Conjugal Life: Part-2
In conjugal life there can be arisen more problems, sometimes the problems are expected, or sometimes they are unexpected. Out of all the problems, there may be sometimes issues with the children of that conjugal life, it is common
for all of the conjugal life to have much happiness when they have the children of their family, besides, there also may be faced some difficulties when bearing the children, it is normal actually that the children can bring another potential source of stress and marriage problems, you know children are wonderful and can bring wonderful and meaningful gifts into our lives indeed, but having children can bring additional stress into marriage because caretaking requires more responsibility as well as a change in roles, providing more fodder, more other utilities or necessary expenditures are increasing for disagreement and strain. Naturally introducing children into our marriage also reduces the amount of time available to bond as a couple, some the couples maybe think so though they love their children so much. In fact, this combination can test even the strongest of bonds.
Besides, there may be Daily Stress in their life. But, you know that the daily stressors don’t need to equal marriage problems, but they can exacerbate problems that already exist, is not it? It is common that when one partner has had a stressful day, they may be more likely to be impatient when they get home, may handle conflict less expertly, may forget their special days, or maybe their interest to a smooth relationship can be attached and may have the less emotional energy to devote to nurturing their relationship. Actually, if both partners have had a difficult day, this of course is only exacerbated, nothing else I think.
Besides, financial stress, general daily stress can test patience and optimism, and it varies highly from person to person, also leaving couples with less to give to one another emotionally, also there can be the busy schedules in their daily life, also marriage problems can result from overly busy schedules for a few reasons I should mention here like the couples who are busy are often stressed, especially if they are not taking care of themselves with quality sleep and good nutrition, attention, and caring.
In another way, I can say that the busy couples may feel less connected because they have less time to spend together and more separateness in their lives, which is hampering their good and smooth relationship.
In most the cases the couples may not work together as a team and might find themselves fighting over who’s taking care of which household and social responsibilities, it is the major issue here, it is the case that busy schedules might not automatically lead to marriage problems, they do present a challenge that needs to be worked through, and it is really pathetic, and one or they can not escape from this, but they should be compromised for each other and they should have the highest understanding to them, and they should be caring for each other for making or achieving as far as they can like a successful conjugal life. Best wishes to all of the conjugal life partners.