In the beginning it was just a boyfriend / girlfriend, but how can you find such a benevolent one according to the Bible? ”
Some people's problem is how they can find the perfect someone, others are afraid of getting married because the choice may be wrong. If you trust in what God can do, it will not remind or upset you. Adam did not seek or ask for a wife but when he woke up he already had a wife, you know you in another way:
Genesis 2:21
And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
Genesis 2:22
And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
Genesis 2:23
And the man said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
Genesis 2:24
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
* Didn't Adam ask for a wife but when God saw that it was not good for him to be alone, he created Eve to be his wife from his rib. When God sees that we are worthy of a good husband, He will be our guide. It depends on whether we follow Him, because those who do not follow Him are different; and once again the right man that you see or meet but you do not pay attention to or the right woman that you see or meet but you do not pay attention to because you are choosy, you are looking for something as good as appearance / appearance that is not there to the right man or woman that God gives you, there is such a thing, you are choosy so you end up in the wrong place.)
There are drug addicts who are also looking for a wife, but God will not give it to them, but it is still possible for them to get married if they look for it on their own, because the servant of God is different from the non-servant of God; good luck if you choose a servant of God because that is the kind wife according to the Bible. That also depends on the strategy if your strategy is popular with women, so even if you are fat and ugly you can have a good boyfriend or wife, if you do not have a popular strategy with a woman you will have a hard time or you may not have a boyfriend especially a husband.
A good wife is one who has the wisdom of the Bible to follow God. That is the kind of wise husband who has an understanding of living according to God's will, who is wise because he knows how to live and who understands and knows how to manage a family, but it does not mean that because your husband is wise, he is from the Lord, because there are smart people in school and scholars, but the activities in life are bad, eh it's different, it's not the smart one from God. If someone is wise from God he should know that when it is bad or bad he should not do it, because he knows the will of God. That is the one who understands righteousness, that is the wise kind of life with the righteousness of God, and then, that is the kind wife; that is synonymous with the Bible, wise, understanding, wise and biblical.
Concerning the kind, because in the Bible there is a verse where the translation is kind, and there is a verse where the translation is wise. Or something like wise or wise and understanding. It's all right, it's all synonymous because it's synonymous. For example, a good wife is from the Lord, but in another translation a wise wife is from the Lord, that refers to her knowing the righteousness and teachings of God about marriage and other virtues that according to the Bible, she is wise so he is kind. But if there is no understanding of the Bible, those who read such verses in the Bible will think that when you are not wise you are not from the Lord. Eh in this world many are ignorant of the Bible but they are smart, so does that mean they are from the Lord? Of course not, because there are those who are sober who do not follow God's commands, there are those who are wise but they are leaders of thieves. And there are those who are computer savvy but steal money from credit card online as a hacker. If they are wise they should be kind, but their intellect is only for the world and not for those in the Bible, those kinds are not kind.
So they are not from the Lord because their deeds are evil, they are only wise in the world, but not to God, I mean what is not from the Lord is their attitude or personality they do not learn in the Bible, they do not understand the Bible, they are not wise in the Bible or they have no good God-given that according to the understanding of the Bible, they are not wise in the Bible or have no wisdom in it, so they are not from the Lord.
Someone is hurting his wife, but he is still a smart school scholar, but that does not mean that he is from the Lord. When you have wisdom in the Bible and you follow it you are kind as if you are really following, you are also wise because you know what is right according to the Bible. The wise man is different, when he is wise he is wise, he uses the Bible but what he does is bad or what he says is against the Bible, and he is wise but he does not understand.
There is a possibility that God will give a good wife to man if he is a servant of God and follows him:
Proverbs 19:14
Houses and riches are inherited from parents: but a good wife is from the Lord.
* It reads that house and wealth are inherited by parents but the good husband is from the Lord. On the contrary or on the contrary when not kind, for example: Shameless, evil deeds, hurting and bullying / bullying, or having a boyfriend / girlfriend just like that, so who do you think that came from?
John 8:47 (New English Version)
He that is of God heareth God's words. The reason you do not listen is because you do not belong to God. ”
John 8:47
He that is of God heareth God's words: ye therefore hear them not, because ye are not of God.
John 8:44
You are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father you will do.
* In those two verses there John 8: 47-8 means the Lord Jesus has two kinds of people, one from God and the other not from God, but from the devil. That means the good man is of God and the bad man is of the devil; therefore when the husband is kind from God and when the wife is evil from the devil.
We can not find a good wife in our own way because if we are the ones who are looking we are often disappointed in what we want for ourselves, it is possible to find God's girlfriend but it is difficult to tell immediately if you are compatible, if you wait there is a possibility coming God-given compatible with you.
Let us pray to God and ask for a wife, ask God for help that if God wills that your spouse is the one you also want and is not a bad habit and not a pretender but honest. You can wait and someone will come for you, your lover, but examine carefully whether there is fear of God. You can also look for a husband / boyfriend / girlfriend if you find someone who fears God that you also want, because it is different when you really want to because of your personality than that you just forced so you are forced to give birth. Your compatibility level is high when you like who you are or who you are. But if you do not see that you also want, you will wait and it will come and you will like it too, you should like it too, rather than what you do not want and have, so do not be right or choosy, if there is a fear of God that and following then it is kind that whatever it looks like or whatever it looks like if it comes from the Lord you will do better.
From God you have no problem because that will not fool you. And if we choose, it is possible that there is a mistake because the right partner is in front of you, you are still looking for someone else, because you are choosy. That is why when God gives or comes from God it is the perfect class that God has given you, not even perfect in human standards like in physical appearance and wealth which is often the basis of others in finding a partner, but in personality and spiritual is that perfect from God for you.
Now what are the other ways to know that a person is a good sign that it is from God?
II Timothy 3:17
That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works.
* That is the sign, man can be known by God because he is a woman or a man who has faith in God, educated in good works, in teaching, in righteousness, in the commandments of God. Having a good kind of wife is a miracle of God. It is true that there are many blessings in a woman or a man who are in God's righteous way. But when you do not learn the teachings of God, you choose to be in hell; when you choose for example is a bungangera, flirty, gossip, drunkard, gambler and lazy… .etc.
When you have a wife who is from God according to the Bible you have found something good and pleasing to the Lord:
Proverbs 18:22 (The Bible 1905)
Every man that findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favor of the LORD.
Proverbs 18:22 (Catholic Bible)
Whoever finds a wife, finds happiness and a blessing is accepted by the Lord.
* So it is really lucky for God to give a good wife because the value of that is more than the precious ruby:
Proverbs 31:10 (New English Version)
A wife with good manners, who can absorb? He is more valuable than rubies.
* Why is a good husband so important?
Proverbs 31:11 (The Bible 1905)
The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain.
Proverbs 31:11 (New English Version)
Her husband trusts her very much, she will not miss anything of value.
* Such a wife from God is trustworthy, the husband trusts her, which means that even if the wife leaves him at home or goes abroad and returns from abroad, there is still no problem in your relationship, no one is crazy.
Others say that his colleague who works in Saudi he found out that his wife has a different relationship in the Philippines, he sent her money, but his wife was just wasting his money which was only used for fraud, and when the husband learned of that he soon separated, yes, separated; That's a pity. The Bible is right that a good husband who has learned the teachings of God is trustworthy and the husband will not worry that he can be exchanged for someone else, as well as even a boyfriend / girlfriend.
According to the verse, a good wife is no less useful, meaning useful is not the lazy type in life, but she is dependable in the work of living and doing good to her husband and not doing evil like infidelity, embezzlement of money due to fraud and neglect of children:
Proverbs 31:12 (The Bible 1905)
He does good to her and is not evil all the days of her life.
Proverbs 31:12 (New English Version)
what she brings to her husband is good, painless, all the days of her life.
* According to the Bible that is how we find or find a good wife or before that boyfriend / girlfriend, that is from God. So that you do not regret it later because you made the wrong choice, make sure that the man or woman you like has faith in God, learned God's righteousness because you will not regret it because it was given or from God. But if your spouse becomes 1, 2 or 3 years or more sometimes less of your marriage, you discover that his or her personality is secretive and you only find out his or her true color or his or her hidden evil traits is what to do. you encourage him to be God, no matter how much he is with man he can still change, but if he does not want to change, then you are unlucky, but do not despair, you know it's just a matter of time that will also change , but the best advice really in the beginning you should look for are those who fear God and follow God's commandments. He has lost a secret in his personality like a very transparent person and very honest person who in the beginning is the true color that he will immediately see or meet on personal and on social media he is like that, especially if you have not yet talked but met he is you because he is a very transparent person and he is a very honest person.
