Most times when a marriage is in trouble, people tend to see their Marriage as a misstep rather than noticing the errors they are giving rise to in their marriage. At this point, they lament marrying their wife or husband, start to think of a new partner.
Many actually divorce or remarry and later wished they had remained with their first Spouse, as they uncover greater problems in the new spouse. This is because the first marriage was not a mistake, and the mistake has not been discovered yet.
So you can remarry as several times as you like, you will still experience crises in marriage until you learn the blunders you are making in your marriage and correct them.
So divorce or separation is not a solution to deem when you are having problems with your marriage.
When your vehicle has a flat tire, you do not abandon it, but change the tire and move on.
When we have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.
When a bulb puffs out in the room, we do not change the room or the building, we replace the bulb and light up the room.
When we have challenges at work, we do not reject to go to work, we go there to unravel the problems.
So when a marriage has an issue, we don't have to attempt to change the spouse instead, we change the behavior that is creating the problem.
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