Do not tell your child that:

1. Don’t tell your child: Don’t
draw scenes or pictures on the wall.
Instead, tell him:
Draw a scene or picture in your notebook, and when you finish drawing, hang the scene or picture on the wall or on the fridge or on the board.

2. Don't tell your child:
Get up! Pray, or you will go to hell.
Rather tell him:
Come on! If we did not perform the prayer together, then we will be able to stay together in Paradise.

3. Don't tell your child:
Clean your room, Ish! The room has been made into a ditch.
Rather tell him:
Can you tidy up your room alone? Or should I help? You always keep everything in order.

4. Do not tell the child:
It's time to quit sports and sit down to read. Reading is more important than playing.
Instead, tell him: If
you finish reading today, you will have plenty of time to play later.

5. Don't tell your child:
This! Brush your teeth, if I don't tell you, don't touch your teeth.
Rather, say:
You see, brush your teeth before I say!

. Don't tell your child: Don't lie on your
left side.
Rather, tell him: The
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) taught us to lie down and sleep.

. Don't tell your child: Don't
eat chocolate at all. Just chocolate and chocolate all day. The teeth will all go this way.
Instead, tell him:
You can be allowed to eat chocolate once a day, because you brush your teeth every day at your own risk.