Lately, the entire communication medium has been digitized. In the nineties, or even in the early part of the millennium, this medium of communication was entirely telephone dependent or cellphone dependent.
Then slowly get acquainted yahoo! messenger, MSN messenger, ICQ and then two popular communication mediums, WhatsApp and Facebook Messenger, gradually revolutionized.
In 2019, aproximate WhatsApp users 1.6 billion, and Facebook Messenger users 1.6 billion.
Facebook Messenger or WhatsApp is so popular that now internet or wifi connection is much more important than cellphone network.
On an average, every Facebook user uses 1.8 megabytes of data per minute. And every user around the world spends an average of 36 minutes on Facebook every day.
Time is short, isn't it? Not really. Too much. Because 30% of Facebook users do not use Facebook. 10% of users have two or more accounts. And if you think only of Bangladesh or India, here every day an adult user uses Facebook for about 3.5 hours !!
Now let's talk about some of the problems with Facebook. This problem is in the context of Bangladesh
The first problem with Facebook is to make people self-centered.
After that, the shelf is obsessed. Making attention seekers.
Many (not all of them) get popularity for attention with various pictures, weird videos, controversial posts, Psudo feminist posts, women's liberation campaigns, religion hitting posts. Many ordinary people turn to becoming celebrities. Spending hours after hours in this unreal fantasy world. But in real life, if he had used that time, he might have gone much further in his career and education.
Facebook originally traveled as a pure entertainment platform. Which we used to use more as a search engine to find a lost friend.
People have gradually turned away from the family and have become largely antisocial through social media.
For example, more than 90% of my "so called" Facebook friends have never seen me face to face. Don't even know.
People I know, close people, my friends, relatives - their number is less than 10%.
Although I have a Facebook connection with them, the communication is either by phone or face to face.
I met two of those 90% face to face. (My memory is very good). They didn’t even recognize me to the point. Because of this, the location of the Facebook friend inside our head is in the virtual world. In real life they do not exist.
This is natural. And that should be it. At the same time we should reduce the use of this so called social media a little bit.
After this line, surely some people have started typing to comment! "You are posting through this !!"
Wait a minute. I understand the consequence of Facebook very well. So I use this medium to tell others a little bit. To give a little message.
I try to talk about the positive aspects of every event, every action or every medium.
Anyway, let's get to the point.
In Messenger we usually chat, including good exchanges, important news, meetings, official conversations.
The most annoying thing is hut if someone makes a voice call or video call.
Even worse, if the person is not known.
Besides, all kinds of bad messages come in the inbox of a girl's messenger today. Opening a folder in the inbox "Ginger Box" and "Message Request" folder 99% of the girl will be unconscious.
And the rare brave one percent girl gives public shares with screenshots. But not everyone has such a girl in Bangladesh yet. If this one percent was 100 percent, everyone would be freed from this ugly problem. Maybe gradually everyone will be brave and extrovert.
There is really no shortage of pervert people in the society.
Let me give you some examples.
Girls often share pictures publicly, that pervert team saves and edits pictures and spreads them.
Many people send friend requests to girls, give messages at different times when they accept, and give various romantic comments on pictures.
Some perverts are in the business of chatting very decently with the girl and gradually gaining trust to create various problems by meeting face to face.
Long ago, love and marriage were known in this way. I will not deny. Nowadays things are different. Be sure to be 100% sure about the guy you're going on a blind date with and then meet. Collect information if necessary.
There are also perverts in Bangladesh who talk to different girls and get sexual satisfaction by listening to their voices. Imagine for a second you were transposed into the karmic driven world of Earl. For many, the matter is normal. Whatever I do, I don't see it anymore.
That's not the point! That sick man is trying to meet you face to face. What happens next is probably beyond your imagination. This is where the blackmail episode begins.
So avoid the safest, strangers. If you like a stranger, be sure to talk about it. Don't be impressed.
First of all, the boy is not paying much attention, which means he is good.
The boy talks a lot, caring, I mean good.
The boy speaks decently, talks about books, I mean good.
The boy is an English movie, listening to music, smart and good.
No! Not so easy to be good.
My acquaintance is a very smart man, a decent, motivational speaker, a man with a heart throb in the girl's court.
In fact, she is an extreme level of pervert, trying to have a relationship with at least one girl every month.
The rest is history.
Let's go. Nowadays people wear so many masks that you can't catch who is real, who is fake.
If there were two options on Facebook, your profile has been saved from which profiles and who is browsing your photo. Then you would understand how many people are your "secret fan".
There are many boys, Appi, Appi call and chat in the inbox. Starting with Pura Alavola pretending to be a "little babu". In fact, that gula asta "pig". They try their best to win the hearts of the "sisters" to have a personal relationship with them.
There are many boys who will attack if you post any help to help. If he can, he will sell the kidney.
A long time ago I posted D, S, D for a special need for the source of a device.
No one replies. Not found!
Tell my wife, delete your post. I'm posting.
As it turned out, in an hour the whole Wikipedia had moved on to comment on my wife's post. In between, some commenters have quarreled with each other.
One or two Nakhunda Abals also inboxed my wife.
This type of "Gaza vulture" but a lot.
Again there is a type of hairless doggie who will call messenger in the middle of the night. They will do nothing more. Just in the middle of the night, their kuuuuuu kuuuuuuu begins.
Let's go. There are people of this type, there will be. If known, give them a direct call. speak up !!!
Say directly, "You kindly don't disturb me on Facebook. I'm so annoyed. Show your smartness in front of the mirror."
He will not be disturbed if there is a little shame. However !!! Talk about rubbing salt in my wounds - d'oh! There's no shame in it.
Block them. And Anon Gidar blocked Gula's letter. You can work another hour. That's what my wife does.
There are some hyper quality Luiccha, gum tree glue. Chat with them for two or three minutes and ask for their phone number. The phone number is 99.99% correct by the boy in the middle of the night, whether his profile is fake or not. Because their engine heats up in the middle of the night.
Diameter! Give the phone number to any police brother you know. It is like watching the activities of the police brothers in this matter. The whole 100 to 100.
Be sure to take a screenshot before deleting a bad comment or message. Post in different forums. Atlist will be the news of those whose profile is not fake. And how many times will the fake gula open the fake profile? If every Facebook user in Bangladesh raises their voice, they will not be able to survive for long.
Let's talk about another thing, every human being has his own identity, self-respect. Getting hit there is a heinous crime.
In this society, one person is different. Every human being has a personal space.
Facebook profile and personal property. He can upload his own opinion, his favorite picture.
But, one small thing to keep in mind, when you are followed by many, if you make a post public, it spreads to the mass population.
You will then try to share publicly what is aligned with society, aligned with culture, aligned with country.
You can say, I do not live in the country! I am accustomed to all these mentality, dress, the people of that country are not like that. Bangladeshi gula is bad.
You are right. I have visited all those countries and their style, costumes, manners, mentality are aligned with their culture. You are sitting abroad and following their costumes, no problem.
But your target audience is Bangladeshi. You have to follow this culture, you have to respect it. It is your responsibility.
You must have the freedom to read any dress, to share any opinion. But when it comes to a specific target audience, then it takes adulteration. If you notice, when popular celebrities from different countries want to reach the target audience, they first follow the culture, costumes, manners of that audience. And as a Bangladeshi, this is what other Bangladeshis can expect.
Believe me !!! You cannot follow other cultures, wear foreign costumes and be a role model to the people of your own country with foreign values. Never.
A large part of the people in Bangladesh use Facebook who are less educated, uneducated and inhumane in the face of social oppression - they get a kind of brutal happiness in dirty comments, very obscene abuse. No matter how much you scold them for not solving this problem from the grassroots, they will never recover.
But those who are educated, conscious people, also do not agree with your costume, behavior or point of view. The difference is that they will neither abuse nor rejoice. They will ignore your post and you at some point.
Maybe it doesn't matter to you. But you don't really like yourself once. You may wonder, what am I? What is my identity?
The whole thing is not a renaissance. Just a kind of blind stubbornness. An attempt to impose one's thoughts on everyone.
You have freedom on Facebook, you can read whatever you want, you can say, no one has anything to say. But there is something to be said about your values, moral values.
So, you should be beautiful with what is good, not by changing your style.
These words are no different for women. Women are not for freedom. Not even for women awakening. This is true for everyone. For every human being. Male or female.