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Is there someone you can't forgive? Do you realize that sometimes you are not happy because of your anger towards people you cannot forgive? Can you actually feel that it is only up to you to let go of your anger? "Do we choose hatred or forgiveness?" https://read.cash/@turuncu/do-we-choose-hatred-or-forgiveness-7c9dcfed
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Thank you. ;) I replied immediately..
For me, forgiveness is a process. I cannot give that easily. Well, can't explain further, but, I do hating someone. And forget her/him 😅
Yes, I think it's a process... We blame him/her first. Then we finally realize that he/she is also human and can make mistakes. Then we either realize that the mistake is not so important, or we move away from him/her. In the end, we understand that the mistake is his/her responsibility, and forgiveness is our responsibility, and we choose to make the choice according to our own value and free ourselves from this emotional burden. It's not about being with or without him/her, it's about forgiveness and finding peace. We can forgive someone and continue our relationship with them. Or we can forgive him/her and still break up with him/her.
Indeed, it's a process. I mean, I believe working things out to work it out. Who would forgive just like that, right? 😁
Your right girl. Morning
I have been in anger with someone for many years but I've come to the point of releasing myself for good, and for myself to stay away from stress.
You finally succeeded. That's why I love the comfort it gives :)
I have forgiven a bunch of a*******. I never knew how strong I was until I had to forgive them who weren't sorry and I have accepted an apology I never received. That doesn't mean though that I forget.
You're right, that doesn't mean we forget. In particular, we get rid of the unnecessary burden of that person, situation, event, and in this way, we do not feel much discomfort anymore.
forgiveness is my gift to myself... so i do forgive people even if they are not sorry at all :) for my own peace
Yes, that's the best!.. I've known many people who, when forgiven, become better people and apologize. Of course, I choose to remove those who really hurt me from my life and then forgive. We are all human and can make mistakes. But just as we have no right to harm anyone, no one has the right to harm us. We don't need to repeat the cycle by keeping a psychopathic person in our lives.
tama ka dyan sis.. ang bigat sa dibdib pag may hinanakit ka sa isang tao..
korek :) why suffer because of them hahaha
So true I'm always forgive to the people saying sorry if they are mistake.Sorry is a simple words but they can change your feeling .
I do not keep anger inside of me. I just let it go as soon as it sets in me. I forgive easily those who I love and do not care about those who I can live without. Plain and simple.
I think you're mostly someone who can react appropriately at the moment of the event. If I'm not mistaken, there is not much negative emotion left to disturb you since you do not throw anything into it. This is a great thing I've learned over time.
I'm always into cutting people off due to my anger, well, so few people left. Indeed, I need to forgive since I do have misdeeds myself.
forgiveness for me.. i don't want a heavy heart.. because hating someone makes us grumpy and sad..
I forgive people who have done worse to me