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When hanging out with old friends, you are bound to come across some friends who already look established with various work backgrounds. Starting from entrepreneurs, private employees to jobs that you think are too comfortable to do and at the same time get an income. Your sense of mind immediately appears, fortifying yourself to continue chatting with them. It doesn't stop there, you also opened your friends' social media one by one, what have they been doing all this time? But in the end, your curiosity only exacerbates your sense of mind. The deeper you look at their social media content, the more you will sink into your inferiority complex. Because between work and pleasure, the difference is very slight. Actually you don't need to be insecure so you don't want to interact with your friend. Moreover, only because of the uploads that fill the timeline on social media. If insecurity continues to erode you, there are 7 things that can help you increase your confidence level.
1. On social media your friend's work looks nice and fun. Though they must have also been at the lowest point in life
.What you see on social media, is not exactly the same as reality. Including your friend's work that you find more fun. You finally feel inferior because you feel that there is nothing compared to them. But you need to know, before you take your current job, surely your friends have experienced bloody moments while pursuing their careers. So get rid of that inferiority complex right now. Because you can also be entrusted with someone who you think is established like your friend, as long as there is an intention and effort to develop. 2. In this world there is no good job without struggle. Maybe all you see is just a fraction of the work
.You could say, nothing is free in this world, including the work you are doing now. There is no job that feels good without struggling. It could be that what you have seen on your friend's social media, is only a small part of the excitement of the job. There's no way the moment he stayed up late for revisions from clients that made mental and physical fatigue be shared on his social media. Therefore, it's still too early to give the title that your friend's job is fun. Especially for insecurities, it's really a shame. 3. No need to feel inferior only to what you see in cyberspace. Doesn't the real world describe everything?
,The virtual world is full of manipulation. It took several checks, but only a photo was uploaded. It takes a few polishes to look perfect. It even takes a forced smile to make a photo pleasing to the eye. Likewise with what your friends share on their social media. Who knows, behind your friend's upload about his job, there are tears and disappointments due to work pressure. Maybe you don't even know how much money to give up due to crazy work.
4. Insecurity grows because you keep comparing yourself to them. If this is the case, how can you develop?
.Always inferior to what they share on social media means you are living as a shadow. You give up what you are capable of just because some uploads are not necessarily what they are. By living in that shadow, it's clear that you won't be able to develop as a person. Besides that, you are also afraid to try something yourself. If you become that kind of person, then what will be the fate of your future? 5. Maybe it's true that your friend's career is better than yours. But once in a while looking down, there are many people who are originally jealous of your current position
.There are times when what you see from your friend's upload is true. His work is much better than yours. In terms of income it is far from yours. Comparing is clearly endless. For that you need to be grateful for what you have now. Every now and then look down too. Be grateful for your current job, even though it's far from comfortable and pleasant. There are probably a lot of people out there who want your current position. 6. Just believe in your abilities. Whether or not a job is good, it all depends on your point of view
.Those who you think have a job that is much more comfortable and comfortable, obviously they can't be found in a short time. There must be a struggle that is not shared on social media. If you feel inferior, then fix what's inside of you. You don't need to be immersed in your friend's uploads for long. You have to believe in your own abilities. Whether your job is good or not, it all just depends on your point of view. If you want to make peace and are good at adjusting, you can also get a comfortable and comfortable job like friends. 7. Because inferior only to those who lose before fighting. Do you want to be one of those people?
.The saying that life is a struggle has a point. You must be willing to fight so that you don't drown because of the ups and downs of life. And in this case, the word inferiority or inferiority complex only applies to those who give in before struggling. Too bad if your life has to be spent just feeling insecure and not growing. Everyone must have their respective struggles. This expression seems appropriate for those of you who feel insecure about someone's upload. No one is successful without steep roads. There is also no one who immediately feels good when he first starts a career. If you can feel inferior about the good times, you need to feel inferior about their struggles. The period that may be separated from your observation in cyberspace. Who knows, from that insecurity, you will be motivated to try even harder.