.Serious relationships with playfulness are certainly different. Not only from age, but also attitudes and beliefs. You can't do cute things as often as you used to. Well, I still do it with my partner occasionally, but rarely. Anyway, a serious relationship both you and your partner are both mature in living it.
"No more sulking because of unclear reasons or other strange things." When you start having a serious relationship, you will gradually realize the difference when you were dating in uniform. When you remember it, maybe you will smile to yourself because of various silly and unimportant things you do with him.
A serious relationship is different from dating when I was in uniform. What was said was not something to be annoying anymore
"How was your study?"
"It's smooth. Uh yeah, I think I just want to continue my internship in the media. The knowledge is not bad for the experience later. "
You know what kind of fun chat you say when you are still in uniform? Well, his name was also when he was a teenager and a teenager, so it's only natural that his conversation was about unimportant things. Relationships that are still playful are usually the subject of conversation about each other's feelings. For example:
"Dude, why the heck can you really love me?" "Because you are beautiful beb. Actually it's not pretty, but you are also kind. " Lalalalalala ~ Meanwhile, if you are in a serious relationship that is discussed about the future. For example, what will your future look like from the activities you are currently doing. You also discuss where your relationship will go in the future. If your partner is unable to deliver or pick you up, you and him will still be quiet
"I don't think I can take you this afternoon." "Yes, it's okay. I'll just ride it. " The longer you and he is getting older. In the past, the little things were a problem, now it's not anymore. For example, you just made a pact to meet but apparently you can't, neither you nor him are tired of making these trivial things big. You and him still accept and understand the situation and conditions. Although excited too, but meeting his family when this serious relationship is different
Past: “Let's go to my house tomorrow! I want to introduce you to my parents. " "Waaaahh assiiiiiikkk. What clothes am I wearing? " Now: "Mother and father asked when to come home." "Hmm, next week. Eh, don't go, how about next month? " When you are serious, you feel embarrassed towards your partner's parents. In front of them, you become polite and don't talk too much. This is different when in the past, they were still able to relax and were not really excited about facing them. Now that you and he are both adults, you already know where the relationship will take and for that it requires deep seriousness. When you meet your parents, you feel uncomfortable knowing they are your future in-laws. What you used to be ordinary, now their respect has increased. The things they talk about when they talk about your relationship are about the future, for example, marriage and work. Fighting is still there. The difference is, what is at issue is not trivial matters that can be resolved right away
"I bete you." "Bete why honey?" "After you like that, instead of using a profile photo on social media with me, I actually took a photo with an artist. KZL. " Having grown up is not without problems, but the problems faced are much bigger. This is because you miss small problems, because you and him both know that trivial things can be passed over time. Instead of the two of you getting tired of dealing with trivial matters on your own, so it's better to just skip it as usual. You know there is much more important and great waiting ahead. Angry, yes, but the finish is elegant. It's not like the old ones who sulked and were proud of each other to apologize or call first
"I'm sorry." "Yes, forgive me too. Hopefully we can both improve ourselves in the future. " His name is also angry, who is not proud to apologize or call first? This can actually make the estrangement of your relationship drag on. In fact, the problem can be resolved if one of you wants to apologize or call first. Uh, because of your prestige, your disharmony will still continue. The point is you understand each other and respect each other. If there is something wrong, it will be properly expressed
A serious relationship means that both you and he already understand and respect each other. You guys don't feel bad anymore. Even if you are frustrated, you can discuss why and find a way out. The most important thing in your serious relationship is to keep communication going and mutual trust. You are getting older, so is he. So that your current relationship is no longer like it used to be, both are mature in acting and harboring feelings. Your relationship is serious and there are no words to play. Sometimes it's possible to be cute, but not often. Well, so this is what it feels like when your relationship is serious.