A Little Note About Morning. When We Are Too Busy Thinking About Tomorrow

.Mornings on weekends. Time to be grateful for if you are currently rolling on your soft mattress. You don't have to rush to take a shower and go to work when your office only applies the 5 work day system.

"What are you doing today? Better to clean up your room, take a walk, or just sleep all day? " Perhaps, that kind of question is in your head. Regarding how you will enjoy and emphasize the time on your weekend off. It's a simple matter and if you are feeling it, believe that you are among the lucky people.

Yes, lucky because what you think will not be how exhausting your energy, thoughts, and emotions. While today, this morning, I was confused about the questions that filled my own head;

"Why do I still wake up today with a condition that is not much different from the previous days? Isn't it at this age that at least I can have a life that can make me proud? Without a promising job, a private vehicle, a dream home, to a dream life partner - do the worries I feel this morning sound too excessive? "

We grow up and are educated to accumulate ideals - want a multi-faceted life. School and college stools appear to be nothing more than places to produce human beings who are ready to work

Either right or wrong, but there may be many people who feel the same anxiety. Whether we realize it or not, we are raised and educated to always think about things that will happen in the future. Father or mother don't seem tired of reciting sentences like this;

"A diligent school, son! To be smart and be a successful person later. " or this sentence they chanted when you were going to college, "If you go to college, choose a department that can easily find work." At first glance it sounds fine, but aren't these sentences actually very absurd and have no clear meaning? What is the true definition of success? Why can the word "success" be pronounced so lightly without being given a clear explanation? Is it possible that we can be called successful when we are able to meet all our own needs? Or is it a measure of success in terms of how many achievements and achievements we have? And if the case of education is associated with work, is not the goal we are pursuing solely as material or gross money? “Life shouldn't be this simple. Studying hard to be a smart kid, then entering your favorite school or college. Graduated on time with honors and then offered a job at a fancy company with a high salary. " As independent individuals, we don't have to cast similar expectations. Life seems too wasted when busy calculating what we have

There is no definite measure when it comes to someone's success or success. Each individual has the right and power to make his own standards. The matter of achievement or achievement should be for self-satisfaction anyway. Unfortunately, we sometimes choose to live life in complicated ways. How other people's opinions and judgments about us are very important. We become accustomed to comparing the achievements of ourselves and others. "He can go to campus A which is reportedly better, why did I only get to campus B in the past?" "They are already undergraduate, why do I still have to struggle with my thesis which seems endless?" "Why can't I have a private car or pay in installments on a house like him who is even younger than me?" Isn't life tiring when these kinds of thoughts are running through your head? In fact, life should be lived as it is and more accepting. Without needing to ask a lot or torture yourself for trying too hard, to be like other people. The chance to live is a luxury. We have the right to have the craziest dreams and hope that one day it will come true

"I hope that someday I can have a simple house in the village. Enjoy the remaining life by planting tomatoes and chilies. Can see the rice fields and breathe fresh air every day. " Yes, we have authority over our own lives. Like a skipper, we hold the wheel so that the direction of life can be determined by ourselves. If I wanted to have a small family and live in a village, you might wish to live single and travel the world. Whatever the dreams and desires, we have the right to make them come true. Even though other people will think we are weird or crazy though. Moreover, life is only a temporary opportunity. It's a shame, if your life is only spent meeting other people's expectations. Just trying to look perfect like what other people think of us. "The opportunity to live is a luxury, which must be celebrated by doing whatever the aspirations and desires are." It's too early to worry about tomorrow. Just being able to wake up at noon and stay longer on the bed this Saturday morning can actually be grateful

If this morning I was still lying lazily on my bed, out there were people who were busy carrying out their activities. Struggling with work in the office, stuck in traffic on the road, or crowded on public transportation in order to carry out obligations. Crazy! Shouldn't I feel like the most ungrateful person in the world. For what I have until this moment, I forgot that God has been so kind to His creatures. Perhaps, it is too laughing if my head is currently filled with questions regarding the future. Meanwhile, whether God will give me a chance to live in the next few hours is still a question. Yes, what can be done is to be grateful. Thank God for all the pleasures that have been tasted so far. Even though I can't fulfill all my wishes yet. Even though I haven't had the various achievements like most people at my age. "Saturday morning, lying on the bed without having to rush to do activities is a blessing from God that cannot be denied."