Fighting Fire with Fire

We all have a fire within us. Some light up so fast, some may take some time, and some just cause a whole lot of damage. In order for that fire to light up, there will be some tools needed. Unlike the fire that most of us see on stoves, from a gas tank, the old way of doing it makes more sense.

The first thing to do is to get some wood. In modern times, especially when you are living in the city, it may be hard to find and have some wood since the forest cannot be seen in most cities. Since technology has made our lives easier, we stick to the things that we consider more efficient and require less work. On the other hand, the urban surely, for once in their lives, made fire from wood.

So what is the big difference when it comes to the fire from the stovetop to the fire from a wood? On the stovetop, obviously, you are in charge of how high or low you want the fire to light, unlike lighting fire from a block of wood, it won't be controlled easily. Just like in life, lighting fire from a block of wood requires a lot of work, not just from getting the tools themselves, but also the work on the fire itself. This is where the problem comes in. When you get into an argument that has a lot of problems to talk about and solve, the smoke within you starts to blow up. You will burst out in flames without you knowing it. It will be hard to control especially when anger is taking over you to the point that you only want to win, rather than to understand the point of the argument.

The reason why we get into an argument is that two parties don't seem to understand or know what is the right thing, either by action or knowledge. Just like in court, besides proving if the prosecuted is guilty, the parties involved are required to tell the story to know the journey before getting to the point of the crime. Although at some times, money is the key to get out of a crime, karma will come along. The fact that people don't bother to argue because of money is difficult to understand and comprehend. Fighting an argument by another argument is always the solution to the problem. If we are to fight in the other way, it will never stop there. It will be the cause of a bigger problem.

There are people who are very hard to talk to. Some people tend to listen to themselves only and consider themselves as the right one in every sense of the way. You can't easily win on these people because they don't like people teaching them the right things. In most cases, the hand is only the solution to wake them up.

I will understand if they're lawyers in court but they're not. And that's their biggest downfall.