We were often alone during our time with quarantines. Well, did we get through the loneliness a little? Or did we hold on to those who filled our loneliness yet?
As we are getting ready for new periods, while walking towards collective consciousness step by step, one of the golden information worth thinking about is this loneliness issue. In this article, I wanted to take a closer look at it. Because we cannot change anything that we do not know, see or admit its existence.
Are you ready to be a unique part of the whole with your own color and expression? Because know that life is slowly preparing you for this. But first we have to go through this loneliness.
Loneliness
First of all, let's start by clearing a confusion of concepts that are used interchangeably although they are not alike. Loneliness is not solitude! You can choose to be alone in certain areas of your life and at some times, but you never have to be alone.
Man is a social creature and wants to interact with other people. In fact, this is more like a vital need than a desire. Just like a bee needs to be placed on a flower to make honey… But sometimes you have to walk alone. Sometimes you need it to find your own balance, sometimes to hear yourself better. In fact, healthy life is a matter of finding harmony between these two forms. You walk alone a little bit, then someone will accompany you, then you walk alone a little more, then someone will accompany you. And throughout these interchanging forms, you are actually always alone and together at the same time. There is also loneliness that accompanies these two main forms, but it should not be confused with these two.
In the age we live in, we find it difficult to learn “solitude” due to both the problems in the education system and the scarcity of healthy individuals that we can model. Because you suffer from loneliness, isolating yourself from people is not alone. Likewise, being with someone to suppress your loneliness is not socializing.
Solitude is a strong state of individuality and has no resistance or dependence on being with other people. However, loneliness is when someone who needs individual empowerment is distanced from people, himself, and life, or on the contrary, cannot be without them because of his dependence on them. Being alone and being sociable are both a choice. However, loneliness is not a choice but a state of "non-existence".
We should learn to transform loneliness into a loneliness, not by forcing it, but by watching it slowly like cooking coffee in embers. For this, you must first recognize loneliness and embrace it every time you feel it. Then, talk to him, you have to go step by step — not against him, but with him. So you gradually experience strengthening from within by turning your loneliness into solitude. However, ignoring loneliness or trying to change it by force does not create a transformation, it only magnifies loneliness.
You should learn to share the same life with your loneliness, walk arm-in-arm with him, sit on a bench and watch the birds in the trees while sipping your tea slowly. Loneliness is not something to be afraid of, one just fears what one does not know. It just wants to be seen by you and become solitary in your hands. Like a baby, he can meet his needs only with your attention, and only then can he evolve into an adult. Loneliness is solitude that has been matured by transformation. Man is a creator, human is an alchemist, and therefore everything in your life can only achieve elegance by being transformed by you. Nature is graceful and elegance comes from strength. Only the strong can experience elegance. What do you think, is that exactly what you are looking for?
There is no such thing as every sane person is different. The ranks in the upper layer are determined according to the mind. The one close to where the rainbow ends is higher in rank
I prepared a compact but very effective workshop for three days so that there would be no dreams that could not be realized in the new period. My dream is to inspire more people to learn the nature of creation and experience its uniqueness. Wouldn't it be great if everyone lived their dreams?
