21 Life Lessons

These are the 21 lessons I've learned in life so far:

1.) We all need alone time. We should give ourselves time to reflect and meditate. To think about the past, the present and the future without boundaries. We must establish within ourselves a secure environment for our mental, spiritual, moral and emotional growth.

2.) Overall wellness isn't something that's forced. It is worked on, daily and slowly, little by little.

3.) We shouldn't be afraid to take a leap of faith. To fall in love again and try to gamble and we might actually find the right person this time.

4.) Family is everything. Everything done and sacrificed for family is worth it and rewarded by the universe.

5.) Each one of us are growing at different paces and rates. That's why we shouldn't force someone to get his/her shit together at the time we think he/she should.

6.) True friends are hard to find. Literally..hard to find. So you shouldn't find them because the universe will always find a way to put you guys together and they'll be one of the greatest blessings in your life.

7.) We must learn to gracefully let go of what isn't meant to be.

8.) You can't be friends with everybody.

9.) Your life is your own battle. You should take control of it.

10.) Crying doesn't solve anything but crying isn't weakness. It is a sign of the willingness towards vulnerability and accepting that there is strength in admitting our weakness.

11.) Humility isn't the abundance of great actions unnoticed but the silence and contentment of the heart towards one's achievements and failures.

12.) The heart and mind should go together in whatever decision in life, no matter how small it may seem.

13.) Life is precious. Live it cause you literally only live once.

14.) Never be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. Learn new things, try out new experiences, meet new people and dream out of the box!

15.) When you are at a point in life where you feel stuck, accept where you are and stop complaining. Take comfort that you can handle anything that goes your way. You may be put there to change your own course or go with it, whichever case is acceptable and both take courage and strength to do. It takes a lot of courage to break away and it takes strength to endure to follow the course of what had been set.

16.) Don't be afraid to say NO. Stop being guilty for things you can't control. Stay calm and know that things will be better.

17.) Mistakes shouldn't brand you. You are not your mistake. Own that and learn from it. There is power in acceptance.

18.) Stop playing the victim. ALWAYS RE-EVALUATE YOURSELF. Maybe it's just your mentality that needs changing.

19.) It's okay to detach. The people who loves you will understand that this may be the thing you need most for your utmost growth.

20.) Life is a journey. It is a walk and not a run. So stay aware of where you are and know that every single second is beautiful no matter how painful they may be.

21.) I am nothing without God. In everything I give Him thanks because I would've failed more than I did if it wasn't for Him who gives me strength.

DSLA ✨✨✨