.Life is indeed bumpy, waves of sadness and happiness are sure to come and go. There are times when we are at a weak point. Feel tired of what we are going through and want to take a break from the complexity of the world. Let's relax and start pondering.
“If you ask about who is the strongest human being in this world, then the answer is me.
Here I am with all the falsehood that I show. Starting from a smile, happiness, it could even be everything. I cleverly motivated them, but didn't realize that it was difficult for me to do it myself.
I, who is always used as a back, without realizing it, I don't have any shoulders to lean on. My ears are always alert to listen without realizing it, I also don't have ears to hear my story. Me who is always present with a smile no matter how many wounds I hide in it, how hypocritical this self is.
Sometimes I always complain about what happens, when my peers can do activities like their age, but what can I do is not as lucky as them. Again, I always feel that this world is unfair, and it is the biggest disease in my heart. " Have you ever felt like you're in that position? I think almost everyone has been there. Wrestling with yourself, looking for solutions so you can stop hurting yourself. Yes, complaining will only hurt yourself. Comparing our lives with other people can lead to jealousy and envy which in the end will only cause trouble.
The solution that I found was gratitude, because the measure of happiness is gratitude. The portion of happiness or the definition of happiness according to someone will vary, no matter how much happiness we get, if we don't have gratitude, then all of it will still feel less. Conversely, no matter how small the happiness is in life, if we have great gratitude, actually happiness will be proportional to that gratitude. Trust me, Allah never sleeps especially for His servants who never kufr. If we look at the lives of other people who are much more luxurious, or feel that they are more fortunate, then envy comes to mind. Come on! We turn envy into motivation. Until when will we fall down to see the happiness of others? Without realizing it, there are so many favors that we are not really grateful for. The world is mortal, whatever we see through our eyes does not necessarily correspond to reality. Especially through social media, don't be jealous, there's a lot of manipulation, trust me. Living with our own pattern, striving as best as we can, grieving as much as possible, and being grateful as much as possible, then we will find unceasing happiness. Who said we shouldn't be sad? Yes, as long as you don't overdo it, that's natural. After all, dragging on in sadness will only make you sway in negative thoughts. Don't even use social media as an outlet, you don't have to tell him, no one care, you know? Look for a shoulder that can calm you down, if you don't have, don't worry, don't we have a God who always loves and is always there for us? God knows how we feel better than we do, and God also knows the best way to make us happy again. Just get close to Him, your sadness will soon subside, believe me. Regarding achievement or success, all will get their share. Enjoy your own process even though it is long, the first success may be more worth the struggle, you have to remember that. And about something that you don't have but other people have, don't be jealous, maybe your happiness is not there, it's best for you that Allah has wrapped it neatly, His destiny is always beautiful in its time, believe me, we can only struggle, pray and try. .
