.Among us, we always waste money, and show success about anything, for example, "Oh ... I just graduated from college, I must be easy to get a job. '' apart from that, '' OK ... I don't want to wear a KW watch, I want to wear a branded watch. Even though it's expensive, it's cool .... '' Even though the function is the same, the only difference is the brand and its strength. The same goes for someone who said that he just graduated from college, he said in front of someone who only graduated from junior high school, and will work in a bank office as an OB. What were you thinking, then, when your words came out? Proud? Satisfied? Or just make people jealous. Whatever it is, whatever the reason, the impact of our words, which you relate to the facts yourself if you can afford to buy or pass, it is fine in your opinion, but the impact will make other people feel small in front of you and do not deserve to hang out with you, pay attention to their behavior moments after you made those words, what happened? They will be awkward to communicate with you even if everything is fine. There is one story, where someone who had just been appointed to a company position, he turned into a messenger, drunk and likes to spend money where he should be, nightclubs, karaoke with paid women (Ladies) he did with his friends who were at the same level. with himself, the material to him was only the size of a pinhole, he could still find it easily. But it's actually trapping. From that way, he shifted his life by not being able to see people who didn't have a chance like himself, people who didn't have money, people who worked hard out there, came home until they got money, didn't come home if they didn't get money, even forgot dark stories. Among the paid women, what kind of work could he be there, not to be smeared actually. So, the shift that is created will make you slowly arrogant, and look at the world full of entertainment, if you can't get it, it will feel dark. But one day, the company closed because of corruption, because there was no control of its finances. Someone who is already big in that company, can't help but go out and look for a new job. While he was waiting for the call of a new job, he had already spent a lot of his previous money on meaningless entertainment. Eventually he realized that if he were more frugal and thought less, it would save him from it all.
So for us, it is very important to think low, if we can start, then everything will come easy. For example, you smile and give alms to someone in need on the street in the morning, then automatically, all the air that is in your soul will naturally rise better, it does not exist in research but in religious teachings. Pay attention, Ustad, monks, priests, who spend their time in places of worship, reading books or books related to faith, without realizing that they have saved their money, nourished their minds and bodies, and learned to hold their passions, and think lowly to give themselves the opportunity to hold hands. the hands of others who need advice or assistance. Actually that is also God's promise, if you are with me then I will give you peace and solutions. The first thing that is obligatory, for those of us who want to learn to be inferior is to study yourself, correct yourself, that's important, ask, `` What good things have I done all this time? How many people feel inferior to me? "Whatever the negative, change it slowly, don't be stubborn, smile starting tomorrow." Don't try to show things that are material in nature. Learn to listen to the conversations of other people, even below you, listen, because in this way, you actually started the change. Besides, the most powerful thing is, studying religion, by studying this, we will understand the teachings of god.
Understand every situation, don't always feel that you have to be in your comfort zone, sometimes, comfort and safety will also give us bad pressure, we will be more spoiled for life. We have to take challenges every day where this, will make us learn from the pressures that will come later, this way, will make our laziness lessen, if it is reduced, we definitely want to share this experience with others, by sharing it other people will listen and one day he will be honest, that he has learned a lot from you, that is an exemplary inferiority. If that happens, you will start a lot of positive and embarrassing things out there, without realizing that you are contributing to other people's lives. We also have to study the authors of previous books, if they have to keep reading and listening, then try something further, for example, he will write about the value of education in rural schools, then he will visit the interior and there, he will stay at the residents' houses. those who want to be boarded even though it's not as luxurious as the place, eat as simple as village food, learn to be independent at home, where there is no internet, good signal, as well as a clothes or laundry shop, so he has to go to the river to wash his own clothes. He will adapt, to society and conditions, he already knows it is not that easy, but what he gets, is a lesson to restrain lust and humility again, when he returns to the city he will compare his life at that time with in the interior , because he feels that he has experienced inferiority complex and more experiences are taken to improve his life, so he uses this method for his life in the city and in his books. So ... Basically, we are social beings, creatures who need help from others, creatures who need interaction, creatures who need opportunities, creatures who have to work hard, creatures who have to be positive. So, we have to continue to grow in a better way, so humility is very much needed, with an inferiority complex, people will be ready to help us, with an inferiority complex, then everything that is difficult will be easily passed, with humility we will look everyone is the same, because we have faith and the value of tolerance, with low self-esteem we feel loved, with inferiority that means we have practiced God's word, which means, naturally there is inner satisfaction, and we must start. Boasting, only makes us fall quickly, boasting only makes us fight a lot, especially ourselves, by boasting, we are not satisfied. Make, your fit now, start like the one above, but start with a small smile, will make you feel loose.
