.Have you ever judged how far you can be patient? Maybe the answer "depends ..." Yep, depending on to what extent "something" tests your patience. Many people think that patience is something that is easy to say to others, for example:
But it turns out to be difficult to live by alone. Actually, each person's ability to be patient is different. It depends on someone's experience and resistance to pressure. So if there are other people who can't be patient, while we still feel that we can be patient, it doesn't mean that other people are impatient, huh. Usually people who are patient they are able to hold back their emotions, thoughts, words and behavior. So, what exactly is it that can allow us to practice patience? Instead of getting angry easily and crying when patience is running out, remember the following things, huh!
Please manage your emotions first, then realize that not everything can go our way. Furthermore, patience and the ability to accept circumstances will definitely come easier
A basic reality that should be understood and accepted by every human being is:
But in fact, our egos and emotions often obscure that very basics, hoping that everything will be perfect. So, before you get out of your angry anger or cry tragically, you don't have to think about anything; note and remember this most important thing! Try to keep thinking positive, yes! No need to overthink any assumptions. This is what makes it easy for us to 'collapse' when trying to be patient
One mistake that we often make is the mind wandering around but the body remains silent. Alias, the mind is often out of control, suspects something, and concludes something itself before it actually happens. Though bad thoughts can make us say bad things, and end up with bad decisions too. So before being cursed for making bad decisions, please keep positive thinking and keep smiling so you remember this second most important thing. Must be able to watch words with feeling. Miswords can only make the situation worse
Speaking of guarding words, this is very important for practicing patience. Patient or not someone in facing something, first will be seen from the decisions he makes. When we decide patience is running out, usually disappointed behaviors will appear, for example; crying, angry, even angry. The behavior that arises depends on how we take a stand. So before the incident of the drama rolling around is not important, try to keep the words of whatever you feel, also note this third most important thing. Keep up the best behavior even though the reality is not as good as we think. Instead of being able to practice patience, every bad behavior actually makes us worse off
Behavior is a response or response to circumstances. As much as possible we try to give a good response even though things are not very well. Resisting the bad behavior that will emerge is a form of high-vane patience. If the behavior is good, it must be a good attitude, so it will be easy to be patient. Good attitude is good behavior for a good person Finally, let's remember these most important things! So that each patience stock starts to run low, we can still restock patiently. The most important thing is always trying to be able to control emotions and thoughts, to be able to maintain speech and be able to behave properly. Even if we can't wait anymore, at least we can understand the consequences well. Not only can you get angry and decide things rashly or cry over the situation without making changes. Be patient, patience is indeed a test ~