One of the most common mistakes we make in life is to judge and criticize others. The hardest thing for the knower, the easiest thing for the unknowing, is to judge. As ignorance increases, so does judgment. Go in and check out social media. My God! What murders are happening. “This man is a traitor! This thief… What a trickster. I know who you are. Are you my equal, poor guy? ”. The man has read, maybe wrote 200 books. He has improved himself. Here is a narcissist hitting this scholar from the ground up. If you know, write, refute the man's theses, but don't subject anyone to extrajudicial execution.
How much do you know that person? Is it possible to really know someone you call my friend? Actually, all people are unknown to us. You see a bad habit of that person, but that person may have 100 good habits. How can you judge him based on his temperament or behavior? Who gave you the authority to judge people according to your party, race, society and sect? If someone is going to judge people, he or she can only be creative. Why do we immediately make judgments about this unknown when we don't know others?
Someone who constantly thinks about others does not think of himself. This prevents that person from living his own life. But talking about others nourishes one's ego, self, and ingenuity. In other words, a negative energy fills the person. You become like a person who takes drugs and passes out. Drugs are harmful, but they give people pleasure.
Genghis Khan had a commander. This commander said to his soldiers one day, “My soldiers, 5 of you have to go on a very dangerous mission. For this, I want 5 people who take this risk to step forward ”. While the commander was speaking, a horse was coming towards them. The commander's attention shifted to that horseman. He brought news to the commander on horseback. The commander read that news. Then he looked up at the military unit. Seeing that no one stands out, he was furious. He started screaming like flames from his eyes. “You cowards, you don't work! Is there no one in you who would dare to stand out? " He said a lot of words to his soldiers. He threatened to punish them. When he paid attention to the location of the company, he understood the truth and regretted the words he had just said. It turns out that while the commander was busy with that horseman, the whole company stepped forward.
If you are judging someone, know that it is your fault, not them. You have to repair yourself. Have you read that the prophet judged people? Have you seen people of the heart criticizing someone else while pulling them? Also, what do you gain from judging others? What is your wife? Why are you doing an unprofitable behavior? See, even in our belief, this situation was not welcomed. This was called backbiting. Paying attention to the burr in someone else's eye, he cannot see the garbage in his own eye. What are you from others? Focus on your own shortcomings. People who see their shortcomings and correct them quickly climb the ladder of quality life. Let someone else not vote for your party. Let him not believe in your religion, sect or sect. Do not keep your team. Do not think like you.
She shouldn't dress like you. Let others be different. Let there be thousands of flowers in a flower garden. It is not a beauty to have roses only in that garden. Everyone has the right to think, live and dress differently. Please respect so that they respect you too.
