Children, something invaluable!

Sometimes we want to scream at children. It is a reaction caused by frustration or other intense emotion when children make a scene or have a nervous breakdown. But most of us know that loud voices and punishments affect a child's self-esteem and self-confidence, develop unhealthy coping mechanisms, and make them react even worse in the future.

👉This article offers some perspectives and methods to educate children without screaming and without punishment.👈

One of the most important aspects of raising a child is to show them how to be confident. It is very possible to have doubts when it comes to raising a child with high self-esteem. Start by appreciating his efforts, talking openly about how he feels and telling him that it is normal to be wrong.

Let's go with the child, find out his desires, explain them, help him understand a picture, a book, life, show him what sin is and where it can lead, which often takes a hidden form, seductive, because of which it attracts the naive and simple soul of the child.

Children push the boundaries too often and too much because we often allow them to. But at some point we will lose patience. It's understandable: sometimes we don't say "no" to avoid "a show," or because we want to be "good" parents. However, part of parenting is to set healthy boundaries. Loving your children does not mean giving them everything they want whenever they want. And if you are firm in your decision, in the future you will have fewer and fewer "shows".

👉Here are some ideas for raising a confident child:

🚩Appreciate his effort, whether he loses or wins.

No matter if he manages to score the winning goal or takes the ball off the field, the child should not be ashamed that he tried.

🚩Let him solve his problems on his own.

If you do all the hard work instead of the child, he will never develop the confidence or skills needed to solve his own problems.

🚩Encourage his curiosity.

Curiosity is associated with the development of self-confidence, as well as other behavioral traits, such as perseverance, self-control, strength of character, and conscientiousness.

🚩Never criticize him for the way he did it.

Nothing will discourage your child more than criticizing his efforts. Give him helpful suggestions and honest feedback, but never tell him he's not good at anything.

🚩Give him new experiences.

That doesn't mean you have to send him on a five-week trip abroad. It can be much simpler, such as tasting shrimp for the first time or learning to ski.

🚩Appreciate his courage when trying new things.

Comfort comes when you do what is familiar to you; it takes courage to dare to do something new and different.

🚩Be authoritarian, but not rigid.

When the parents are too strict or ask too much, the child's self-confidence is greatly diminished, who doubts that he can handle it on his own.

🚩Don't tell him when you're worried about him.

It's normal to worry about your child, but you certainly don't want to tell him that all the time. Parental care can often be interpreted by the child as a vote of no confidence.

🚩Talk to your child about his or her feelings.

If he has a seizure or seems upset, ask him why he feels this way: don't just tell him to get over it or calm down.

🚩Let him behave like a child.

Do not expect your child to behave like an adult or to go beyond the natural stages of age.

Children can trigger a series of unresolved emotions in ourselves, making us feel hurt and frustrated, probably in connection with certain childhood experiences or other difficulties we have gone through in our lives. Our children will often reflect these unresolved emotions when they feel them.

That's why it's good to take care of those parts of you that are suffering. Accept your feelings from or about the past without judging yourself and give your child all the unconditional love he or she has not received or needs now.