Personality development according to the environment (experienced experiences)

Many times we think that the way we act is not adequate, especially when we have an episode in which our personality begins to develop, exactly I am talking about puberty, it is there in that precise moment of change in which we begin to have certain behaviors, also guided in many cases by our hormones, a bit of biological temperament and a personality under construction.

I have brought this important topic today, because nowadays the patterns of adolescents have changed, especially due to external stimuli, and they are no longer the same as they were a few years ago. I have come across children who think like adults and vice versa and this is due to the large amount of information to which they are exposed, others... they had to live a situation in which they had to mature before their time.

I had the opportunity to talk to "Sara" a young girl of approximately 14 years of age, she tells a very peculiar lived experience, Sara is the oldest of 4 siblings, she had to learn from a very early age to take care of herself having to live certain experiences that in some way were preparing her to become a false mother, however having a young age there are things that she does not have the capacity to control and manage in the same way as an adult, the way she thinks is quite mature, the way she dresses is according to the level of maturity, it seems that she is talking to an older person and, it is part of everything she learned during her hard experience. Her parents are there and at the same time they are not, her father works and the little he earns is to maintain the home, while her mother has had to help in the house and because of a strange illness in her bones she cannot make forces or move heavy objects, that is why Sara is the one who helps in the house and performs part of the mother's work, my work in this small investigation is to analyze how the environment molds us for certain situations that somehow change the way we think and also the way we live and above all we will not do the same once we begin to live certain experiences.

On the other hand, I also bring a case of "ADAN", a young man of the same age, 14 years old, difference in coexistence Adam lives in the nucleus of a family of 4, his two parents and an older brother, Adam lives comfortably in an environment that can be called normal or healthy, he has no worries but to arrive from classes and play video games, play soccer and go walk his pet dog, Adam does not have to think about anything other than his own and should not worry about his brother since he is older than him by 10 years.

The great difference of these two stories is the coexistence that both have and the environment that surrounds them has molded them and took them to a different state of mentalities, the personality of a person is the development that this acquires during the different emotional and behavioral processes that he has to experience, coupled with this also the temperament is the predeterminarte factor to form a personality at an early age I go molding others...

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