It's Hard to Fix a Broken Family

Many people consider a broken family having no father or no mother or just no both of them. But for me, the whole concept of being in a broken family is that feeling of every day is just a battle to survive to be able to feel that love from a family. It is critical for guardians to organize the home effectively to avoid difficulties in the household because a family comprises not just the parents, but rather the children as well.

Home breakup is not just a direct cause, but rather a series of dangers. Parental stress is a significant predictor of increased morbidity and mortality in both undamaged and non-intact households children. The parental divorce process might result in frequent family structures.

The most typical disagreements between a married couple include financial difficulties, romantic misunderstandings, forced marriages, unwanted pregnancies, schooling, medical problems, and so on. Family bonds may be stressful and characterized by mistreatment, anger, and cursing. Harmful family structures might be difficult to identify. Any action or situation that leaves you feeling rejected, undesired, or even just lousy with yourself is probably not good.

One thing that is unacceptable for a kid, especially those who are born without love from both parents, is that it will be hard for them to love themselves as they grow up. I have seen several movies that talks about a kid who was separated at birth and the end result would be either they are longing for that love that was taken away from them or they hate everybody because the first people who are supposed to be on their side were not there at their most difficult times. It will be hard for a kid to adjust since love is the basic foundation that a family must-have. It's like the walls in our house and if it will have cracks, the house will not function properly. As the crack grows and spreads throughout those walls, it will be hard to fix unless they start all over again.

Many young people experience family disintegration in today's culture, and family structures will likely be different. Adolescents from dysfunctional families have challenges in their educational excellence, self-esteem, and conduct. Students may protest towards their parents as a result of parental expectations that impose their personal opinions and decisions on them.

Children are affected by their parents' legal separation in both the near and distant future. The marriage problems of parents might have a long-term impact on a child. The findings underscore the likelihood that children ’s learning and development encounters with disagreement amongst their parents would have long-term harmful consequences.

Because it is connected to their unique needs, age is an essential aspect among youngsters from broken households. I honestly believe in the fact that kids will never lie unless they saw older ones doing it. And from our side, my little brother always tells the truth. I noticed that whenever we talk about our so-called "father" who abandoned us, it's hard for him to say the word "papa". I think because deep inside it is hurting him and he won't just admit it. There are times that he doesn't really want to talk about and just changes the topic real quick. He's just 9 and even though he is starting to develop the mindset of a little young man, he doesn't want that negative vibe going on around our home. One time, my mom is being flirted with one of their customers at work. We were actually laughing about it that she might give him a chance but my little brother heard it. And he said that he doesn't want another father. I'm not a medical expert on the mind "field" or how "automatic" reactions of a kid towards a situation but I know that there is something hurting him to the point that it's hard for my brother to have another masculine vibe in our family.

It is quite possible to actually sever connections with your relatives when they do not value you and therefore are giving you significant grief in your existence. A relationship is a labor of love, and it needs commitment not just in remaining attentive, fixated, and interested in the tiny and major occasions.