To be cool

Cool people always get ahead in life. They get the best jobs, the best promotions, the best friends, and all the good things in life worth looking out for. That's why it's important to be cool. Everyone wants to be cool. But few people manage to be cool. Being cool doesn't just mean wearing flashy clothes, mimicking an accent, or interacting with a flashy crowd. When we talk about a cool person, the first thing that comes to mind is a confident, unique and friendly person. However, remember that you can't hold a magic wand in your hand and instantly become cool. It takes a change of mindset, some confidence, adaptation and practice. The first step to becoming cool is to understand that cool is a state of mind. It is hard to be relaxed if you are constantly worried about what others think of you. Be positive and pleased with yourself; you will notice that you have become a leader, not a follower. And yes, never try to be too cool. Remember, being cool is easy. Never overdo it!
Be aware of how others see you.

No two people think alike. Never worry about how people judge you. Remember that you can never please everyone. Although you are immune to how others judge you, you must pay attention to how others see you. Being cool is also related to how people perceive you in terms of your appearance and body language.

Dare to be different
Whether you're defending yourself, defending someone else, or doing something no one else is doing, it's important to be different and unique. The cool people are the ones who sometimes go against the grain and challenge the status quo. When people try to distract you, it's best to ignore their comments.

Dare to speak up
You've probably seen cool people who speak confidently and clearly at a very good pace. Conversational style is the best key to being cool. When you speak, remember, don't babble or mumble. Stay confident. Regardless of people's negative reactions, it's important to stick to what you say.

Look relaxed
To look cool without being opinionated, you don't have to be visually arrogant, you have to be mentally correct.

Be independent.
You don't need to require your team to relax, and you don't always need to ask permission from others before you do something. Make sure you don't shy away from the fact that you are alone. You don't even need to rely on others when you go out to a restaurant, as you have a clear idea of what you need.
Keep it
Relaxed Relaxed people are usually not fussy and don't talk unless they have something to say. It's easy to be relaxed, but make sure you keep your cool. Always learn to behave with people and make sure you don't get nervous or angry. One of the secrets to being calm is that when you try something, or don't try at all, things fall into place.
Being true to yourself and your ideas is what makes you relaxed. Don't confuse being cool with being popular - they are completely different things, as one is a state of mind and the other is a trend.