You say no job, job says you don't. When you say job means golden deer, employers are saying the opposite, you are the golden deer you have to advertise in the newspaper to find out; Whose corporate name is Circular.
It takes less than 30 minutes to determine the fate of a career for the next 30 years, the corporate name of which is interview. Once in one of my corporate sessions, a respected university teacher asked me if there were any mental thoughts to allay the fear of interviewing candidates. I am summarizing what I said in reply.
Never think before you go for an interview what will happen to you if you don't get the job! Instead, think of these as actions that you must take on a regular basis. Seriously you are the real hero. Because you did not advertise in the newspaper to get the job. You didn't even advertise in the newspaper saying 'give me a job'. You need more than just a job, you need an employer. Because they gave the notice, you didn't. Instead, they spend money on advertisements to find talented people like you. If you can understand yourself so much, at least you will not suffer from mental cruelty but you will be proud as a candidate.
Seriously you are a very big hero who has not understood yet. Who is waiting for whom in the interview room? Are you waiting for them or are they waiting for you? They are the first to enter the room and wait for you to enter. Oh my God, it's nice to think. The most senior, brilliant and long-experienced officers of the organization you are interviewing are waiting to interview you. As if no one is interviewing you. How much do you think you will be in the VIP position that day! So why do you imagine unnecessary interviews as a scary situation? Rather it is a thrill. I used to think that one day someone would join me 15 years ago to interview me, he would prove himself qualified and reach such a big position that he would have an interview with me. Ish, what a feeling that is!
You sit alone on one side of the interview board and a few people sit on the other side. When the minister gave an interview to the journalists, he sat alone on one side and all the journalists on the other side. When a big celebrity stands on the stage, he is alone on one side and many people are on the other side. When you sit on the interview board, your situation is like that of a minister or a celebrity - you on one side and a few on the other, what a thrilling atmosphere. They will ask you questions and you will answer. What a huge arrangement they have to take you to their place. And are you afraid of that interview?
If you get a job, your profit is 20/25 thousand rupees. And if they can take you, their profit is minimum 8/10 lakh rupees; They will earn by using your talent and time. Now tell me who is actually giving to whom? Are you a VIP?
These are the feelings I talked about, they will keep you very strong mentally. A study from Harvard University found that only 15% of candidates get jobs because they know a lot, and in 75% of cases candidates get jobs only because of their mental attitude. Think of yourself as a VIP on the day of the interview, you will see that you are not afraid at all.
A candidate on a foreign interview board was asked, "Suppose you drive home in a heavy rain, with only one seat left." On the street you saw 3 people standing. Your friend that once saved your life, the man you love dearly, a sick old man who needs to be taken to the hospital. Who do you give the car to in this situation or what do you do so that no one gets hurt? If you are a candidate, tell us in the comments how you would answer. However, you will not see anyone's comment, so be honest. After 48 hours, I will answer it myself, as well as preparing a documentary to give more, just for those who will try. This article will tell you how effective it is in changing your mood.
Strengthen the morale for the job and think in your mind you can and I am the superhero in the job realm. If your qualifications and morale are right, you don't have to run after the job, the job will run after you.