When you see a man lying to you again and again, cheating on you, getting involved in more relationships, abusing you in bad language, it is foolish to forgive him again and again and give him a chance to keep the relationship going. I know it's not easy to get out of a relationship, you may think, "My love is pure, unadulterated, but why am I cheating, why is this happening to me?"
You are not cheating. The Creator will show you the way again and again because He wants the best for you. Always remember that it could have been worse than what happened to you.
Giving a man more chances means lifting him up. One time he will sit on your head and leave your hair bald! It's wise to push these people out without giving them a chance. The disadvantage is that it's much harder than it sounds.
But once you can do it, life is a lot of peace.
Liberation is not the name of hurting oneself to escape from suffering, it is the name of surviving by facing those horrible moments of suffering from the front.
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