Marisol: Instigating Drama Over Something

Excitement. Thrill. Engagement.

In a world where anyone can be anything, some people choose to be Marisol, instigating drama over something even if it is unnecessary. There are lots of reasons behind it. Wanna know why? Let's talk about it in today's episode of Senyoritalks.

The world and life are, in reality, sometimes dull, perilous, and intolerable. And there are some individuals that, even if it does not make sense, they ought to be constantly pressed for time for some reason. Sometimes, in need of a constant rush.

There must be some individuals out there who can't imagine a life without being involved in some kind of drama, and if there's not one, they invent one. They can't or won't change anything, as is evident.

They get excited when they hear a new news regardless if it is legit or made out of mouth just to make an issue with someone else's life. It makes them feel alive as if energizing fuel travels within their body and makes them really excited to instigate, adding more flavors to the issue and causing unnecessary drama out of it.

It is as if a thrilling movie for them. Well, we can't deny that sometimes, this is what we like when watching dramas on television. Some get angry and very much annoyed to the Marisol in a certain soap opera. But sometimes, some people also like them because they add more flavors to the show, causing more drama over it which satisfies many people who are avid fans of things like this.

Moreover, they crave some attention. They want to engage with the drama and play the part of someone who is provoking another one to add more flame to the fire. I do not really know what runs through their mind as to why they are doing it, but there must really be a reason for this one. But to simply put these things, there is no one definite answer that suits all sorts of drama queens.

Well, growing up in a chaotic environment and being used to stress and conflict are two of the most typical causes. It is common for people to get bothered when there is a sudden halt in action. A common sign of it is the itching for a fight, which is described as an irritated, suspicious, or even violent mood.

For the most part, it's just plain boredom or a bit of lethargy. It appeals to some because of the feeling of compulsion, anticipation, or suspense it might elicit. It's also a way for them to avoid confronting the truth of their own life because sometimes, they are the ones who are afraid to their own mask of reality.

They just lack the confidence to place the blame somewhere and never on themselves. When anything goes wrong, it's usually due to this or that, but the individual responsible is blind to their own role in the mishap. Overanalyzing, minding one's own business, and gossiping are all behaviors that people like, and they often place the blame for these behaviors on others. I simply don't understand why some individuals believe so highly of themselves and how they can be so sensitive to petty things and the kind of ego they have. I do not have a problem with it because, in fact, it is theirs.

Overall, that's a glimpse into the life of being Marisol. They like acting as a pastime. It has become a part of their life or even a habit that they could hardly stop. I may be wrong, but I am open to be corrected. But let me share with everyone to make your pastime by helping others overcome their difficulties, not make it worse. Be very cautious but also resolute. Showing affection is as simple as listening. But do not instigate. Just give pure and genuine ideas or pieces of advice to help others feel at ease, not worse. Because everyone deserves a place with peace of mind, not somewhere else where they are the center of attraction for the wrong reason.