Most likely the feelings start to fade from the moment you recognize someone in one corner of your heart. Aspirations or pursuits are always higher in the human brain until the moment before attainment. That is why the immense responsibility of keeping him alive after the achievement is pressed on his head.
Love is not a matter of survival. Love cannot be thrown away by any fixed rule. If you have prepared the constitution of the brain with a thousand conditions for engaging or maintaining the relationship, it is better to call it a relationship of responsibility or contract than love.
The limitations of that relationship will only be in accordance with the conditions laid down in the constitution. So that there will be love only in one corner of that recognized heart box. The rest of the heart box will be full of contracts to sustain the relationship. It can no longer be called love.
Even if you keep a picture of your beloved in your book pocket and weave a web of head-filled suspicions, the end of the relationship will become a matter of nanoseconds. Then in the show of ending that pale relationship, if you take two pints of nicotine to stop the salty sea of eyes, it can also be called a kind of luxury.
Love is not an issue. It cannot be dropped under the terms of any constitution. Look at unconditional, unconditional love. The relationship will survive. There is no need to polish any special responsibilities. Love teaches to live, not to bind dear.
