When entering adolescence, most teenagers begin to have feelings of love and sexual urges. In between they begin to imagine touching or being touched by someone sexually. These feelings can develop to the emergence of impulses and thoughts to manifest them in real action.
To realize this urge, one of them is dating. Initially dating was a "one way" used to satisfy teenagers' curiosity about sex. Along with the times, dating is a place for teenagers to socialize and get to know about sex in their own way. In socializing, teenagers deliberately create terms for friends who do not have boyfriends; single is an example. So that this stigma does not stick with him, teenagers are sometimes forced to date even though they don't really like him.
Dating has given you to express up to express love incorrectly, almost all teenagers do dating activities by spending their time with their boyfriend, most of the time used is with sexual activity. At first the activity was in the form of holding hands, kisses, fingering, hugging, until the stage of petting. For them this is a "learning" to get to know sexual (wrong) feelings and pleasure. In dating, some teenagers still keep the relationship not too far at the level of sexual relations, because of the various considerations, such as fear of being pregnant. However, when the encouragement continued to peak, arrived at the intercourse stage. This free sex makes them like losing direction and control of sexual drive so that it deviates from norms in society. This deviant behavior is not only disturbing the people in America, the level of pregnancy in adolescents and even deaths caused by abortion is still quite high in the land of Uncle Sam. CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) said that there was 435,000 teenagers (15-19 years) pregnant or giving birth, data (2009) increased rapidly doubled compared to the previous year. Free sex behavior before marriage has also spread to our young generation, dating is one of the causal activities. Some reasons teenagers have sex before marriage;
1. Afraid of being decided by a boyfriend.
The feeling of attachment to the boyfriend made a more sticky relationship while sexual impulse in high adolescents made them trapped to have sex before marriage. Afraid to be defeated by his girlfriend raises the feeling of "willing" having sexual relations during a boyfriend not leaving it.
2. Curiosity about sex.
Having a boyfriend is considered the most appropriate to know about sex, embarrassment to ask parents or teachers makes you know yourself with sexual activity with his own girlfriend. Knouled also has encouraged teenagers trapped in sexual behavior.
3. Other people do it too.
Free sex is also one trend that is deliberately created among teenagers. Often we hear, Budi also did it, Hani also did it, why am I not? Thought like this makes teenagers think that free sex is legitimate and done by everyone. The wrong principle is also obtained from various information that is not appropriate, such as news coverage or interview with the perpetrators who are broadcast by television. Unbalanced public opinion makes teenagers increasingly lose direction.
4. Sex is fun.
Sex did provide comfort and pleasure, many teenagers initially committed kisses in courtship, but then became finished to have sex. Sex is addictive nature, if without a good self control it will continue to be exploited incorrectly and inappropriately.
5. Like you like.
The most frequently used reasons for teenagers to have sex are sense of liking. The time spent with a longer boyfriend made both teen couples like his partner. This is what makes you make it one of the reasons.
6. Afraid to be considered "quipes"
in the hanging out of the teenager make sex problems as interesting talks. For them sex is not a taboo thing to talk about. Disadvantages of knowledge about sex experiences are considered as the mucipal (less association).
7. Because of money or facilities.
Many teenagers want to get certain money or facilities by easy, fast ways, without the need for certain skills and not tiring by having sex with adults. Some of them sometimes just want to know or feel a facility he has never ever earned before. For example, you want to feel a stay at a star hotel, a luxury apartment, luxury car and so on. Communities are a layman to equate these teenage behavior in the form of adolescent prostitution. However the culprit expects the reward from the sexual relations. Actually this teenage behavior is classified in part of Juvenile delinquent.
8. Want to prove the ability of sexual function
In adolescence in curiosity is greatly included in sexual behavior, namely to prove his sexual ability. The trick is to try on my own boyfriend who is considered no need to be afraid or be embarrassed again to express his desire.