True Friends: Part-3

You know that the true friends are not threatened by your success and they are always there to motivate you and reach your desired goal, it is also so important as it is to be able to rely on without any fear or any doubt that is a key part of a real friendship and also it is important that your friends do not rely on you too much, they help you and you also help them too. In other words, it is essential that our friends are self-sufficient enough. The real friend does not put all of his or her burdens on our shoulders, they realize the matter and they do everything in so comfortable way. True friends obviously understand that we have our own works or own things on our plate and they respect our boundaries too. If we want to be true friends, we also need to be self-aware and make sure that we are not relying too much on our friends. You know every people have different boundaries when it comes to this, so it is often a good idea to talk about these kinds of boundaries and be helpful and supportive regarding this matter.

It is so important matter that we should never have to fight for our friend’s time. The real friends make time for us and prioritize hanging out with us over other less important things and it is very necessary to maintain this thing if you also want to be a good real friend to another person. It is known that no one can prioritize us at all times and should not have to if we are self-sufficient and it is the real fact, but you can see those true friends make an effort to see us and keep us in their lives. In fact, the matter is the case even if they do have the most significant others in their life. And this is a standard we should also hold ourselves to so strongly, even if we also have a significance to other good sights.

Another important sign to the best friend is that she or he thinks the promises are important. You know that whether it's a tiny commitment to grab lunch sometime this week, or it's a bigger promise, a real friend understands what promises mean and keeps his or her promises to us. Also, we can notice that sometimes things are out of our control and that it is not always possible to keep every little promise, but when this is the matter, real friends realize and acknowledge the weight of a broken promise, he or she give the respect to this and work to make broken promises up to us, it makes so happy to us.

Real friends are people that we can trust with our every secret. You recognize that they will not share our secrets with anyone, and we do not have to think twice about telling them when we are sharing it with gossip or how we really feel about certain situations or people with a good attitude with a great common sense. They understand us so deeply, they give the priority whether it is so little or bigger matter happens, they give the respect what we like or what we dislike or what my attitude or others things regarding this. They feel us so deeply and can tell what is going on in our minds, they are the only real friends they can.