My Personal Secure Messaging Applications Research Experience
I am interested in the issues I wondered for a few days. I wanted to read and call a little on the internet. I'm investigating the applications that respect the new and personal privacy that I can safely make a voice video call with my loved ones. I haven't used WhatsApp for a long time. I was using a signal and telegram. But I wanted to learn you have better and safe applications.
The information I win is incredible. Each application has pros and cons. However there are several applications that are mentioned safer.
These are Threema, Session, Wire and Signal Applications.
The Threema App is a paid app. But this is not a very high paid. I think it can be downloaded for $ 3.99. I received the app from Google Play. Since I can use the applications I purchased with my 5 family members, I have just paid $ 0.79 per person for. 😊
To use the Threema, it is not necessary to log in by a phone or e-mail.
Enables you to create a unique ID while setting the application. However, if you want to know who is using Threema in your phonebook, you can allow the Threema application to access your Telephone directory.
Of course, you will allow you to know that you are using the Threema app by adding your phone number to Threema. But this is not a condition and your choice. Application theme is quite nice. Also a very slight app.
The Session app is a fully safety-oriented application, but there is no voice and video calling features. A free app.
Wire app is another application that is specified as safe. To use the application, you must register for your phone number or e-mail account. A free app.
After changing whatsapp terms of use, signal and telegram applications have become more popular. Yes, Signal App can be secure. However, it is very difficult to qualify the Telegram App as secure, as seen on the site below.
Sometimes we share special moments and photos with my family and loved ones. For business purposes, ourselves, our company and even share information about our customer and staff information through these applications.
I believe that the privacy of our personal information is important to all of us and this is our natural right.
For example, sharing your photo on Facebook may not be a problem. But you may not want everyone to see a funny-looking photo. When we publish something somewhere, we want to do our own discretion. Therefore, privacy is important. And therefore sites and applications that respect our privacy are very important.
Let's say we take a few pictures with my family in my garden in short shorts and a tank top. We may share this with our family and loved ones, but we may not want these photos to be seen by the world. Moreover, we do not want to share them with Facebook, WhatsApp and Instagram Partners, NSA and countless institutions and individuals that we do not know.
That simple part. This is important for me. Therefore, even if it is paid, I would like to use reliable practices that care for the privacy of our personal information and respect.
For example, you are a psychologist or psychiatric. You respect your patient's privacy. Can you share personal and private information of your patients with me? Why you want to share all these personal and private information in the application like WhatsApp, Facebook Company, Facebook Business Partners, NSA and the person and institutions we know.
Therefore, we should give importance to applications that respect our privacy and do not use our personal information for their benefits in any way.
You can review the site below. This information can help you with your choice.
https://www.securemessagingapps.com/
I hope Web3-based messaging and voice video call applications can also improve our personal privacy perhaps maximum level.
As technology develops, such applications will be further important at the point where personal data mining, reclams, personal data, even threatening our personal safety.
Hope the developing technology reaches a level of development to protect human rights.
But I think we should care about our personal privacy before this issue.
In terms of use by the way, I like the Threema App and Session App. If you care about our personal privacy, I recommend you try these applications. Of course, you can specify the reliable other applications that you know.
Threema Web Site: https://threema.ch/ https://threema.ch/en
Wire Web Site: https://wire.com/ https://wire.com/en/
Session Web Site: https://getsession.org/
Signal Web Site: https://signal.org/ https://signal.org/tr/
Secure Messaging Apps Comparison: https://www.securemessagingapps.com/
I only shared a few apps I have started to load and use it. You can learn detailed information about other applications by examining websites if you want.
Please consider that this is not a review article. I just wanted to share a simple personal research with you. I am interested in technology but I'm not expert in such matters. I'm just the ordinary person that gives importance to personal privacy. I am using apps for only a few days. I just use Signal app for a long time. I think the best is to try some more research and try using the applications you think is good. In this way you can see the results yourself.
However, there is no need to say that these applications are not commonly used. But it is enough to be able to use these applications with my family and my loved ones.
Hopefully this spelling has helped the people who care about personal privacy like me.
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Oh Romeo! Juliet is not here!
To ignore the things we are uncomfortable, it hurts us by overloading us emotionally in the long run in the long run in the long term to make us constantly compromise against the mistakes made against us.
Because no one has to drive the injustice. That is contrary to existence. Each response is unable to give and delayed as if it does not grow as an avalanche of avalanche.
If you fill an enclosed bottle with continuous air, the bottle will explode due to the amount of high pressure, regardless of the amount of the filled air.
For the same reason, we experience an emotional explosion, if we do not empty the stress and pressure required in us.
What is normal is to react instantly when we live anger, sadness or disappointment.
For example, if we are discomforted by this behavior, we should not hesitate to indicate this behavior. A simple sentence is sufficient.
"Please don't stay like this and steal my time."
Or you can respond with a joke.
"I was almost about to bear fruit."
It benefits our relationship in both ways.
1) Since we do not react with excessive anger, we avoid an emotional explosion that may occur in the future.
2) We determine the dynamics in our relationship from the very beginning, and in this way, we fulfill one of the necessary conditions for establishing a healthy relationship.
It is necessary to react. Because whether we want it or not, we will definitely react now or in the future. The healthy thing is to react in the right amount when necessary. Our intention is not to start a revolution. :)
In fact, action & reaction is a law of physics. No one is exempt from the universal laws of physics.
Saying "You broke my heart, my friend." is as natural as saying "I love you".
It is much wiser to react this way than to say, "Friendship is not breaking hearts. Don't break anyone's heart. People don't understand me. No one can be trusted."
Because friends are not psychics. No one can read our thoughts. If we do not express our resentment to our friend, it is very natural for him/her to treat us in the same way. Because he/she doesn't know that our hearts are broken. If we can't tell, he won't know anyway.
Whatever problem we have with whomever we have, we should solve our problem with her/he.
When we go to the doctor when we are sick, the doctor asks us what ailments we have during the examination. We also answer that I have a sore throat, runny nose, dizzy, etc.
There is no point in saying these to the grocery store.
If you had to sleep on the couch because you didn't keep your promise to your wife, that's your problem, not mine. Go win your wife's heart again. Posting on social media won't solve your problem.
Instead of shouting "I love you Juliet" in the street, confess it to Juliet, dear Romeo.
Thank you for reading. I hope Romeo got my message. :)
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To criticize others or to organize your own life?
In many places, articles and messages about our discomfort with people in our lives attract my attention.
There are so many people who constantly talk about the people who disturb them in their lives, the people who break their hearts...
The thing is, we choose the people in our lives, even if we don't consciously choose them. For example, you are the one who chose the boyfriend who broke your heart...
"But I didn't know he was going to break my heart."
Our subconscious mind affects our lives much more than our conscious. However, we are the ones who feed our subconscious in a way that negatively affects our lives.
For example, in a drama movie, the leading male character breaks the female character's heart. You are upset and afraid that something like this will happen to you. You fed your subconscious mind with these feelings and thoughts. As this repeats, your subconscious mind is preparing scenarios for you to experience similar ones.
"Why? Is my subconscious my enemy? Why would my subconscious mind plot against me like that?"
Our subconscious mind, like our servant at your service, is adept at preparing for us the like of what we have given it.
Think like artificial intelligence. Our subconscious mind has its own intelligence. However, it does not distinguish between our emotional states as positive or negative. It doesn't judge our thoughts as good or bad. It simply prepares for us what is in harmony with what we give it. Fear, anger, hatred, grudge, sadness, disappointment are neutral for it.
Actually, everything is more complicated. Because our conscious memory can forget, but our subconscious never forgets. However, it is possible to program our subconscious to work in harmony with our wishes. Bioenergy systems such as affirmations, suggestion mp3s, reiki can partially do this. But no technique has yet been invented to do exactly that.
We want to eat a lot, but not to gain weight at all. Yes, our subconscious can do that.
Undoubtedly, if you have faith, you can walk on water.
If you have an unshakable belief, you can program your subconscious in an instant. If you believe you can succeed, you will. But you must not let your fears, anxieties and doubts hold you back.
Have you ever worked with affirmations? For example, repeat the affirmation "I love myself". Can you feel it? Do you feel that your love for yourself fills your heart? Or do you think that you have flaws that prevent you from loving yourself? When you say you love yourself, your consciousness may resist it. But as long as you repeat this, your heart will be filled with love for yourself.
One day someone will come into your life who loves you and doesn't hurt you. As a result of your self-love, respect and self-worth, you will be able to choose people who value you.
Say what I said, I want to wrap it up. You are the one who attracts and lets everyone who comes into your life, good or bad, into your life. If you can show your reaction to something that you are uncomfortable with, expressing your self-respect and love, people in your life can be careful not to offend you. Even showing the courage to remove the people you don't want in your life can be an expression of your self-respect.
And the thing is, people tend to treat us the way we treat them, other than to treat us as we let them.
Balance is important. You should treat people well and show more respect and love to people in your life who treat you well.
As long as you allow people who treat you like dirt to be in your life, and as long as you make more concessions from yourself in order for them to treat you well, you will consume your self-respect and love and give your subconscious instructions for similar people to enter your life.
You should choose people who value you, love you, respect you. But first you have to love yourself, respect yourself and value yourself.
You have to value yourself, respect yourself so that people can value and respect you.
Self-worth, self-respect and self-love are not just inner feelings. It is also compatible with behaviors that reflect this.
Chasing the so-called Alpha male that all girls chase goes against all this.
These may be happening to you because you push away people who approach you with love, respect and kindness.
So as long as I reject the blessings that come to you and chase after those who make you feel worthless, this vicious circle will continue.
You should value yourself and let people who show you the value you deserve in your life.
You should love yourself and be with people who express their love for you.
You have to respect yourself and let people who treat you with respect stay in your life.
Because what is consistent is to show love, respect and value to oneself and others.
You shouldn't chase after someone who doesn't value you. If he values you, he will show you that. If he doesn't value you, he doesn't need to be in your life anyway.
Self-loving, self-worth and self-respecting people do not take advantage of people's weaknesses in order for their heads to give love, respect and value. They don't try to manipulate or confuse anyone's mind and emotions into following them. In fact, such people need other people to value, respect, and love themselves.
You are unique. You're special. You are precious. You are worthy of being loved. You don't need my or anyone else's approval to feel these things. You can feel all these wonderful emotions within yourself. And the golden rule is this: your behavior should be in line with these feelings. You don't have to chase after someone to get them to like you. If he loves you, he will already be there for you.
You should not expect all the people in the world to love you, respect you and value you. Those who want love us, those who don't want don't. If we love ourselves, we don't need anyone to love us. And we can show the people who love us, value us and respect us in our lives with the love, respect and value they deserve.
Is your mind still preoccupied with things that make you feel bad and worthless?
Why let your manipulators drain your energy when you can feel the love of the people who love you?
"You can't treat me like that!",
"You can't talk to me like that!"
These two sentences are great when needed. But it should be used in place. After these words, you don't have to keep the people who continue to hurt you, make you feel bad, and make you feel worthless in your life. Many of them start talking to you more carefully after these words. Others simply disappear from your life.
Let the people who deserve to be in your life stay in your life.
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Today's walking activity with photos.
I spent a few days indoors due to the weather and personal possibilities. Finally, I took the opportunity to take advantage of the wonderful weather today and went for a walk. Of course, I also had to shop.
As the New Year was approaching, there were stalls in front of many stores with clothes and products sold in stores. There were also a lot of people in the streets.
I took pictures of the beautiful and interesting things I saw while I was hiking. For example, I think this red rose that went out on the street wants to travel the world. :)) Its roots were in the garden and its body was on the street..
I wanted to photograph this part of the city from an elevated position. There are photos that I really like. In fact, I took these photos quickly and kept walking.
Pine trees are one of my favorite trees. Because places with pine trees make me feel like I am in the forest. I love this feeling. Especially the unique smell of those pine trees is fascinating. This park is a very beautiful park with pine trees around it, located at a high place in the city.
Of course not without flowers. I saw these flowers in front of a house. After taking pictures of the flowers, I noticed a man looking at me. As I passed the man, I said that I liked the flowers and that's why I took pictures. He thought I was an electrician. :) Anyway, without further ado, let me share the photos right away.
Another park that looks so great. I took pictures of the park but I didn't sit anywhere during my walk today. I wanted to walk calmly, slowly and with pleasure and to take a tour of the city.
I didn't have to go to the port to see this boat. The captain parked the boat in the garden. :)) I think it's great and authentic. I want one of these too. Moreover, you do not need a captain's license in front of the house.
It was a good day for me. It was a pleasant walk. Shopping is also ok. I hope you have joined this walk with me.
Love, Respect and Greetings.
Enjoy your life.
Short vacation at home
Today I spent a little away from social media, closer to my own life and needs.
I started the day with a cup of coffee in the morning. Breakfast is a very important meal for me. So I had a nice breakfast. I spent some time in the garden. Then I chose a lot of music that I like on Spotify on the computer. I haven't made a list yet because I want to create a playlist by listening to the music I chose on the phone with headphones.
It is important for me to clean the subconscious mind, and for this I sometimes use the indoctrination mp3s prepared in my own language, embedded behind the sounds of nature. This is the subject of a separate article and is open to discussion, and since the scientific evidence is not sufficient, I will not go into this subject in detail for now.
I'll be looking for a movie to watch soon. But first a hot shower will do me good.
I want to spend today taking a home holiday and resting.
In fact, all of our lives are basically similar waking up, having breakfast, working, going home or having some outside fun... When our minds are not involved, we just live life with simple actions.
And I want to share with you the photos I took in the garden today..
Physical, mental and emotional toxicants
Those who produce work quickly and efficiently have a common technique. The things they use most often are closest, and the things they use least are farthest away. They don't keep garbage, leftovers and things they will never use there. They also guard important things that might distract them or accidentally drop or break them.
That's how life should be. The things that work best for us should be close to us. The loved ones we want to be with us at every moment of our lives and everything that strengthens us.
There are also things and people that should be in our lives, although they are not often with us.
There are also things and people that negatively affect the flow of our lives.
Those who contribute to our experience of peace, happiness and love should be closest to us. Even if not every day, those who support it from time to time should still be in our lives. However, those who negatively affect our peace, happiness and love should not be in our lives. The person, thought, attitude and everything that exploits and consumes the happiness, peace and love we have gained with our own efforts and the support of our loved ones should be far from our lives.
These are the things that keep us from our path by channeling and wasting our energies in the wrong things.
People who make us feel bad all the time, even with a joke, who make friends just to tell us about their problems, who somehow always lower our motivation...
Some people constantly inject their negative attitude into us, either by telling about their own problems or by telling the negativity of others. After a while, we begin to have insecure, anxious, hopeless and negative thoughts and feelings about life, people, and the future.
Even the best masters who teach people about life can turn negative if they are constantly under negative thoughts, feelings and suggestions and cannot spare time for their inner work. Because whoever you are, the things that occupy your focus the most become a part of your thoughts, feelings, and life.
You have to focus on what you want to happen in your life and make it a part of your life.
When you join a war, the war will become your reality.
Friendship is a wonderful thing, but you don't want to be in the middle of a war you don't want.
You don't want to sell drugs and poison children for a friend you love dearly. Why would you want to adopt their negative feelings, thoughts and attitudes and want to poison others!..
Your friend told you something bad happened to you. Because of this, you were upset, your energy dropped and you lost your motivation. Then, by sharing this situation with others, you make them sad, lower their energy and lower their motivation.
Yes, "It's good to share", but what you share matters too.
Would you like a friend with corona to share their illness with you? When you find out about this, you will walk away from your friend, right? Even if you love your friend very much... Because you never want to share with your children at home what he shared with you.
If a heroin-addicted friend wanted to share his addiction with you, would you agree?
Thoughts, feelings, and attitudes affect our lives just as much as physical things. That's why it's very, very important with whom we share what.
Some thoughts, feelings and attitudes make us stronger. Others drain our strength. People can be poisoned not only by poison, but also by thoughts and feelings. These toxic feelings and thoughts will become negative physical situations in our lives after a while.
It is best to evaluate an event objectively...
Let this stay here as a due diligence.
Everything we take into our lives affects us positively or negatively. These can be physical, mental or emotional. They are all interconnected and affect each other. Being sad all the time increases sad thoughts. After a while, we may experience stomach problems.
There are so many toxic thoughts on social media that they affect us negatively, even in a few days.
Sometimes I will write articles like this. Let it be a reminder. Because I sometimes forget this and get affected negatively, and I try to get away from social media for a while and get myself together...
Yes my friend, I'm an empath who senses your intention, your mood from your comment.
Most empathetic people should pay attention to this.
Negative Acceptance!
Negative Acceptance!
"How you start your day, you continue."
Maybe!
If you don't do something about it...
There is a difference between fatalism and the victim role. It must be so...
I'm not getting into the subject of fatalism at all. But none of us have to pretend to be victims. Whatever happened in the past, it doesn't have to stay like this for the rest of our lives.
We may have started the day badly. For example, I started the day with a headache today. Which headache is my kryptonite. But I want it not to make me spend my whole day badly, not to prevent me from enjoying the day. So what can I do for it? Living life like this is freedom. Because we know that we have a choice in every situation.
Remember the days when you started the day badly and had a bad day all day. It didn't have to be like this. But we accepted it.
In every moment of our lives, we have the freedom to change our thoughts, ideas, attitudes, emotional states, how we feel, our perspectives.
If we are tired, we can rest. If we are sad, we can be happy. If we are anxious, we can feel peaceful. We can feel whatever we want whenever we want. We don't have to wait for the world to turn into a paradise for that. If you're making yourself suffer all the time, you're already living in hell.
How can we appreciate the life we live now when we are constantly occupied with the pain or longing of the past?
We cannot change what happened in the past by constantly thinking about the past. If we have made a mistake, we must admit it and return to the present by forgiving ourselves and others.
We only have the present. Being aware of the present makes us peaceful. If we have unfinished business in the past, to forgive ourselves and others for everything that has happened and to get rid of the chains that bind us to the past liberates us.
Of course, our memories are precious, but the past does not have to be remembered every day, moment by moment.
Our experiences are important to us. In other words, the lessons we have learned from the things we have experienced and that strengthen and elevate us.
We learn to forgive, love and compassion through experiences. These, in turn, raise our consciousness, allowing us to have a broader perspective and reveal a larger part of ourselves.
Our past actions and choices have brought us to this point. We are determining the point where we will be in our future right now. What matters to us is the moment we have in our hands. Now we have the freedom to make the choices we want and reach the points we dream of in the future.
Even if the memories of yesterday or 50 years ago affect our happiness, peace and loving relationships, it is not destiny. How can we be happy in the relationship we have today in the longing for our wonderful past relationship? Or how can we be happy now by reliving the pains of the past every moment?
We still have the freedom to choose to live the relationships we have now great or to start a great one. Right now we have the option to be happy.
Right now!
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A personal look at relationships
We can't always do everything perfectly. Even if we are very smart, even geniuses, we can do simple stupid things. Even if we have excellent speaking ability, we can sometimes make mistakes even in simple sentences. Our words are sometimes true, sometimes jokes. Even if we have a perfect memory, we can forget where our car key is, an important day. These do not show that we are guilty, flawed, sinful. We are just people who can make mistakes.
Being the best version of ourselves, doing the best at what we do, of course, is something we should try. But we must also learn to forgive ourselves when we make mistakes.
Our best friends are people who accept and love us as we are. Because we feel comfortable with them.
Of course, there are things that should not be accepted. Such as criminal acts. But instead of ending our relationships for simple things, I think it would be much better to do something to fix and strengthen our relationships.
Burning a quilt for fleas, burning the ship and the port in the slightest problem will never be a solution. It just turns us into a sharp knife. In every relationship, we harm the people we interact with. Ultimately, our relationships will be full of lose-win, black-and-white, ego warfare, conflicts of interest.
We must learn to be flexible, to accept flaws, to forgive small mistakes, and to see others as people who can make mistakes as much as ourselves.
Instead of ending a relationship that has worked for years with a single word, it would be much more reasonable to learn the truth by speaking.
Pulling barbed steel wires around our hearts so that we don't get hurt prevents us from showing our love to others, as well as preventing others from realizing their love for us.
Remember, the people we love the most are those who accept us as we are and accept our flaws.
As long as relationships prevent people's actions, behaviors and people from being themselves, it is not possible to talk about sincerity, true friendship, and a heart-warming, satisfying love.
When we enter a relationship, we shouldn't need to change and transform ourselves into a different person than we are. Relationships that we think are necessary are not real relationships from the very beginning.
Small arguments don't mean our relationship is bad either. It is not possible for us to agree 100% with anyone on everything all the time. Instead of turning our backs on the slightest snag, clarifying things by talking helps us to look at the subject from different perspectives.
Problems left unresolved not only affect our current relationship, but our later relationships as well. So running away is never the solution.
The secret to strong relationships is not that everything is perfect. We can have strong relationships as long as we can understand each other, love each other despite our flaws, do not compare ourselves and each other with others, and determine our relationships according to the relationships of others.
It is not possible to talk about a strong relationship as long as the relations are dispersed at the slightest wind.
Relationships that do not leave us room to act are also far from sincerity.
Neither a relationship where one side makes concessions and the other side dictates everything, nor a relationship that ends in the slightest mistake is not the right relationship. A balanced relationship is one that listens, understands and maintains healthy communication.
Relationships established only to meet physical needs are also consuming. If physical attractiveness is the determining factor, the same will be the deciding factor that will end the relationship.
People who accept each other as they are are also those who manage to accept themselves as they are.
Forgive me for not being able to answer the perfect relationship question as a result of all this. Because knowing how to forgive, loving ourselves and others, and reducing our sharp boundaries will enable us to establish healthy relationships. The perfect relationship is like falling in love. The only difference is that we can love each other despite our flaws.
All these thoughts are a perspective on relationships, like any other thought. Our heart and reason will show us the right way.
Having a beautiful garden
These photos are from the garden of a house I don't know who it belongs to.
Metaphorically we all have our own personal garden. If we want this in our lives, we can add things that will make our lives better. We can show the same care we show to our garden to our lives.
Just as we clean the things we don't want in our garden, it is our responsibility to clean up the things we don't want in our lives. At the same time, if we want roses in our garden, we are the ones who have to do it.
Having a beautiful garden takes care, effort, time and attention. We need to do more than just sprinkle flower seeds in our garden. Yes, sometimes it may rain and we may not need to water our garden but other days we have to water our garden. The more you take care of our garden, the more beautiful it will become.
The first thing we need to realize is what we want in our garden. We should not stop beautifying our own garden by seeing the beauties in the gardens of their heads. Or that others' neglect of their garden should not hinder our desire and effort to achieve our dream of a wonderful garden.
Rose, carnation, daisy, bougainvillea, marigold... We should plant whatever we want in our garden. We need to water and maintain it regularly.
At the same time, we should remove the harmful votes that should not be in our garden and the stones that damage the roots of our flowers from our garden.
We all have 24 hours in our lives. If we spend our time taking care of other people's gardens, we will be so busy that we do not find time to take care of our own garden.
The best we can do is give advice to those who want to know. The responsibility lies with them. Beautifying all the gardens in the world is not something we can do alone.
Instead of spending our time taking care of our garden, celebrating our success and being grateful for the flowers that bloom, feeling sorry for every garden in the world that dries up can consume our passion, the motivation we need to take care of our garden.
We need to focus on our dream. Holding on to pain hinders our progress.
Positivity, Pessimism, and Realism
I do not want to go into the meaning of realism and its meaning in art. In its simplest form, realism is about reality, not drama and emotions. Realism requires seeing everything in its simplest form, clearly and objectively. When emotions are involved, objectivity loses its meaning and the concept of realism cannot be mentioned.
Emotions, of course, are not bad. We are human because we have emotions such as sadness, fear, anxiety. It is one of the most natural things to be sad, cry and mourn when necessary. Depression isn't bad either. Just like physical diseases, this is natural, like the flu that we catch at certain times in our lives, because we are human.
But like any illness, we must be able to overcome depression, sadness, pain, fear and anxiety. And we have to stand up again and continue our lives in a healthy way. In the process of sadness, mourning, and depression, our family and friends support us to make us happy and to heal as soon as possible. The important thing here is not that our loved ones, family and friends are sad with us, but that we can be happy with them. We don't want the people we love the most to get sick like us.
Positive mood can accelerate recovery in the fight against the most serious illnesses. For this reason, the best way to help people who need help is to try to help them feel good, happy, safe and positive.
Crying relaxes us. This is true. Others don't have to cry with us. It's not normal for us to want this. What parent would want their child to suffer from cancer like they did?
It is wrong to expect others to grieve, cry and suffer with us. This is so selfish. It is as absurd as expecting your doctor, who is trying to bandage your wounds and treat you, to cry by your bedside.
There is innumerable beauty and good things in the world.
When we look at it from the perspective of realism, there are problems and solutions. In fact, the problems are not with the problem. Rain, snow, storm, hurricane, tsunami, these are just natural events. It just exists. Certain causes, effects and conditions may have consequences. As human beings, we can be affected by natural events. Natural events have no emotional meaning in terms of realism. We are humans who give emotional meaning to events.
Of course, it is normal for us to be upset in any event that happens to us. But it is not normal for us to want the whole world to be sad. One thing is for sure, everyone struggles with many problems in their own life. Everyone has a different way of dealing with their problems. Some people try to solve their problems by crying. Some overcome their problems with laughter and humor. But it is not nice of you to remind a laughing person of the hungry people in Africa and expect him to be upset.
All my life I realize that people who claim to be realistic don't know that they are actually pessimists. A realistic person is one who can objectively evaluate events and try to find solutions. He takes his umbrella with him in rainy weather. Those who build earthquake resistant buildings against earthquakes are realistic. People who ignore the beauties under their noses, but aim to see all the problems in the world, but instead of taking responsibility and trying to find solutions, people who constantly talk to people about problems are pessimistic and not realistic.
You are realistic if you can see everything objectively without involving your emotions. It can be said that you have positive attitudes and behaviors when you start to produce solutions and take responsibility in this regard and put the solutions you find into practice.
However, if you are constantly seeing problems and waiting for others to find or implement solutions, if you have a habit of being unhappy even in the happiest situations and spreading it to others, you are pessimistic.
If you have an inner urge to make a happy person unhappy, you are pessimistic.
When something happens to us, it is natural to feel sad, suffer, cry, and become depressed. We can recover and get back on our feet. We are very lucky if there are people who support us by smiling and supporting us during this process. But no pain, unhappiness, anger or fear should last forever.
We can see everything that happens in the world from three different perspectives. Realism, positivity, pessimism.
We choose our perspectives. If we choose our perspectives under the influence of our emotions, we are either optimistic or pessimistic. We cannot claim to be realistic unless we are objective. This is logic error. No need to fool ourselves. As long as we act under the influence of our emotions, we are either optimistic or pessimistic. Being realistic is another thing.
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My Windows 11 Upgrade Adventure
I've been trying to upgrade my computer to Windows 11 for a few days now. Unfortunately, Windows 11 installation was not supported because my computer did not have a TPM chip and my processor was old.
After researching, I was able to bypass the TPM warning. I have successfully upgraded to Windows 11 after accepting the disclaimer that Windows is not responsible for any problems with my computer.
There is no problem for now. It's a bit like Mac OS. Colored folders and many file icons have changed. There are actually a lot of changes.
If you're open to changes and your computer supports it, I'd recommend upgrading. I had to install an application from the windows market to make the taskbar transparent. I guess Windows wanted to offer this feature for a fee. But of course there are different applications. Also I haven't been able to reduce the taskbar size yet.
To perform the upgrade, I edited the appraiserres.dll file with notepad, thanks to a few videos I watched. If anyone wants, I can send the appraiserres.dll file. However, I did the editing myself, as I thought it would be safest to edit it ourselves.
1) First I copied the Windows 11 installation iso to the flash drive.
2) I deleted the appraiserres.dll file in the source folder in the flash memory. And I copied the appraiserres.dll file I edited into the sources folder on the flash memory.
3) I started the upgrade by clicking on the setup file. We are presented with three options.
a) Upgrade keeping all files and settings,
b) Installing Windows while preserving files,
c) Do a clean install by deleting everything on the disk.
I chose the top option. I didn't want to reconfigure everything from scratch.
There was no problem after the upgrade. However, several upgrade attempts failed because Hyper-V was enabled in the bios settings. After disabling Hyper-V by going into bios settings, a successful upgrade took place.
If your computer is new, it probably already supports Windows 11. However, if you have an old computer like me, if TPM 2.0 is not available, you can upgrade to Windows 11 using this method.
In addition, it is not necessary to throw the Windows 11 ISO file to the flash memory. But this is how I did a clean install if the upgrade failed. If you want, you can perform the upgrade by clicking the Setup file after extracting the contents of the ISO file. Of course, if you do not have a TPM 2.0 compatible computer, you will need to replace the appraiserres.dll file.
This is not a how-to article. I just wanted to share this adventure with you. But I still think it will work for you. If you can't edit the appraiserres.dll file yourself, I can upload it and send you the link if you want. This upgrade was not successful the first time. In fact, even a successful upgrade can take 30-60 minutes. I also did a lot of research to understand what was preventing the upgrade. It may be due to software or hardware incompatibility. The reason for my problem was Hyper-V enabled on Bios. Each unsuccessful attempt took at least half an hour unless I disabled Hyper-V. If you want to upgrade your computer to Windows 11, it will save you time to start the upgrade by deactivating Hyper-V if Hyper-V is enabled. Happy evening to all of you guys.
Sometimes it's necessary to say goodbye?
En güzeli niyeti bozuk insanlardan uzak durmak. Kimsenin zihnimizi, kalbimizi kirletmeye hakkı yok. İyiliğe iyilikle karşılık verilmeli. Bize yapılan kötülüğün de kalbimizi kirletip, bizi dibe çekmesine izin vermemek en güzeli. Ancak tüm iyi niyetimiz rağmen arkamızdan hala kuyu kazmaya çalışanlara koyulan mesafe Çin seddinden bile fazla olmalı. Çünkü fırsatını buldukları her seferinde kötülüğe devam edeceklerdir.
Herkesi doğruya ikna edemeyiz. Çünkü doğruyu görmek için önce kişinin kalbindeki pusula sağlam olmalı. Onlara ne söylerseniz söyleyin yaşadıkları fırtınanın sebebinin bizde olduğunu iddia edeceklerdir.
Bu yüzden sadece deniz feneri olmak gerek. İsteyen ışığı görüp kıyıya yanaşabilir.
Birine daha elveda diyerek güneşli bir güne uyanmak dileğiyle!...
**ENGLISH**
The best thing is to stay away from people with bad intentions. No one has the right to pollute our minds and hearts. Kindness should be returned with kindness. It is best not to allow the evil done to us to pollute our hearts and drag us to the bottom. However, despite all our good intentions, the distance to those who still try to dig a well behind us should be more than the Great Wall of China. Because every time they get the opportunity, they will continue to do evil.
We cannot convince everyone. Because in order to see the truth, the compass in one's heart must first be firm. No matter what you tell them, they will claim that we are the cause of the storm they are experiencing.
That's why you just have to be a lighthouse. Anyone who wishes can see the light and approach the shore.
Wishing to say goodbye to another one and wake up to a sunny day!...
Attention, Focus and Learning
I was not a very successful student at school. Because I had trouble focusing, I learned a lot of subjects very little or superficially. Some subjects were not in my area of interest.
Over time, I've noticed many distractions that I've noticed in myself. First of all, I realized that I did not pay attention to the subjects that were not in my area of interest and that I did not like. And it still is.
For example, history was one of the subjects I disliked the most.
Because it was terrifying that mankind had fought for thousands of years. I could not find a point in history regarding the development of mankind. In fact, I believe that the development of humanity should be the main subject of history.
Anyway... The second thing that distracted me was taking notes. Because I did not know the effective method of taking notes. And I still haven't learned. That's why I stopped taking notes so I could focus fully on one topic. Sometimes I still take notes on important points, but I no longer take detailed notes. I am trying to fully understand the subject.
I read a lot on the internet. First, with a short review, I try to understand whether the subject is the subject I want to learn. If it is the subject I am looking for and it is not just empty expressions, I read that article with all my attention. Because I want to devote part of my 24 hours to issues that are important to me and that interest me.
I learned that sugar consumption causes distraction by restricting my sugar use.
Now I can learn the subjects I want easier and faster. I do not intend to learn everything, to know everything. But I like to learn deeply about the subjects I want to learn. For this reason, I choose the books I read, I love to have great conversations with some people, I like to talk about the subjects I know. I can admit that I don't know about things that I don't know.
For example, I cannot have conversations with you about history and football. Because it doesn't interest me. I don't want to learn. There is a lot I don't know. If you have a good command of the subject, of course, I can make an effort to listen to you. But you and I both have 24 hours. We all have different priorities.
Sometimes I notice people who are constantly competing to prove that they are right in conversations. I can admit that I don't know, but I can't say "You're right" about something I know.
I do not accept everything I read on the Internet as it is. Of course, I have many ideas. In every article I read, I look for a way to broaden my perspective.
When I started writing an article, I decided to share only my own ideas. I have received many comments, both positive and negative. I noticed that the negative reviews were mostly written because the people who actually read it didn't read my article carefully enough. Some of them were because I did not explain some details in my article.
I am also interested in the concept of deep thinking as well as creativity and inspiration. For this reason, as much as the articles that come out with inspiration and creativity, what I write are the products of deep thoughts. Because I write on topics that I believe I know, instead of writing other than topics that fall within my area of interest. I give my full attention to the subject I am writing.
Another issue is the issue of speaking without listening to others. This is another example of carelessness. Being buried in our own world and not being aware that others live in this world... In fact, we expect others to understand us, we think we understand them, but we do not understand them at all. It should come as no surprise that we are seen from the outside as a person who repeats the same words over and over. The expected result is that we experience distraction in this vicious circle. Because we respond to what is going on around us, to the words of others, with our repetitive emotional sterility.
Sorry, but nobody cares if we're geniuses. People care about how we make them feel. We lose ourselves and our humanity at the expense of everyone else.
Life is fluid. It demands attention. People are not always in the same mood. Depending on the situation, we can know what to talk about by listening to other people. Saying "Start life with a smile" to a sad person may mean nothing. We cannot conclude that a smiling person is also happy. Everything in life requires attention. It is necessary to pay attention to the words and beyond the word.
As we pay attention to your wife/husband, our children, and the people in our lives, we can get out of our inner world and communicate truly.
Otherwise, repeating or reading a word in the book cannot be an appropriate answer for every situation. Instead of telling a sad person not to be sad, it can be much better to hug them with love and compassion.
We can know what to do depending on the situation if we are careful enough. Attention and focus are the essence of life.
The more attention we give to a subject, the better we can learn about it.
We can understand people and communicate effectively as long as we pay attention to their words, behaviors and feelings.
If we pay enough attention, we can know that the people we meet love us, hate us, try to harm us, how close we need to get closer to them and how far we need to get away from them. We can even know the true intention of the people in front of us through the words they say and the details beyond the words.
All this is possible with attention and focus. It's no surprise that people who are forward-thinking, who know what's going to happen years in advance, are mindful, strong-focused, and deep-thinking.
We can do the books we read, the people we talk to, the movies we watch, even everything we do in our daily life with attention and focus. Living this moment can be another expression of the concept of living in the present. To live the moment with all our attention, not in the past or in the future, but in the present moment...
While our minds are busy with the past, the future, what we will do tomorrow or what happened to us in the past, we cannot talk about living in the moment if we do not pay attention to what is happening in the present moment.
Let what happened yesterday stay in yesterday. Yesterday was the only time we had to answer old arguments, spoken words. There can be problems, of course. There is a solution to every problem. However, in order to solve the problems we have with people in a timely manner, it is necessary to keep our attention awake. If you have unintentionally caused someone's tears, you must be sensitive and careful enough to wipe their tears. Because an apology not made on time is often ineffective.
Entering someone's garden and criticizing them makes them feel bad, even if you're right. You didn't have to go into that person's garden. People may be open to constructive suggestions, but unfair criticism will only make you lose. You are responsible for your own garden. Those who want suggestions from you will come to you anyway. It is useful to put your ego aside while visiting someone else's garden. It is futile to expect humility from the person you are attacking with your ego. People like Buddha, Mahatma, Jesus, Mohammed do not come into the world often.
If you are wrong, you must learn to shut up and apologize when necessary. If you treat people with humility, they may treat you with humility. But no one has to be humble about something they know. That's why you should learn to say you don't know about things you don't know and to listen to others with understanding.
I wanted to write what was going through my mind as it was. I hope I didn't use a harsh word. It's been a long post. Also, thank you for taking the trouble to read it to the end.
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Discovering our own purpose
We must focus on our own lives, find our own goals and work towards achieving them.
Our life is not long enough to look for the faults of others. But there is a consciousness whose life seeks to devalue others by seeking their faults. In fact, this is an energy caught between consciousness and unconsciousness. A consciousness structure that tries to survive by consuming the power of others because it cannot find its own strength. This is a consciousness trap that we fall into from time to time without realizing it.
However, our priority should be to find our own power, our light, and increase it. People are free to make mistakes that complicate their own lives. This is everyone's own process. This is acceptable until it reaches the point of harming others. However, if the person has started to harm not only himself but also others, it is necessary to put a stop to it.
Learning effective communication is important for all of us. In this way, we can strive to truly understand each other. In this way, we can more easily free ourselves from the aggressive way of speaking.
Today's society lives in an age where information is important. Increasing our knowledge also contributes to raising our awareness. In this way, we can see many things from a wider window and our viewpoint becomes clearer.
The clearer our minds and the broader our perspectives, the more information we can master. People are afraid of things that they do not understand and are not sure of the result. Knowledge can enlighten our minds and free us from unnecessary fears.
When we become open to understanding each other, learning from each other and teaching each other, we can open the windows of a wider perspective both for ourselves and for others.
However, when we start blaming and judging others for everything we do not understand, when we try to dictate our point of view to others even if it is not based on any logic, it is inevitable that we will experience conflict.
Therefore, we must first try to understand the point of view of the people in front of us. If we don't understand, we can ask questions to learn more. In this way, it becomes possible for us to access more information. At the same time, we avoid causing unnecessary conflicts and fights. This makes it easier for us to become a society and humanity that understands and respects each other.
Before we judge, we must learn to listen and make an effort to understand each other. In this way, we have the opportunity to eliminate the flaws in both perspectives.
We should be able to develop the habit of asking questions without judging, instead of going directly to judgment based on our own point of view on a subject we do not understand. But our problems must be to understand the point of view that we do not understand. Judgmental, fault-seeking questions are also of no use to anyone. We should not try to judge, we should try to learn.
A conversation with a person through quality and effective ways of communication can help us learn things from each other that we cannot learn from hundreds of books.
Books should develop us, help us understand others better, enable us to express ourselves better, and make our minds clear and open to new information. Books that do the opposite serve as brainwashing. Books that make us prejudiced against others, intolerant of new ideas, judgmental and lack of empathy can be harmful rather than helpful.
There is no rule that everything in book form will be useful. The most effective lies are those that hide among the truth.
We must be open to learning, whether from books, the Internet, or people, but beware of the pitfalls of judgment and blame.
We should be especially wary of anything that is presented as absolute truths. Because everything is about perspective and not absolute facts.
2+2 does not always result in 4. There are no numbers 3 and 4 in the Ternary Number System. The result of 2+2 is 11 according to the Ternary Number System.
Even positive sciences change and evolve over time. Even if science is based on logic, a new theory can change everything.
So every point of view can bring us one step closer to the truth. Therefore, it would be more beneficial to try to learn and understand instead of being afraid and attacking instead of judging immediately and producing results according to our own point of view. Perhaps the intersection of both perspectives is closer to the truth.
Irrational aggression stops development. In the information age, it would be in the best interest of all of us to stop going on a Witch Hunt.
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Improvisation
Have you ever tried to improvise instead of elaborate plans? For example, you need to attend a meeting. Do you prepare the text of the speech you will make at the meeting in advance, or do you leave everything to the moment of speaking at the meeting? Or do you plan in advance with all the details of how you will act and what you will talk about in an important appointment, or do you leave everything to the flow of those moments?
I used to try to memorize almost certain sentence patterns what I was going to talk about at an important meeting. At the time of that meeting or appointment, I would try to say the sentences I memorized in order, if possible.
After a while I realized that this didn't work, at least for me. Because during interviews or appointments, variables that I hadn't even thought of before were also emerging. Trying to rearrange the texts in my memory according to new variables and finding new things to say at the time required much more mental activity. In addition, the high stress that emerged dragged the business into an inextricable situation.
Then I realized the concept called improvisation. Frankly, it was a little scary. Because it felt like closing my eyes and walking. Still, I decided to give it a try. The results were much better than the planned conversations. But I still felt that something was missing. I looked for something new to get better results. And I was tempted by the idea that talking with some symbols or signs rather than definite plans might be the kind of talk I wanted.
We can call this the main theme. So how could I do this? Over time, I realized that feelings and emotions determine speech. I decided that if I had a great dinner date with a beautiful woman, it would be a great idea if I just felt the emotions, feelings, and thoughts that I wanted to share with her at that very moment. Instead of making the plans in detail, it would be much better to make the plans flexible with our conversations and sharing with that day, moment and that woman. For example, it might be a good idea to buy him flowers. But I thought it was a good idea for me to be open to other possibilities, whether for a meal, for a walk after a meal, or for a great view somewhere. It also created an openness that made it easier for me to notice the feelings, emotions, thoughts, and wishes of the woman we were dating, rather than just thinking about my own uncertain plans.
In this way, I realized that I could really interact and communicate. It was like stepping out of my own mind and stepping into the flow of life.
If this is a business meeting, I decided that creative solutions and ideas would emerge from the flow of the meeting, not forgetting only certain and important points during the meeting. The main theme was important. Keeping those feelings and emotions alive during the meeting, whatever kind of contribution I thought to make at the meeting, made me confident that I would make the speeches I needed.
Thoughts create emotions and feelings, and feelings and emotions create thoughts.
Another important point is to keep our mind open to new ideas and thoughts. For example, an important idea may come before or during a meeting or appointment.
This article is completely improvised. I did not predetermine what I would write in the article, what ideas I would convey. It would be another contradiction to plan an article on improvisation anyway. :)
All I know is this: What to speak, what to say, what to write, we can do it at the given time or situation. I don't think we need to plan this in advance. But of course if you can do it, do it. But doing it during the event may provide us with much better results.
Of course, instead of trying this at a very important business meeting, we can try it in ordinary times of our lives and see the results.
We can write poems with our longing for the one we love. But it can also be incredibly poetic to say what we feel at that moment by looking into the eyes of our loved one. Because the emotions that rise to the top that the moment offers us are the times when the real creativity in us emerges.
For example, we do not prepare jokes in advance. The jokes pop up out of nowhere. Maybe there is a planned, orderly way of living life, as well as a humorous, loving, poetic, creative and fun way. Maybe we don't know what will come out. But it can be humorous or poetic, or we can pioneer something certain new. This will probably be determined by the main theme and our current feelings. Or the result may be even more wonderful than we expected.
Autumn and Winter of Life
Like Night and Day, like the Seasons, there is a transformation in our lives. We do not live with the same performance and power 24 hours a day like a machine. We go through various phases from time to time.
There are times when we feel strong enough to achieve anything, and there are times when we have quiet times.
Night and winter are not bad, and the periods in which we experience a pause in our lives are not bad either. It's just a process.
In autumn, leaves may turn yellow and fall. But in the spring they sprout again, the trees that will bloom. Likewise, things that are old and no longer necessary in our lives can fall like leaves in autumn. It's not bad, it's just a change.
There are learning periods in our lives. There are periods when we adapt what we learn to our lives, and then there are periods when we teach others.
We experience the process of learning, adapting, transferring, getting rid of old ones and learning again. And we call it life.
We can shed our leaves. There may be times when we feel incomplete. But we will bloom again. Birds will be chirping on our branches again. The joy of spring, we will reach the warmth of summer again. Fall is an opportunity to get rid of our weights, to have a peaceful rest in winter and to get stronger again.
In this way, we continue our lives as renewed, strengthened, grown and more efficient. Sometimes you just have to accept the process. We need to give ourselves the opportunity to grow stronger and stronger of our trunks and branches and to be equipped with more leaves and flowers.
Leaving the Past Behind!
A word caught my attention a while ago. In fact, it's a phrase that I've always known, that we repeat over and over again. "You have to leave the past behind. That way you can move forward into the future."
Sometimes it's more important to accept than to know. Even the most important knowledge of the universe becomes meaningless unless we accept it wholeheartedly.
For example, we know that going on vacation is enjoyable. Vacation allows us to relax. We also estimate how much fun the vacationers had. But knowing this and going on vacation are two different things.
We can understand the importance of leaving the past behind. We can also predict and observe the peace in the lives of those who have left the past behind. But knowing it and experiencing it are two completely different things.
Frankly, I guess there are different levels of knowing, even experiencing. The more information our consciousness is ready to grasp, the more we perceive.
It's like noticing new things every time you read the same book again. In fact, that information was always there, but as our understanding and perception improves, we can become aware of more.
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Freedom of Thought and Freedom to Choose Our Thoughts.
Our thoughts affect not only us, but everyone around us and with whom we come into contact. We express our opinion freely, and anyone who hears it accepts or rejects it.
So, are we responsible for the choice of the person who accepts our opinion?
Definitely yes!
I don't think there is much difference between directly killing someone and causing them to commit suicide. For this reason, as much as we are responsible for our thoughts, we are also responsible for whether we express them or not. While we may not do much harm to someone who is strong and resistant, it is also possible for us to do great harm to someone whose resistance is weakened.
For this reason, it would be unethical to use the concept of freedom of thought while expressing our thoughts.
The thoughts of a person who lived in a period in the past, which have survived centuries ago, can affect us even today. For this reason, what we think is important not only for us, but also for the society we live in, the world and the people who will live in the future.
The more our thoughts are constructive, beneficial for ourselves and/or others, and for the benefit of humanity, the more positive contributions we will make to this world.
It doesn't matter which country, religion, belief, ethnic identity, culture, party or team we are from. If we want a healthy society, a truly civilized humanity and peace in the world, we must produce thoughts full of love, respect and compassion that add value to humanity and even all living things, integrate them.
We are also responsible for the effect our thoughts have on others. It is a great contrast to expect the world to be full of love while our minds are constantly producing negative thoughts, poisoning both ourselves and the people we associate with, under the influence of emotions such as hatred, anger and fear.
Whatever our thoughts are filled with, we spread it around us. Fortunately, we still have the freedom to choose our thoughts.
Humanity needs good and beautiful examples more than geniuses. You must use your genius brain for the real benefit of humanity, my friend. If you can positively affect even one person in the world, you have done a great job. That person can also positively influence other people.
Even a single sentence of yours can inspire a person and he can influence the whole world with a book he wrote, a movie he made or a song he composed.
As long as we breathe, there is hope. As long as our hearts beat, we can spread love. As long as we have a brain, we can choose, change, or replace our thoughts.
Even if we build pyramids, a thought cannot affect the world for thousands of years as much as a thought. Because with our thoughts, we affect both ourselves and the people we interact with, and we leave our thoughts to future humanity.
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Freedom of saying I don't know!
Knowledge is perhaps one of the most important things today. The more we know about something, the better we can get to know it. Knowledge gives us competence in certain subjects.
Unfortunately, it is quite common for us to try to pretend that we know a lot about things we do not know. What we don't know is that ignorance will appear sooner or later.
Not knowing is not a mistake, a fault or a sin. We may not know, but we can learn. Obviously, no one can know everything. But everyone can increase their level of knowledge as they learn.
The biggest mistake we make is not admitting that we don't know. This is what blocks the path to learning. We think we know, we pretend we are wise. However, learning is a lifelong process. Learning is not an education that ends when we graduate from school. Regardless of our education level, status, age, position in society, we have to learn, improve ourselves and move forward.
This is adapting to change. If we stay the same while everything is changing, it will cause us to pause and regress because we resist this change.
For example, we find vaccines to combat viruses. But viruses mutate and the old vaccine is no longer effective against the mutating virus. When the virus changes, our defenses must change so that we can fight that virus.
As life goes on, new questions or problems may arise. Old answers may not be answers to new questions. We must be able to give new answers to new questions.
Perhaps the best way to learn is to have children's sense of wonder and to accept our ignorance.
***Socrates said, "The only thing I know is that I know nothing, and i am no quite sure that i know that."***
So I think it would be great if we had the courage and freedom to say "I don't know!" instead of getting into arguments about something we don't know much about.
Yes, discussions can be helpful sometimes, but only if it can teach both parties something. Often, arguments can turn into fights and fights into enmity. Therefore, instead of arguing about something we don't really know, putting our ego aside and accepting that we don't know will allow us to learn something new. This will open our minds to learning and help us learn new information easily. Maybe it's time for us to accept that the world is round.
Sometimes we can meet people whose ego is bigger than their knowledge. No matter how open we are, these people whose sole intention is to win the argument are afraid to admit their ignorance. No matter how rational we are, our words are meaningless to them. Because their consciousness is not controlled by logic, but by the impulses of their ego. For this reason, instead of getting into an unnecessary discussion, it would be better to leave them to their own ignorance as soon as we understand this. But I believe that sometimes small discussions can be helpful too.
In other words, accepting that we do not know about something that we do not know and trying to learn will make us gain. It should be our own choice, on a case-by-case basis, to decide what kind of discussions we can engage in and what discussions we stay away from. Maybe getting into an argument about something we don't know can help us learn new things. However, I think admitting what we don't know at the beginning helps us learn faster.
We need more mental clarity than to arrive at firm conclusions, to be biased. Some acceptance, some doubt, but a state of consciousness in awareness. Blindly believing and blindly rejecting both prevent learning and development. Being able to say "I don't know!" sets us free.
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I haven't written an article for a long time. I want to try again today. But frankly, it won't be an article about personal development like I did before.
When I first wrote an article on the site, it was gratifying to earn Bitcoin Cash thanks to the tips given by @TheRandomRewander Bot. Because I was unemployed for a long time. I didn't have an income and it was much more difficult to find a job due to the Covid-19 pandemic. We haven't even left our homes due to quarantine. At such a time, earning BCH with read.cash has been great for me. Then one day @TheRandomRewander stopped tipping me without even knowing why. Since I still need money during this period, I decided to post on noise.cash. And here I stopped writing articles.
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Most likely my last article on read.cash
I've been posting here for 7 months from time to time. I wrote an article by researching other sources, albeit very rarely. I always cited such sources in my articles. I did not copy and paste the content. When I first shared the handmade baklava recipe, I guess I didn't get any support. However, I even published this article in an original way. Since the same ingredients are used in the recipes, the probability of using similar words and sentences is high. However, although my article is 100% original and I took the photos I shared myself, I think it was misunderstood by the system.
But almost every post I shared here was my own original content. I don't know why but read.cash has stopped supporting my articles.
All my articles are 98% original. I am ambitious about it. I dedicate time to each of my articles. But from now on I probably won't publish articles on read.cash. I hope the read.cash algorithm puts more emphasis on original content.
Take care of yourselves. Love.
Contribution of interest, attention and focus to our lives
Of course, our memory is important. Having a strong memory, especially in our education and business life, can make our lives easier.
In my school life, I was not very confident in my memory and my ability to learn. But when I look back, I realize that sometimes I have done miraculous things.
In high school, my teacher assigned everyone in the class to study certain pages from the textbook. Everyone had to read the pages, learn that they were responsible, and draw the figures in the book on cardboard and explain it to the whole class. I was given a 12-page topic. It was very difficult to read and understand as it is a technical subject. As I read the book, I realized that even if I did not understand what I read, what I read began to settle in my memory. Since I was good at memorizing suras and prayers in secondary school, I tried to memorize the pages I was responsible for. I finally managed to memorize the 12-page topic. During the lesson, my teacher put me on the board to explain the subject.
I said a few sentences. My teacher told me to sit down and gave me 100 points. Actually, I was upset. Because at that moment, I had studied enough to read all 12 pages word for word from my memory.
It made me realize that I could achieve what I wanted, when I wanted. Moreover, I was not a hardworking and very successful student. But that's how I came to believe in the power of my memory. Frankly, I was not successful at all in memory-based classes such as history.
After years, I realized that although I forgot the dates, I had no trouble keeping the numbers in mind. In fact, when I saw a number, I was vocalizing it several times inwardly. If I heard the numbers aloud, I was visualizing them in my mind. When we focused on something visually and audibly at the same time, it became easier to memorize it.
Although we have 5 senses, even using our 2 senses can make our lives easier. But what if we use our other emotions as well?
For example, our olfactory memory is very strong. But mostly we don't use it in memory techniques. We remember a scent we picked up as a child, even years later. Moreover, we remember our memories of that smell.
If we use our 5 senses effectively in our learning and remembering process, I am sure that we can learn everything much more easily.
However, as a person who has been distracted for a long time throughout his life, there is an important issue that I need to say: Attention and Focus. The better we focus on a subject, the faster and easier we learn.
For example, it is possible to memorize a ten-digit number in a short time. If we involve as much of our senses as we can and focus enough, our memory will surprise us. If we are more active in focusing and attention, we can memorize these numbers within 10 seconds or even within 5 seconds.
However, it is true that smartphones and other technological devices make our lives easier today, but they can also prevent us from using our memory. We used to memorize phone numbers. But now it's all saved on our phone.
However, trying to use our brain effectively can increase our brain capacity. Reading books on this subject is really effective. Because focusing intensely on the subject in the book makes our brain work more efficiently.
It seems to me that most people who do not trust their memory have trouble with attention. However, this can be improved.
I like to give my full attention to the work I am doing at the moment. This is really helpful in all matters. In this way, we will be more successful in our work. Our relationships become stronger as we direct our attention to the other person in our relationships. People who feel our attention also show more interest in us. We become better at communicating.
Our words will be more accurate and consistent. Since we listen to the people in front of us with interest and attention, what we hear becomes more easily embedded in our memory. In this way, we also get to know the people we interact with better.
All this also contributes to our self-confidence more.
We realize that we have more good qualities and talents about ourselves, and we love ourselves more.
At the same time, we become more interested in everything around us, as our brain does not hover unstable between the past and the future and is in the present. This is also very useful for us to see the beauty around us.
In short, interest, attention, focus and using our senses effectively can make our lives better.
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Generalizations Are Not Absolute Facts!
No matter how much I talk about perspectives, it's still not enough. But I want to talk about perspectives again. 😊
Some suggest less sleep. Others say we need at least 8 hours of sleep. In the military, I had a commander who said that 4 hours of sleep was enough. A friend of mine I met last year used to say that he slept a maximum of 3 hours. However, our body is smart enough to know what it needs after we don't put an extra burden on our body.
If you believe that 3 hours of sleep is enough for you, it does not mean that 3 hours of sleep is enough for everyone's body.
If we have a sedentary life, little sleep can be enough if our body is not tired. However, intense physical or mental activity can cause our bodies to need more sleep.
Likewise, nutrition. If our daily movement is limited, our body needs less energy. But intense physical activity may require us to feed on stronger foods. The diet of an athlete who does weightlifting or bodybuilding does not and should not be the same as that of someone sitting in front of a computer in the office.
During sleep, our bodily activities slow down. Our breathing, heart rate, kidneys work slower.
We get hungry more outdoors.
When our brain does not get enough oxygen, we yawn.
In hot weather, the pores on our skin expand, we sweat and become more thirsty.
In other words, the way our body works and its needs vary according to location, situation, climate, air temperature, amount of oxygen, genetic factors and age.
How many hours of sleep do those who say "sleep less" mean? What is the limit for too much sleep? Why do we lose our appetite when we are sick? Why do we feel cold and dream more when our fever rises?
All I know is our body is much smarter than we think. When we force our body to sleep less, not to sleep at night, and to get up in the morning, it adapts after a while. But it still knows what he needs.
However, when we force our body to do something excessively for a long time and do not give it what it needs, it starts to give warnings.
If we do not sleep enough, we may experience effects such as irritability, distraction, weakening of memory, loss of balance, and hallucinations.
Likewise, malnutrition has many negative effects.
Generalizations such as "So sleep less, eat less, sleep less!" may not do us any favors.
Let me tell you frankly, I get angry when I hear a generalization. Because generalizations made without considering conditions, place, time, factors, duration and differences are irrational.
Generalization can only help us to reason. But the idea of reaching the truth by generalizing is absurd.
Even statistical calculations cannot reflect the full truth, and it is not correct to present an idea obtained through generalization as an absolute truth.
The generalization that "women are smarter than men" is wrong.
The generalization that "men are smarter than women" is also wrong.
The generalization that "little sleep is beneficial" is wrong.
Each person's body varies according to circumstances, circumstances, and even whether their needs are met. Our body's needs, which change even when we are babies, adolescence, when we become adults, and even when our body begins to age, are not the same in all circumstances and times. Moreover, it is not wise to generalize every person without considering the conditions in which they live.
The generalization that "women are smarter than men" is wrong.
The generalization that "men are smarter than women" is also wrong.
The generalization that "little sleep is beneficial" is wrong.
Each person's body varies according to circumstances, circumstances, and even whether their needs are met. Our body's needs, which change even when we are babies, adolescence, when we become adults, and even when our body begins to age, are not the same in all circumstances and times. Moreover, it is not wise to generalize every person without considering the conditions in which they live.
The world is said to be in the age of Aquarius. So the information age.
Is astrology a science? I do not know. However, this is the information that astrology offers us as a result of the calculations made with the positions of the planets and the information obtained over the years. At least it's much smarter than generalizations. Information age, what does the Data Age mean? How did artificial intelligence evolve so much? Why is the collection and processing of personal data so important?
As I understand it, knowledge is now more important than money. Because this is the conclusion I draw from the information I have obtained. It's pretty logical too. "At least a little sleep is helpful" makes more sense than his generalization.
What I mean is this: Before generalizing, it is important that we evaluate all the information you have acquired in the triangle of logic, reason and intelligence. The more we know about a subject, the more likely our ideas are to be true.
We should not make the mistake of having an opinion without our knowledge. Let's not forget that even scientific theories can be disproved with new information.
Books do not lead us to absolute knowledge.
Books do not lead us to absolute knowledge. Instead of accepting everything as it is, it would be more accurate to filter it through reason, intelligence and logic.
I haven't written an article for a while. Actually, I didn't want to write it because read.cash's algorithm @TheRandomRewander ignored my previous 3 articles. Because writing an original article really takes time. I love writing articles, but I believe that every effort should have a counterpart. I hope this article gets the reward it deserves.
Thank you for reading.
Love, Respect and Greetings
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I have been publishing articles on read.cash for about 6 months. I'm not as active here as many of my friends. However, from time to time I get a little participation with a new article.
Almost every article of mine is my own original content. I wrote some of my articles with support from other sources. I cited sources in every article I received help from another source.
I'm sorry to say that @TheRandomRewander did not give any support to my last 3 articles. I don't see this place as a workplace. But I believe that every effort should have a reward. I hope read.cash rewards members who share original and high quality content.
Ways to express and understand love
Sometimes our expectations from our loved ones seem to be accounting. Expectations such as "I did this for him. He should do the same to me." Expectations are tiring and wearing for both us and our loved ones.
Yes, balance is important in relationships. However, no favor done with anticipation actually comes from the heart.
If we really want to do something, we have to. This should not be to win over the other person. If we show love to someone so that they love us, there is an inconsistency here. Love comes from the heart. If we really love the other person, he/she probably will love us too. Or he/she may not like. To love is our choice (consciously or unconsciously) and he/she has likewise a choice to love us or not.
If we love, we can show it to the other person. In this case, it is important not to have expectations. If we believe that someone deserves our love, the affection we show them, this will normally result in a loving approach to them.
Things get complicated when it comes to expectations. "I loved her/him very much. I did everything for her/him." if we say. We are starting to believe that he does not love us. Because she/he did not show us the behavior we expect from her/him. The point is this: If we really loved her/him, we expressed our love for her/him because we loved her/him. Maybe he's showing her/his affection differently. But we may not understand her/his love because our language of communication is different to show love.
Maybe we show our love with words of love. But she/he expects a loving hug, a caress of her/his hair, instead of words. Maybe he wants you to hold her/his hand. Maybe she/he wants you to look into her/his eyes with love.
Often we may not understand each other's feelings with the lack or difference of communication. Every person has a dominant love language. These are simply related to the sensory organ we use most to communicate. We use one or more of the basic visual, auditory and tactile communication. In other words, we must first solve the communication language of the person in front of us. This is a detailed topic of communication. But we can simply understand the communication language of the other person.
1) Visual Communication: People who use visual communication language predominantly use the sense of sight predominantly. They are more interested in subjects such as reading, writing, visual arts. They speak fast. They learn faster by seeing. They prefer to learn by reading rather than listening. Their visual memory is stronger.
2) Auditory Communication: Auditory are more concerned with sound. They pay attention to their tone of voice while speaking. They are more interested in auditory topics such as music. They like to learn by hearing. Their auditory memory is stronger
3) Tactile Communication: People who mainly use touch, contact and communication use gestures, gestures and body movements intensely. Likewise, it is more sensitive to the gestures, facial expressions and body movements of the other people. His feelings are strong. They prefer to express their feelings through contact.
As far as I remember, we generally use these 3 forms of communication. We are all visual, auditory and tactile. However, we all use one or more of these more extensively in communication. We use visual, auditory, tactile or all of them in our relationships.
Let's say; you are visual. Your partner is auditory. You want to go to the movies, your partner wants to go to a concert.
If visual and auditory two people are in a relationship, knowing each other's way of communication will make things easier. You can go to both the concert and the cinema. Or you can choose to do this on different days. But we should know that if our partner wants to go to a concert, going to the concert will make him happier. When buying gifts for your auditory partner, knowing that they are auditory will help you make them happy. But it must be remembered that no one is 100% visual, auditory or tactile.
The way to understand each other is to make an effort to understand. We must try to get to know each other, show care and attention. The sentence "I love you" may not always be enough. We should be able to show our love with our actions, gestures, beautiful music, dance and gaze.
Sometimes we can show our love, which we cannot show with a big single stone ring, with a warm hug and a sweet smile.
That's why getting to know our loved ones and understanding their language of communication
That's why getting to know our loved ones and understanding their communication language makes everything easier. Perhaps the person we love will understand not when we say we love her/him 24 hours, but when we hold his hand to love her/him.
Maybe there is no culprit. Maybe the one we love is showing us that she/he loves us in her/his own love language.
There may be a thousand ways to show our love.
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Rise with love
We make conscious or unconscious decisions throughout the day. Then we experience the consequences of these decisions we make. Often we do not want to take responsibility because we are not aware of the decisions we make. And we begin to see ourselves as victims.
When an obstacle arises, if we decide that we cannot overcome it, we probably will not.
If we have determined that money can be hard to earn, then probably abundance and prosperity will not come easily.
If we have decided that there is no true love, we will probably believe that someone who truly loves us doesn't really love us.
If we have decided that in order to be happy, we must be unhappy first, then we will probably be unhappy before happiness no matter what the situation is.
No matter how much chaos we create, the universe balances itself. The universal system works with more systems than we can think of.
There are two types of motivation in psychocology: Positive and Negative motivation. Reward and punishment.
There are also two mechanisms for ascension in the universal system: Positive and Negative. Reward and Punishment.
When we see ourselves guilty, we judge ourselves, even if we are not aware of it. We decide that in order for us to be punished for our crime, we must experience chaos, the problem. As we decide that we need to pay the price of our crime and punish ourselves so that we can forgive ourselves, our subconscious constantly reveals new problems in our lives. This is actually good up to a point. But if we can repent and confess to ourselves and to God that we will not make the same mistake again, then there is no need for punishment. Only here is God forgiving if we heartily repent and are sure we will not make the same mistake again. This is the penalty dimension of the issue. The belief in punishment for the purification and elevation of our soul.
There is a second option for our soul to rise. Love. Love can elevate a being to the highest levels.
Inviting love in our lives and the world brings balance. When we love ourselves and others, our lives begin to balance. This also brings balance to the world.
However, if we believe that we must experience chaos for balance in our lives, God will grant our wish. Because when we invite love and love comes to our lives, chaos naturally comes when we invite chaos.
When we say, "We will not rise without chaos," our wish is actually this: "God, I am guilty. Punish me."
Either "We can rise with love." , if we say?
"Dear God, I believe in your love and mercy. Please let love be in my life. I am ready to love, to spread love for a loving world. Please fill my heart, my life and the world with love."
Whatever we decide, believe and act on, we will probably live it in our lives.
If we are using expressions that contain certainty, we should not forget that it can be a decision, a wish, a prayer.
The best way to get rid of guilt is to repent. This means: "I will not make the same mistake again. I am determined on this."
The statements here are hypothetical. The reason I wrote this article is to always share my belief that another option is possible, anything is possible.
I believe the best path to ascension is through love. I believe the world will become an even better place with love. Even if it seems like there is no other way, I believe there can always be another way. That the word impossible limits us; With the belief that "everything is possible", I believe that we can open our minds, consciousness and our lives to new possibilities.
Thank you for reading.
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Homemade Turkish Baklava Recipe (Preparation for Ramadan feast)
I want to share with you the production of a special Turkish dessert. In fact, I do not think I can make baklava even though I know it theoretically. Because making baklava is a very demanding dessert and requires manual skill.
Today, neighbors are making "baklava" for Feast of Ramadan (Eid al-Fitr) gathered in our house. Baklava making at home in Turkey is a tradition especially for religious holidays.
Ingredients:
2 eggs
1 water glass measure of oil
1 glass of water Milk
1 cup of yoghurt
1 tablespoon of vinegar
1 packet of baking powder
1 cup of starch
Flour as needed.
For the şerbet (syrup) :
5 cups of sugar
4.5 glasses of water
1 few drops of lemon juice
The filling for baklava is:
300 gr. chopped walnuts.
We mix the flour and water and knead the dough. We divide the dough we prepared into 3. We roll out 10 equal doughs from the dough divided into 3. We use starch while opening the doughs and between the doughs. The starch prevents the doughs from sticking together.
We put the 10 nests we prepared at the bottom of the tray. Then we spread the inner material we prepared on it evenly. Then we put 10 more dough on the tray. We sprinkle the filling material again. We put 10 more doughs.
Our tray is now ready. We cut the baklava in our tray to form a geometric pattern. After cutting our baklava, we pour 300 grams of butter (or a mixture of oil and margarine) on the baklava with the help of a brush. The traditional and most delicious thing is to use butter. However, we used margarine and oil. Now our baklava ready to oven.
We haven't baked it yet. However, after our baklava is out of the oven, we pour the sherbet we prepared on the baklava.
Walnut and pistachio can be used as baklava filling material. We made baklava with walnuts. There are also different recipes for baklava in different regions of Turkey.
**Important details:**
1) After getting out of the oven, wait for the baklava to cool down (lukewarm). The sherbet (shurup) must be hot. For a crispy baklava, baklava should be warm and its sherbet should be hot.
2) Sugar and water measures in baklava syrup should be exactly the same.
There may be details missing in this recipe. However, I hope it gave you an idea about Turkish baklava making. Since our baklava has not been cooked yet, I could not take pictures of its cooked form. However, after it is cooked, I will add that photo to this article.
Baklava can be made with different materials. The ingredient of Antep baklava is pistachio. You can also make a baklava with a mixture of pistachios, walnuts and hazelnuts. You can use pistachios, walnuts, hazelnuts for decoration.
**Thank you for reading.**
Common Traits of Empaths and Things to Consider for Empaths
First of all, I must say that what I will write may differ from the lexical meaning of empathy. In general, empathy means understanding the feelings of others. Understanding thinking is the result of analytical thinking, not empathy.
If you think you understand the opinions of others, it may not mean that you are empathic. Some people are skilled at analytical thinking. This allows them to guess people's thoughts. But for an empath, the situation is very different. Being empath does not mean being privileged. Empaths are much more sensitive to energies. In this article, I wanted to explain the Common Traits of Empaths and What Empaths Should Pay Attention to.
Common Traits of Empaths:
1) It can be very uncomfortable for empaths to be in crowded places.
2) Feeling the emotions of others is a different situation for empaths than "I understand your feelings." A true empath can experience the emotion of people in the same environment without even realizing it. If an empath is with someone sad, he or she will feel sad too.
3) They cannot tolerate violence and brutality. Just one scene of violence on TV can be very uncomfortable for an empath.
4) Advanced empaths can feel the energy of places, food, people, animals.
5) Empaths understand beyond words. They can feel the true intention of the other person. Some empaths are even like polygraphers. Again, this should not be confused with analytical thinking. If you are good at analytical thinking, you can tell if others are lying. Because empaths feel the feelings of the other person, they can know the truth of the other person's words.
6) They can feel the emotions of the other person as well as their physical discomfort.
7) Empaths may experience digestive disorders and back problems. These types of problems can often be caused by a grounding problem.
8) Empaths are compassionate towards people who are emotionally or physically harmed and want to protect them.
9) Even people they don't know pour out their hearts to empaths. This can often be a big problem for empaths. If you are an empath, it is important for you to know how to ground or transform energy.
10) Honesty is very important to empaths.
If you believe you are empathic, the following suggestions may be helpful.
Things That Empaths Need To Pay Attention To To Live A Peaceful Life:
If you need to be in crowded environments for your job or any other reason, learning to ground and purify yourself will make your life more peaceful. The methods below are for everyone, not just empaths.
1) Do not neglect to be in natural environments. It can be great to spend time in nature, to deal with the garden, to step on the ground barefoot, to swim or to spend time by the sea.
2) Learn the grounding work. Grounding methods made by way of the image can be useful. By subject there are many methods. You can choose the one that suits you.
3) There are protection methods belonging to many systems such as psychic protection methods, protection shield, prayers, reiki, shamballa. You can use whatever you believe. You can even start the day with daily prayers. Or you can imagine a dark blue shield around you.
4) If you feel really bad in crowded environments, give yourself lonely and quiet times.
In this article, I have only included certain items. There could be much more. Being empath is not a privilege or an advantage. People appreciate the beauty of their character. Being empath doesn't mean being special. We are all unique and special. Because on earth there is one of us. In fact, I wanted to share issues that empaths should pay attention to in order to help empaths with their troubles. However, I thought it would be more appropriate to include the characteristics of empaths first.
If you are an empath, it is especially important for you to pay attention to the environments you are in, the people you talk to, the movies you watch, and your use of social media.
It is salt purifying. Even a short vacation by the sea can clean and renew your energy due to the salt water it contains. Even taking a shower with salt water and resting your feet in salt water is very effective.
Also, making sage incense can both purify your home and make you feel great.
In fact, you can find many methods that can be used for energy cleaning on the internet.
All these methods can work for everyone. Hopefully it benefits your business. It should not be forgotten that unused information is useless. Just as there is no medicine that heals at once in the world, these methods may not be beneficial by using them once.
Cleaning and protection is much more effective if done daily.
Thank you for reading.
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