-As you are: $ 10.
As you think you are: $ 15.
The way you want to present yourself to others: $ 20.
- The way you think you can be: $ 25. " The king was very surprised by all this. He asked if anyone else came, except those who wanted to take pictures in the first style. The photographer said that until that day, even a person who wanted to take pictures in the first style did not come.
Yes, nobody can dare to take pictures as they are. The photographer always has a mirror, comb and different accessories. What kind of photos do you take? When you look inside yourself, you will see that you like the latest photography style.
But that tribal chief got it from the first style photo. And he said: "I came here to have my photograph taken, not someone else's".
In fact, we always take different photos in the life studio. So we are acting hypocritical. Spouses come to therapy. The woman is suffering from her husband. He can't finish telling the man's hypocrisy. “Good hand, our man. He says "angel to hand, psychopath when it comes to us." A gentleman photo outside, an ox inside… Everyone looks different than they are. Because society does not give you the freedom to be you. “We are on the leave of Atam. We are on his way. You must be like your father ”sentences do not give the child the opportunity to be us. When you follow someone else's footsteps, you can never leave your own mark. If you are shaping yourself according to the patterns of others, this is a symptom of a sick mood. “You have to be a doctor like your uncle. You must be clean like your aunt. You have to be a pilot like Ahmet abin ”are spoken to you as a child. Nobody came out and said, “Baby, be yourself. Be what you want, what your talent is.
Open your own flower. We do not say "Give your own fruit." However, every human being has been sent to this world to be himself. It is an attitude peculiar to the human race to be like others, to be like others, to follow in the footsteps of others, to take care of others. A duck does not strive to be an ostrich. A fox does not follow the elephant's path. A plum tree does not aspire to be a pine tree. For this, all plants and all animals are happy. You are jealous of someone. Why is that? Because you want to be like him. If you return to your essence as much as you research others, you will discover yourself. Being yourself scares you. It sounds difficult. By acting hypocritically, imitating others, maybe you can save the day, but eventually you will lose it. Berries are grafted on the pumpkin. Zucchini becomes watermelon. But it is not eaten. It has no taste. Anyone who wants to be like someone else cannot be like someone else, nor can he be like himself.
There is no more dangerous and harmful desire than the desire to be someone else. Rose does not want to be a daffodil. If all roses were daffodils, we would not be able to smell a beautiful flower like a rose. As a result, I say; be yourself, find yourself, accept yourself, love yourself, improve yourself. Nobody should have an ideal other than "being yourself". Can't… Imitating others is a suicide. It is the reason to live unhappy for a lifetime. Whatever you do, just be yourself.
