pampa good vibes lang mga mamsh.
P.S. I just try to browse my previous pictures to insert it here. Medj natamad akong mag shot eh... So, hanap na lang sa gallery. Hehe
**Disgust**
When I feel disgust of something, I try to avoid it and find a way to control this emotion. But, I usually vomit. Haha.
**Love**
In managing this emotion of being in love to the somenone, I acknowledge the truth, accept that it takes time, go forward, open for possibilities and opinions. When I feel the love of my family, I am happy and overwhelmed. I always look forward and spend time and cherish it.
**Angry**
When I am angry to somebody, I always talk back and argue if I know that I am right. But, not always because this time when I’m in the maturing stage, instead that I will talk back, I walk out and go to my room to listen music and sleep.
**Sad**
When I’m sad, I went outside and watch the sky, like I always did this at night. Watching the stars and moon makes me relieve and feeling okay because being silence makes me to reflect something and I feel the fresh and cold air at night. Also, playing my guitar and pray.
**Fear**
Ito talaga.. Hahaha... My greatest fear is to answer a question in the class recitation,then, I don’t know the answer. But, I try to overcome the shaking and being nervous. I try to calm and answer it of what my mind thinks. I love to speak and I’m a good speaker but, when I don’t know the answers that’s the time that I feel the fear. Hahaha. And honestly, I'm afraid to fail.
**Surprise**
When someone surprised me, my emotions are happy and overwhelmed. Like, I want to cry or I don’t know what to do. But, if I we're surprised by something negative, my feelings of anger, despair or unhappiness will also intensify because of the surprise. But, I can manage this by calming myself.
**Shame**
Everytime I feel shamed, I cried and hide it to people. But now, I know how to handle it. By standing and be confident and act like, there’s nothing wrong happened and stand like I’m not affected.lol.
**Enjoyment**
When I feel to enjoy something, I feel happy, calm, and in good mood. I might express these feelings by smiling, laughing, or indulging myself. I managed this, I just go with the flow by being enjoyed but, knowing also my limitations. Dahil sabi nga nila. Too much enjoyment can cause trouble.. Tama nga naman. Hehe
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**That's the end of the challenge. I hope you know or identify your emotions everyday**. Minsan, mahirap ito e control. Lalo na pag grabeh talaga ang impact neto satin.
Keep calm and made something or find a ways para maibsan ang negative emotions.
**Now, I dare you to take the challenge. Pampa good vibes lang sana. Hehe....**
Thank You for reading. God Bless.
@whitney123
2 Years of Moving On
**Break ups are so scary**. Imagine, you gave everything to that person. I mean not in material things. **Let's say, your trust, love and comfort**. You spend your days, months and years together, building memories, doing cuties stuff, then one day you'll wake up living your own life again. All of it turn into untrust, unlove and uncomfort. :(
**Have you been in a relationship who last for a months and years?**
Entering in a relationship is very hard. Because, we need to adjust all the personalities he/she have. We need to accept the flaws and everything. Lalo na pag super mahal natin ang isang tao.
In my case, I enter in the relationship for the first time in my life before. I don't think the consequences kung mag e-enter sa isang relationship. Loving someone is unexpected...Di natin alam na unti-unti na tayong na fa fall sa isang tao, lalo na pag mabait. **Naniniwala pa din ako na mas iigting ang kabaitan kaysa sa kapogihan o kagandahan..** Trust me... :) .. Kaya sa mga single diyan. Kahit di tayo famous o super ganda. We deserve a man/woman who will accept us and love us in terms sa attitude or personalities natin.
I do inlove to his personalities ,dahil mabait siya masyado and napaka commited na tao. I already published my article about my first love. Try to browse it in my profile if you want to read it.
You know.. I feel contented and happy everytime we talked together.. Iba talaga kasi pag nasa relationship, parang buo ang araw mo.. Dibah? Since, first time kong mag enter ng relationship.. May mga bagay na need talaga na e adjust. Gaya ng ORAS. Oras para sa isa't-isa.
Habang tumatagal, we can feel talaga na hindi na kami kagaya noon na always masaya, na always may time sa isa't-isa, or ano pa man yan.
Untillll.. One day... He leave me... Syempre, I don't know what to do that time kasi alam niyo na.... First time ko na maranasan ang break up. Daig ko pa ang mga pinapanood kong drama sa emosyon ko, nung pagbasa ko sa message niya na **"LET'S END THIS".**
Sakit nun.. Di ko alam ang dahilan, pero sabi nga nila sa una lang masaya. I tried my best na ibalik ang dati. Pero, wala na eh. **Di na kaya, kasi ako na lang nag ho hold on... Napapagod din ako..**
So, I decided na... Kung yun talaga ang desisyon niya. I will accept it.... Tanggapin na lang. What should I do? Kung ayaw na ng tao sakin?..
**Leaving in a a relationship does not call immaturity. If you're hurting, you're not happy anymore, you're just always adjusting, and your feeling, your partner is getting tired of you, it's only right that you let go. We don't have to be fragile all the time....**
But, kahit sabihin ko always na kalimutan ko na siya.. Mag mo move on na ako. Tama na... Pero, still he pop up in my mind... Ganun talaga pag break up. Dahil, mahal natin yung tao.
Sabi nga nila. "**Every First Love.. Meant to be Broken... "**
As months were passing by after our break up. I tried to stand up again. Yun naman talaga dapat. Bangon ulit. Wag tayo magpapa apekto sa break up na yan. Tandaan natin. Lumilipas ang panahon. *****Hindi sa lahat ng araw, mag stick tayo sa PAST natin. Moving On and go with the flow na lang.*****
Sometimes, we need to let go of the person who doesn't see our value. Because the more we make them feel that we love them, they can tolerate us because they knows we can't tolerate them.
So, I decided na **mag take a break sa social media**..Para, di ko makita ang mga my days or mukha niya... Hahaha. Yun yung way ko. Nag try akong ayusin sarili ko.. Mas nag focus ako sa studies, family at sa sarili ko..
I'm cold to everyone. Nag tu-turned off chats na ako. I don't want to receive any messages. In short nag i-ignore messages na din ako. I'm losing my self to talk into someone. Di na din ako nag fifirstmove. I don’t want to be soft-hearted(pero di kaya).
I'm pretending na okay ako. I don't like jamming. I don't want lumabas sa bahay..
Minsan, sa totoo lang. Mahirap maging mabait, kind, mahirap maging soft- hearted... Because when I did all that. I am the one who was lost, abused, abandoned, forged, forgotten, hurt and deprived. :)
But, I'm thankful.. Dahil dun sa break up. Mas nakilala ko sarili ko. Naalagaan ko sarili ko. Mas nag matured ako. I know how to make a right decisions sa buhay.
So, in **2 years of moving on. I found myself happy and change.** Di naman sa ano ha..Pero, nag glow up talaga ako. HAHAHA. Legit talaga, pag mula sa break up. Unti-unting gumaganda ang tao.
Dahil, Inalagaan natin sarili natin. Dahil, mas namulat tayo na. Mag look forward at natutunan na mahalin ang sarili natin.
I've learned a lot in my first love and in my first break up. Though, masakit. Pero, may lesson na nakuha. Moving on,takes time.. Wag magpapa apekto mga sir/madam.... Trust the process..
**I'm happy now.... Happy ako bilang single. And, I don't want to enter in the relationship again. I promise it to myself. Unless, I will become a Professional. Gusto ko settled na lahat, bago ako mag enter sa isang panibagong relasyon. :)**
**--It’s very important to learn how to be okay on our own. We have to learn how to lift ourself up when we fall and wipe our tears when we cry. Having a person who's always there for ud is truly great but we can’t depend on them always.--**
-Pano kayo nag move-on? (Share it in the comment section)
Thank You for reading. Thank you so much for those random users here na always naga support sa akin. Kahit, di talaga ako good in writing. But, still you support me and mas na e inspired ako na sumulat ng sumulat. I love you all!! God Bless. :) Mwapss..
@whitney123
I Found the Unknown Guy in My Dream
Dreaming at night is a kind of reality and fantasy. I had this dream about the guy whom I never met before in my life.... But, suddenly he appeared to my dream. Who is this mysterious guy in my dream? Why he appeared and how I found him?
But, what does **DREAMING** means? Is it **good to dream at night**?
Everyone dreams anywhere from 3 to 6 times each night. **Dreaming is normal and a healthy part of sleeping**. Dreams are a series of images, stories, emotions and feelings that occur throughout the stages of sleep. The dreams that we remember happen during the REM cycle of sleep.
**Dreaming sometimes gives us happiness and sadness.** Sometimes, dreaming makes me cry. Unexpected crying... Every mysterious dream I had. I really try to find it.. Like, money or any things. Kahit, alam kong di totoo na may pera sa cabinet ko , sa kamay ko, or kung saan pa nakalagay ang pera sa panaginip ko. Pero, hinahanap ko talaga. Malay mo, totoo pala. HAHAHA...
**One night, I had a dream about this guy. As far as I remember in my dream, we have our fieldtrip. I don't know the people in my dream. Basta, masaya kaming nag travel papunta sa isang lugar na di ko alam.**
That time, wala talaga akong kaibigan nun. Bale, **ako lang ang nakaupo sa likuran ng bus.** As In!! Ako lang. Tapos lahat sila nasa harapan. Ilang seconds siguro is dumating na kami sa isang bundok...
Pagbaba ko pa lang ng bus. **Biglang sumulpot ang isang lalake sa tabi ko at binuhat ang maleta ko...** Di ko alam sa panaginip ko, hinayaan ko lang din na buhatin niya gamit ko.
Sa panaginip kasi natin. Di tayo ang kumokontrol niyan... Pero, naalala natin ang bawat detalye ng panaginip natin. Minsan, nalilimutan din natin ito o ang ibang parts sa panaginip natin. Dibah?
He put my things sa gilid na kung saan siya magtatayo ng tent niya. Di ko na nasundan ang next na pangyayari after nun. Dahil, biglang umiba ang setting..... Paligsahan na ata yun. Di ko alam, pero naglalaro na kami nun. Team Game yun siya. Masaya naman din ako... **Paglingon ko, ay nakita ko siya nakangiti sakin....** Hanggang, naglaho ang lahat at umiba na naman ang pangyayari. (Kung saan saan lang talaga ako nakaka abot sa panaginip ko)
Naka form of circle kami nun and katabi ko siya. Kung sino daw yung magkatabi is magiging partner. Di ko alam ang activity nayun. Basta, nagtawanan lang kaming dalawa ng mysterious guy . **Mabait ang mukha niya, habang naka smile sakin. He, suddenly speak and introduce himself.** He is ********** ***** ....
Di ko sasabihin ang pangalan niya for his privacy... Hanggang dun lang yung panaginip ko about sa kaniya. Di ko na matandaan ang kasunod... Di ko man lang nasabi ang pangalan ko... **Until, I woke up in the morning. And, I still remember his name...**
Ako naman tong si curious...I do search in the google. About..
**What does it mean when you dream about a mystery guy?**
According to **Astrology Cosmos(2020)**, **By carefully analyzing everything that happened in the dream and things that are going on in your waking life, you can figure out what the unknown stranger in your dream actually meant. He might symbolize a feeling or support that you want in your waking life, or he may represent a desire to spice up your romance.**
**What does it mean when a random person is in your dream?**
According to dream analyst **Lauri Loewenberg, the sometimes random people that show up in your dreams often represent situations in your real life that are weighing on your mind.**
**What does it mean when you dream about a guy you've never met?**
**If you're dreaming about the guy you've never met and he materializes in a 'secret admirer' form, there IS a chance that your subconscious is telling you that you're missing out on something, once again, but this time, you're missing out on something that is happening around you.**
And many more. Madaming lumalabas. Pero**, I don't know kung yun ba ang tunay na rason.** Suddenly, one thing pop out in my mind.
**I do search his name in FACEBOOK....** And.......
I found himmmmmm!!!!! I found the Guy in my DREAM!!! I can't believe it that he really exist in this world!!
His face and his smile in his fb profile picture is the same to my dream. **I add him and stalked him.....**
I think he is a transferee in our school. Since, his school is the same in my school...When I was Grade 7 until now. I studied in a University. So, di ko talaga siya kilala. Di ko siya nakikita sa school namin even before. And Guess what?? Same kami ng Grade!!
Until now, I didn't chat him. But, he already confirm me in facebook....
**I really want to tell it to him. Kaso, baka maging mukha akong tanga o baliw. I know na , di siya maniniwala or baka kung sasabihin ko ang about sa dream ko, baka ano pa man ang sabihin niya sakin.**
Pero, may mga katanungan pa ang namumuo sa isipan ko hanggang ngayon....
**"WHY HE APPEARED IN MY DREAM?**
**"SINO BA TALAGA SIYA?"**
**"BAKIT NIYA SINABI PANGALAN NIYA SA PANAGINIP KO"?**
at madami pang iba.... But, I'm happy, dahil totoo siya at nahanap ko siya.
--Pero, Sino ka ba talaga??...
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Thank you for reading... God Bless. :)
Please, comment your thoughts about my dream...
Marami pa akong ibabahagi na mga Panaginip ko...
@whitney123
The Guy I Met In Litmatch
Another story I had . I know some of you know already the **Litmatch app.** Which we can talk to other persons. But, as strangers only. Hehe. Did you try to install this app also?
I do installed this one, when it was appeared in Facebook Ads. Haha. Yes, I really admit to myself that... I'm not interested in talking to other people. And lahat ng mga message ko sa messenger ay puros GC lang (Group Chat). Lol. Ganun na ba talaga basta single? Awtsss..Hahaha.
So, wala nang pa ligoy-ligoy pa. Punta kaagad sa Play Store. Search the App. Download and Install it. Hahaha. Try try din nating makipag friends sa iba. During katapusan na kasi ng klase, I don't know what to do before. I mean, what else should I do to eliminate my boredom. Syempre, wala nang stress sa studies... So, before I encounter the K-dramas or any movies. I do first discover the **LITMATCH APP.**
But first.... What does LITMATCH APP mean??
According to the litmatch site...**Litmatch is about meeting up new friends and having fun, where leads you for a new friendship relationship by providing diverse communication tool.**
In Litmatch app, its just like a facebook. Maka upload ka ng mga pictures. Kahit ilang pictures ata pwede. Di lang maka upload ng mga videos. Maybe, para iwas mga bastos na vids. Alam niyo na, madaming pasaway. Maka upload ka din ng mga kanta. Bale, voice sounds. Madami din ang makaka rinig.
May mga pa singing contest din sila each room na papasukan mo. Basta, the best na app for online socializing.
One time, may isang guy na nag message sakin ng "**hi**". Syempre, nag rep ako ng "**hello**".... As what I said before, di ako mahilig makipag socialize. Kaya, di talaga ako nag fi first move uyy. Hahaha. Minsan nga, di ko alam kung ano e reply ko. Kaya, siguro hanggang ngayon. Walang tumatagal na manliligaw sakin. Kasi, napaka shy type na nga. Tas, torpe pa at napaka neutral lang. Takot lang talaga kasi ako masaktan. Charowwtt. Ah, basta, wala akong gana sa mga love love na yan..
Back to topic....
Nag send siya ng mga random questions. Then, mag pick lang daw kami ng numbers na may questions. Bale, getting to know each other kung baga. Hahaha. Mautak din naman siya. Siya na ang nag provide ng topic namin. Parang expert na ata kasi may baon na mga random questions. Hahaa
Ayunnn, doon nag umpisa ang lahat. Umabot kami ng 1 month na pag-uusap sa app na yun. Sa 1 month na yun, mas napapalapit loob ko sa kaniya. Lol. Hahaha. Basta, sabi nga nila. Kung sino daw yung kausap mo palagi ay ma fa fall ka daw. But , pinipigilan ko sarili ko noh. Hahaha. Mabait kasi siya..Super.
After a month, naging inactive na siya sa litmatch. So, he decided na e add niya ako sa fb. Comfortable naman ako. Magaan na loob ko.So, ayun. Kahit nahihiya. Inadd niya ako at nag message na "**paki confirm ako".**
User name niya doon is Kyros... In real life naman is Jayson. Daming Jayson sa mundo. Hahaha... Kahit, doon na kami naga chat sa messenger. Di nawala ang dating pag treat namin sa isat-isa. At mas doon ko pa siya nakilala sa totoong buhay niya.
Actually, napakatalino niya pala. Graduate na siya sa isang University. Bale, college na siya this School Year. Naga gym din siya. Kinwento niya din sakin kung bakit na discover niya ang pag g-gym. Noon daw kasi, palaging may problema sila sa pamilya niya, lalo na sa parents niya. Kaya, na depress siya and he don't know what to do those hard days he had. Suddenly, his friend told him na mag gym daw siya. Instead na mag over think or magpa apekto sa problema. Why he will make things na magiging hobby na niya at makalimutan ang problema. So, ayuunnnn. He tried and naging hobby na niya.
He also want to be engineer soon. Antaas ng pangarap niya. Lahat man siguro tayo mataas ang pangarap..Dibah?
Parang kilala ko na ata buong pagkataon niya. Pati sa ex niya, sa dating buhay niya. Hahaha. Madaldalin kasi. Like, halos lahat ng sekreto niya. Binabahagi niya sakin. Ummaaayy. Ako naman is todo cheer up na lang. Bigay ng mga life lessons. Para may ambag din naman kahit papano. Hehe
One night, umamin siya sakin mga mareeeeee...
Sabi pa niya. **" Handa naman akong magbago. Dahil nagbabago din naman ang tao"**
My heart fluttered, pero hindi pwede. Dahil, napakalayo niya uyyy. Taga Luzon siya. Mindanao ako. Tapos, pangit din naman kung sa online lang maging kayo. Di talaga formal... Tapos, sino ba naman ako para magustuhan niya? Hahaha. Mas okay na sakin na hanggang kaibigan lang kami...
Sabi ko sa kaniya... "**Okay naman magkagusto Ky. Hehe.. Pero, Aral muna tayo... Siguro, pagtapos natin sa college. Yun na siguro ang right time Ky. Mabait ka superrrr, at may pangarap sa buhay. So, sino ba naman ako para hindi ka sagutin. Dibah? Perfect guy ka na nga eh. Nasabi mo na lahat sakin......."**
Natakot ako nun, as in.... Kasi baka masira friendship namin. O magalit siya.Pero...
Nag rep siya na.... ***"Okay lang Whit, kahit di pa ngayon. Basta isasama kita sa mga pangarap ko"...***
That timeeeeeee.. Di ko alam ang feeling ko. Masaya na takot.
So, to summed it all. Kaibigan lang talaga kami. I know, in his journey.. Maka hanap siya ng right girl para sa kaniya. God knows... Ayokong pangunahan. Di ko hawak ang desisyon niya...
Naranasan niyo na din ba na may ma inlove sa inyo. Tas, di ka pa talaga ready sa love chuchu na yan?
So, if you want to have a friend to talk to... Try niyo mag download ng Litmatch App.
This is just my experience. Dami ko nang nasabi. Hahaha.
Pero, wag niyo talagang sabihin mga private info niyo sa kanila ha. Bahala na kapag sila ang nagsabi ng mga private information about sa buhay nila. Wag lang tayo. Para panigurado. Wag basta basta maniwala. :)
Thank you for reading to my nonsense article. Hehe. Mwaps. God Bless Us All.
@whitney123
Good Morning. Thank You ate @bmjc98 for the sponsorship. Salamat jud kaayo. More Power and More Blessings to come. God Bless ate.
Thank you for renewing the sponsorship ma'am @Janz. Super late na ako nakapagpasalamat. Ngayon lang kasi nakabalik. Thank You so Much po. God Bless and More Power. ❤
I really miss you all! I didn't write anything here for a week ago. Just because, I got sick and I really need to recover. My body was so weak and I do vomit everytime I ate my meals. Those days was so hard for me. So guys, Please, take care yourself. Napakasakit at napakahirap ang sitwasyon if magkasakit. Kasi, instead na ibili ng pagkain ang pera. Ibibili na lang ng gamot na sobra pa sa isang kilo ng bigas. Haysttt. So, keep yourself healthy and sleep in the right time. :) I will try to be active here again.
I Spend My Time in Watching K-Dramas
Hello K-drama Lovers. This is just a short experienced I had everytime I watched dramas. I started to watched K-drama's or Korean drama last year. During Quarantine Days. Hehehe. Actually, I don't watch Korean drama before, but, Chinese Drama. Hehe. I do first watch it in the Ads in facebook. Suddenly, I searched the title of the Ads and starting to watched it.
But, before that... **I really miss you all!** You know, chika chika muna tayo. hehe. I didn't write anything here for a weeks ago. Just because, I **got sick and I really need to recover**. My body was so weak and I do vomit everytime I ate my meals. Those days was so hard for me. So guys, **Please, ingatan niyo health niyo. Napakasakit at napakahirap ang sitwasyon if magkasakit. Kasi, instead na ibili ng pagkain ang pera. Ibibili na lang ng gamot na sobra pa sa isang kilo ng bigas.** Haysttt. So, keep yourself healthy and sleep in the right time. :)
Anyway, back to topic....
My youngest sister recommend me some Korean movies to watch. She really fan of watching Korean dramas. And I also tried after I finish the Chinese movie I watch.
**The difference betweence the Chinese and Korean drama is Korean dramas focus more on visuals, OSTs, and chemistry, also in history and personal story, I think. And, usually it has 16 episodes every movie. Then, Chinese dramas focus more on the story, ancient and fantasy. Chinese dramas have lots of episodes. Literally.. . More than 30 episodes every movies. So, sometimes, I do bored in waiting the next episode. Super dami kasi. Hahaha. Unlike sa Korean Drama, 16 episodes ay tapos na kaagad. Minsan bitin ang ending, minsan choks din naman.** :D
You know, watching movies is very interesting. It gives us pleasure and enjoyment. Like, it really entertained us if we are bored or we are alone. **Para naman sating mga single. K-drama K-drama na lang muna tayo. Hahaha. Dun lang tayo kinikilig eh. Dibah? :D**
As the days, weeks, months were passed by. I found myself adapting the Korean words or what can I say what Koreans usually do. Really! Haha. Like fashion, how they talk, gestures and many more.
Actually, as what I observed in Korea, family is very important. Just like in our culture. Then, taking exam for the University is the most important exam they need to take. I do have a Korean teacher, who send me a lot of files in learning Korean Language. Then, I have a friend in Korea whom I talked everytime. His in highschool and he wanted to pursue Engineering. But, he had a hatd time to choose, between music and engineer. Hahaha. He is so friendly. :)
In Korea , they have three systems in terms of Education. Which are:
Elementary- 6 Years
Middle School- 3 Years
Highschool- 3 Years
University
The same in our Education System. But, the junior and senior high was seperate. 6 years also in highschool. Hahaha. Just sharing my knowledge.
**Korean movies or dramas are not only about love chuchu. But, if you seek the real theme or lesson of the story. You will be inspired. I do take note the best line in Korean movies that can help me in everyday life. Bale, life lesson kung baga**. I know, sa mga K-drama lover diyan. Dami niyo na din natutunan . Dibah?
But, guys. Wag masyadong magpa sobra ng watch ng mga movies ha. Limit limit din. Ang iba kasi, last episode na lang to promise. Pero hanggang 3 Am gising pa. Hahahaha. Wag ganun. I do admit in myself na ganyan ako. Last ep na lang. Pero naka dalawang ep pa. Pero, di ako umaabot hanggang 3Am or in the morning. Limit ko talaga na mag watch ng K-drama is 11PM. Pero pag busy ako, di ako naga watch. Syempre. Uunahin ang mga need na uunahin. Personal na obligation.
K-drama Lover ka din bah?? What is the best movie you've been watched? Suggest or recommend me new movies. Any kind of genre. Like horror, funny and love. Yieeee..
I think, that's all for today. I just miss writing an article.
Thank You for reading . God Bless and Keep Safe.
@whitney123
Lack of Sleep? Short and Long-Term Effect
For past 5 days, I didn't write an article. I just give myself a break. hehehe. **Mahilig ka bang magpuyat?** Well, you **MUST** **read** this one. I really write this, to give you all a **WARNING or AWARENESS** , because I know, that.. We as a writers or what should I say.. A read.cash users. We are trying to finish an article for a day. Or doing something another stuff. Just like personal work or studies. Lalo na pag night shift ka.
I just read a thread in Facebook. About lack of sleeps. And I know that, it really strikes me the most. When, I read the thread. Parang lahat ng effects kasi is na experience ko na. Because, I admit to myself that even before. I usually sleep around 11:30 PM or around 1 AM. Dahil, sa studies and heavy tasks work.
When, I read the effects of it. Medj, kinalibutan ako. And, I do also, read and explain it sa family ko. Especially in my siblings. Dahil, mahilig talaga silang magpuyat. I want to give them AWARENESS for the goodness of their health also. Because, I want them to help themselves to sleep early and give time to realize about **TIME MANAGEMENT**.
Nowadays, napakahirap magkaroon ng sakit. Dahil, even magpa check up ka lang. COVID na kaagad ang resulta. I don't know what happened sa society ngayon. Parang mostly, ng tao na nagpapa check-up is may Covid na kaagad. Di ko nilalahat ha. But, it was based on my observations.
So, let's start this one. **MAHILIG KA BANG MAGPUYAT? Please do finish reading it until the end.**
Sleeping at night is so much important to us as HUMANS. We used to sleep 8-10 Hours. As what the docotors said. Most adults need 7 to 9 hours, although some people may need as few as 6 hours or as many as 10 hours of sleep each day. Older adults (ages 65 and older) need 7-8 hours of sleep each day. Women in the first 3 months of pregnancy often need several more hours of sleep than usual.
Getting at least 8 hours of sleep can improve our immune function and help fight the common cold.
**One night lack of sleep won't put us at serious risk. But, one week of lack of sleeps can**. So, think about it. **HOW MUCH MORE IF WE HAVE LACK OF SLEEPS EVERYDAY?** So hard to recover.
Lack of sleeps has two consequences. The **SHORT-TERM** and the **LONG-TERM**. Take time to read this as I discuss it.
Let's discuss first the **"SHORT-TERM" .** Short-term is panandalian lang na mga effects. It can affect your...
**Weight**
**Mood**
**Memory Issues**
**Trouble Thinking and**
**Concentration**
Now, Can I ask you??
--**Naranasan mo na bang kain ka ng kain but, di ka tumataba? or Kain ka lang ng kain. Nahihirapan ka nang mag diet.** Like, you eat a lot of foods but, you didn't gain weight or any fats. Still, mapayat ka lang din?
Kasi ako? Opo. I experienced that one until now. Di ako tumataba. I thought my metabolism are too fast that's why di ako tumataba. (**A fast metabolism burns calories at a quicker rate, which explains why some people can eat a lot and not gain extra pounds.)**
But, my thought was wrong. The cause of it is lack of sleeps. Sa sobrang busy sa studies ko. Natutulog ako around 1 AM or 2 AM in the morning. I do sleeps for 3 or 4 hours only everyday. Haysttt. I do feel sorry for my self before.
Next is.
**--Naranasan mo na bang biglang nagbabago ang mood mo sa di malamang dahilan??** Yung, biglang naging masaya ko and after a while, galit ka. Daig mo pa ang may menstruation. Hahaha.
Ganyan ako eh, biglaang mag change ng mood. In short MOODY. Haystt. Buti na lng talaga single ako. Walang magtatampo. Charott.hahaha
--**Naranasan mo na din ba na kahit paulit-ulit mong basahin, hindi mo pa rin maintindahan?**
Yessss. Ako talaga to. May mga times that, I do keep on reading and reading.But, I don't know what was the meaning of the text I read. Hahaha. In short LUTANG.
**--Naranasan mo na bang mag memorize pero at the end, nakakalimutan mo pa rin?**
Yes of course. Lalo na pag masakit ulo ko dahil sa kulang ng tulog. Di ko talaga ma memorize ang pinag-aaralan ko. Haysttt. Mas n e estress lang ako lalo.
That's it!! Because, the cause of short-term are...
**Madaling mahilo**
**Madaling magutom o nawawalan ng ganang kumain**
**Insomia that can lead to depression**.
Next is the **"LONG-TERM",** where it will put you into a **SERIOUS RISK** which will affect your health.
To make it summarize, here are the **long-term effects of lack of sleeps.**
**Dumps you down, this makes it more difficult to learn efficiently.**
**Affects your judgement.**
**Can lead to serious heart problem.**
**Depression.**
**Makes you forgetful.**
**Losing your gain weight.**
**Weakend Immunity.**
**Ages your skin.**
**May increase risk of DEATH.**
-Kung ang dahilan ng pagpupuyat mo ay **kaka-cellphone, laptop, games**.. It is **MORE RISKY** because of **RADIATION**.
So, **MAGPUPUYAT ka pa ba??**
I want to live happily without any health problems. But, naumpisahan ko na eh. The thing that I need to do is to **SLEEP** at the Right time. Kasi guys, Please remember this one.
**"SLEEPING AT NIGHT IS VERY DIFFERENT AT SLEEPING IN THE DAY"**
Magkaiba talaga ang pagtulog sa gabi at sa umaga. Kaya, give time to rest. Lalo na babad na babad tayo sa trabahao at sa gadgets. Mahirap na magkasakit dahil sa puyat. Sleep at the right time and get enough rest to recover your body. Health is the only wealth that will never ever get from us if we manage and care ourselves. :)
I hope you learn something from my article. God Bless You. More Power. Thank You for reading.
Comment your thoughts. I'm Glad to read it.
@whitney123
Day Dreaming is Good to Our Health?
**I just want to write an article about it. Because, I also experienced this one when I'm alone. But, do you think that Day Dreaming is Good to Our Health? Well, maybe?**
I know that you also day dreaming. Am I right? And Mostly, when we want something or like someone. Choosssss.. Hahaha. I also did that too. Actually, one time. After I take a bath. I do comb my hair at the mirror and Day dreaming something. Like, I do talk at the mirror by myself. Hahaha.
Like, I just created a scenario coming out from my mind and then suddenly, I just talk and act it . Parang nag mo- **MONOLOGUE** ako. Do you know what is that?
Let me explain what does MONOLOGUE means...
So, **MONOLOGUE** means that we talk alone. Portraying more than 1 character. It is a type of speech in which a character tells his or her thoughts to another character or to an audience. Monologues are used in various media such as plays, films, animations , etc. Yung nagsasalita tayo mag-isa tapos we act as 2 or more characters. Hahaha. Basta, medj baliw. Charoottt...
Daydreaming not only boosts our creativity and problem-solving skills. But it also helps us to concentrate and focus on a specific task. This can help us to work our mind and boosts our skills. It helps Our mind wander to thoughts and areas that it might not wander if we had not set aside time for daydreaming...
**So, What are the benefits of daydreaming?**
What I have read as I browse about this to GG. There are, **5 Positive Effects of Daydreaming..**.
**Daydreaming Lessens Stress and Anxiety.**
**Daydreaming Helps You Solve Problems.**
**Daydreaming Uses Diverse Parts of Your Brain.**
**Daydreaming Helps You Reach Goals.**
**Daydreaming Expands Your Creativity.**
According to **futuremindslab (2018**). **Daydreaming improves creativity**. Neuroscience research has shown that mind wandering lights up connections across a series of interacting brain regions known as the default mode network **(DMN)**. This network is most commonly active when the brain is at wakeful rest, when it's planning the future, or focusing inwards.
**It is really good in our mental health. Because, Daydreaming is a sign of intelligence. Mas lumalawak ang ating imahensasyon.**
Everytime I'm bored or alone in my room. Then, unexpectedly. I just daydreaming. Mostly, in my wanted career and also about my love ones. Hahaha. Mas gumagana ang mind ko everytime I daydreaming.
**Actually, it helps me to eliminate my boredom. To be honest, mas bet ko ang day dreaming. Kasi, I really thought it was a reality. Like, mas naga boost ang confident ko , nagbibigay motivations na mag push lang sa life. Hahaha. .Promise nakaka-inspired talaga. Lalo na sa love ones natin** **and sa future life natin.**
Like, kunware nagkita kayo, then. Nag-uusap. Hahaha. Tapos, we portayed two characters. Nakaka aliw din naman. Mas nawawala stress ko at minsan nakakalimutan ko problema ko. Pero, ang day dreaming is unexpected. Biglaan lang talaga yan. We don't plan it, then, ang mind na natin ang mag work on it kung ano ang situation or scenario. Hehe.
I used day dreaming to escape my problems for a short period of time. Kasi, we can get solutions in day dreaming eh. And, it can provide a quick method to get away from reality, it can also be a healthy method for dealing with certain situations and ideas.
**Pero, wag naman always always ha**...Parang timang na tayo niyan. Hahaha. May mga **negative signs or effects** din naman ang pag day dreaming. Always remember that.
**“Daydreaming is incredibly normal, but excessive daydreaming can be a symptom of a larger problem,” says Mollie Volinksy, a licensed clinical social worker who provides trauma-informed psychotherapy.**
**According to Everyday Health. The Negative Aspects of Daydreaming** are..
"One way in which daydreaming can be harmful to your way of life is if you do it too much. There is a time where daydreaming can be useful and productive, but other times it can cause you to loose focus and forget important information. If you are at work or trying to complete an important task, daydreaming can interfere with your productivity and cause you to either slow down or stop completely for a matter of minutes. If your job consists of operating heavy machinery, daydreaming can even be harmful to your health if you allow it to reduce your concentration.
Daydreaming can also be harmful to your mental health if you are constantly having negative thoughts. While most people daydream about fantasies and other desirable events, others might be daydreaming about doing something harmful to themselves or others. There have been many cases of suicidal people driving along the road and daydreaming about crashing into a tree. Sometimes, these types of daydreaming fantasies can be rather involved with a great deal of detail. It is almost like a plan rather than a fantasy. When it involves something that could cause harm, daydreaming is likely to be a detrimental quality."
--Ohhh dibahhh?? May negative effects din to sa health natin. Both positive and negative effects. Kung baga, wag nating abusuhin ang day dreaming. Kaya, wag mag day dream always always. Hahaha. Can you imagine, day dreaming everyday?? Hahaha. I can't talagaaaa, na e imagine ko na parang baliw nako if always akong nag daydreaming. Hehe.
Instead, use this sometimes, to escape the reality para maka relax mind natin. Many people find this to be an ideal stress reliever after a long day of work. This can also be a stress-relieving technique after a major argument with a friend, loved one, or even after a traumatic life event.
So, Day Dream if needed talaga. Charoottt.
Hmmmm..What are the things that you keep on day dreaming?? You can also share it in the comment section.
Thank you for reading this article. Mwapss. God Bless You My Friend.
@whitney123
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I Don't Want to Become a Leader!
**I've been thinking this school year that I don't want to become a LEADER. I don't want to be stress and take responsibilities again this coming school year.**
**Do you think this kind of decision is good?**
Well, when I was young. I really want to become a leader. And, I can say that. I was born to be a leader. Charoott... hehehe. I started this kind of responsibility when I was in Grade 3. I can admit to myself that I am a shy type person. But, my mom mold me this way. My parents always let me joined at the **Student Supreme Government.** Everytime, there was an election in our school. I always run as Councilor in our party.
I was afraid that time. Really afraid. Because, you need to speak at the stage in front of a lot of people. Giving speech and motto chuchu. Hahaha..
**"Good Morning Ladies and Gentlemen. I am Whitney chuchu. Running for Counsilor, under the banner of Facebook Party!! Blabla chuchu..** " Hahaha.. Nakaka irita pakinggan. Until, I graduated in Grade 6. I always won every election. Maybe, because, nakikitaan nila ako ng potential in terms of leadership skill? Hahaha. I don't think so.
**What does LEADER means?**?
--Leader is the one who leads people in a good way or bad way. A leader is someone who work towards goodness for the betterness of his group. Who can see how things can be improved and who rallies people to move toward that better vision and making vision into a reality while putting people first before his self.
**All of us can be a leader. And I know. That, we experienced being a leader in our life. Am I Right??**
--Being a leader is so hard. Because, if the people know you that you are a leader before. They, will choose and choose you. And syempre. Nakakahiya na ma fail tayo as a leader. Kasi, nga leader tayo. Tayo ang inaasahan.
But, to become a good leader. It will always start sa sarili natin. By being a good moral model to them, being responsible sa lahat ng bagay, may disiplina sa sarili, marunong mag desisyon kung ano ba ang mas nakakabuti sa ka iaangat ng grupo at sa komunidad. Dibahhhh?? We take great responsibilities.
Until, I enter in Highschool. Every groupings. They always choose me. Because, of my background. I'm not that student na napakatalino talaga. Pero, I don't know. Why?? they always choose meeeee to become a leader in the group even I always refuse it .
Nakakapagod maging leader. Legittttt..Tapos, napaka gastosss.
You know, When I was in Grade 11. They choose me to speak and become a leader again. One time, I refuse it. Dahil nakakapagod na. I also want na, sila naman maging leader. Give chance to others kung baga. Para maranasan din nila kung ano ang feeling maging leader. hehehe.
In our Practical research sub. I am not the leader. Like, nagsabi talaga ako na. Ayaw ko kasi. Di ako okayyyy. Di ako stable. But, at the end. Ako lahat gumawa. From the title hanggang matapos. Realllyyy!! I do cried to them. Dahil, napakatamad nila. Pati defense, ako lang ang nag dedepensa sa research namin. Tapos ang mga panelist is napaka sensitive. Daig pa lawyer. Grabehhhhhh!! Ayunnnn, umiyak ako. I do chat themmm. Na pleaseeee kayo naman. Umiyak din ako sa teacher namin sa Filipino Research. Sa Grade 11 kasi. Tatlong subject ang may research and we need to comply it all.
Ang pinaka mahirap ay yung mag chat ka sa mga teachers na mag check sa mga questions namin para sa mga participants. Mahirap din humanap ng participants lalo na't online. Then, paulit ulit kong ginawa ang research paper namin. Dahil, may mga need alisin, ayusin after magpa consult. Bastaaa, nakakapagoddd ... May mga sub pa na need gawin ang taskksss.. :(
I'm so stressed talaga.. Until, I realize na.
**Ayoko na maging leader. I want to try to become a normal student. Yung, kukunin ko lang part ko. Ganun.. I don't want to lead again... Ayoko ma stress and ma pressure sa lahat lahat....**
**I just want to do my part and I'm free. I want to try it. But.....Howwwwww??? Paanoooo?? Kung, mostly sa mga kagrupo natin. Is pabuhat lang .. Syempre, no choice tayo minsan. Para na lang din sa grades . Hahakutin na lang natin matapos lang ang lahat .. Dibahhh???**
Kaya, this School Year. I didn't run as **Board Member** or other positions in HUMSS Council. :) . I also pray na sana.... Di ako maging leaderrrrr muna this S.Y. Kasi, ayaw kong ma stress ehhh... Gusto ko matulog sa tamang oras. Unlike before, I do sleep around 2 Am or 3 Am . Then, magigising around 6 Am Para magklase na naman. Kaya, always akong inaantok sa klase naman. Napakahirap talaga ang online class . Pressuredddddd talaga.. Kahit, gawin mo sa tamang oras. Pero, di pa din sapat.
Kinakaya din naman para sa pangarap. Hehe. That's why. **I DON'T TO BECOME A LEADER AGAIN THIS SCHOOL YEAR. I DON'T WANT TO BE STRESS AND TAKE ANY RESPONSIBILITIES. GUSTO KO MAGING FREE MUNA KAHIT THIS SCHOOL YEAR.**
**I WANT TO GIVE MYSELF A BREAK..** :)
So, Do you want to become a leaderrr?? Or what was your feeling being a leader??
Thank you for reading. God Bless ..:)
@whitney123
I Need Water To Breathe
All of us needs water. Because, we can't live without water as one of our basic needs. I don't know if I am the only one who can experienced this one. In our life, we don't expect the worst thing that might happen to us. Especially, the different illnesses in our body.
Water is very essential to each one of us. **Can you imagine living in this world without water??** Hahaha.
**Of course NOT.**
We really need it to lived. **Water** is very **important** to us as humans, especially in our body. Every one of our cells, organs and tissues needs **water** to eliminate with temperature regulation.
It also help our body to keep on hydrated and maintains our bodily functions. Dibahhh? So, Drinking **water** is very great for our overall health.
**In line with me. I really need water for emergency. And what kind of emergency of it?**
It was all started when I was in Grade 4. Recess time ata yun. I wasn't naughty before, I was just sitting in my chair at our classroom. And, Suddenly, I felt pain in my chest. It's like I just caressed it to get rid of it. It also disappeared after a seconds. So, I thought it was normal. Pinabayaan ko lang.
By the way, I was an athlete when I was in Elementary, until I was in Grade 9. I just stopped being an athlete when I was in Grade 10. Because, I had an **appendix operation.**
When, I was in Grade 5. I experienced pain or pinch in my heart again. I thought, I was just tired of playing in my sport.
**But, I always seem to feel the pain in my heart**. I just scrape it off, to get rid of it. **I drank water as I held my chest and slowly breathed to catch my breath.** When I drink water, unti-unting namang nawawala ito. So, I always bring water in my bag. **When I was in Grade 6. I told this to my parents because, I always feel it. And I find it harder to breathe because when I breathe, my heart hurts more.**
They said that, **they still need to save money for my check up and medication.** Because, if we will go out for check up. We know that there's a lots of medicines to buy for sure. We don't have money for my medication. I was also afraid of getting sick or having a disease. My parents went to my aunt to let her borrow money. But, they don't even help us. So, no choice. I just carry it until when we have money. But, until When??
Until one time. I don't have enough water in my water tumbler. And I need to refill it again. But, my heart suddenly hurt again. **I need water to breathe. I can't speak because I can't breathe. However, I insisted on asking my classmate for help. But, they thought it was just my joke. Until, they realize that I'm blushing or redish, because, I can't breathe anymore. Everytime I breath, my heart hurts. I need water to disappear or eliminate the pain.** That's all I need... A **WATERRRRR**!
Until, when I enter in Highschool. I don't even know what kind of disease or pain I experienced in my heart**. I always bring water wherever I go. In case for EMERGENCY.**
One day, this pain I experienced was getting worst. I can't breathe because, my heart will be in pain. So, I drink water. Everytime I experienced this one at home. My family always help me. Quickly, get a water and help me to drink it. Then, one will get a chair. They always help me. Like, they know what will they do.
The longest minutes that I didn't breathe well, was long as 20 mins? or more than that. I don't know how to survive this kind of pain I haved.
Until now, I'm a Grade 12 student. But, we didn't go to the doctor. But, I always save money, so that, I can help myself to my medication if ever. My parents don't have enough money for bringing me to doctor. I just feel sorry for them. For giving them another burdens to carry. :(
Anyway... Even, I have this kind of unknown problem or condition in my heart. **I'm scared also, to know what kind of disease I have. I'm so scaredddddd!!! Really scaredd! Haysttt.**.
But, as long as I have water in my side. I Know I can Survive.
I'm scared to the day. That... You know. :< Haystttt...
I know that **GOD** will never leave me. He will always here to guide and help me in my heart condition. Because, I know that God had a plan for me.
**I will write more to earn for my own medication soon. I know, that one day. I will breathe freely.**
**I NEED WATER TO BREATHE AND TO SURVIVE THIS PAIN IN MY HEART.**
So, what does water serves for you??
Thank you for reading. God Bless. Mwapss!!
@whitney123
I Find Peace In The Rain
Rain? What is the connection of rain into peace? Why I can say that , **"I Find Peace in the Rain"?. I know some of us find peace while raining. Because, the sound of the rain makes us feel calm. Well, maybe?**
One day, I just feel tired of our situation. In terms of Academics, family , friends, financial and everything. Most likely, in this crisis.
As what I said in my other article that I didn't share my problems to my parents because, I don't want to add other burdens to them. I just find another way to lift up my self. We can't deny the fact that we can experienced problems in our everyday life. Because, that what life means. Its up to us if we can handle it or overcome it by our own selves.
**Rain is just a weather that can carry heavy floods**. Lol. But, we can find peace out of it. As far as I remember, I went outside looking pale and tired. I sat in the rock near in our house. But, away to crowded people. I really need time to lift up myself that time. I keep on thinking, how we can solve our life problem? Why does the world become being like that to us?
Many questions that stuck in my mind. Like, I'm hopeless and stressed. I just cry alone. It so hard seeing your family suffering for being poorness. **Seeing my parents stressed because of a lot of debt due to hardship of life before. Until now....:<.** We, as children of them. We cannot control ourselves also to not be in emotional. Because, we become affected by the state of life we have. Haysttt..
I also spent a few hours outside while sitting. Staring at the surroundings while being pale. I had been there crying and talking to myself in the air for a long time. I also prayed silently. **We really need to pray. Because, God never leaves us in terms of our biggest storm in our life.. We just trust God and strengthen our faith to Him.** We can't escape our problems, if we, ourselves do nothing or we just lie down. Dibah? **We need to work on it and by calming our selves.**
Then, suddenly the clouds become dark. And the rain starting dropping in my sad face. I just sit and didnt move. Like, di ako magalaw talaga dahil sa problema. Nakakapanghina ng katawan ang problema. Legit.
When, the rain become heavy. I just stand and walk in our house even my shirt was wet. I just passed by in front of my parents. I can't look at their faces. **Kung tayo ay naapektuhan. Pano na lang sila? Mas mabigat pa ang dinadama nila dahil sila mismo ang may problema kung paano tayo mabubuhay.Haysttt... Kung sino sino na lang inuutangan para may pambayad ng ganito ganyan.** Dahil, kahit naga work si papa. Di talaga sapat ang pera ehh. Haysttt..
I enter in our bedroom. And sat behind the window. I look at the rain and suddenly, I just closed my eyes. **Finding peace and trying to calm my mind. I listen to the sound of heavy rain and that one distract my problems. I find peace out of it.**
Then, suddenly... After an hour, I feel sleepy. So, I lay down in bed and my mind keep on swaying just like with symphonic lullabyes. And, I already fall asleep.
That's why, everytime theres a rain.
**I lay down in the bed, get a headphone, click the lullabyes soft music and put in the air. Close my eyes. And, I find peace.. I can say that listening to music while raining is my greatest comfort.**
I often listen to rainstorms while I'm in pain. Distracting thoughts competing for my attention. Every rhythm can be used in many areas of our life.
According to **Emily Mendez, MS, EdS** **“Rain has a regular, predictable pattern,”. “Our brain processes it as a calming, non-threatening noise. Which is why there are so many relaxation and meditation videos that feature the sound of rain.”**
So, if you have problems. Deep problems. Just listen. Listen in the rainstorms and suddenly you can fal asleep with the cold weather. :) . Try to calm your mind even in a short period of time. Because, the sound of the rain makes us calm.
**Did you find peace in rain also??** You can comment it in the comment section.
Thank You for reading. God Bless.
@whitney123
I Hate My Siblings!
I don't know how to start this one. **But, I really hate my siblings!** Especially, the one who's next to me. Have you also feel the same thing to me? Like, we hated our siblings just because they are so toxic to us? They don't respect us as elders to them?
As a sister. I always do all the things for them. For the goodness of them. I have one younger brother and one younger sister. Since we were young, I took care of them, as our mother's helper. **I don't know why, they are like that to me. They just keep bullying me even before.**
Hindi naman sa bully, but they are hurting me. You know, when we we're young. My younger brother always punch me everytime. The things that I have or I like the most will be also liked him. He will get it to me. I do fight back. But, at the end. I am the one who will always feel hurt.
My parents also, become stressed to us. Because, we always fighting. My mom always discipline my little brother but, he never listen to her.
Until, we are both in **Senior High School**. I can't deny that we are in the stage that we need adjustment to ourselves. I do hated when someone will annoyed me if I am busy enough.
My younger brother, which is A Grade 11 student now this coming School Year. He don't even know how to wash his brief and clothes. We always said to him that we will never ever wash his clothes. Because, he is big enough. Lol.
Then, one time. We dont wash his clothes for a week. Still, he didn't wash it. **Until 1 month! He was so lazy enough! .** I really hate him! We just wait, when he will wash his clothes. Grrrr.. Until, himala! He did wash it. Buti nga sa kaniya at natauhan siya..
The worst reason why I hated my siblings. Because, they **don't respect me** as their sister.
They always talk me back...Grrrr.. One time, my sister, I mean Our youngest sister(bunso). I borrowed her slipper. Of course, I let her know, because she will be really angry if I don't ask permission to her. Then, it took me a long time to get back because, I actually looked for my own slipper outside the house using her slipper.
Then, I went back because, I finally found it. When I was at the door stepping into our house. She pushed me !! I really fell and There are still a few stairs there. And I have scratched in my arms. I want to slap her, tweak her, punch her. But, I'm just controlling my emotion that time. I do, shouted to her and walked out. I went in my room and cried. My little sister is a Grade 9 student this School Year. But, I don't know, Why they're always become angry to me.
Di ko alam ,bakit ganyan sila. Pinalaki naman kami nila mama at papa bilang mga mabubuting anak.
That feeling that, we, as a sister. We will be the one who will always give way to them.
Both of them talked back to me. Even I do prioritize their needs before myself. Because, I know my parents does not enough money to raise up. So, I do help them. In terms of other needs. All of my money that I earned here. I do give it to them for my support. But, what they give back to me? They always made me cry!
You know. I do get jelous to the other siblings that laugh everyday. Siblings that never hurting each other both pyhsical and emotional. Haystt.. I wish they wil change soon.
Even, they are like that. I do respect And Love them. Because, I always hold this thing that, **Maybe one day. They just realize that I become a good sister to them. I know, that, They will Realize that soon.**
Kasi, sa magkakapatid, di talaga mawawala ang away.
Away, bati, away, bati. Minsan, funny kami na para bang mga siraulo. Pero, yun din .Away ng away. Hahahaha. Magkakapatid nga naman.
As a sister, as an elder. Even we hate our siblings. Kahit may sama ng loob tayo sa kanila. Masakit pa din na nakikita nating nasasaktan sila. Dibah?
Ok na sakin na ako ang masaktan, wag lang sila. Ok na sakin na ako ang magugutom. Wag lang sila. Ok na sakin, na unahin sila kaysa sa sarili ko.
**Kasi, there's nothing more painful seeing our siblings suffering or being hurt. Because, they really need us in order to guide them.**
I do always, said to them na **"baguhin nila sarili nila, na one day, sana ma realize nila ang mga mistakes nila sakin, na one day they will understand what those words I said to them, na one day maging matured sila, Na one day, they will know how to respect me"**
Even I hate them! But, still I do still Love them.
Thank you for reading.
Do you hate your siblings also? (Please share it in the comment section)
@whitney123
First Time I Entered In Relationship (Part 2: We Failed)
This is the continuation of my Love life Story. As the continuation of my previous story which is **"First Time I Entered In Relationship".** I said it there that I will published the part 2 of it, this Monday. So, here it is.
If you haven't read my article. You must read it first, before reading this one to understand the flow of the story. Here's the link : https://read.cash/@whitney123/first-time-i-entered-in-relationship-1015957a
So, after 1 month that we became us. We are both happy and trying to know more and more each other. All laughters and love are present in our relationship. I was filled with happiness and love coming from him.
Since, it is my first time in entering in a relationship. I just realized that. **Wow! This is the feeling of being loved by someone you love.** No More **SANA ALL** ako that time dahil nandyan na siya.
Every Morning, nakaka received ako ng **"Good Morning By, kain ka na ha. Wag magpapagutom"..** Sheeggsszssss!! Kinikilig ako ngayon.Hahaha. Haysttt..
Anyway, kinakantahan niya din ako. Kasi, dibah, singer siya and he played musical instruments. His voice was my comfort zone that time. We always call each other through messenger. **Acckkkk, na miss ko siya.. Halaaaa!!! Totoo. Na miss ko siya while writing this one!! :**<
After, 2 months of being us, we just planned for our career. Kung saan kami mag-aaral next year. Since, siya ay mag college na. At Law din kukunin niya. Both of us choose LAW as our career profession. But, he said to me that, he also wanted to be a MAPEH teacher in MUSIC. Well, its up to him. Because, that was his choice. I will always here to support him.
One day, I went to his house. I bought him cake, jollibee and drinks.
We ate with his family and cousin. Btw, his cousins are my bestfriends or barakads na. Because, of our closeness . To be honest, the **best feeling** ever if may jowa ka na. **Is when his/her family accepted you whole-heartedly! Promise, nakakataba ng puso dahil both legal kayo**.. Alam niyo yan pag legal kayo both sides.
Everytime we have problems in terms of our acads and in family. We always rely on each other. We lift up each other and make each other as our crying shoulder. You know, his mom was died when he was 2 years old. I was sad for him without a mother besides him. But, Still. I do proud to him, because, even in his situation. **He learned to stand and strive harder to finish to his studies.**
My mom always give advice to him and accompanied him as her son. Paul, respected my parents and my fam.
For 3 months of relationship. Walang nagbago, masaya kami parati and ganun pa din ginagawa namin. **I feel contented na sa kaniya . As in, super contented and comfortable.**
But, 5 months after that beautiful memories we had. **Everything change!!**
He become cold to me. Like, he is not just like before. Bigla akong nabaguhan and, I didn't understand what's happening to him. Natatakot ako na baka pati relationship namin ay masisira. I thought, it was all about family problem. But, I don't know. I do chat his cousins. But, all they replied, **"Di namin alam Whit, maybe, he needs space, dahil nag away sila ng papa niya" .**
So, I just send him a message na, **"I hope you can fix yourself soon Paul. I am always here to you no matter what. I love you!"**
I want to visit him in his house. But, I'm afraid na baka magalit siya. Ksi, as what his cousins said to me na **"Need niya ng Space" .** So, I will respect his decision. Di muna ang nagkulit sa kaniya. But,I do chat him. If okay ba siya, kamusta na siya. Kumakain ba siya. Basta ganun.
But.... He never replied to him. Like, he just "**SEEN**" Me. But, I do keep updating him everyday. I do miss him. As in!! Like, biglaan na ganun na lang. But, I know there's a reason behind it.
After 1 week, he didn't reply my all chats to him. But, he do read and seen it. I know, his problem was so deep. My last reply to him was too long.. To summed it all. **"Kahit anong magyari saming relationship. Nandito pa din ako para sa kaniya" :) .**
Masakit masyado sa akin. I feel down that time. Grabeh. Nakaka-iyak talaga.
Umiiyak ako now.. :< Naiisip ko siya. Continue ko na lng ito bukas kung ano ang nangyari next ..
Thank you for reading my nonsense love story. God Bless.
You can share ur thoughts in the comment section.
@whitney123
The Man That I Loved: My Dad (Happy Father's Day To All Daddy's)
June 20, we celebrate Father's Day. Kaarawan ng mga tatay, dad, itay, papa, dada o ano pa man ang tawag natin sa kanila. Pati na rin ang mga tito at lolo natin. Kaya, ngayon, we should give something to them even letters, flowers or cake. HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!
Being a father is a **great responsibility** to his family. Father can do all the things for us even sometimes they can't do it. Even sometimes, they wanted to give up.
Yung kahit, napakahirap na ng sitwasyon sa buhay. Ngunit, patuloy parin silang kumakayod at nagtatrabaho para may pambiling pagkain sa atin. Dahil, sila ang haligi ng tahanan at sa kanila lang tayo sumasandal.
Napakahirap sa atin na mga anak na makita silang umiiyak, napapagod, nagkakasakit at matamlay. Dibah? Kaya, habang buhay pa sila. Habang nasa piling pa natin sila. Ipakita natin na mahal na mahal natin sila.
Ako, ay lumaki sa tatay at nanay ko. Lumaki din ako sa hirap at namulat sa mundong nakikita ang aking mga magulang na naghihirap din. Lalo na ang aking tatay. Dahil, **siya lamang ang nag-iisang nagtataguyod sa amin lahat**. Kahit mainit ang araw, umuulan man ay nagtatrabaho pa din siya para may makain lang kami.
Alam niyo? Kung may sama kayo ng loob sa kanila. Please, please, please.... Break it!! **Mahalin ninyo ang inyung itay dahil, patanda ng patanda ang ating mga magulang. Di natin alam kung kelan sila mawawala. Kung, Kelan sila manghihina.**
Napakasakit na makita ang ating papa na umiiyak. Alam niyo, one time nakita ko si papa umiiyak. Dahil , pagod na daw siya. Gusto ko talaga tumulong noon sa financial problem namin. Kaso, wala akong magawa dahil minorde edad pa ako at di pa ako pwede magtrabaho.
Tumutulo at nasasaktan talaga ako pag nakikita kong malungkot papa ko. Lalo na **yung na hospital siya at na oxygen**. Di na namin alam ang gawin. Dasal ng dasal ang aming ginawa. Dahil, bata pa kami at kailangan pa namin siya hanggang sa pagtanda namin. Iyak ng iyak talaga kami. Na para bang pasan namin ang mundo.
Kaya ngayon, gusto ko suklian ang paghihirap ni papa sa aming pitong magkakapatid. Dahil, napakabait niya talaga sa amin. Normal lang naman na magalit minsan ang parents natin, dahil, mahal nila tayo at gusto nilang matuto tayo sa mga pagkakamali natin at lumaki bilang matino.
Nagplano-plano kami kanina, na bumili ng cake**. Nag withdraw ako sa naipon ko dito.** Di ko alam kung kelan pa ako maka 1 BCH kung parati lang nag se-sell. hehehe... Pero, ok lang, nasa tama naman din nagamit ang pera.
Bumili ako ng cake, beer niya, karne, pang sangyup, pansit at crab stick. Tapos, sa isang kapatid ko naman is sagot niya ang pepsi. Nung isa naman sagot niya ang hotdog at karneng baka. Ang isa naman ang mag-aayos. Tulong-tulong lang kahit sa konteng bagay. Minsan lang to kaya pagbigyan natin sila dahil nung bata pa tayo, sila ay gumagastos para sa ating kaarawan.
Siguro, ito ang unang celebration ng Father's Day na nahandaan namin si papa. Ang papa ko ay mag 60 na next year.
Habang nasa piling pa natin sila, ipadama natin ang tunay na pagmamahal at pagpapasalamat sa kanilang pagsasakripisyo sa atin upang mabigyan lang tayo ng mabuting buhay at magandang kinabukasan.
Wag nating ikahiya ang ating tatay. Kahit ano pa man sila, sino pa man sila o ano ang kanilang mukha't damit. Dahil, sila pa din ang isang lalake na lagi tayong mamahalin habang buhay. Kung, di mo man kapiling ang iyong tatay ngayon. Ipanalangin na lamang sila sa Panginoong Diyos na sila ay nasa mabuting lagay.
Sa uulitin. Happy Father's Day sa lahat ng mga AMA sa Buong Mundo. God Bless po.
Na hug mo na ba ang iyong tatay ngayon??
@whitney123
First Time I Entered in Relationship
All of us have first love. When we were young and most likely in High School Days. This is the stage where we can feel attraction or admiration to our close person or friend. Because, we are in the puberty stage and it is normal for us. I enter in relationship when I was in Grade 10. Lol. This boy I met in church when there was a celebration in our Church.
I didn't expect that we will become friends or close friend. Because, I didn't talk if no one will never approach me first. And that was the most hated personality I have before. Like, I didn't talk to you even you are my friend if you don't approach me first. Because, I'm afraid to feel embarassed in the front of you if you don't approach me back. Mostly, if I'm not comfortable enough to you. Basta ganun.
**I was 16 that time and he was 17 years old. I'm in the 10th Grade and he was a Grade 12 student**. We studied in the different school. So, this is it. I will narrate how we became us.
As far as I remember. It was **month of January, last 2019** that we met as a stranger. I didn't expect also that, I will fall inlove to him. Chossss.. Wahaha.. I'm not jeje before, because, medj matured nako noon and I know how to fix myself. We were both CYM that time **(Catholic Youth Ministry)** in our Parish. And we practice for our performances in the coming celebration. All of us united again and meet each other everyday to practice the different performances.
During our breaktime after we practice, I was just sitting in the other side of the gym. Just scrolling in facebook while listening in music. I feel that, I am a shadowbanned that time. Because, they have a circle of friends and I don't want also to suck on others or feeling close to them. Because, you know. Sometimes others are feeler and OA. Baka, ano pa masabi nila sakin. hehe. So, I just behave.
At the other corner of the gym. Someone was jamming there and I was a little bit interesting to watch there jamming. Because, I do love music also. So, yeah. I do walked over there and get a chair to watched and listen. Someone was playing guitar and someone was singing also. So, Well, I listened too. Then, Guess what?
He was the one who played the guitar and sang a romantic song. I was just deadma before, because I didn't know him. But, his voice feels attractive . Let's face the reality. That we are easily get attracts more on men who is good at playing guitar and singing a song. Hehehe. Dibah ??
Fast forward, after a weeks ago. Some of my co-members invited or approached me to eat pastels outside with them. So, I just follow them since, I want also to have friends. I didn't expect that, Paul (his name) also there eating with us. That was the friends of Paul and his cousins. hahaha. Like, nabigla talaga ako sobra. Medj na attract na kasi ako dun sa kaniya.
While, we were eating. I'm so quite. I want to talk or chika with them. But, I can't deny na nahihiya talaga ako. So, Paul, said to me, "**Whit, kamusta ka diyan? , Please, interact with us. So that you wouldn't be alone forever"**.... I feel embarrassed that time, because.. Siya na mismo nagsabi nun sakin. At, lahat sila nagtinginan sakin at nag smile. All I said is, **"hehehe, Opo. Thank you"**, sabay smile na medj matutunaw na sa hiya.
Everytime, we practice. I don't know, but **theres a time that our eyes meet together. My eyes unexpectedly stares at him and he also stares at me....** Wahhh..Hahahah. So, I just smile at him, para di halata. Hay naku. Nakakahiya..
After a month, he texted me. I didn't give my fb name to him. But, how come he discovered it?? Lol. Stalker amporkchop.
He texted me like this... **"Hi, Whit**".
I didn't also know his name in the first place. So, I just stalk him, since familiar yung profile pic. And yun nga.. Siya pala.. Kinikilig na medj kinakakabahan ako. Like, I didn't know what will I reply to him. I think, **"hello? ".** And, that was the start of our conversation.
We became friends, become partner in dance, we ate together, talk together and we were both happy. But, in the month of March. Paul, chatted me,
**"Whit, I do like you" .** I know that it was a joke.
So, I replied. **"HAHAHAHAKDOG"** . Then, he replied, **"Usap na lang tayo sa church. Mag prepare ka na, may practice tayo mamaya"**
Always naman may practice ehh. Kasi, ganyan ka advance CYM president namin. Malayo pa ang celebration day. But, we need to practice para hindi panget kalabasan kung we just practice 2 weeks before the celebration day. Tama din naman.
Paul, trying to be honest with me. So, I do also honest with him. For short, we are Mutual chuchu. Hahaha. As weeks was passed by, our friendship are still and we treat each other as friends. Kasi, nanliligaw pa lang siya.
In courting process kasi, doon natin nakikita ang ugali ng isa't-isa. :)
He was a funny guy, caring, mataas ang ambition sa buhay, he love music, he played piano, guitar, banderia (14 string instrument), and many more. He want to take a Law just like me. He always sang a song for me everyday through voice message in messenger.
In the day of celebration, we dance together, eat and enjoy.
After 3 months of courting to me, his attitude didn't change. He's kindness and loving personality is still there. And I can see his pureness and honesty for his love to me. We meet each other, and we talk on how we can say it to our parents. Lol.
So, I just give him motivation that he can do it, facing my parents at sabihin **"na nanliligaw siya" .** We want to do the **Pinoy version of courting para respeto sa parents namin** at di magagalit parents namin. Kasi, mahirap kaya kapag patago o palihim lang na may bf o gf tayo.
Actually, alam naman nila papa at mama tungkol kay Paul. Kasi, kapatid ko ay parang reporter. hahahay naku. Pero, its good thing din naman yun para advance. : D
When Paul facing my parents, I can see that he was shaking and feel nervous. But, my parents hug him and respect him. Edi Sana ol. ALAM KO DIN NAMAN NA DI MAGAGALIT PARENTS KO, kasi may tiwala sila sakin. They accompanied Paul, and we ate together. Talking each other with happiness in our face.
A week after that, I do said my **"YES"** to him.. And we were both happy na official na kami . Graduating na siya nun at moving up ko din. **Nag-aaral kaming mabuti kasi may future goals kami sa buhay.**
We know how to manage our relationship, in our acads and in our family. **Time management** kung baga.
In every relationship, ang pag-aaway o pagtatampuhan are normal. Unless, you both know how to fix it before the day ends.
His friends before na nakasabay din namin sa pag practice ay mga pinsan niya. So, mas nauna akong mapalapit sa family side niya. Even his sister know me already. Welcome din ako sa side niya. And yeah, I feel comfortable enough.
As the months were passed by. I feel, I'm in the right person. I feel loved and full with him.
Pero, di pa diyan nagtatapos ang Love Story namin. I will create Part 2 of this. Mahaba na kasi at it will take time para magsulat at e recall ulit.
Thank you for reading my nonsense story about my Lovelife. Hehehe.I will update the Part 2 of this, maybe, Monday. Thank you.
You can share also in the comment section. How did you find your first love. : D
@whitney123
I Want to Be Like Sir @MarcDeMesel Mindset
When I started joining here in read.cash and noise.cash. I really don't know about investments or crypto currency. In a very young age of mine, the only person who widen my idea in investing money with Crypto is sir @MarcDeMesel . I just enter in the crypto world unexpectedly.
I always watched his videos on youtube on how he engage in BCH, about crypto trading and to be a legendary in crypto. Though, I'm just a user of a month here on both read.cash and noise.cash. But, I really love to be active here and interact to many users.
Last week ago, he have a live streamed in youtube, explaining **"WHY I TAKE CRYPTO LOAN AND SHORT COMMODITIES ".**
https://youtu.be/IbIZgPi7SPE
If you have watched his Live video last week, for sure you get a lot of learnings there. You know, in a very young age, **we need to be practical and learn about investments for the betterment of our future soon.**
Because, in the very near future, our permanent currency will be crypto. **We should learn everything. Because, we need to know when to start investing and to achieve our financial goals just like how sir Marc crypto mindset.**
Bitcoin cash BCH is one of the top 20 cryptocurrencies that was launched in 2017 by forking the Bitcoin blockchain and changed the size limit of blocks added to the blockchain.
If all of us, become investors of BCH. We can help other people who are needed our help. I just inspired also for those users here for a months/year/years that **HODL** there earnings. I know some of them didn't sell their money, they just invest invest and invest until their money will take slowly increased or grow. And for sure they haved 1 or more BCH now.
I, as a new comer here in this **CRYPTO WORLD.** I joined in the different raffle in noise.cash before. And the small amount of it. I just hold it and grow it. I do sell if I needed money, but, my earnings that I do get in raffles, even small amount. I didn't sell it. Because, I know it will become bigger or increase if I just invest and HODL it. How I wish I can reach 1 BCH soon. I want to broad my understanding in this Cryptocurrencies investments so, I just read and watch videos about investing in BCH. And how to grow my small coins in my wallet.
If all us, help each other to open BCH for all the people. Like, we need to lead them and introduced this BCH and this sites. **For sure, no people will be poor soon. Poverty will be lessen**. Do you agree with me?
So far, Bitcoin Cash is the most cheap and fast transaction remained. I do always think that if we want to invest money. Why we should invest it in BCH were have low fees and fast transactions.
**Bitcoin Cash** (BCH) has continuously proved that it is the **great investment** for all the traders, holders and investors. **Bitcoin Cash** is predicted to keep skyrocketing over the next couple of years. And that's what we called **"FLY TO THE MOON" .**
In the interview of ralac last 11 months ago to sir Marc. It really explained there the most relevant answers about when and how sir Marc go far this way. You can visit his article too if you want to widen your understanding. https://read.cash/@ralak/interview-of-marc-de-mesel-the-magnanimous-98201816
As what sir Marc De Mesel said in the interview of . This phrases of sir Marc, will surely help us all on how to invest in cryptocurrencies now for the betterment of our future.
"I'm an investor, I invest in cryptocurrencies and stocks. I usually hold my investments for many years as it usually takes also long before an investment goes from seriously undervalued, when I try to buy, to seriously overvalued, when I try to sell."
"To be successful in crypto world it is simple, but hard to do. **Just save your coins, they will likely go up a lot in value, however most sell them long before that to cover bills of all kind.** Try to have more coins over time by **offering valuable things to people and asking a competitive price for it.** You can be active in many cryptos as marketer or coder or build a business on top of the coin, or write for it on read.cash. Careful for the many scams, and learn how to secure your coins safely, as it is the wild west of the internet with many idiocy and thefts happening." Sir Marc(2020)
As what he explained there that, if we save our money/coins, they will surely go up with a lot of values. Invest and HODL. Because, this is what the crypto market works like. Earn,Sell, Buy, HODL and Invest.
**I just wanted to be like sir Marc De Mesel's Mindset in Investing money in this Crypto Space. Because, I want to be a Multi-Billionaire soon to help other people. I know it is hard, but, I know that we will become a great investors soon.**
I also inspired the users here that I do both know in noise.cash and read.cash who inspired a lot of people in engaging crypto world. Just like ate @Eybyoung, a user of a year in read.cash who is a member of Club1BCH. And she helped a lot of users here in terms of upvoting and sponsorship. Also, ate @bmjc98 , who is a nice person who give opportunity to the users here by upvoting their articles and sponsorship. @Fexonice1 and @Jane who inspired me also when I read their articles. And many more users.
And also for my 3 unexpected sponsors.
@Janz , @bmjc98 and @ellimacandrea . Thank you so much.
**Hopefully soon, I can return your blessings to me. I know, I need more learnings in this crypto world and you are my guiders.**
Fly to The Moon. BCH to the win!!
So, When do you want to invest? INVEST NOW!!
@whitney123
How To Attain Enlightenment by Performing Yoga as Meditation
Do you know what Yoga means? I started it last year. When, I watched the teachings in Hinduism. It really helped me to connect my inner self and have peace in my mind and serve to many people.
Yoga is not just an exercise. It is also a meditation. When I heared the word **"YOGA"** before**.** I thought it is an exercise of the Hindus, Jainist and Buddhist people. But, when, I read and explore about it. I just love to try it. We need to do this exercise to relax our self and refresh our minds because, **YOGA are aimed toward enlightenment.**
*What does it really means when we say YOGA??*
Yoga is not a religion in itself, it is connected to religion."**Yoga** is a **Hindu** spiritual exercise," and it is one way of meditation that is open for all. Yoga is one of the six major houses that was thought in Hinduism, that was derived from the Sanskrit word **yug**, which means **to unite**. Both Buddhists and Hindus chant the sacred mantra **'Om'** , as we can hear during their meditation.
Yoga is a system of practice dealing with physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well-being which has evolved over thousand of years .
There are different forms of **yoga** and some of which are more overtly religious than others and it was stems to the historical from Hinduism, but also to Jainism and Buddhism.
**Yoga** manifests itself as **four** major paths of Hinduism namely:
Karma **Yoga**, Bhakti **Yoga**, Rāja **Yoga** and Jñāna **Yoga**. Let's discuss it one by one.
**Karma Yoga: Path of Action**
--The word “**Karma**” means action. It is the **Yoga** of Action or duty. **Karma Yoga** can be best defined as **“Doing your duty at your best without any involvement of ego or attachment”.** Karma Yoga is the yoga of action done without being attached to the outcome.
There are 4 essential words in the definition of Karma Yoga: **the duty, ego, attachment, and expectation of reward.**
If we, perform this **KARMA** yoga. **It helps us to starve our EGO to reach our ATMAN**. I know you encountered this one in your WRBS subject when you are in SHS before or maybe in college. I think?.. Anyway, this is a Path to liberation, or moksha, through **WORK** or our **ACTIONS**. Like shrinking and starving the EGO by seeking to serve or help other people. It is a selfless service unsheathes our **'diamond beings'** and our Eternal Truth Shines through.
Btw, this is the Yoga that I do perform last year. This is my picture in performing this one.
**Attaining Karma Yoga** is by our good deeds and actions. I do find a place in performing this one. Where I can concentrate and relax. The best place to perform meditation is in the nature or in the mountains. And I forgot to bring my carpet that time. hehehe. I wear stretchable attire so that I will be comfortable in performing yoga. Through mindful movement and breath awareness, my kind of yoga connects mind , body and spirit. I just start reflecting myself and think all my past or current problems in life and reflect it with the relaxation sound. Just go with the flow of the yoga. And Surely, your body will be floating in peace.
**Jñāna** **Yoga: Path of Knowledge**
--**Jnana** is Sanskrit for “**knowledge** or wisdom” and **Jnana Yoga** is the **path** of attaining **knowledge** of the true nature of reality through the practice of meditation, self-inquiry, and contemplation. So, if you need to attain the path of knowledge, then you must try this one.
**Bhakti Yoga: Path of Devotion**
**--Bhakti yoga**, also called **Bhakti** marga (literally the **path of Bhakti**), is a spiritual **path** or spiritual practice within Hinduism focused on loving devotion towards any personal deity. **Bhakti** is mentioned in the Shvetashvatara Upanishad where it simply means participation, devotion and love for any endeavor. (source:google)
**Rāja Yoga:Path of Discipline**
--It is a yoga to energize the body and mind.--
**When we perform any type of YOGA. We should be:**
Keep our mind in peace, of course, in order to be focus in meditating. Wake up every morning with happiness in life. Serving to the self is the beginning step to start the journey of any type of yoga. Find a place where you can feel the peace of mind. But, the perfect place to perform yoga is within the mountains. In which we can focus in reflecting to our inner selves. The nature experience is simply taking the practice outdoors.
Prepare yourself and make sure that your attire is comfortable to you. Because, meditation is a yogic practice used by Buddhists and yogis alike to go beyond the fluctuations of the mind to realize the Oneness of Being.
Practicing yoga connects us deeply with the elements and energy of the universe.
It Access health and happiness with acient yoga practices from around the world that tap into the healing power of nature.
So, what are you waiting for. You must give yourself to relax, meditate and reflect. I know this yoga will surely help you to attain enlightenment. :)
God Bless.And Thank you for reading. :)
@whitney123
First Love Never Dies?
**Do you believe in first love never dies?** This is not my love story, but, for my friend either. He let me to write an article about his love story. And, I am inspired on what happened to his life before and now. He's a college student and everything about his lovelife, he always shared it to me. I know, you will be inspired this one. Please keep on reading.
Mark (he's not true name) , is a college student. I met him in the church as a Church Youth last 2019. We are from the same school studying in University and we became close when we started to talk each other. He treated me as his little sister since, he is just only child. And, I'm so happy for that.
Mark, is you know **"SAWI SA PAG-IBIG"**. Sawi ka din ba? Same tayo. Awchh.. Anyway. Mark, told me that there is a girl since grade 9, that whom he loved the most. Sana ol na lang talaga may nagkakagusto since grade 9 . Napaka loyal niya naman. Hehe. I didn't know the name of the girl, hmmmm. Sophia na lang para may name din siya. But, the girl is so pretty, mabait sa itsura pa lang and maputi.
Mark and Sophia are become bestfriends since grade 9. And the girl already knew it that Mark loves her. Until, when they become college. Mark wanted to tell his feelings for her because, they are in college now. And I think, Mark is eligible enough to court a girl that he loved the most. But, after that, I mean after he tell his feelings to her. The girl, trying to ignore Mark.. Awchh..
Mark chatted me that, **"Whit, pupuntahan ko sana siya sa bahay niya para mag ask ng sorry dahil nasira friendship namin sa pag-amin ko sa kaniya. And, I want to brought this teddy bear to her"**... I supported him, of what his decision. So, ayun na. Pinuntahan ni Mark si girl sa bahay niya. Kaso, nasa school si girl. 2 hours ang travel niya papunta sa bahay ng girl dahil his home was to far from her.(Sana ol ma effort, at pinipilit na maging strong). **Mark, waited outside of the school gate for an hours.** He waited Sophia na lumabas sa gate. But, suddenly... Sophia, ignored him.. At umuwing luhaan si Mark. Umiyak si Mark sakin.. Btw, first love niya talaga si Sophia and I can feel his pain that time. Kasi, mahirap ma reject..
I do comfort him and motivate him. **"Kung di want ni God na maging kayong dalawa. You must better to go with the flow. May right girl ka din, in God's will" ...**
After a year of fixing his self.. I can see to his face that his happy of being single that time. Not until... He meet a girl in the Church also. Which is a new member of a Church Youth. Btw, she's my classmate before when we were elementary... I didn't know that he courted the girl and I'm so shock, na naging sila na pala..
So, base on his post in IG. He is so happy. Like, I didn't see that happy face of him before. Though, he didn't tell it to me. Because, maybe he is so shy enough to tell it to me?. So, I am the one who say **"Congrats Mark, I think you are happy now, of the girl you have. I hope, she is the one for you" .**
Then, he replied.. **"How did you know Whit?. Sorry, if I didn't tell it to you in the first place. Just because, nahihiya ako sayo. But, its good thing, dahil alam mo na. Thank you whit for being there for me. And I am super happy with her".**
**Mark open again his heart to someone that will accept him whole-heartedly. :)**
But, after a months?.. Mark chatted me. **"Whit, I'm not okay right now"**
Then, I'm confused.. I ask him, baka kasi may problems siya in terms of family or acads niya.
But, he replied, **"Nakipagbreak na siya sakin. And I don't know what to do. Aayusin ko na naman sarili ko Whit. Huhu. Ano bang kulang o mali sakin Whit?. Nagmahal lang naman ako, pero bakit ganun? Bakit, lagi akong iniiwan?"**
Sabi ko sa kaniya, **" Siguro, Di pa talaga siya ang want ni God na maging gf mo. Don't rush in love Mark, kasi, may right time talaga yan.."**
Di ko alam talaga kung paano ko siya e lift up. Kasi, always na lang siya ganun. Pangalawang beses na nasaktan siya. He tried to fix his self again. Medj naawa nako sa kaniya. Like, bakit ganun? He is so kind enough para saktan ng ganun.. Haysstt.. Ewan ko talaga...
After a months of fixing his self again. His friend told him that they need a trainer or choreographer to teach them dance in there PE Sub. Btw, Mark is a good dancer. San ka pa? ..Charott.. **He didn't know na tuturuan niya din pala ang first love niya...Yieeee.. So, no choice daw siya kaya. Um OO siya at symepre kinausap din niya yung taong minsan nang nagpasakit sa damdamin niya...**
Sinabi din ni Mark sakin na.. Pinilit daw siya ng kaibigan niya na ihatid yung girl sa bahay.. So ayun, while Mark driving a motor, Sophia, broke the silent. Nag talk daw sila dalawa..
Biglaan ang lahat. Like super unexpected talaga. Pag way talaga ni God...
He asked me, **"Whit? Yung First love ko nag knocked sa pinto ko.. Should I open it?" ..**
Sabi ko din naman na.. "**Oo Mark, kasi, syempre naging friend kayong dalawa before at may pinagsamahan".**
Ilang days siguro, nag-amin ang girl sa kaniya na.
Nagbreak daw sila ng boyfriend niya dahil sa kaniya. I meam, dahil daw kay Mark....
Medj nabigla din ako. Na bakit kasali si Mark or siya ang rason ng breakup nila?
Yun pala, inamin ng babae na .. Yung nagliligaw pa daw si Mark sa kaniya, mas sinagot niya yung isa... Pero, yun nga super toxic pala ng lalake at super immatured. At sinabi niya din sa lalake na mas vote ang family niya na si Mark na lang daw sana ang sinagot niya dahil since grade 9 mas kilala na siya ng parents ng girl.. At, mahal din pala ng babae si Mark, kahit reneject niya ito simce grade 9 until nung nag college sila... Ganun.. Super toxic kasi ang lalake at hindi masaya yung girl sa bf niya before. So, she let it decided na maging honest sa boy...
**(This was the summary of what I read from the convo na sinend ng girl sa kay Mark.. )**
The girl say sorry for what he did to Mark before and they become friends until. Nilagawan ulit ni Mark ang girl..... But, in the process pa. Kasi, they need to fix theirselves first...: D Atleast the pain that they experienced before..Serves them as a lesson and now, They know how to handle their relationship...
Lesson I learned:
"When God give us pain. Everything has a purpose. Like, mala wattpad ang love story nila. Imagine, God let it happened na mag break sila both ng gf ni Mark st ng Bf ni Sophia...Dahil, may purpose talaga si God na sa huli maging sila"
You know, I don't believe in first love never die... Hehe..
Update ako dito.. If maging sila buh talaga. But hopefully, they will. This are some of their pic..
The time that Mark and Sophia started to talk when Mark teaches them dance.. Ommoooo...Medj nakilig ako... Ang smile nila is napaka precious... Haysttt..
This is the time that the Girl helped Mark na mag dye ng hair niya. (Yieeee... Hanggang sana ol lang ako)Hahhaa
I think this would be the end of the love story of A.K.A Mark and Sophia...
DO YOU BELIEVE IN FIRST LOVE NEVER DIES??
Thank you for reading.
@whitney123
Raising Women Empowerment and Gender Equality
I created this one to promote Women Empowerment and Gender Equality as member of this society. We should spread the positivity and inspire every women around the world to know their worth and role in the society which they belong.
But, before that... Let's answer this questions:
*****What is Women's Empowerment?*****
From the word **"Empower"** . It means that **we allow, we enabling, we entitling or give power to ourselves or to the people around us.** It is the people having power and control over for their own lives. So, **Women's empowerment** can be defined in **promoting women's self-confident,** determine their abilities, promoting sense of self-worth, knowing their own choices or decisions in life, their right to influence in social change for themselves and to the others for the goodness of the society and also for knowing their rights and role to the society which they belong.
*****How We Can Promote Women's Empowerment?*****
There are so many ways in promoting women empowerment. **But, how we can promote women empowerment if we cannot empower ourselves? If we are lack of self-confident?...** We cannot empower someone else or make someone empowered **if we don't working on it first in ourselves**. It should be set aside first in our own self in order to lift up and empower women. :)
**This are the Some Ways to Empower Women:**
By opening our ears to listen them.
By boosting their self-confident and self-esteem.
By being a good role model to all.
Lead by an example of a good leader.
Shut down negativity.
Advocate every women.
Lift up women.
Give some motivational learnings to them.
Encourage them to be the person they wanted to be.
Accept them and treat them special.
And many more....
**Women's empowerment is a critical aspect of achieving gender equality. When we empowered women and girls, it will contribute to the good productivity of their families, communities, and societies in creating a good effect that can benefits to everyone. Especially, in our country.**
*****What is Gender Equality and Gender Role?*****
**Gender Equality** is very important to us. **It prevents or avoid violence against women and girls**. Because, it refers to the **equal participation of both men and women** in the different life domains in the society, family, economy, social life, politics, and education.
If we treat each other's gender as equal role. I mean, we respect each others gender. **Then, it serves as a way to have peace in our society.** Gender equality means that both men and women have **equal power and equal opportunities** in terms of their educational system, personal development, inner self, financial independence, making decisions and their rights.
So, as a women, we need to lift up the gender equality in our society. To **lessen the discrimination and bullying in each genders**, not only for women but also for men. Let us **"UPLIFTING HUMANITY in our COUNTRY by RESPECTING EACH OTHER and TREAT EACH OTHER AS ONE".**
https://youtu.be/4R41UGLe8dA
**-----My Advocacy Speech Before about Women Empowerment and Gender Equality-----**
"Women today and before have change a lot. For how many years, women's rights movement are fought hard to address equality. But, first of all, we need to understand the empowerment of what women's really means if we have to understand its impacts.
**Empowerment** is about being given authority and power to do something. About becoming stronger, and confident. It means to become aware of what one's life privileges and it is the ability to control one's life in meaningful and fullfiling way.
Every women has the ability to their rights, to control their life and benefit from their resources, assets, income and also to control their own time.
Right now, women and men around the world had part of the unpresidented movement for women's right equality and justice.
**Every women deserves to be respect, to be happy, to loved, to have freedom, and enjoy the kind of life they wanted to.** We should fight for our rights, and do what ever we want to do in life.
**We should have confident, to empower women around the world. To encourage them to have self-esteem, self-reliance, to be independent, and to know their capabilities, responsibilities as part of the society.** We should teach them on how to face the difficult situation and to be active in a various socio-economic or political development in our society.
It doesn't mean that we are **ONLY WOMEN.** Because, our **PART**, our **ROLE are very important**. We have greatest role in the society. As a mother, to become mother, wife and so on... As we can see eventhough we have women president, governor and any political positions. Women can LEAD, they have the ability to lead, to become a leader in the society. But, still the discrimination, the negative comments, the inequality about women are continuing.
One way to stop this thing, is to **STAND By OURSELVES. STAND AS WOMEN, FIGHT FOR OUR RIGHTS and PROMOTE GENDER EQUALITY.** Because, we **DESERVE EVERYTHING**. And I know that we can prove it in ourself and prove it around the world that we can do all the things and we have the capabilities in doing men's job, to lead and change the world.
Please put your right hand in your chest and say this:
****"I AS A WOMEN AND I KNOW MY CAPABILITIES"****
--I'm not good in putting, make ups, but....Yeah, practice makes perfect. :)
Remember that, no matter what skin color we have, even we have pimples or acnes in face, even we are rich or poor. But, still. We are Equal. We have equal responsibilities and oppurtunities because，God Created us as most likely with His image. :)
Now.. What can you say in the picture? Did you find meaning out of it? Wanna read your answers.
**#SPREAD LOVE AND EQUAL OPPORTUNITY FOR WOMEN AND MEN**
**#GENDER EQUALITY**
**#STOP for GENDER DISCRIMINATION**
Thank you for reading... :)
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Music is One of My Comfort Zone
**Music** is very important role in our life as living creatures. It is the most calming symphonic lullabyes. Because, if there's no music. The world is so boring enough. Music is one of my **COMFORT ZONE.** Listening music makes me refresh and comfortable. Music helps me to eliminate the boredom of myself. And I can't deny the fact, that music gives color to my dark life before. And now, I can't get out in music.
We all know that music expresses ourselves, expresses who we are and what we are. It is the way to express our own feelings and emotions in the situation of our life now.
I used music to **escape the real world**. I mean, **the world with full of sadness, problems and reality**. Especially, when I was depressed in Academic one time. Like, I wanted to sleep and sleep by listening in music that is too soft in my ears if I'm so tired enough for the situation I encountered. It helps me to entertained myself, to motivate myself more and give me realizations in life.
*****Are you a music lover too??*****
I know, some of us. **Use music to give peace in our mind. To attain the path of enlightenment.**
When I was in Grade 6. I have my first keypad cellphone. I do borrow an earphone to my brother to plug in my phone in order to listen music in the radio. Because, before, if you don't have memory card. Then, you cannot download music and of course it is so hard to use keypad and It so boring .The only thing that I do when my brother is not around, I do play snake games before..Hahaha. Childhood memories.. Haysttt..
Music helps me to escape the pains I have. It allows me to lessen the stress and relief me in sadness. I do bought my first guitar when I was in Grade 6. I bough it in Cebu when I was joined Batang Pinoy before. I'm so happy that I can practice playing guitar. **And I started to love playing instruments and bring myself into the music world,** when my cousin invited me to enter in the **guitar summer workshop.** I gain friends and knowledge in playing guitar and singing songs**.** But sad to say, when my older brother bring my guitar to his friend. It was broke by his friend. And , I decided that he will pay for it.. I'm so sad that time. And after that... 5 Years, without guitar is not okay for me. Like, I miss playing guitar before. Missing the old days...
So, last week**. I bought my second guitar** with my earnings here. And **I also, pay my enrollment fee and my brothers enrollment and give my mother a groceries and a sock of rice**.
I'm not that kind of a selfish person. If I have something, then, I will gave it as my full support to my parents and needed in our house. Especially, our foods as the basic needs in our family. Because, we can't get out due to lockdowns. Haysstt.
Before Everything else.. *****I do go to Church to thank God for Everything I have*****. For all the Blessings that I didn't expect to, for giving me an opportunity to help my family with the people that He make as an instrument to gave me this, especially this site and to those who upvoted ny articles and my sponsors. Thank You So much . (Nakaluwag-luwag din mga magulang ko sa gastusin sa bahay at sa pang enroll namin).
I didn't buy new dress, shirts, shoes or anything for myself. I just bought guitar for my ownself. And the other money, I do give it to my parents. I brought cake as a thanksgiving for my hardship in creating articles.... Sometimes, I don't know what should I write. But, hopefully.. My mind will work out of it. Hahaha..
Anyway, back to the topic. As of now, I practice playing guitar and start singing in our house. When, I'm so bored or tired in doing articles, baby sitter with my nephews and doing household chores. I do play guitar and listen to the different songs. It is my stress realever.
Usually, the songs or album that I always listen, is **Hillsongs. About Worship songs.** Promise, my tiredness will be lessen and it helps me to gave strength and hold my faith to keep going on in life. Even, when I do my assignments, projects, research in the middle of the night. I think, I can't feel sleepiness or tiredness. Literally....
I also love to listen, love songs, sad songs and rock songs... The best time to listen music is while raining. I do put earphone to my ears and lay down, play the music and close my eyes. Feel the song and yeah.. I'm in my comfort zone.. My mind do relax for a short period of time..And it is good to our health..
**Music can helps to relieve our feelings of anxiety and depression. And** Music can also help to boost our brain's production of the hormone dopamine. It heals one's mind and take care of our mental needs. And That's what the Music do or role to us as humans .
I want to encourage you that, if you are lonely. **Do pray and listen** to music to give your mind relaxation and it is also one of the healing pattern and medicine of anxiety. Because, music will motivates us to go on. *****It touches our soul and helps us to connect with the people around us.*****
Hahaha.. I know all of us listening music while cleaning the house, washing dishes, cooking, folding laundry or doing something. And guess what?? It makes our tasks easier to finish... Because, it entertain us and gives us fun... The singer that I idolized the most is **Whitney Houston**.. Because, her song is all about motivations and it really mean to all of us... :)
"Motivational music can help us to reach into the next level of our life and feel the hope during our hardtimes"
During our ups and downs of life,music describes what our feelings at the moment. And when we were sad, there are music that will lifts us up....
**To summed it all, MUSIC is truly something MAGICAL...**
**"Music, once admitted to the soul, becomes a sort of spirit and never dies.” – Edward Bulwer-Lytton ·**
**“Music is like a dream. · “ Without music, life would be a mistake” ― Friedrich**
**Can you imagine what your life would look like without music???**
I think this should be the end of the article... Thank you for reading.. God Bless.
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