.You really can't make everyone like you. There are times when you have to accept it from people who don't like you - even if that is completely wrong. When insults come to you, you will definitely feel hurt. But never make it a burden that keeps you from growing.
You can be insulted now. And you may be hurt. But make it a trigger for your enthusiasm. To prove to those who have underestimated you, that you are just as strong and will be more successful than them. It's sure to hurt when being bullied, but be sincere to do it. There is a special reward for your fortitude.
"How stupid you are!" "Uh, don't hang around! I'm close to you unclean, " Just imagine how it hurts when someone talks to you like that. The taste clearly makes you hurt and hurt. What's more annoying is that when you fight back and reply to his insults, you will get even more bully. If so what can you do?
This does feel heavy, but you need to be sincere in accepting it. Instead of getting angry and making tantrums, you will actually bully even crazier. Take it easy, usually if you are even patient, they will back off by themselves. Even if they don't back off, your patience will pay off later. Well, not right now. But isn't there a saying, People love God. Sure, God will reward you.
Those who insult you are not always better than you. They could just be jealous of what you have.
"Hahahahahaha Your clothes are really tacky, really," "Lah, that's worth it. Tacky as it is. Ha ha ha ha,"
Have you ever gotten an insult like that? Insults commenting on what you were doing, what were you wearing, and what were you talking about? If so, how did it feel? It hurts, right? But don't let the pain keep you from lingering. You must remain positive in the face of the insults given by them. The easy way, just pretend they are jealous of what you have. Insults don't just mean you're ugly and unworthy of admiration. It could be because you are different and special so they are jealous of your situation. That's why you don't need to take to heart the insults you receive. At least by them insulting you, that means they also pay attention to you. Whatever it is, take the positive side of every insult directed at you.
Even if you are being bullied, insulted, and reviled by those who hate you, you don't need to be afraid, especially to be depressed. Just be tough and see everything from the positive side. The insults they throw at you are the result of their daily observations. So let's just pretend they care about you. Don't worry too when they keep showering you with insults. So you give them work to think every day. After all, by getting insulted from them, you can get a reward transfer if you want to be patient and courageous when dealing with it. In the end, parents always understand. Telling them about the things you are worried about can be a solution.
Even with every patience and fortitude you live with, you will still feel hurt after being bullied. You might look normal out there and carefree, but in people's hearts nobody knows, right? Maybe at some point you will feel pressured by all the insults. Upset, angry and hurt will definitely come your way. But you don't need to worry too much. There are parents who are always loyal to listen, advise, and assist. You can tell all the complaints that you feel. Parents will always try to help and give advice. Even when one world insults you, Mom and Dad will still try to support and strengthen you. They will always be your number one supporter. Bullying and insults are not the end of the world. Remember, what is important is your proof in the future.
"Hadeeeh ... I can't do that!" "People like you are not going to be anything!" "At least not accept work" A statement that belittles you does sound hurtful. Some even stab so badly that you feel unable to face and prepare to give up this harsh life. You begin to doubt whether you can really do it something? But actually you don't need to be afraid. The insults you receive are not the end of everything. Even though it feels heavy, you still have to be enthusiastic. Prove that your life can be useful. Try harder to achieve your goals. Many examples have happened. When insults and bullying turn into motivation. Those who used to have limitations can succeed with their hard work. If they can, so can you!
Remember the late Walt Disney who was insulted because he had different ideas? The late Walt Disney was insulted for not being able to draw properly. His image was even rejected everywhere on the grounds that he was talented and had no imagination. A similar case was experienced by Michael Jordan. He was refused entry to the basketball club because he was not tall enough for a basketball player. Yet they have proven to the world that the insults they receive can end up sweetly with tireless effort and hard work. If they can, why can't you? At least you can make them as motivation so that your life in the future can be more meaningful. Well, for those of you who often get insulted for being different, you don't need to be immersed in lingering sadness. Especially until depression and give up with the future. You still have to be patient and enthusiastic to live life. Prove that later you can make the person who insulted you shut up with the achievements you have! Keep the spirit Okay! 😀
I feel so relaxed reading this. Thank you