The Approach of Parents on their Kids

I honestly can confirm that after all the years I have been with my mother, she is a big influence on who I am right now, positively and negatively. I actually think that it's how the parents behaved that will be inherited by kids and will add to that behavior they will show towards them and to other people. There are a lot of causes that a kid sees, hears, and understands that will explain how they behave, however, it will all start in the house.

My parents were very strict towards me since I was a kid. I am not that allowed to be outside to somehow meet new kids but I didn't say it in a negative manner. On contrary, it added to that introvert-individual on me. Growing up, I would rather be inside the house instead of going out with my friends most of the time. For safety, it was a great move but it was not for the fact that I don't know many people, even the near neighborhood.

On the positive side, I noticed how my parents, even my father who I hate right now, behave kindly to the point that other people will actually don't believe they could do such evil things. Actually, my mother is a real person. I am not exaggerating since I know it's how she can be described. She is that woman who would rather keep every story in the house instead of bringing it up to other people, especially the ones whom she doesn't trust. She is also not allowing up to curse which is the best part for me. Although I hear her sometimes curse but it is all due to immediate response to some problems. I love how she is very strict with her rules and me and my brother are benefiting from it.

Children mirror their conduct after their parents, and it's possible that if they grow up in homes without norms or language of doing tasks simultaneously since it is vital for the future, they'll develop bad habits.

Parents with such bad influence must not be surprised when kids tend to behave differently the way they want them to. Kids easily take actions and words from people since, in their minds, everything is right until someone tells them it's not. It completely changes as they grow up since they start to feel different emotions that tend to either hurt or satisfy them. Some parents think that what they want is the right way on most times for their kids when it's not. Children mirror their conduct after their parents, and it's possible that if they grow up in homes without norms or language of doing tasks simultaneously since it is vital for the future, they'll develop bad habits.

It is undeniable that parents can and often do affect their offspring. There is also strong evidence that a child's genetic makeup determines their own behavioral features as well as how their family treated them.

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When we think of child growth and teaching, we typically think of schooling and organizations beyond the family. As a result, the role of parents has become somewhat marginalized. Kids tend to spend less time at school and more time with their parents and caregivers. Even when they are not providing care, parents play an important role across the whole of their children's lives.

A reward system is one way to encourage good behavior. Kids who learn that poor behavior is not considered acceptable and that appropriate behavior is praised are developing life skills.

I have a younger brother and as I see it, he gets excited to do stuff he finds boring like studying. Either I say to him that if he can finish his Math assignments in the right way, he will immediately play his games without me interrupting him. Kids will learn that for every right thing they do. They will get rewarded every time. I actually wish for that to be as easy for grown-ups.

There are some key points I have learned from my mother as a single parent.

Acknowledge your child's physical or emotional personality traits, whether they are quiet and reserved, interpersonal, sociable, or energetic. Even though parents tend to discipline their kids physically, their young ones still grow up as kind people, but this method does not apply to every kid so always look on different sides. My brother and I have never experienced physical methods of discipline but we grew up not being as spoiled as we expected to be. It will always depend on the kids. The fundamental character can be altered slightly, but not significantly.

I am not a parent myself but I do notice most things that adults do since if ever I will have a kid, I have some points that I will do and some actions I must do in case it doesn't go the right way.