A struggle of a woman that a man may not fully understand may know the words of pain we feel but not how we feel it.
When a woman finds out that she is pregnant she is hesitating to tell this to her partner/boyfriend but not to his husband to see the difference. She can't tell to her partner because she was afraid of his reaction he may accept it and take responsibility and the worst reject it and run away and when it comes to her parents it's harder to tell this to them because again she was afraid not to be accepted because of her situation but this scenario depends.
If her partner takes responsibility then she will have this courage to tell her parents with his partner.
Worst if her boyfriend rejects the responsibility she will be depressed, look down on herself, and take the responsibility all alone. A mother won't harm her kids. Still depend on each person.
During her pregnancy.
At her first 3 Months, We crave, we are emotional, sensitive, Vomit often these are some of the hard parts of pregnancy.
Having morning sickness is one of the hard things during pregnancy because it makes us uncomfortable the whole day and it depends on everyone pregnant woman. When we vomit our stomach out truly hurts us but for the sake of the baby, we endure it.
In our 4th month, we feel the changes in our bodies. We can now see our baby bump, we crave more, we gain weight, There are also different kinds of morning sickness and cravings. Some are afraid of light, dark, water, taste & smell we are very sensitive till we reach our 6th months of pregnancy.
They say the 7th month is dangerous that's why pregnant women are very precautious during their 7th months because they can give birth to this Month which makes the birth of the baby incomplete and there are some cases that happen. They give birth at their 7th months and the baby struggle for that.
When we reach our 9th months of pregnancy we feel sleepless actually I can't picture or express the pain during this month.
Not to mention how pregnant women struggle by going to the comfort room more than 15 times a day. When I was pregnant I really hate this part but we need to. We need to drink lots of water to replace what we urinate. One more thing we can't sit a long time and stand a long time because we get easily tired and sitting down longer than 1 hr makes us very uncomfortable this part maybe depends on woman cases.
On her birth day some are laboring more than 1 day, some are 12/24 hours in pain. A man can see how we feel the pain and maybe they feel it too. The pain during labor is more than a man can imagine and I can't express it too.
After she gives birth you can see the big changes in her body and appearance. The changes in her body will remain forever.
And also she can't do a lot of things for few months because if she does she may lose her life. The wounds inside her will take years before they heal totally especially if she's cesarian. As a husband, you should do the task that she can't do. Don't force her to do things that she can't do. You as a husband should be observant of her health during those days. Be more patient, Take care of her.
There are lots of issues on this topic if we mentioned the hospital, nurse & doctor which don't give much attention to pregnant women or those who give birth.
This will be a long article if we cope with those issues.
I've been there and I know how it feels to be a pregnant woman. We endure pain just to bring a new life into this world. And when we see our baby the pain we endure was all worth it but still, most of us sometimes aren't ready for having a baby which leads to them into abortion which is another topic.
Take care of your wife. You don't have to give it all your attention, time and commitment are enough for her because she became on how you treat her.
