Everybody has felt it at one time or another, be it for a person, pet, or even a non-living object. That feeling is love. Love is felt in different intensities; it may consume your whole being, or perhaps it's just a little crush. Some people search for what seems their whole lifetimes for love, whereas others may seem to fall in and out of love on a regular basis.
Most people don't differentiate between romantic and friendship love. The content of this article tries to expound on the subject matter of love. Of course, here we are talking about people. We can love many things, but the love between two people is unique and special.
Love is rarely defined because everyone experiences it differently. What one person thinks is love, another may think is infatuation or vice versa. How does one know he or she is in love? How is it possible to distinguish between the love of romance and the love shared between friends?
Understand The Two Major Types Of Love: Romantic And Friendship Love
In order to understand love, we need to first understand the two major types of love: romantic love and friendship love. People often define romantic love based on its difference from friendship love. Would you kiss your friend? Perhaps, but it is not necessarily the things you do with your romantic partner that makes your love romantic.
1. Friendship Love
Friendship love does not lead to romance commitments; it is the love that is exhibited between two friends who share mutual understanding. It is the love that exists between family members, relatives, workmates, church mates, and other groups that falls under this category. In the Holy Bible, this love is referred to as brotherly love. It has nothing to do with the sexual attraction between the concerned parties.
2. Romantic Love
On the other hand, Romantic love is often confused with infatuation because it is self-consuming. Romantic lovers are usually on each other's minds. A person may make decisions based on his or her romantic partner, such as whether or not to move to a different province for a job and leave his or her partner behind.
People make large life decisions based on their romantic partners because they can't imagine life without those people. Romantic love guides a person's mind and can sometimes cloud it as to what the right decision may be. After all, romantic love can be extremely selfless.
Learn From One Of The Greatest Advocates For Romantic Love
The famous playwright, William Shakespeare, one of the greatest advocates for romantic love, alludes to romantic love as being like drunkenness in his play "Romeo and Juliet". Like too much alcohol or happy drugs, romantic love takes over all senses in a person and somewhat changes his or her outlook.
A person in love romantically is often said to have a "perma-smile" and is difficult to make unhappy. No wonder most people seek out romantic love, rather than be content with the simple love shared between friends.
It is more prudent to understand the type of love you are experiencing during your friendships. Romantic love only exists between two love birds (mainly of the opposite sex) who are in the deep feeling of intimacy for each other, whereas friendly love is the ordinary love that exists between two parties (either sex) that are related in one way or the other.
Your article is sweet and really interesting. I haven't felt much of a romantic love before although i have alot of crushes hahaha. But i get lots of friendly loves from my family and my friends