How to Solve Any Argument

Having different opinion about something is not a bad thing. It will help us to learn and understand that better. But when you try to force your opinion on others, that’s not a good thing.

When we think about something, we always think we are right. And if other people think something different that does not match with our thought, we think that’s wrong.

Based on some information, you think like that. You can be right or you can be wrong. If you have some more information, you might think in a different way. You're right from your view point. On the other hand, other person who thinks totally different from yours can be right based on his point of view and information.

If you think you are always 100% right, and other people are wrong, that might make you arrogant. Then you might have a fight with other people. And if you close your mind, you will not be able to understand what other people are saying.

Be confident, but not arrogant. Most of the time we have a lot of problems because we don’t want to understand others point of view. Suppose, it is day, you can see the sun. But it’s night on the other part of the world. If you start arguing that it’s a day here and that person is wrong because he/she says it is night, you cannot find the solution. Well, you both are correct.

Having a different opinion doesn’t mean that person is wrong. Open you mind and listen to other people. Try to understand that from his/her point of view. The moment you do that, most problems will be solved automatically. You will realize that they have strong background behind their opinion.

There are many things in life that you have to learn from trial and error. There is no absolute right way of doing that. You have to try different things, observe what works best and learn from that. Then apply that next time.

Everyone is unique. We have similarities and differences. The way you see the world that might be different from others. I think that differences make it interesting. You have a chance to see things in a different way and learn new things. Accept other people the way they are.

If we love and respect other people, that makes a huge difference in our life. We all live a happy life.

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