It is important to know what you want in your life
Do you feel like you are just going with the flow of life? Do you complain that you are always busy during the day and can't make time for the things you want to do? Or how does that person find the energy for all these things? Do you console yourself by saying that he/she doesn't have to do that job that I have to do, and you go back to your hustle and bustle and complaints about your life?
We all go through similar processes from time to time. Dissatisfaction with their work, energy depletion, procrastination, time management problems... Most people have a hard time trying to find solutions to these. The biggest reason for difficulty is looking for the answer in the "solution". We say, "What can I do without losing energy?" and we search for different methods and try what we do with that method. How can I plan my time so that I can accomplish all my tasks? We try time management techniques one by one, but we are never successful. We resort to supplements to energize us while doing that task. We look for ways to avoid procrastination. But we can't find it...
At times like these, we need to remind ourselves to "know what we want". So we need to look for the why rather than the solution!
Why am I losing energy? Why can't I accomplish what I want when my time flies by? Why am I procrastinating? It is not realistic to expect results without knowing why. When a person tries and tries and doesn't get results, he or she falls into despair, gives up and continues to "live" a life that does not satisfy him or her. Unenergized, unhappy, untimely, demotivated...
However, when you know what you really want, what kind of life you want to live, the picture completely changes and becomes clearer. Here are the indicators that you know what you want:
You take steps more enthusiastically to achieve what you want.
You don't run out of energy while doing it, on the contrary, you are energized.
You see more clearly what you don't want and you start to say "No" more easily if it doesn't serve your purpose.
Your time management becomes easier. While you used to try to catch up on everything that serves or does not serve your purpose, now you prioritize the ones that will achieve your goal and allocate more time.
Your procrastination habit is atrophying. Either you do it with more enthusiasm, or even if you are not so enthusiastic, you act towards doing it somehow because you know the result it will bring you.
You seize opportunities more easily. You start to see the possibilities that will lead you to the life you want and you make your choices accordingly. You don't settle for less. This leads to a life of fulfillment and true happiness.