Can you remember when you were in late ’20s; you thought that everything about sex was mesmerizing. You couldn’t even imagine that you can get tired of it, but now what happened? You are sleeping next to your partner where you can have sex every night! But you don’t feel like or rather you don’t want to. To make matters worse you are not even missing it. You are too strained, distracted, and not in the mood at all.
This Is A Major Problem With Married Couples Today
The reason might be that in your late 20’s you understood something much better that now you’ve forgotten. Engaging more in sex with your spouse will make your relationship awesome. This is a plain fact.
If you want your husband to be a good man, he needs to be fed, valued, and to make love with him. So you should exercise eating together, appreciate him for his hard work, smile and admire him, allow him to see you naked and enjoy intimacy with him always the most convenient time for both of you. It is beyond belief what a man can do for a woman who makes him feel loved.
By the way sex is fun so long as you are engaging in it at the right time and with the right partner/spouse. It relieves stress and is a complete escape from reality. So esteem yourselves together as many times as possible.
Why are human beings quick to reject the best things in life, when every day is right for sex? Make opportunities for morning glory and you will both smile the whole day. Shower together as this rejuvenates love and appreciation for both parties.
Don’t Wait Until Bedtime Before You Get Romantic
Let romance be part of you as you interact together when performing your daily cores, this will be translated into a haven of rest at night. Remember when you were dating, putting on pretty underwear was all it took to get you excited. Bring these memories back into practice in your marriage. Exchange love notes with each other more often. To avoid obstruction, turn off the TV as this allows ample time for each other in the evenings.
Encourage your husband to massage you back more often. Tease each other, hold hands, and squeeze each other when in private. If possible sleep naked, cuddle as you will never let go and remind each other how nice you both are.
Be open to each other about your sexual experiences. Does this sound difficult? Yes it does simply because no one ever teaches us how to talk about intimacy with our spouses. If it is so hard, you can approach a marriage counselor together for advice on how to go about it.
Create A Sexual Bucket List Together
Both of you should create a sexual bucket list together because new lingerie, new positions, and strange beds all improve enthusiasm and intimacy. Have some lubricant ready! Sometimes it can be hard getting physically aroused even when you are in the best mood. Spend more of your time together and you will become more intimate.
Engage in new things together and you will have more sex. This is worthy because it is the intimacy that keeps things flowing in a marriage and not wealth or possessions.
Finally, make intimacy a big priority and an important routine; you will feel more hopeful, self-assured, and appealing and your marriage will last forever……………
