Everybody has something to wish for. You imagine yourself becoming a more skilled, more capable, more successful version of yourself. And then there are those who lose their faith in themselves. There are fears, insecurities, questioning oneself. Among us there are those who instead of imagining what they want to be, spend a significant amount of their energy on analysing the society and its response.
If you are among these souls, you know what I mean. You know what it's like to try simulating in your head a thousand possible scenarios of how something might evolve in the future. You know what it's like to prepare for a certain conversation, plan when to bring up the matter and yet your confidence runs out. Instead of pronouncing the well-planned phrases, you stay quiet.
Sadly, sometimes society treats this as being passive, uninterested, being without a direction in life, wasting one's time. Yes, of those the latter one is true. Some of us spend an insane amount of time questioning themselves instead of standing up and fighting for their dreams.
So what can we do?
Well, there are several simple yet difficult things to do.
Accept others as they are.
Let them find their way through life.
Don't be judgemental.
Do you relate to this issue?
